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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's an art to it.. Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be an art form if you want it.

To finger paint is not a sin,

I stick my middle finger in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she tells you stop your wrong and tells you keep goin your on the right spot

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

Made me giggle x

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"There's an art to it.. Right? "

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."

Oh so right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."

Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.

Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet "

Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."

Porn has a lot to answer for. They ALL do this kind of fake fast fingering followed by fake orgasms, intertwined with pee squirting. Its a wonder young lads don't cause physical harm go young girls if that's what they are copying. It's so unhealthy.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.

Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet "

Agree entirely

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.

To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.

To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.

To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.

To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop. "
Conversation normally helps us all fannys are different and women too , Tell your man I like it this way bit higher lower gentle awwwwwww am coming darling

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


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Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge "

Omg this.

Chatted to a lovely guy for a few weeks. Told him I didn’t like fingering (because jackhammering) and he insisted that I’d like it if HE did it. Insisted. As if I didn’t know my own body. Eventually I gave up and told him I wasn’t meeting him. He was livid and couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t let him try.

Close call.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

There is an art to everything. And just like art, people value and appreciate different art forms. Like (and sex) would be very boring if every person liked the exact same thing, done the exact same way.

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

Fucking brilliant

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

I’ll ring ye like a doorbell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is an art to everything. And just like art, people value and appreciate different art forms. Like (and sex) would be very boring if every person liked the exact same thing, done the exact same way. "

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mickey Flanagan has a great fingering joke....look it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be an art form if you want it.

To finger paint is not a sin,

I stick my middle finger in. "

Gotta love RHCP

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There is definitely an art to it and when someone is good at it then it can be amazing but bloody hell when they are bad it's meh at best and bloody sore at worst especially if they don't listen when you say it to them.And like some have already mentioned the worst are those who try and insist they can make you squirt when you never have and act like it's something they must make happen.

But the guys who are good at it and know where to touch they make it worthwhile.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

So true

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By *ts All in the TouchMan
over a year ago

Galway


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

Too funny.....

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"There is definitely an art to it and when someone is good at it then it can be amazing but bloody hell when they are bad it's meh at best and bloody sore at worst especially if they don't listen when you say it to them.And like some have already mentioned the worst are those who try and insist they can make you squirt when you never have and act like it's something they must make happen.

But the guys who are good at it and know where to touch they make it worthwhile."

If you tell them you squirt and it just doesn’t happen with them

egos are so fragile...

Squirting is NOT the be all of sex...

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

I think I need more practice

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Come hither and you've got it

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Come hither and you've got it "

Most of the time

Not always so I adapt accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi female I'd love some guide on techniques..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of fingering. Gentle but insistent for me, no finger blasting here please and thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an art to it.. Right?

Abso fuckin lutely.

Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!

For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.

Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet

Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge "

Yes! Yes! Yes!

To all of the above

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

It's the people that think they're brilliant at it and won't take guidance that frustrate me the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people that think they're brilliant at it and won't take guidance that frustrate me the most. "
that applies to sex in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people that think they're brilliant at it and won't take guidance that frustrate me the most. that applies to sex in general "

Hahaha so true

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"It's the people that think they're brilliant at it and won't take guidance that frustrate me the most. that applies to sex in general "

Yes and then they complain that we're a mystery and they can't win. So now guys, the mystery is solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great new corporate outing. Mystery Rooms....The GSpot Rumble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or Fumble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Behind every good honors student is a good teacher now if the teacher accepts that theres no point in guiding and directing the student then that student will never learn.

If the teacher runs out the same drivel to one and all expecting a different result then the teacher hasn't learnt

Like every thing else its about communication u have to be willing to engage on both sides or it never improves rather than saying he never improve ask what u can do to change his/hers technical ability or understanding of ur needs

Just saying like

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By *ratos87Man
over a year ago

Galway


"My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol "

Whisper in our ear. I can keep a secret

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By *heTantrixMan
over a year ago

Dublin 18

An art indeed.. there is a whole lot of good research and literature on outercourse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

I've been known to give the two fingers at times ??????

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By *heTantrixMan
over a year ago

Dublin 18

Why just rely on fingers and tongue, place your knees on the perenium to enhance the pleasure.. use two fingers in hook shape pointing upwards inside..

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot."

You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot.

You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all "

Sorry, I don't mean to give you grief, but I disagree with your technique. Best technique with a new partner imo is to try what has worked in the past, read her body language and if necessary, ask her what she likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot.

You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all

Sorry, I don't mean to give you grief, but I disagree with your technique. Best technique with a new partner imo is to try what has worked in the past, read her body language and if necessary, ask her what she likes "

Totally agree when I'm giving a man a handjob I'm looking mainly at his face not his cock I'm reading the reactions and talking to him saying do you like that does this feel good. When I see the eyes rolling I know I'm hitting the right spots!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant manage to get a message up,no mind anything else. Just to say that there seems to be lots of guys on here who have no idea what they are doing....I blame the mothers

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I cant manage to get a message up,no mind anything else."

jaysis...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why just rely on fingers and tongue, place your knees on the perenium to enhance the pleasure.. use two fingers in hook shape pointing upwards inside.. "

Your knees???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol

Whisper in our ear. I can keep a secret "

If im close enough to whisper in your ear you wont need anything else

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By *heTantrixMan
over a year ago

Dublin 18

In the book 'Bliss Club', Jüne Plã describes why your hands, tongue and other body parts are your hottest assets. Amazing read to learn and practice. The illustrations are very friendly regardless of orientation. All are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "

Rosy your way with words is just * chef's kiss *

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By *ratos87Man
over a year ago

Galway


"My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol

Whisper in our ear. I can keep a secret

If im close enough to whisper in your ear you wont need anything else "

Tell me more

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Why just rely on fingers and tongue, place your knees on the perenium to enhance the pleasure.. use two fingers in hook shape pointing upwards inside..

Your knees??? "

Was thinking the same.

Have to be a right flexible wee yoga doll to get your knees against perineum while giving oral.

Perhaps try your free hand instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.

To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.

To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop. "

This is the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never came across a girl that actually likes the Jack hammering unless it’s right at the end and she’s a squirter. I think it’s more intense if it’s slow and when u find that spot then added pressure

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