FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting any meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

Are you thinking that having a photo up and saying that you want sex means that women will just flock to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No not at all lol

I send messages to lots of women

And not just dick pics or anything like that

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"No not at all lol

I send messages to lots of women

And not just dick pics or anything like that

What would you say about the text contact of your profile?

Took lots of effort??

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Oh I missed these threads

OP look for threads like this and it will give a few solutions and tips

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Your 2 cock pics look like different cocks. That may put people off

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Also you say you have no limits but you’re straight so I assume you do have limits?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I always chuckle at profiles that say they have absolutely zero limits... Its NEVER true.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Your 2 cock pics look like different cocks. That may put people off "

Very observant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Literally

I’d say in hey how are you sexy pics and great Bio ??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A no limits, up for anything approach can often be interpreted as not fussy.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Aside from the obvious of covid, I will say that any messages we have received i will go into the persons profile before i even look at the message. If there is zero in the profile that captures me (and that includes pictures) then I will more often than not respond to said message with a no thank you. Even if you were built like adonis the response would still be the same.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

You're profile looks ok to be. Nice pics and you're in good shape. One thing I did notice that some people might be put off by, is that you are down as straight, but your only two friends visible are t.v.'s

People will think you're fab straight.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Over a year on and zero veris o

Is also a red flag although i concede covid had made getting veris tough

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

Let's be honest, surely you know your profile is non existent.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's much better to offer an idea of what you offer a potential meet, rather than saying you'll literally do anything at all with absolutely anyone.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Over a year on and zero veris o

Is also a red flag although i concede covid had made getting veris tough "

It's pretty much back to the old drawing board for me I forgotten what sex is at this point

(kidding)

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

Probably not the best time to join during the pandemic, other than having a look around.

I would delete the profile and start all over again in a few months time when most are vaccinated and willing to start meeting again.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A few things worth noting. These should clearly displayed to everyone joining fan.

1. The cast majority of your messages will go unread.

2. The small minority of your messages that do get read will be ignored or deleted after they've read it.

3. The really small minority of people who respond to your message will stop responding fairly shortly after you've started messaging.

4. The really really small minority who you get this far with will end in a meet.

Just hope they then turn up.

That's just the nature of the beast. Come in with no expectations and you'll enjoy the experience. Come in expecting the ride you'll be sorely disappointed. Consider it like a marathon, and not a sprint.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

We were in the middle of a pandemic..no one was meeting until recently..

You should really expand your bio a bit more it doesn't say much.

Best of luck OP

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Your 2 cock pics look like different cocks. That may put people off "

First thing I noticed!!

As others have said OP, there's nothing on your profile to set you apart from any other guy on here. Women have what seems like infinite options on this site, so you need to ask yourself why would someone choose your profile over someone else's? Right now, there's no reason to.

Your profile also implies you'll basically do anything with anyone which, for many women, is off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 2 cock pics look like different cocks. That may put people off "

Oh why did you make me look

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

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By *uinn79Man
over a year ago

dublin

We Ll had to stat somewhere but having no limits scares people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have. "

Define effort....?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....? "

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....?

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway. "

Not forgetting the ones with the sky remotes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....?

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway. "

And honesty it would seem..

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....? "

Filled out profile , getting known via the forums (photo challenge etc) chat room , there's lots of ways to put effort in and standing out from the crowd. If I can get meets on here anyone can. Or maybe I'm just lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the photo challenge ?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"What’s the photo challenge ? "

You see them from time to time on the forum someone suggests s theme and people take pics and set them as their profile pic. It can be good craic and a way of joining in on the forums

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

You’re choosing to ignore the whole cock thing?

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

Wouldn’t worry about it, the last 12 months have been our leanest since embarking on this lifestyle many years ago.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....?

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway.

Not forgetting the ones with the sky remotes

Prefer a lynx can myself. It's smaller.

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Same eben when verified and great reviews...hate that word on here actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also having same problem iv been on this site couple of months and can't seem to hook up what am I doing wrong can I also ask for some advice

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By *amiero29Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"A few things worth noting. These should clearly displayed to everyone joining fan.

1. The cast majority of your messages will go unread.

2. The small minority of your messages that do get read will be ignored or deleted after they've read it.

3. The really small minority of people who respond to your message will stop responding fairly shortly after you've started messaging.

4. The really really small minority who you get this far with will end in a meet.

Just hope they then turn up.

This has been my experience so far, but it's been great. I've enjoyed my time and it's been great with the people I've actually met.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I'm also having same problem iv been on this site couple of months and can't seem to hook up what am I doing wrong can I also ask for some advice

First of all, it is bad manners to crash someone else's thread.

However your profile is very poor, and your only photo is of a cock.

Is that all you can do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse me for my bad manners I'm still learning about threads

So what photos would you suggest ?

And thank you for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....?

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway.

Not forgetting the ones with the sky remotes

Prefer a lynx can myself. It's smaller. "

Woooah you must be hunnnng. I put mine beside a tik tak. I must be at least 3 tik taks

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don’t know what it is but I am having no luck on FAB

I consider myself in decent shape and look ok

But but still can get any meets .

Can anyone give me any tips ??

You think it's luck ?

I'm around a very long time and it's not luck. The more effort you put in the better "luck" you'll have.

Define effort....?

More dick pictures. Is my definition anyway.

Not forgetting the ones with the sky remotes

Prefer a lynx can myself. It's smaller.

Woooah you must be hunnnng. I put mine beside a tik tak. I must be at least 3 tik taks"

Well, I've not met many women who don't enjoy sucking on a tic-tac.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Excuse me for my bad manners I'm still learning about threads

So what photos would you suggest ?

And thank you for your advice "

What's with the caps locked on some of your profile like you have been here for 10 months with only a dick pic and barely a profile it doesn't exactly give much to the imagination now does it look through this thread it might give some advice or look through past threads like this I'm sure you find something of use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel into a barrel of tits... id still come out sucking my thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I feel into a barrel of tits... id still come out sucking my thumb"

Your profile and Pics are an excellent example to OP and others of how to put the 'shop window' together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude definitely don't do what I did. That doesn't work

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By *nquisitive ladyWoman
over a year ago

meath

"Dude definitely don't do what I did. That doesn't work "

I wonder why

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Love to hear mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I always reply to msgs anyway.

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By *nquisitive ladyWoman
over a year ago

meath

"Well I always reply to msgs anyway. "

You're a good lad Tex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure lookit.... I'm not the worst like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I always reply to msgs anyway.

You're a good lad Tex

I'm still waiting to see if you're going to take me up on that whiskey.... and maybe more...

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By *nquisitive ladyWoman
over a year ago

meath

"Well I always reply to msgs anyway.

You're a good lad Tex

I'm still waiting to see if you're going to take me up on that whiskey.... and maybe more...

Luring me in with whiskey, it could get frisky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frisky is OK ... no one ever lost an eye getting frisky

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Go with Glenmorangie folks and sip slowly and savour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally

I’d say in hey how are you sexy pics and great Bio ??"

Yes but then bio isnt actually read.

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By *rishguy81Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"A few things worth noting. These should clearly displayed to everyone joining fan.

1. The cast majority of your messages will go unread.

2. The small minority of your messages that do get read will be ignored or deleted after they've read it.

3. The really small minority of people who respond to your message will stop responding fairly shortly after you've started messaging.

4. The really really small minority who you get this far with will end in a meet.

Just hope they then turn up.

Exactly my experience! Well said

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