FabSwingers.com forum: Dipping in and out

By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

I have been a casual visitor to this site and scene for a couple of years. Unfortunately I cannot seem to secure the attention of any ladies that I would be keen to have some fun with. I am not ugly and I have been considered an unselfish and extremely satisfying lover. Please can someone help me with constructive tips and suggestions on how to boost my chances of success here. Thanks and please be kind xx

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By *otmy1strodeoCouple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Better photos

A profile picture

Show your verifications

Don't just copy and paste the same message to every woman cuz you'll probably message the same woman with the exact same message again and that doesn't go down well.

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By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thank you. Do I show my face or other parts on my profile?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Don't show your face unless your comfortable with that as for other body parts that's really up to you...

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By *otmy1strodeoCouple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Exactly what Ms lolly said..... Most people don't show their face, some do, it's up to you.

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By *ikey WhipwreckMan
over a year ago

cork

"Exactly what Ms lolly said..... Most people don't show their face, some do, it's up to you. "

depends on how much you trust someone....just be careful

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By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

I fear my covid belly might have the girls running for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself, be patient. Sure it's still lockdown. Well of sorts, so just be nice to people and it will all go ok for you.

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By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thanks buddy, just to get chatting would be nice at this point. Cheers

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Get involved on the forum page iv met more people on here than through messages alone pre covid but hang in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that posting on the forums and just being friendly goes a long way. Im not saying the bar is so low but a lot of people (mainly single guys like us) think just because this is a sex site that everyone wants some action right here right now. Just be youself and be patient amigo

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By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thanks dude good advice

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Thanks dude good advice "

You have a silhouette as your profile pic, that would put many off even opening your messages.

Clothed pics are good, you don't have to show us everything.

Do a search of the forums, there is lots of general advice on other threads. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".......Do a search of the forums, there is lots of general advice on other threads.....

That's a nice way of saying whingers

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

As Swiss Toni would analyse this query....

“Paul, being on Fab is very much like making love to a beautiful woman. Your profile is the chance encounter where she glimpses you across a crowded room. You must be attractive, giving an air of confidence and worldly knowledge, hinting at experience and quality you offer, but a crowded room is not the place to bare all, Paul..”

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Have a look at my profile

Now do the opposite!

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington

Maybe you should put into practice any advice you’ve received on your previous threads about this matter

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Maybe you should put into practice any advice you’ve received on your previous threads about this matter

Not even the first time you've told him that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you should put into practice any advice you’ve received on your previous threads about this matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to make more of an effort With your profile and perhaps engage in the forums more ?

You need to stand out from the countless Genuine ,handsome ( always self proclaimed) professional ,Respectful men looking for sex

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"You really need to make more of an effort With your profile and perhaps engage in the forums more ?

You need to stand out from the countless Genuine ,handsome ( always self proclaimed) professional ,Respectful men looking for sex

I hear you.... respectful genuine handsome professional male here. Would you like sex?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Fuck all effort = fuck all action

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington

"Fuck all effort = fuck all action"

100% this ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck all effort = fuck all action"

This comment wins today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck all effort = fuck all action

This comment wins today

Yup, close thread now

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"Fuck all effort = fuck all action

This comment wins today

Yup, close thread now

Where can one find all effort and all action?

I would fuck anything at this stage. Did a profile name search and no luck. Help would be appreciated.

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"Fuck all effort = fuck all action

This comment wins today

Yup, close thread now

Where can one find all effort and all action?

I would fuck anything at this stage. Did a profile name search and no luck. Help would be appreciated. "

Oh and searched anything to try and fuck that too, no luck there either.

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By *addywhacker OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thank you Mad hatter for a genuine reply

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