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"I picked the athletic option because I was fed up referring to myself as average but anyone who has met me may have a different opinion and I've no issue with that. " It doesn't look unreasonable to me judging from your pics  | |||
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"I picked the athletic option because I was fed up referring to myself as average but anyone who has met me may have a different opinion and I've no issue with that. It doesn't look unreasonable to me judging from your pics "You don't think I need bunny ears? | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are?" Do women make themselves taller too? Or shorter? | |||
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"I picked the athletic option because I was fed up referring to myself as average but anyone who has met me may have a different opinion and I've no issue with that. It doesn't look unreasonable to me judging from your pics
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are?" Plenty fudge their profiles from height, body shape and age even location. I've met guys who have lied about their height and age but it didn't matter that much as they were nice guys anyway. | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are?" If you can see from the photos what a person's body type is, does it really matter what descriptor they've chosen? | |||
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Now I hope the person is telling the truth before we meet and it's always nice when they are when they aren't then it usually stops at a coffee. | |||
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"Think the problem here is we need a "Sure I'm just a massive ride" option for the likes of yourself Bo it's a travesty!"Very smooth biscuits but so true as well | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? Plenty fudge their profiles from height, body shape and age even location. I've met guys who have lied about their height and age but it didn't matter that much as they were nice guys anyway. " If they lied about their height and age I wouldn’t consider them nice guys , I’d be mad they wasted my time . Especially the height issue As Im a tall woman And I Do prefer men taller than myself . There would be no sympathy shag for turning up and being 6 inches shorter than expected | |||
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"I'd be a lot more comfortable with putting a text box where body shape can be described using our own words. " That could be fun just to see the descriptions | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? Plenty fudge their profiles from height, body shape and age even location. I've met guys who have lied about their height and age but it didn't matter that much as they were nice guys anyway. If they lied about their height and age I wouldn’t consider them nice guys , I’d be mad they wasted my time . Especially the height issue As Im a tall woman And I Do prefer men taller than myself . There would be no sympathy shag for turning up and being 6 inches shorter than expected "Have to agree, height is one of my preferences when it comes to attraction, if I decide to meet a shorter man, that's my choice. Plus being lied to just gets on my tits. | |||
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"I have curvy on mine but always presumed that word was used to describe a woman more than a man Overweight or big bellied wasn't an option "About time they added dadbod as an option as a lot of guys use it to describe themselves | |||
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In reality I’m probably curvy or ample but I didn’t think those descriptions portrayed the male sexiness that I dream of being to at least a few people 
At least my humour can help the ladies laugh and distract from my obvious physical failings | |||
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"I’ve put myself down as average and then tried to make my photos look like it
In reality I’m probably curvy or ample but I didn’t think those descriptions portrayed the male sexiness that I dream of being to at least a few people
At least my humour can help the ladies laugh and distract from my obvious physical failings"You’re not as bad as me who has fabulous as my body type and unable to change it lol | |||
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"Or they should remove it altogether and let the viewer of any pictures decide " I agree! I don't particularly relate to any of the current options particularly, I'm more than "curvy", "ample" is probably most accurate but isn't a very appealing description!! And "fabulous" feels kind of trite and cheesy. | |||
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"Where's the description " big hunk" because that's what I self Identify as. " | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.?" Lots of folks lie about height, age, status, etc because they know people have certain preferences. I find it incredibly irritating, people are allowed to have preferences and it's frustrating to have someone ignore your basic boundaries because they personally feel they don't matter. | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.?" I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread "They don’t have dad bod on here so I put average , But I have always been 34 inch’s around by belly so could be considered slim too | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread "Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men. | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men. "Haha I’m not sure I’ve seen that on any profile on fab | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men. "Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back  | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men.
Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back "Hopefully the tree didn’t break and just fell over, that way you still have the root sticking up tall | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men.
Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back
Hopefully the tree didn’t break and just fell over, that way you still have the root sticking up tall "Never broken one yet , it's all in the way you call "timberrrrr" | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men.
Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back
Hopefully the tree didn’t break and just fell over, that way you still have the root sticking up tall
Never broken one yet , it's all in the way you call "timberrrrr" "Put down that ax woman | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread
Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men.
Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back "True. And I’ve had many good times with smaller men... but I chose them | |||
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"The height one is a strange one why lie you'll be caught out when you meet people. If you are insecure enough to lie about something as simple as height then what else are you lying about.? I think it’s time for a shortarse appreciation thread Go for it I know lots of women that don't like tall men. Like a fallen tree doesn't matter what height the guy is when he flat on his back
Hopefully the tree didn’t break and just fell over, that way you still have the root sticking up tall " | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are?" I am. 5ft 1 in my bare feet. I almost always wear heels so then I'm 5ft 5 | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? I am. 5ft 1 in my bare feet. I almost always wear heels so then I'm 5ft 5 "A woman in heels and who’s not taller than me when wearing them . You’re a rare commodity to me lol | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? I am. 5ft 1 in my bare feet. I almost always wear heels so then I'm 5ft 5
A woman in heels and who’s not taller than me when wearing them . You’re a rare commodity to me lol" | |||
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As for body shape/size everyone has a preference and if the pics are recent you get a fair idea 
Over the years I don't think I have ever had a really bad experience after meeting someone in person..maybe I have been very lucky!
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"I understand people may have been on the site for years and are proud of that fact but when I used to browse profiles I was amazed at the number of people displaying pics taken 6, 8 or 10 years previously. As I said in another related thread I know of someone who had a fab age of 55 in 2018 when I was in a chat group with him. He admitted his actual age was 58 which makes him 61 now but yet his profile age is now 50? "  | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? Do women make themselves taller too? Or shorter?" One or two i know have. They do very much exploit the curvy option. | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? Do women make themselves taller too? Or shorter?One or two i know have. They do very much exploit the curvy option. "Exploit? | |||
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"Reading through profiles recently and it seems that the bios are out of sync with the description of the body type and the actual most recent photo of the person in question.I know from speaking with others that the height stated on the bio can be incorrect also.Now i understand that body shapes can vary slightly but the height should never really change.I have had a number of meets and this has been my experience too.Just wondering what peoples experiences are? Do women make themselves taller too? Or shorter?One or two i know have. They do very much exploit the curvy option. "Fat wasn't an option and I don't consider myself average | |||
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as for myself i guess not quite dad bod but not men's fitness cover model ( not for lack off feckin trying either )... | |||
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"From experience we don't take profiles descriptions for granted. Sometimes reality can be different than profiles,so best is to have social meet before any arrangements." If you put on six Inch heels , Your still 5,feet 1 but watch out for Timberrrrrrrrrrrrt | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha " Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. | |||
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"There seems to be a fear of being average. "I'm average and have updated my profile. Everything else is true too | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. " What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
What kind of fruit am I? "... You are definetly peachy Whereas I'm a kiwi fruit... Hairy on the outside, sweet on the inside | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
What kind of fruit am I? ... You are definetly peachy Whereas I'm a kiwi fruit... Hairy on the outside, sweet on the inside "I like this We should all compare ourselves to a fruit. Fruity Friday. I'm a pineapple. Prickly and tart | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. What if your waist is the same as your hips but you've big tits?
What kind of fruit am I? ... You are definetly peachy Whereas I'm a kiwi fruit... Hairy on the outside, sweet on the inside
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We should all compare ourselves to a fruit. Fruity Friday.
I'm a pineapple. Prickly and tart "Fruit Friday I'm a tomato, small and round, can be sweet but not sure if I'm a fruit or not | |||
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"There seems to be a fear of being average. "We all have to feel we're above average | |||
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"There seems to be a fear of being average.
We all have to feel we're above average "Fab delusion 
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"There seems to be a fear of being average.
