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"First rule of fab... You'd do well to avoid anyone with a bitchy status update " This and never judge someone based on the opinion of another | |||
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"Beat of everything to both of you. There are plenty of nice people on fab. Don't worry too much about the negative stuff " Thanks, we will find our way eventually hope your well | |||
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"First rule of fab... You'd do well to avoid anyone with a bitchy status update This and never judge someone based on the opinion of another " This | |||
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"Lol that's one way to get a few messages and winks... Ignore all negativity attend parties and M&G's and above all have fun, isn't that why we are all here. And hope you find your elusive unicorn xx " Doesn't have to be a unicorn lol just a lady who is looking to help us take out first step, plus parties are on our list but maybe later on down the road. Any advice for attending parties | |||
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"First rule of fab... You'd do well to avoid anyone with a bitchy status update " ... Ooohh yip.. True that Ms S1ren.. True that | |||
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"Lol that's one way to get a few messages and winks... Ignore all negativity attend parties and M&G's and above all have fun, isn't that why we are all here. And hope you find your elusive unicorn xx Doesn't have to be a unicorn lol just a lady who is looking to help us take out first step, plus parties are on our list but maybe later on down the road. Any advice for attending parties " always be urselfs and know what ye want from the night. Best thing is go and relax and enjoy your time. | |||
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"No no drama. You dont want no drama" Double negative... you do want drama?? | |||
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"No no drama. You dont want no drama Double negative... you do want drama?? " ... So when TLC sang that they didn't want no scrub .. That meant they did want a scrub all along?.. Well i never... | |||
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"No no drama. You dont want no drama Double negative... you do want drama?? ... So when TLC sang that they didn't want no scrub .. That meant they did want a scrub all along?.. Well i never... " So they did want a scrub, and they ain't too proud to beg | |||
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"We been to a few, Wear as little as possible Pack light Don't drink too much Have as much fun as possible, the night goes so quick if ya blink ya might miss it Our favourite advice we got was try everything twice " I'd second that y fronts only | |||
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"No no drama. You dont want no drama Double negative... you do want drama?? ... So when TLC sang that they didn't want no scrub .. That meant they did want a scrub all along?.. Well i never... " Depends on the scrub I suppose!! The tips for club nights are brilliant!! I don’t go to clubs anymore but when I did, they were brilliant fun. Omg the memories, and the mammories!! | |||
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"I need a drama status update tag... I always miss them The whole naming people in statuses is cringy as fuck though " Rushes to delete “Boobs rocks” update | |||
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"I need a drama status update tag... I always miss them The whole naming people in statuses is cringy as fuck though Rushes to delete “Boobs rocks” update " Hotlists work too.... | |||
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"People are very quick to judge on here! On a swinging site, you would expect people to be more tolerant, try to get to know someone or open a conversation without criticism... We’ve been on the receiving end only a couple of times but it still surprises me. I’m way too naive for a swinger. And I find that it’s often people saying no drama that are the first to judge and throw stones Enjoy the site! We’ve met and chatted to lots of lovely fun and sexy people here. Here is to fun! " Very very true!! | |||
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"Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from drama " So true | |||
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"Jesus christ, we ain't on fab long and have yet to do our first meet but we have noticed alot of statuses with people getting grief, we thought the swing world would have been more laid back and just a place to have fun with discretion. We understand its frustrating to get a meet but that's the joys of the chase, lighten up people have fun don't take things personally, life's to short " Some people thrive on it, knowing the ins and outs and stirring it via others or sock puppet accounts. If you find out who these are and just avoid them fab is an easier place. Most who seek it or create it are just sad people with nothing better or more productive to do with their lives. | |||
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"Lord of people who use the word drama are awfully drawn to it I find. I try to not use the word as it’s even dramatic in and of itself. A kind of oversimplification " Have to agree, I find people say "drama" when they mean any kind of conflict or disagreement, any enforcement of boundaries, any emotion whatsoever... It's pretty dismissive and reductive! | |||
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"Lord of people who use the word drama are awfully drawn to it I find. I try to not use the word as it’s even dramatic in and of itself. A kind of oversimplification Have to agree, I find people say "drama" when they mean any kind of conflict or disagreement, any enforcement of boundaries, any emotion whatsoever... It's pretty dismissive and reductive! " Fully agree on that | |||
