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I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy?  | |||
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"We find the same , lots of female pics and none of the male , we have a few of himself , but alot more of me but at least he is there , when meeting a cpl we would like to see pics of both too Mrs crazy "Yes how can you have an idea if you might be attracted to both parts of the couple when there are absolutely no pics??
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"We find the same , lots of female pics and none of the male , we have a few of himself , but alot more of me but at least he is there , when meeting a cpl we would like to see pics of both too Mrs crazy
Yes how can you have an idea if you might be attracted to both parts of the couple when there are absolutely no pics??
B xx"Mind boggles , tis crazy the amount of profiles with female only pics but they looking to meet other couples
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"Yeah, posted a status a few days ago after being winked by a couple with female-only pics. We don't wink back, it's just too annoying "This...no point winking back or making contact when you’ve no idea what male looks like...why waste the time | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy? "Have 50+ tattoos | |||
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"I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy?
Have 50+ tattoos "That's understandable, but clothed pics of a man can be very sexy too .... problem solved | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy? "Pet peeve of mine! I just ignore profiles like that. They clearly don't care about the women in any other couple. | |||
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"I always assume that he must be a total shelfwarmer. "So bold   | |||
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"I always assume that he must be a total shelfwarmer. "Well I suppose that is probably the assumption most would make  | |||
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"Ours is slightly more of mrs than mr but wouldn't be much more, we completely agree with alot of couples profiles do tend to have all of the female or just 1 of male which puts us off as we would want to see both of them is we agreeing to meet " Ah I am really talking about the profiles with no pics..a couple of pics of the male is totally fine...people just want to have an idea of what both parts of the couple are like 
From experience as a single in the scene in the past it really put me off some couple profiles having no male pics | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy? "Beja I'm surprised nobody queried why you posted this from a singles profile, not everyone will know if you have a couple profile and will pass you by as a single. Might make sense to name your partner profile on yours.  | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy?
Beja
I'm surprised nobody queried why you posted this from a singles profile, not everyone will know if you have a couple profile and will pass you by as a single.
Might make sense to name your partner profile on yours.
"Well aware of that and thank you for the advice
Kinda off topic though
Maybe I should have rephrased my frustrations as a female (whether as a single female or as part of a couple) I will cannot understand this | |||
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"It's an interesting thread this one and why couples profile pics are predominantly of the female. We know that single male profiles have absolutely no problem with taking pics of their junk and so proud of it they are yet with couples they are hiding away. I wonder how the convo goes when he comes home from work and Mary says... John they're giving out on fab that there are not enough photos of you in our profile... get down there to the bedroom, get your kit off and take some photos of yourself Aw Mary im tired can't you just upload another one of yours...ppl prefer to look at the female anyway and don't care about the men who are just along for the ride anyway lol" Never thought of it like that ....so true single guys have no problem sharing a million pics | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy? "We have lots of pics of MrsP, none if me, the reason is simple, I only play with MrsP and I'm pretty sure she knows what I look like.. | |||
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"Oh Beija I have said this time and time again in the multiple "what turns you off a profile" posts in the forums. As a single lady looking to meet couples, if I see a profile with no pics of the male half then I simply close the profile and keep on scrolling. I need to feel an attraction to both in the couple to spark an interest and if they have no pics of the gent then how would I know if he has a body type that I'd be attracted to? Now I don't need to see a pic of his meat and two veg but a nice cheeky jocks shot or two certainly helps whet the appetite "Bou exactly | |||
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"In all honesty people, look at the most popular pics in ireland, how often does a guy get on it, I know for us we put up a pic of her and get a flurry of likes and messages and attention, put up a pic of himself and nothing, as a woman on here your celebrated for being brave enough to put up a pic, as a guy unless your massive with a 6 pack forget about it, girls you want guys to put up more pics, even the male half of a couple, then show some love and let the guys know there appreciated in all shapes and sizes just like everyone does with the girls there our little rant"Definitely agree the guys need to be shown more love! Saying that there have been some great pics of guys in hot pics recently | |||
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"In all honesty people, look at the most popular pics in ireland, how often does a guy get on it, I know for us we put up a pic of her and get a flurry of likes and messages and attention, put up a pic of himself and nothing, as a woman on here your celebrated for being brave enough to put up a pic, as a guy unless your massive with a 6 pack forget about it, girls you want guys to put up more pics, even the male half of a couple, then show some love and let the guys know there appreciated in all shapes and sizes just like everyone does with the girls there our little rant
Definitely agree the guys need to be shown more love!