We all have to feel we're above average "I don't I know I'm average hence the name _ustbo
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. " A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! | |||
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"My waist is waaaay smaller than my hips. I'm fat and curvy. Furvy "Same! | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! " Seemingly we are supposed to wear black sacks and whip ourselves daily if we even think we anything above average | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! " In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries. "Why are you so very obsessed with the definition of curvy? | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
Why are you so very obsessed with the definition of curvy? "Exactly bloody labels I see people using curvy and I think they are skinny but my opinion on their shape/ size doesn't matter to me unless I'm meeting with them. I "have" fat just like I "have" blonde hair, I am pretty clear about my size when I chat to someone on here, dont think my photos hide size. But at the end of the day its the person I like not their size or whether they curvy or not. I see plenty using athletic but might look like an athlete! When I was training I could deadlift 70kg but still carried weight. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
Why are you so very obsessed with the definition of curvy?
Exactly bloody labels
I see people using curvy and I think they are skinny but my opinion on their shape/ size doesn't matter to me unless I'm meeting with them.
I "have" fat just like I "have" blonde hair, I am pretty clear about my size when I chat to someone on here, dont think my photos hide size.
But at the end of the day its the person I like not their size or whether they curvy or not.
I see plenty using athletic but might look like an athlete! When I was training I could deadlift 70kg but still carried weight. "I was given out to for saying curvy by a beer bellied guy who claimed he was athletic... I have curves, a lot of them! I am fat but that’s not an option on fab so I now have large down in case my very curvy body offends anyone
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"All my life I weighed 12 stone and was told that was the average weight for men my height. 17 years ago due to a severe illness my weight went up to 13½ stone. Still classed as average. I'm now at 11½ so does that class me as athletic? Probably not because I've never been an .athlete. I don't run and never have done, I don't go to the gym or workout. My only exercise is hillwalking and nothing more. I still fall within that average weight spread for men my height but if fab has taught me anything it's not to sell myself short so I chose the athletic option because I can and no other reason. " ..well dont over think it anyway | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! " I just gave my opinion on what I define curvy as. If you want to call yourself curvy because you've got a big stomach then go for it. I never said people couldn't. Also I am fat. At my biggest I was a size 18-20. I still think that a lot of women calling themselves curvy are saying that because they want to see themselves as anything but fat. Fat isn't a bad thing to be. It doesn't make you unattractive. Everyone should feel good about themselves as they are. But sure, be outraged. That's no skin off my teeth. | |||
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" I was given out to for saying curvy by a beer bellied guy who claimed he was athletic... " Beer bellied guys can be athletic tho. That's my point. Athletic is a behaviour, not a look. The categories themselves are totally fucked. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries. "I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums. Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! I just gave my opinion on what I define curvy as. If you want to call yourself curvy because you've got a big stomach then go for it. I never said people couldn't. Also I am fat. At my biggest I was a size 18-20. I still think that a lot of women calling themselves curvy are saying that because they want to see themselves as anything but fat. Fat isn't a bad thing to be. It doesn't make you unattractive. Everyone should feel good about themselves as they are. But sure, be outraged. That's no skin off my teeth. " I wasn't commenting on your definition of curvy, I was responding to peterandgemma. I can clearly see from your pictures that you are not fat, but sure, keep using bopo terminology for your benefit while also talking shit about "overweight" people feeling good about themselves. Nothing actually fat people aren't used to. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! I just gave my opinion on what I define curvy as. If you want to call yourself curvy because you've got a big stomach then go for it. I never said people couldn't. Also I am fat. At my biggest I was a size 18-20. I still think that a lot of women calling themselves curvy are saying that because they want to see themselves as anything but fat. Fat isn't a bad thing to be. It doesn't make you unattractive. Everyone should feel good about themselves as they are. But sure, be outraged. That's no skin off my teeth. I wasn't commenting on your definition of curvy, I was responding to peterandgemma. I can clearly see from your pictures that you are not fat, but sure, keep using bopo terminology for your benefit while also talking shit about "overweight" people feeling good about themselves. Nothing actually fat people aren't used to. " Excuse me. I lost 6 stone before I took those pictures and even in those pictures I am absolutely overweight. I am only 5'1" and at my biggest weighed over 15 stone. I've put on weight during this pandemic like most other people and I am currently definitely fat. You need to wind your neck in a bit to be honest. You're actually being laughable now with your "actually fat people". | |||
