FabSwingers.com forum: How far are you willing to go..

By *vpamela OP TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

For a meet.

For me, about 30 mins drive

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Wouldn't place any specific limit on it I think. If I had been speaking with someone for quite a while and built up a strong connection and trust, would likely travel anywhere in the country.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends on where half way is between me and them.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Maybe an hour. Drove to Tipperary once ( Yes it is a long way hehe ) and it was a disaster. We had chatted a few times, exchanged face pics, all good. They persuaded us to upgrade to a fairly expensive hotel room but saying they would go half, and they would leave afterwards and we could stay the night. We had a beer or two in hotel bar and they went for a "smoke". Still waiting on them to return. They left fab not long afterwards.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Maybe an hour. Drove to Tipperary once ( Yes it is a long way hehe ) and it was a disaster. We had chatted a few times, exchanged face pics, all good. They persuaded us to upgrade to a fairly expensive hotel room but saying they would go half, and they would leave afterwards and we could stay the night. We had a beer or two in hotel bar and they went for a "smoke". Still waiting on them to return. They left fab not long afterwards."

Ah man, that is low. Fab is better off without them.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Ah man, that is low. Fab is better off without them."

It was awful.I had received a second pay cut not long before so we couldn't really afford it. But we just tried to make the most of it. Had a few drinks and enjoyed what was a lovely room in a lovely hotel. Another slight downer was the room was advertised as having a jacuzzi. Which was one reason the guy pushed it. It turned out to be a normal sized bath with water jets. lol. We didnt even use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first fab meet I was soooo naive I travelled 3 hours to West of Ireland. I booked the hotel I was happy to go halves I always pay my way. So it's a pretty disappointing meet. He left to go check on his dogs and get cash out to pay for the room. He insisted he was going to pay for the room as I had travelled so far. I sat their twiddling my thumbs for quite a few hours before I realised he was never coming back! You do learn a few harsh lessons on the Fab journey!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’ve gone from belfast to dublin for a meet in the past, and i’d be willing to go further for the right person

I do like my long overnight meets if travelling far though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww man... Some harsh stories here. I feel yee.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've done Belfast to Dublin in the past and had great meets also Belfast to derry and Donegal.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

As far as my front door and no further.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We have no option but to travel a distance. The furthest we've travelled so far is Dublin (2.5 hrs) and would travel further for the right people, no probs

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By *heNightKingReturnsMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I’ve done the 3 hours drive each way for a coffee meet, and more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww man... Some harsh stories here. I feel yee."

Ah sure all the amazing people and experiences I have had here makes up for the fuckwits. My Fab motto now is surround myself with only good people and good things happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have a strict limit, would probably drive to cork if there was good chemistry

Feel for the people who were left waiting for others, not a nice feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the chemistry etc but have traveled hour and a half

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area

Deends really. Ive travelled an hour for people i like. Also refused to drive 10min for a meet us today message

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Wouldn’t really rule out any distance if the spark was there

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By *ERRIBLE TWOSUMCouple
over a year ago

Suck mammys strap-on

Meet halfway seems fair to us...proves we and they are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a meet.

For me, about 30 mins drive"

about 45 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whether or not there is cake

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By *dventureSeanMan
over a year ago

Kerry

Depends on the road lol.

Big difference between motorway and county backroad.

I would happily do a hour to a hour and half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on whether or not there is cake"

So you could be the icing on it

Im the cherry on top

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

All the way x

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Depends on who we were meeting

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Distance is not an obstacle to meet the right woman/couple. Once got caught for a hotel room in Tralee by a couple who ceased messaging the day before the meet. Got caught for the room but at least I avoided a wasted 6 hour round trip

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

For the right meet/person I don't think distance is an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some horrendous stories here. I have traveled 4hrs there and another 4hrs back home. Was an excellent meeting.

Willing to travel anywhere in the country and share expenses for the right person(s).

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I suppose it depends on the situation if the travel is possible within reason then I don't see any limit although I would be a little cautious when meeting someone for the first time Incase they don't show up but I guess that's when plan B comes into place

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

"I’ve done the 3 hours drive each way for a coffee meet, and more than once

Fair play to you for just a coffee meet. Very thoughtful

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

For me it’s all about the chemistry that makes the distance worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cork and neighbouring counties only. Just far too busy to be traipsing round the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to Belfast for a meet going way back. Once I know in advance I'd travel pretty much anywhere

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By *nookytimeMan
over a year ago

portlaoise

As with previous posts, depending on the chemistry and their honesty in commitment to hotel costs.. Mad to see in some posts how ppl treat others when it comes to financial planning.. Iv went to Cork which was 2.5 hours away.. Pure disaster ??????.

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Depends if its a first meet or more.

First meet about an hour. After id travel anywhere lol

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By *razygoalsMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

For a first meet, maximum an hour if they are seriously quality, if it's someone I'm seeing regularly, well I've gone to different countries for the craic if it so...no real limit I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once drove 2 hours for a meet had house number and street name turned up at door as planned only to find a guy answer the door who had a young family behind him. He knew nothing about any meet I could see that from his face so legged it down the road. Bet the other houses in his street had a good laugh. I was glad I parked few streets away and it was dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind the distance thing as I drive a good bit for work. Furtherest probably was Kerry and Galway, 2.5hr and 3 hrs, grand roads tho.

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

2.5 hours for a meet is the most so far. A trip like that takes planning and I’m delighted that I have never been let down by anyone. I will travel anywhere for the right people.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Depends if its a first meet or more.

First meet about an hour. After id travel anywhere lol"

Ooh Cavan is just over 2hrs, we’ll have to meet halfway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have gone to Galway and Portlaoise, my commitment to a meeting, who knows where it leads.