Saying that there have been some great pics of guys in hot pics recently "There have been but take a look at all those guys, anything look the same, all very much similar, nowhere near as much variety as in women | |||
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"In all honesty people, look at the most popular pics in ireland, how often does a guy get on it, I know for us we put up a pic of her and get a flurry of likes and messages and attention, put up a pic of himself and nothing, as a woman on here your celebrated for being brave enough to put up a pic, as a guy unless your massive with a 6 pack forget about it, girls you want guys to put up more pics, even the male half of a couple, then show some love and let the guys know there appreciated in all shapes and sizes just like everyone does with the girls there our little rant
Definitely agree the guys need to be shown more love!
Saying that there have been some great pics of guys in hot pics recently
There have been but take a look at all those guys, anything look the same, all very much similar, nowhere near as much variety as in women"Cheers. Thanks for that | |||
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"Lads just one body pic ... ONE body pic (clothed or unclothed) would be brilliant "Damn it.... do we HAVE to add more of me?  | |||
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"Lads just one body pic ... ONE body pic (clothed or unclothed) would be brilliant
Damn it.... do we HAVE to add more of me? "Go on go on go on | |||
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"Maybe we give all the guys who are part of a couple until Friday to post a new pic and at the weekend the ladies can have a Friday Fab Fingering Frenzy where they fab the guys they like. We might even get a guy to Number 1. My towel pic was fabbed today so I'm brimming with confidence since. Let's boost the confidence of a few more guys on here this weekend. " Brilliant
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"Maybe we give all the guys who are part of a couple until Friday to post a new pic and at the weekend the ladies can have a Friday Fab Fingering Frenzy where they fab the guys they like. We might even get a guy to Number 1. My towel pic was fabbed today so I'm brimming with confidence since. Let's boost the confidence of a few more guys on here this weekend. " Great idea
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"Maybe we give all the guys who are part of a couple until Friday to post a new pic and at the weekend the ladies can have a Friday Fab Fingering Frenzy where they fab the guys they like. We might even get a guy to Number 1. My towel pic was fabbed today so I'm brimming with confidence since. Let's boost the confidence of a few more guys on here this weekend. Great idea
Fingers ready for the frenzy "Your status at the weekend inspired me | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy? "Could be they want to meet males so having pics just of herself makes it easier. Single girl finds it less crazy with males bombarding with messages Or something fishy going on. | |||
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"Kudos to _ickheadcunt on their latest pic, looking mighty fine sir "Have to give in under the pressure | |||
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"Kudos to _ickheadcunt on their latest pic, looking mighty fine sir
Have to give in under the pressure "Yes well done cannot beat a suit pic | |||
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"We try to have a decent representation of both us" You certainly do great pics | |||
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"We love meeting new people and would love to meet some new couples but so many couole profiles have no picture of the male half
I know this has been discussed many times over the years but it is still happening all the time
I was checking out a profile of a couple yesterday and there were 50 pics of the female none of the male....why are guys so shy?
Could be they want to meet males so having pics just of herself makes it easier.
Single girl finds it less crazy with males bombarding with messages
Or something fishy going on. "I totally understand profiles who are just looking for single males to play with the female but most couple profiles want to meet other couples and single females they are the profiles I am talking about
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"Great thread Beija its frustrating and lazy on any couples part not to contribute male content to their of profile on a swingers site , "its so basic really". its disrespectful and self centered and lacks any class or attraction. I\WE would never entertain a one sided profile....what is the point....It also communicates what dynamic a couple may have....not interested in a guessing game .... Having a pic of just the males cock and nothing else says it all really!!! If it was the other way round and women were doing the same as part of a couple the site would close and they'd be called all stuck up bitches and or feminist C****s "Man up celebrate your body support your parter equally and respect other lifestylers" Stop leaving the women and their pics do all the heavy lifting on attracting potential play with people for you while claiming to be an alpha male... An Alpha mouse more like "Thanks King
Exactly a one sided profile what is the point. It just makes the person checking the profile question more or alternatively move onto next one...
