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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello All,

I am relatively new here. Respectful, honest, clean, tidy etc. Just out for good old fashioned fun in a mutually safe and comfortable environment.

Unfortunately, single men are tarred with the one brush based on a few bad apples (unfortunately its understandable).

What advice or tips would more experienced users have to help a newby like me to build connections?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Welcome to the asylum

Get involved in the forums

Don’t copy and paste generic messages...we always know

Don’t expect to be filling your meet calendar anytime soon. Between the restrictions and people taking their time to take a chance on a newbie, you need to hang around a while and put effort in.

Don’t send cock pics with your first message.

Have a few nice, tasteful pics on your profile (I haven’t looked at it so I’m not sure what you have)

Make sure you are clear on your profile about what you want

Treat it like the real world - don’t say anything to anyone that you wouldn’t say to their face.

Good luck!

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Just looked at your profile and it’s not bad at all.

I always like a range of pics, like open shirt one etc. Have a look at other guys profiles (try the ones that post on the forums regularly) for ideas

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Fair play to you Jaffa that's great advice x

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Your profile is good for a start. You might want to think a little bit about flattering camera angles and lighting as you can probably present yourself better if you try.

At the moment you will struggle to get many responses so don't try too hard and get burned out. Play the long game and look to sorting out a coffee meet to get verified as soon as regulations allow. Try the forums or the chat and see if you can build up a network and maybe get a webcam verification. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like jaffa has said give it time.. Ur profiles definitely well written..Best of luck on ur adventures..Forums and Irish chat rooms get involved in..

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Welcome to the forum

Had a quick look at your profile looks good to me and you're a nice few pics to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice I can give is come on fab for a bit of a laugh and some decent chats. If you go chasing play meets your more likely to scare people off and get frustrated.

Interact have some craic and meets will follow

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Don't tarr us ladies with the one brush, most can distinguish between bad apples and juicy ones.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Just be urself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I logged off this for lunch (and to do some actual work) and jumping back on to see the replies im chuffed and blushed.

Thank you all for the advice. All very well noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha! I stand corrected DH : D

Good to know tho : P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be pushy with the ladies, enjoy the crack on the forums. Go to a few socials and meet and greets to get verified. If you think you are going to get your leg over every other night, you are on the wrong site!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Understood Not Very Shy Guy. Trying to just get the leg over wouldn't be overly my scene either.......within reason of course. Comfort and respect first, the rest follows eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understood Not Very Shy Guy. Trying to just get the leg over wouldn't be overly my scene either.......within reason of course. Comfort and respect first, the rest follows eh "

With that sort of attitude, you will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understood Not Very Shy Guy. Trying to just get the leg over wouldn't be overly my scene either.......within reason of course. Comfort and respect first, the rest follows eh "
.. That's a good attitude to have for starters.... I'm a newbie too and it's hard trying to fit in. But you seem a decent fella so I'm sure you will have no problems at all. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile and the dark sexy beard, pics will improve as you go...

Theres a nice recent thread "choose fab", follow some of those suggestions for a better experience here and actually anywhere......and just one advice, never try to fit in

best luck

P.

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By *ebel_LionMan
over a year ago

cork

thats v sound advice by u Jaffa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers my man! Thanks for the comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peachy! Im glad you approve

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