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"Reading this is exactly why the option should be removed . What is worse is people slating others and telling them they can't see themselves as a certain body type because their hips or boobs or stomach are too big And people feeling the need to change what they pick due to getting grief over it is not right.And yes I am one of the people who has changed theirs numerous times because no matter what option I choose I was wrong seemingly so now I'll stick with average . And this isn't just about women on here men get grief as well over it. I think people should worry less about what others have on their profiles.Unless you are planning on meeting the person then it is bugger all to do with you how people describe themselves .It's no wonder people lose confidence on here no matter what you do people are ready to nit pick every detail to find something they can pull others on. " Well said | |||
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"Reading this is exactly why the option should be removed . What is worse is people slating others and telling them they can't see themselves as a certain body type because their hips or boobs or stomach are too big And people feeling the need to change what they pick due to getting grief over it is not right.And yes I am one of the people who has changed theirs numerous times because no matter what option I choose I was wrong seemingly so now I'll stick with average . And this isn't just about women on here men get grief as well over it. I think people should worry less about what others have on their profiles.Unless you are planning on meeting the person then it is bugger all to do with you how people describe themselves .It's no wonder people lose confidence on here no matter what you do people are ready to nit pick every detail to find something they can pull others on. " | |||
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"I think the females are more honest with their descriptions......the guys are out to impress in the hope of a ride(which is not an easy task)..curvy 5.5 easily becomes athletic 5.10 . With 10 males to 100 females the exaggeration is bound to continue" Think you have your numbers back to front there | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". "How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy. Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat. Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are. Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that. | |||
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" I was given out to for saying curvy by a beer bellied guy who claimed he was athletic... Beer bellied guys can be athletic tho. That's my point. Athletic is a behaviour, not a look. The categories themselves are totally fucked. " this is actually hilarious you mentioned this before and got slammed for it
Athletic is a body type but again choose to ignore the facts.
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising "I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big. | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big. "I am in fact a tit | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit"I’m a biscuit not a cake  | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake "Mine is 100% accurate  | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake "Nah u deffo a cake lol | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake
Nah u deffo a cake lol "Deffo begins with C.... | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake
Nah u deffo a cake lol
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit"Yeah but you're a big tit... Be proud | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake "Ooh that statement could cause a proper row on the threads... | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big.
I am in fact a tit
I’m a biscuit not a cake
Ooh that statement could cause a proper row on the threads... "Bring it
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"Reading this is exactly why the option should be removed . What is worse is people slating others and telling them they can't see themselves as a certain body type because their hips or boobs or stomach are too big And people feeling the need to change what they pick due to getting grief over it is not right.And yes I am one of the people who has changed theirs numerous times because no matter what option I choose I was wrong seemingly so now I'll stick with average . And this isn't just about women on here men get grief as well over it. I think people should worry less about what others have on their profiles.Unless you are planning on meeting the person then it is bugger all to do with you how people describe themselves .It's no wonder people lose confidence on here no matter what you do people are ready to nit pick every detail to find something they can pull others on. " This | |||
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I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big. "11th off may 2020...have to ask where you purchased your thigh high boots princess | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big. 11th off may 2020...have to ask where you purchased your thigh high boots princess "Those boots are over 20 years old. I got them off an American site and haven't a clue which one it was tbh. | |||
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"I wouldn't say people lie more like false advertising. That's with pretty much everything including usernames. The amount of times I've seen a username and thought 'oh hello' then when I have a look it's not what the name is far from what the folk are. Sexy, hot, milf, adventurous, oh amd couple seems to be the main one. As for body types we'll that a whole new level of false advertising
I would just like to clear something up... I am not an actual Bee or a Queen.. I'm more of a princess tbf but I like to think big. 11th off may 2020...have to ask where you purchased your thigh high boots princess
Those boots are over 20 years old. I got them off an American site and haven't a clue which one it was tbh. "thanks...they aged well | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
Your joking right,about being fat shamed WTF"100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time. But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
Your joking right,about being fat shamed WTF100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time.