Especially the couple profiles looking for that 'unicorn' single girl why wouldn't you want to make it easier for someone to see the full package from the outset if you get me | |||
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"But I thought ppl can do what ever they want with there own profiles.. At least that's what I have read on the forums b4 x" Was waiting for someone to say that. People can do with their profiles as they please, but then they have no leg to stand on when they start questioning why so many people get put off even chatting to them. Personally we avoid those profiles too - cat in a bag scenarios aren't really our thing | |||
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"But I thought ppl can do what ever they want with there own profiles.. At least that's what I have read on the forums b4 x" Of course people can I am just expressing my frustrations and opening the topic for discussion.
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"But I thought ppl can do what ever they want with there own profiles.. At least that's what I have read on the forums b4 x Of course people can I am just expressing my frustrations and opening the topic for discussion.
Nice to see a few more male pics have popped up though " | |||
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"I did make a point that on your own profile there are not many male pics either. As you've mentioned you brought up the topic, so I assumed you would've discussed further?? Just wondering why you would have an issue with other profiles but not your own?? "So are you saying: What's good for the Goose, is good for the Gander? | |||
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but if asked we would always exchange further pics to ensure mutual attraction. But mr should probably put a few more pics up | |||
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"I did make a point that on your own profile there are not many male pics either. As you've mentioned you brought up the topic, so I assumed you would've discussed further?? Just wondering why you would have an issue with other profiles but not your own??
So are you saying: What's good for the Goose, is good for the Gander?"Wow thats original lol But yes, that's what I'm saying. | |||
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"I did make a point that on your own profile there are not many male pics either. As you've mentioned you brought up the topic, so I assumed you would've discussed further?? Just wondering why you would have an issue with other profiles but not your own?? "Wasn't sure if that was directed at me or not? If it is my other half is in a few public pics you get to see more if we are interested in meeting. You at least get an idea of what he is like. Lots of profiles have none. My post was not meant to make guys feel bad for not posting pics...it was was meant to illustrate my and lots of other females (as you can see from the thread) frustrations. We would like to see more male pics. Having been on the scene as a single for many years and as a couple that is my experience and I am not having a go at people. If this thread helps a few couples find someone then I'm happy. At the end of the day is that not what we all want | |||
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"Fair play to you Beiji for pointing this out xx If couples are only looking to meet straight men and they only have pics of the female half of the couple up then that makes total sense. But if the couple are looking to meet other couples, or single women, and they're not having any luck, it would be a good idea to show both of them in their pics. It might help them attract what they're looking for. As you said, no one is having a go at anyone just trying to help a few couples find what theyre looking for. As for us, we are much much much more likely to approach/respond to couples that have pics of them both up. Its really nice to see the men in couples putting pics up, so lets make sure to fab them! Come on lads get your pics up!! Mrs Bugs "Exactly Mrs Bugs xx | |||
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"We normally only meet other couples at parties and our thinking was that they get to see Mr in real life then. Pics are swapped in the build up to the party if required. We rarely actively seek out couples for 1 to 1 (2 to 2??) except if its friends we already know. We do actively seek out single guys hence the majority of photos being of Mrs. " Totally understandable if you are looking only for single men. We too love meeting other couples through socials/parties it is the best way but unfortunately not an option at present | |||
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"We run our profile to suit us,no pictures of me,grey, because thats my call.If others don't like it,they are free not to get in touch,but in the 12 odd years we have been on fab,our profile method has worked for us. Someone for everyone on fab,not everyone for someone." Yep, our way has worked for us too over the past 3-4 years. | |||
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"We suffer from this too, if we want to meet a couple we want to see both parts like! " Same here | |||
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