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"Chat to people about things other than sex too. It can help in working out who you'll get on well with and who you might not. " Yeap very true | |||
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"Chat to people about things other than sex too. It can help in working out who you'll get on well with and who you might not. Yeap very true " | |||
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"have ta say a thought the same of fab, i came on it a year ago thinkign that everyone would be on the same wavelength, a plce of positivity and sexual liberation but there is a right oul dollop of toxicity, just came back on it recently to see if things had changed with the easing of restrictions but seems a lot of the toxicity is still there" Its not an episode of friends though Its real people and thats what its like in real life Any group of people no matter what brings them together will differ | |||
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"have ta say a thought the same of fab, i came on it a year ago thinkign that everyone would be on the same wavelength, a plce of positivity and sexual liberation but there is a right oul dollop of toxicity, just came back on it recently to see if things had changed with the easing of restrictions but seems a lot of the toxicity is still there Its not an episode of friends though Its real people and thats what its like in real life Any group of people no matter what brings them together will differ " I'd go even further and say it's what people are like online. I don't think there is a happy, harmonious, conflict free community of people ANYWHERE on the Internet. People might WANT Fab to be different because there looking for a ride with none of the messy human stuff, but that's a bit naive in my opinion. | |||
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"OK I deleted that to fix a typo and then forgot to actually fix it but please be assured I know the difference between there, they're and their. " Oh thank god for that u had ne worried | |||
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"OK I deleted that to fix a typo and then forgot to actually fix it but please be assured I know the difference between there, they're and their. Oh thank god for that u had ne worried " Me even lol | |||
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"OK I deleted that to fix a typo and then forgot to actually fix it but please be assured I know the difference between there, they're and their. " I could never tell my their from my not there They’re have been problematical episodes in my life , I don’t want to go there , dyslexic please don’t ask me to spell it | |||
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"have ta say a thought the same of fab, i came on it a year ago thinkign that everyone would be on the same wavelength, a plce of positivity and sexual liberation but there is a right oul dollop of toxicity, just came back on it recently to see if things had changed with the easing of restrictions but seems a lot of the toxicity is still there Its not an episode of friends though Its real people and thats what its like in real life Any group of people no matter what brings them together will differ " Exactly People are people. This ain’t dream land or cloud cuckoo land. It’s real life | |||
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"ah but there's differing and being cool about differing, and then there is differing by turning toxic yes the real world is a very toxic place but surely the idea of the fabswinging community is to be more conscious of the toxicity of the world and rising above that? haha or am I being too deep, am I expecting too much? I don't believe so, but well it's where I think the ethos should be. I think that such a community would be best striving towards exactly that. That the idea is to offer a space of respect, honesty, cooperation, sexual liberation, acceptance of differences, encouragement, fulfilment and fun... is that really too deep for people here????" Mostly yes | |||
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"ah but there's differing and being cool about differing, and then there is differing by turning toxic yes the real world is a very toxic place but surely the idea of the fabswinging community is to be more conscious of the toxicity of the world and rising above that? haha or am I being too deep, am I expecting too much? I don't believe so, but well it's where I think the ethos should be. I think that such a community would be best striving towards exactly that. That the idea is to offer a space of respect, honesty, cooperation, sexual liberation, acceptance of differences, encouragement, fulfilment and fun... is that really too deep for people here????" This place has a lot of people from a very diverse cross section of society. There are going to be people who believe different things. Some of these will be small little things, some will be fundamental differences. Some will believe something strongly, and others won't be that bothered. That's absolutely to be expected. This isn't some kind of commune. What brings us together is we all have an interest in nostrings sex. Thats it. Thats the only convergence point. Everything else will vary wildly. As long as nobody attacks anyone else personally then it's all good. | |||
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"I dont understand why people think that people on here would share the same outlook and have the sale points ot morality on all topics in life. Everyone on here isn't even looking for the same things sexually " Or why people would equate sexual "liberation" with a complete disregard for the rights and feelings of others | |||
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"I dont understand why people think that people on here would share the same outlook and have the sale points ot morality on all topics in life. Everyone on here isn't even looking for the same things sexually Or why people would equate sexual "liberation" with a complete disregard for the rights and feelings of others " Because they can get away doing it, the worst that can happen to them is to get banned.. | |||
