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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now! "

I dont want to get involved in an argument with you but it is a fact that the longer you spend messaging and chatting theless likely you are to meet...maybe not for everyone but this is certainly my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some are just in the mood at the time when they contact you ... or what I've found out too they're often attached and trying to arrange a quick meet as their partner is away for a few hours lol

Some also seem to think that you're after a relationship if you want to know a bit more about them.

But some just want to keep it as uncomplicated as possible.

It doesn't matter though really. You're obviously not really a match. At least you know early on and can move on to the next person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now!

I dont want to get involved in an argument with you but it is a fact that the longer you spend messaging and chatting theless likely you are to meet...maybe not for everyone but this is certainly my experience"
That may be true but I'm talking about people who don't want to talk at all. I know it doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things , I'm just hangover and feeling bold!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hungover even*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hungover even*"

uggggh, right there with you.

staying in bed for the day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess some are just in the mood at the time when they contact you ... or what I've found out too they're often attached and trying to arrange a quick meet as their partner is away for a few hours lol

Some also seem to think that you're after a relationship if you want to know a bit more about them.

But some just want to keep it as uncomplicated as possible.

It doesn't matter though really. You're obviously not really a match. At least you know early on and can move on to the next person "
Yeah all very good points. Everyone has different preferences, I just don't like being labelled as a fantasist because I want to make sure its not a total asshole, or pair of assholes I'm potentially meeting. Ah dear this place baffles me sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hungover even*

uggggh, right there with you.

staying in bed for the day."

God I'm only feeling human now, been a hard day, woke up feeling ok for an hour or so then it all went downhill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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God I'm only feeling human now, been a hard day, woke up feeling ok for an hour or so then it all went downhill"

It's so hot and muggy here, bad weather to be hungover and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess some are just in the mood at the time when they contact you ... or what I've found out too they're often attached and trying to arrange a quick meet as their partner is away for a few hours lol

Some also seem to think that you're after a relationship if you want to know a bit more about them.

But some just want to keep it as uncomplicated as possible.

It doesn't matter though really. You're obviously not really a match. At least you know early on and can move on to the next person Yeah all very good points. Everyone has different preferences, I just don't like being labelled as a fantasist because I want to make sure its not a total asshole, or pair of assholes I'm potentially meeting. Ah dear this place baffles me sometimes lol"

nah you're not being labelled as a fantasist because of that. You do what you feel is right for you. Your preferences, your rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now!

I dont want to get involved in an argument with you but it is a fact that the longer you spend messaging and chatting theless likely you are to meet...maybe not for everyone but this is certainly my experience"

So by your rule the most likely meet happens immediately after "hi, what's your name ?" I so don't think so. But I agree endless talking about the how and the where and the when rarely a meet makes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now! "

well said sum expect to send a message and get a meet ther and then but i like building up a buzz wit sum1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now! "

awk did,nt you know its policy just to drop what your doing right away along with your knickers and fly out the door lol also can,t stand ppl on here who think cause you,ve chatted for a while and swapped numbers gives them the right to think they can say what they want to you and just expect you to take it hmmmmmmmm don,t think so thats my wee rant over too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now!

I dont want to get involved in an argument with you but it is a fact that the longer you spend messaging and chatting theless likely you are to meet...maybe not for everyone but this is certainly my experience

So by your rule the most likely meet happens immediately after "hi, what's your name ?" I so don't think so. But I agree endless talking about the how and the where and the when rarely a meet makes "

Yes to a point I agree, but as sexual arousal occurs in my brain first why the heck would I want to meet someone based on reading a profile and a few pics. It just leads me to believe that people have either such a massive ego that they think their pics will be enough to make me want to cast my knickers to the wind or they just dont have much of an imagination which doesnt inspire me to catch the express train to meet them either. But of course as in life , everyone is different, I just need to get over it and move on hahaha.

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By *ouple04Couple
over a year ago

county antrim

Some people also have to understand that everyone has a life and just cant drop everything and run.I know in our case there are certain days we could'nt meet and sometimes it takes time to arrange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they dislike putting effort into exchanges on here for nothing to materialize at the end of things?

Maybe they're married and don't want to leave too much of an incriminating communication foot print for their spouses to find?

Maybe they're just pushy boorish obnoxious types that expect too much for too little?

Maybe they're all of the above!

everyone's individual though so.. take or leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes to a point I agree, but as sexual arousal occurs in my brain first why the heck would I want to meet someone based on reading a profile and a few pics. "

I have to agree with kinky here. I know a recent meet I had with a woman was preceded with three or four long chats about desires fantasies likes and dislikes. By the time we had meet there was a definite spark we were both dripping and we had an amazing time and followed up with several more meetings and hopefully more to come.

Without those conversations the level of intensity and the linker things would not have happened.

Having said that there is nothing like a spontaneous sexually charged bang the head board mauling when all you expected was to do grab a coffee and chat.

Both work but anticipation can really raise the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now! "

they are time wasters id say. getting a conversation going with email is hard enough on fabs anyway, never mind even organizing a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have a question, why do some people seem to think on here if you want to get to know them a bit first through mail/ chat etc that you must not be serious about meeting and end contact. To me it just seems they can't be arsed making any effort and just want a few extra holes handy. Or maybe they just think they are so irresistible that the fact they deem you worthy enough to do the nasty with you should be beating a path to their door after they send you a wink. Remove head from ass please!! Aaaah feel better now! "

well ranted i agree totally

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