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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Athlone

Just something I suppose from a couples point of view what do ye define as soft play. When told we are into soft play only I suppose where is the line drawn so to speak...I suppose for everyone it's different and yes all I have to do is ask..But Curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how would it go in if its soft

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"But how would it go in if its soft"

Fold it in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ourselves are soft play. We do everything apart from put the d in v I guess is easiest way to explain. We swap for kissing foreplay all that but we don't fuck other couple. Hard to explain without been completely rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how would it go in if its soft

Fold it in? "

Possibly..or maybe a splint ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume soft play would indicate just kissing, touching and maybe some oral play, but not penetration

But as you say everyone has their limits and especially couples would have their individual boundaries. Hope that helps

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I always assumed no intercourse but everything else is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now "

Don't worry about it....when you get to my age the dirty words are the only ones you remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now

Don't worry about it....when you get to my age the dirty words are the only ones you remember

"

Time and place for them lol. I was trying to think what words would they teach in school couldn't put my finger on them

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"But how would it go in if its soft

Fold it in?

Possibly..or maybe a splint ?"

One of those itchy strap on ones.. would add girth

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"But how would it go in if its soft

Fold it in?

Possibly..or maybe a splint ?

One of those itchy strap on ones.. would add girth "

Maybe find another thread to play on, this is a serious question

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now

Don't worry about it....when you get to my age the dirty words are the only ones you remember

Time and place for them lol. I was trying to think what words would they teach in school couldn't put my finger on them "

Would putting your finger on dem be ok in soft play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just something I suppose from a couples point of view what do ye define as soft play. When told we are into soft play only I suppose where is the line drawn so to speak...I suppose for everyone it's different and yes all I have to do is ask..But Curious "

To my knowledge its just as another user said anything but penetration but I would say that varies on the people's limits I. E. No oral either.

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Athlone

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Think there are quite a few definitions of soft play, I jo ours is no penetration and no kissing apart from ff

But we have been told by people before that ours isn't even that

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I always thought it was no penetration and no oral. I guess for different people it means different things.

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby


"I always thought it was no penetration and no oral. I guess for different people it means different things. "

What the hell would be left for them to do?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've always understood it to be in everything up to penetration. But with the way things change so fast you never know what a person classes as soft play

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

My impression of soft play is all play except penetration. But you set your own boundaries

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby


"My impression of soft play is all play except penetration. But you set your own boundaries"

ya we would agree with this also, those were our rules, however they all went out the window on our first meet

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"I always thought it was no penetration and no oral. I guess for different people it means different things.

What the hell would be left for them to do?"

Be creative. There’s a lot. Especially if someone is into kink!

I understood voyeurism, kissing and touching to be a big part of soft play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ourselves are soft play. We do everything apart from put the d in v I guess is easiest way to explain. We swap for kissing foreplay all that but we don't fuck other couple. Hard to explain without been completely rude "

As some older folk may say “A shift with the drop of the hands”

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Soft play sounds perfect for an ass worship

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

Soft play to me is all in except full intercourse but everybody is different. This would need to be clarified before a meet.

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

I always assumed soft play was all but full intercourse - that was until we started getting involved in the game ourselves and started finding our feet and setting our own boundaries.

No kissing except for FF, no full intercourse or anal.

Everyone’s different I guess but we’ve been told we’re topic of conversation as we aren’t ‘proper swingers’ because we said we wouldn’t do a full swap or go alone.

So who knows M xx

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

No oral??

Ah here!

What's the point in meeting?

Other than voyuerism.

I'm ok with that, if stated at the start.

Happy to watch.

Soft play would definitely involve oral though.

On me and on other female.

No way I'm leaving without a snack box

Seriously though, no interest in meeting anyone unless I could taste the fruit in the bowl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My impression of soft play is all play except penetration. But you set your own boundaries

ya we would agree with this also, those were our rules, however they all went out the window on our first meet "

I would understand that happening. The temptation in the heat of the moment is just too much.

We would prefer to go with full swap. Only rule would be keeping pain out of the play.

Each to their own and gotta respect that.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, with couples, it is full swap with equal attraction between opposites and if the girls are attracted to each other that's a cherry on top but it has to start with equal attraction between opposites or no bueno. It has been a hard lesson to learn along the way but hey, you live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually call it a fondle ?? as in kissing, oral handjob , blowjob eat pussy etc keeps it fun and meaningless. That's generally what my meets are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were talkin' Softball...,

Ozzy and the Straw.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Our interpretation is everything except penetration.

Soft play can be very sensual and hot

I just do not understand couples that do not kiss But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread

B x

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Our interpretation is everything except penetration.

Soft play can be very sensual and hot

I just do not understand couples that do not kiss But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread

B x"

I agree, no point without the kissin' - Mrs

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Our interpretation is everything except penetration.

Soft play can be very sensual and hot

I just do not understand couples that do not kiss But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread

B x

I agree, no point without the kissin' - Mrs "

Glad we agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way I'm leaving without a snack box

Seriously though, no interest in meeting anyone unless I could taste the fruit in the bowl."

Reminds me of a tee shirt “ Spank the Monkey”

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

So it's nothing to do with a bouncy castle

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

Everyone is different on this!

we are well passed soft play!!

but our take on it would be everything but penetration!!

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