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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is better to say hello.wink or message first to start conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought we had this topic very recently?

I prefer an email and never really paid much attention to winks... but lately I've been looking at the winks and if I like what I see I wink back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya i suppose an honest message might get an honest reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought we had this topic very recently?

I prefer an email and never really paid much attention to winks... but lately I've been looking at the winks and if I like what I see I wink back. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks frustrate me cos they never go anywhere. The usual scenario with winks is that a couple winks , I wink back, then never hear from them again haha. Or a couple winks at me, I wink back, then they message saying thanks for the wink and nothing else. Like wtf! I have to say the only people on here in my experience who make any effort at all with their messages are singles. Couples just seem to think they dont even need to type more than a few words at most. Boring! I used to make an effort but now I dont even respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks frustrate me cos they never go anywhere. The usual scenario with winks is that a couple winks , I wink back, then never hear from them again haha. Or a couple winks at me, I wink back, then they message saying thanks for the wink and nothing else. Like wtf! I have to say the only people on here in my experience who make any effort at all with their messages are singles. Couples just seem to think they dont even need to type more than a few words at most. Boring! I used to make an effort but now I dont even respond. "

Singles usually have to make more effort to get noticed, I think couples tend to get the more messages, Im guessing single females get the most though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, dunno.

i think a wink at first may shows a certain interest tho. even tho singles, esp the girls prob get tons of them.

but i agree, emails are sometimes better option but have to admit, i've received emails, answered and never got a single reply either.

guess it depends....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but have to say something i got told when i first joined

Winking is for wankers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought we had this topic very recently?

I prefer an email and never really paid much attention to winks... but lately I've been looking at the winks and if I like what I see I wink back. "

I just winked at ya .....

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Always wink. I can wink loads, get a bit bored writing loads of mails when hardly any get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought we had this topic very recently?

I prefer an email and never really paid much attention to winks... but lately I've been looking at the winks and if I like what I see I wink back.

I just winked at ya ..... "

you're such a winker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wink. I can wink loads, get a bit bored writing loads of mails when hardly any get a reply! "

I'm at a stage now I just don't bother!

Wasting precious time writing and then.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dnt reply to winks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone complains about mails. Single girls that get too many, guys that get no replies with the same true for couples.

It would be great if you had a protocol were you could only mail if you'd been winked at. If interested wink, if the want attention they wink back. Then you can mail.

Like in a bar, you smile at someone, they smile back its a sign to go and talk to them. Would be fairly annoying approach to hassle every woman in the joint by going up to them without any come on! I guess that is the approach some guys have inhere and in life, hit up every woman with their chat up lines/use generic mail to every woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone complains about mails. Single girls that get too many, guys that get no replies with the same true for couples.

It would be great if you had a protocol were you could only mail if you'd been winked at. If interested wink, if the want attention they wink back. Then you can mail.

Like in a bar, you smile at someone, they smile back its a sign to go and talk to them. Would be fairly annoying approach to hassle every woman in the joint by going up to them without any come on! I guess that is the approach some guys have inhere and in life, hit up every woman with their chat up lines/use generic mail to every woman"

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