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"There's no such thing as drama on fab. " True story | |||
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"There always has and always will be drama here. Its how you choose to handle it that counts. Your not responsible for how others behave but you are responsible for your behaviour. Theres all sorts here, good,decent folk, complete head the balls and everything in between. The joy of this is you can switch it off. Its not real life " Oh it’s very much real life for those of us on here. It’s part and parcel of what happens in people’s actual lives | |||
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"I dont understand why people think that people on here would share the same outlook and have the sale points ot morality on all topics in life. Everyone on here isn't even looking for the same things sexually Or why people would equate sexual "liberation" with a complete disregard for the rights and feelings of others Because they can get away doing it, the worst that can happen to them is to get banned.. " Some people are just nasty. You get them in all walks of life so fab is no different. People make fake profiles and spread lies with no regard for other people at all. I'd like to say it's just jealousy but it's deeper than that. That kind of behaviour is devious and dangerous. There is only so much someone will tolerate when they're on the receiving end of such a person before they strike back. | |||
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"I dont understand why people think that people on here would share the same outlook and have the sale points ot morality on all topics in life. Everyone on here isn't even looking for the same things sexually Or why people would equate sexual "liberation" with a complete disregard for the rights and feelings of others Because they can get away doing it, the worst that can happen to them is to get banned.. Some people are just nasty. You get them in all walks of life so fab is no different. People make fake profiles and spread lies with no regard for other people at all. I'd like to say it's just jealousy but it's deeper than that. That kind of behaviour is devious and dangerous. There is only so much someone will tolerate when they're on the receiving end of such a person before they strike back. " Well said. | |||
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"Jesus christ, we ain't on fab long and have yet to do our first meet but we have noticed alot of statuses with people getting grief, we thought the swing world would have been more laid back and just a place to have fun with discretion. We understand its frustrating to get a meet but that's the joys of the chase, lighten up people have fun don't take things personally, life's to short " You get well used to the Drama here as the days...months go by...I (sue) find it more entertaining than the soaps at times | |||
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"Jesus christ, we ain't on fab long and have yet to do our first meet but we have noticed alot of statuses with people getting grief, we thought the swing world would have been more laid back and just a place to have fun with discretion. We understand its frustrating to get a meet but that's the joys of the chase, lighten up people have fun don't take things personally, life's to short You get well used to the Drama here as the days...months go by...I (sue) find it more entertaining than the soaps at times " It's the cliffhangers I hate! It's like waiting on a new series of Line of Duty on here sometimes | |||
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"Drama on here really im shocked " Just fate that you were number 69 post ... ya always horny aren't ya dirty feckers | |||
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"Drama on here really im shocked Just fate that you were number 69 post ... ya always horny aren't ya dirty feckers " Only you would spot that | |||
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"Ya that's our moto, we take people as they come, as it cost nothing to be nice " So true | |||
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"Drama on here really im shocked Just fate that you were number 69 post ... ya always horny aren't ya dirty feckers " Ha ha ha me an angel ya tart ya | |||
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"Treat it like trip advisor look at all comments n reviews do ur homework ie see what feeling you get but most importantly make up ur own mind lol" If someone says what they ate made them sick probably don't take a chance | |||
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"Drama on here really im shocked Just fate that you were number 69 post ... ya always horny aren't ya dirty feckers Only you would spot that " ah my mind is totally corrupt now | |||
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"Treat it like trip advisor look at all comments n reviews do ur homework ie see what feeling you get but most importantly make up ur own mind lol If someone says what they ate made them sick probably don't take a chance " I might need to have evidence first! | |||
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"People are very quick to judge on here! On a swinging site, you would expect people to be more tolerant, try to get to know someone or open a conversation without criticism... We’ve been on the receiving end only a couple of times but it still surprises me. I’m way too naive for a swinger. And I find that it’s often people saying no drama that are the first to judge and throw stones Enjoy the site! We’ve met and chatted to lots of lovely fun and sexy people here. Here is to fun! " love this! | |||
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