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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok folks need some help especially form women,

i was on good terms with my ex til recently when out of the blue she cut me outta her life when she met this other guy...

then he dumps her and she wants to get back in contact..am I always gonna be the "go to guy" in between fellas?

am I being used?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you mean with 'on good terms' and 'go to guy'?

Were you still having sex after and she wants it again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no sex since we broke up but we've been in constant contact...

she basically comes to me with all her problems and now since he finished with her shes doing it again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using you may be too strong of a word... you're obviously still close and she trusts you... Up to you really if you want this, as long as you're aware that she may stop cintact again as soon as she has a new bf.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

feeling very used...i was littlerally chatting every night to her then outta the blue she was no where...no even a text...feels like using to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well then you've answered your own question lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just a little confused as to whther i'm over reacting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to break it to ya man but sounds alot like she's using you. Cut her out, or she's always gonna use you, and that aint good for you or her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a little confused as to whther i'm over reacting"

just go with your gut feeling... you know her best... what do I know, I'm too pished to be given advice tonight anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate to break it to ya man but sounds alot like she's using you. Cut her out, or she's always gonna use you, and that aint good for you or her."

thanks...need to to hear the truth

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