Had walk/meal but the spark wasn’t there, it’s a tough drive home but it’s being realistic

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

338km.. for the right person

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

No limit really. Just the further ones I'd obviously need to try set aside more time off work. I've happily made a couple of 1.5-2 hour trips for a cuppa.

I'm lucky enough to live not a million miles from the M50 which makes most trips to anywhere much easier. Anyway, who's about

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Depends if its a first meet or more.

First meet about an hour. After id travel anywhere lol

Ooh Cavan is just over 2hrs, we’ll have to meet halfway

Anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, about three fiddy

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

But I would walk five hundred miles

And I would walk five hundred more

Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles

To fall down at your door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, been there done that .

Dublin to Cork for a no show.

Booked the room in Dublin Hotel for a no show. She spoke to me by phone but still didn't show.

Yup ,sucks .

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Yup, been there done that .

Dublin to Cork for a no show.

Booked the room in Dublin Hotel for a no show. She spoke to me by phone but still didn't show.

Yup ,sucks ."

In such cases, i'd fully endorse a good clip round the ear, awful behaviour

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Another related consideration is that I would never play too close to home; for the right prospective meet with a single fem, a 2-3 hour car journey would not be a problem.

For a group meet, particularly over a weekend, there would be no limit.

BUT, bearing in mind the numbers of no shows, last minute cold feet, bluffers, etc., there would need to be an extended period of communication beforehand to mitigate disappointments.

A follow on meet from a first contact in a club or other social setting, seems to work best.

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

If I click with the person or people

will travel any distance

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Have travelled 3 hours to meets but only after chatting for a bit and knowing i could trust them and that they were not going to no show. Also those were fwb type meets so staying over was planned in advance. From past experience, a little effort doesn't go unrewarded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would drive anywhere in Ireland not because I am a Tart

because this country so beautiful all counties should be visited at sometime so why not use a meet as a reason to sight see after hot fun.

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I'm easy I don't find this country to big, so even the west is only over the road. I have had a meet in Cork was a great weekend away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet right person/s 2-3 hours driving no bother.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I've been to Dublin & Athlone

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Been to Bristol, Cardiff and Edinburgh..... Beautiful cities in all fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot of time on the road and I was up in Belfast last week for some work and I arranged to meet a lady for coffee. I've had a previous meet in Newry just before Covid hit. I met someone in Westport when on Staycation in Connemara. I've also met locally. Had arranged a meet in Athlone over Christmas-she was going to travel from Galway but Mick Martin put us into lockdown so it didn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the chemistry is there no issue traveling, normally would try and be visiting and grab a coffee. So went to a mng in belfast , met guy for coffee.

One afternoon drove to westmeath in full stockings suspenders and dress , had a couple hours of fun and than back home after.

Drove to athlone today for a coffee

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any

"My first fab meet I was soooo naive I travelled 3 hours to West of Ireland. I booked the hotel I was happy to go halves I always pay my way. So it's a pretty disappointing meet. He left to go check on his dogs and get cash out to pay for the room. He insisted he was going to pay for the room as I had travelled so far. I sat their twiddling my thumbs for quite a few hours before I realised he was never coming back! You do learn a few harsh lessons on the Fab journey! "
was he mad!!?

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

5 miles can take an hour or it can take 10 minutes in right or wrong traffic conditions.

I wouldn't travel nor I would want anyone to travel to meet me any more than 10 miles. With travelling come expectations, with expectations come dissapintments.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Honestly I don't think I would travel more than 45 minutes to meet anyone new and I wouldn't expect them to either. The only exception is if I was going somewhere anyhow and it was someone I was talking to for a bit already then I'd meet them.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

316km return today for tea and cake and chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60-80km. I don’t get any replies though. Which has resulted in me not meting anyone yet. I’d love to get involved.. I proposed need to re-edit my profile - any advice is appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely depends. If there's a lot of chemistry id be willing to travel more. But usually no more than 45 mins. My work commute takes that.

But if say, I'm visiting Dublin already, if definitely go out of my way to meet someone from there if there was a connection

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

We enjoy planing the road trip to a meet so we have/would travel anywhere

Tunes on,coffee got and off we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We enjoy planing the road trip to a meet so we have/would travel anywhere

Tunes on,coffee got and off we go

Can’t beat a good road trip

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

I travelled from Dublin to bundoran had a hotel book 20 minutes before she was to arrive text me saying sorry can't make it then blocked me

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By *vpamela OP TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

"316km return today for tea and cake and chats

Wow, must have been quality tea.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Don’t mind a long journey like to drive so if she is worth it I’ll travel anywhere

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I wouldn't travel nor I would want anyone to travel to meet me any more than 10 miles. With travelling come expectations, with expectations come dissapintments. "

Exactly this. Travel creates pressure, expectations, costs, stakes. It's supposed to be casual!

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"I travelled from Dublin to bundoran had a hotel book 20 minutes before she was to arrive text me saying sorry can't make it then blocked me "

Thats just a shitty person..look on it as a lucky escape

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

So far I have traveled to belfast,Dublin,Cork,Galway,Waterford, Portloise and various parts if the chemistry is good its well worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine people are always worth going the extra mile as they say

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Go to kilkenny city no prob

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"I travelled from Dublin to bundoran had a hotel book 20 minutes before she was to arrive text me saying sorry can't make it then blocked me "

Thats so wrong on so many levels, we all have lives outside of fab and real life stuff does get in the way but 20 mins b4 hand and then block, disgusting behaviour. I have no issue travelling for the right people, i had a lovely guy travel 2.5hrs to me and back recently!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

2 hours but I draw the line at Cork.

Still have that trip to the uk on my bucket list.

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yeah, I don't know, Ireland is not that massive that you can't get to anywhere in up to 4ish hours.

Having said that, for that first, social meet, I'd meet with said people halfway.

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