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Would you meet a 'me feiner'?

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By *ubal1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There is an Irish expression, which used to be common, but seems to be disappearing from common useage: the 'me feiner'.

What do you find (un)attractive about this type of person, and would you be inclined to meet a 'me feiner'?

For those who are unfamiliar with this expression, it describes an individual who is self-absorbed, self-interested, and who has no qualms about letting others know that this is their style of operation.

Have you ever met one, have you dated one, or were you formerly in a relationship with one?

No names, of course!

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

A narcissist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down here in kerry we call them arseholes

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My experience with self absorbed people are that they are always the first to see these traits in others and highlight them while dismissing their own similar behaviour.

They like to talk down to people rather than as equals and feel the need to explain their every comment to lesser mortals.

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By *ubal1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There are some who play their cards very close to their chest, and it can take a considerable period of time to fully realise what one is dealing with; they use guile and cunning to create an illusion of equality, but the subtext is self-interest.

In one instance I played along for fifteen years until the individual revealed the true nature of their personality: pure vindictiveness. It was fifteen years at the university of life!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get wrapped up in our own bubbles but i don't like self obsessed people...if conversation can't flow both ways then it's going nowhere

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Its someone who will suit themselves if it comes down to it.

Well thats what it means in dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that talks down to ya like your a piece of shit i was married to one

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Someone that talks down to ya like your a piece of shit i was married to one"
na thats just a weapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand it to describe someone who puts themselves first. I think we all do that to some extent if we are honest about it. I know I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple of people like that. Also see a few around fab too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, we always suit ourselves and put ourselves first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If thats someone's personality so be it. If they are interesting enough to pull it off I would possibly still meet them.

People who give the impression of being interested in others but only have their own self interest in mind all the time are much worse in my experience

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