But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments."God that's an awful thing to say about somone espically at a social event I hope she wasn't allowed back | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
Your joking right,about being fat shamed WTF100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time.
But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments.
God that's an awful thing to say about somone espically at a social event I hope she wasn't allowed back"plus I never once seen you fat shame anyone on any thread.. | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
Your joking right,about being fat shamed WTF100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time.
But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments."Jesus. I'm really sorry you had to go through that. That's disgraceful. Obviously you know it was absolute jealousy. Also I've never seen you fat shame anyone,or generally shame anyone tbh, so also sorry that you're having bullshit accusations thrown at you too. | |||
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" 100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time. But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments." Thats a terrible thing to happen. I'm just wondering if that experience would make you reconsider how you approach others about how they describe/see themselves. As the intent of telling someone that how they describe/see themselves is wrong may not be the same but the outcome certainly can be. At the end of the day Curvy is a subjective term. It has no one definition. Yours isn't wrong but neither is anyone else's, I posted the Oxford dictionaries definition above. And I'm sure we could find 20 others with different views I we tried. It's not a medical or scientific term like say ectomorph, mesomorph, and endomorph. Is your commitment to your definition of the work really worth the risk of harming someone else's self image and confidence? Albeit unintentionally prehaps | |||
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"I haven't lied about anything on my profile. I am 5'1, 28, and curvy. No point in lying because I'm just setting everyone up for disappointment if I do. But I have noticed other people clearly lying especially about height and being curvy. In my opinion curvy means hourglass not being overweight. If you lose weight and lose your curves then you were never curvy. I think it just makes bigger girls feel better about themselves. I don't care too much about people lying about height as long as it's only an inch or two and they are still taller than me haha Thank you for being so honest, it's refreshing. Its clear by your pics that you most definitely fall into the definition of curvy. Hourglass is the ideal curvy shape, if your waist is wider than your hips and your shaped like an apple or pear you are not curvy. A pear is hips wider than waist so by your own definition is curvy. What creates curves is literally fat... it's nonsensical to say that big hips and breasts count as curves but a round belly doesn't. Also, GOD FORBID bigger girls feel good about themselves, we can't have that!!! In your outrage you haven't even got the respect to see that I quite clearly made a mistake typing and forgot to mention boobs. Why do you think I referred to the two fruits and hourglass? So just to be clear waist should be smaller than both boobs and hips. Theres numerous definitions available if you care to look. Start with any of the online dictionaries.
I don't owe someone who has no respect for people who look like me any respect - this isn't the first fat hating post you've had on the forums.
Apologies however for reading what you wrote and not your mind for what you "meant". How on earth is it fat hating? Its got nothing to do with that. You can be a very large dress size and be curvy.
Its a practical definition and my issue is simply with the use of it. Its completely inaccurate and unfair on the ladies on here who are curvy. Its got nothing to do with people being fat.
Go ahead a choose whatever agenda you want too to make yourself feel good about how awesome you are.
Also, let me add. I was actually fat shamed at an event in 2018 but you dont want to hear about that.
Your joking right,about being fat shamed WTF100 % true more than one person heard her, we all had our tops off and a certain single lady commented on my physique at the time.
But its ok, I am supposed to be a fat shamer. Theres a green tick beside my profile helps you go back and look at previous posts to see my comments."Shame the thread history doesn't go back far enough. But then again, that's when the notes function comes into its own. Maybe rethinking your words and tone might help. You have form a-plenty for being derogatory about people being overweight and fat-shaming. Perhaps you don't even realise you do it. Or maybe you do and just see it as telling it like it is | |||
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