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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Is there anything worse than fancying the pants off someone only to have the awful realisation that you have been firmly placed in the dreaded friend zone! And is there a way back from there? There’s been plenty of occasions in the past where I’ve landed myself there and haven’t known how to navigate my way back out!!

Any friend zone to sex zone success stories out there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soz

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Soz "

I would like to attend your next ThunderKiss Enterprises seminar on how to achieve the perfect score in life and sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soz

I would like to attend your next ThunderKiss Enterprises seminar on how to achieve the perfect score in life and sex!"

Lesson 1 - Don't give a fuck

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Soz

I would like to attend your next ThunderKiss Enterprises seminar on how to achieve the perfect score in life and sex!

Lesson 1 - Don't give a fuck "

Also I hope lessons 2-20!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soz

I would like to attend your next ThunderKiss Enterprises seminar on how to achieve the perfect score in life and sex!

Lesson 1 - Don't give a fuck

Also I hope lessons 2-20!"

Lesson 2 - Invest in a magnificent coffee machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything worse than fancying the pants off someone only to have the awful realisation that you have been firmly placed in the dreaded friend zone! And is there a way back from there? There’s been plenty of occasions in the past where I’ve landed myself there and haven’t known how to navigate my way back out!!

Any friend zone to sex zone success stories out there?! "

The only way out I found is a night out, being ur sexiest version of urself, a few drinks and suggest keeping the party going by heading back to someone’s house and if there is still some sexual tension there, one thing will often lead to another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything worse than fancying the pants off someone only to have the awful realisation that you have been firmly placed in the dreaded friend zone! And is there a way back from there? There’s been plenty of occasions in the past where I’ve landed myself there and haven’t known how to navigate my way back out!!

Any friend zone to sex zone success stories out there?! "

Yes!! but my lips are sealed

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends what value you put on the friendship?

I've started in the friend zone and built an amazing friendship over almost 10 years but a few years ago we moved out of that zone for a couple of months before luckily being able to slip back in again.

The fear of damaging a long term and supportive friendship was more important than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God that's a fine line to thread....

Watching someone trying to find their way out of the friend zone can be cringe.

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Any time I ever get stuck in the friend zone I usually stopped communicating with the person. They are usually unlikely to change their minds and I viewed the communication as a false hope that something might eventually happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more fish in the sea if all you're looking for is sex.

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"God that's a fine line to thread....

Watching someone trying to find their way out of the friend zone can be cringe."

Oh God it’s the worst! Better to accept fate!

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Plenty more fish in the sea if all you're looking for is sex. "

It was more in the general sense of friend zoning where one wants more than the other. But I guess the same mantra of plenty more fish would apply anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does Ben know you friend zoned him BTW?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more fish in the sea if all you're looking for is sex.

It was more in the general sense of friend zoning where one wants more than the other. But I guess the same mantra of plenty more fish would apply anyway."

You just have to respect the other person's choices really. If they're truly a friend, why risk the friendship, if they're not, no point in the relationship at all in my book

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

Nothing really a success but I had a friend who would always say I'm friendzoned but everyone knew we both fancied each other, only ever got as far as a kiss until she had to move away

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Does Ben know you friend zoned him BTW?"

Coffee gone everywhere!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Just bring it up and be honest

It’ll result in being unfriend zoned either by becoming lovers or by no longer being friends

Or just staying as you are

(Beware I have no experience of this )

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Does Ben know you friend zoned him BTW?"

Oh please, I’ve been tryin to get in his pants for years... hence my question!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I had actually put a fellow fabber in the friend zone a few years ago and he took it very well. He was never pushy but also still somehow managed to let me know that he was still interested. We were all out one night (back when nights out were possible) getting flirty and someone said to him that I was a good kisser. He got this sad look on his face and said "I wouldn't know" so I kissed him. We have definitely moved out of just the friend zone since. Not sure if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if the friend zone is deployed I’d be inclined to accept it and move on... if I’ve put someone in the friend zone it’s likely that I just don’t get the bit of X factor that’s needed to find them sexually attractive... so it’s probably a permanent zone from my point of view

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

People only get out of the friend zone in rom coms.

In real life escape is impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People only get out of the friend zone in rom coms.

In real life escape is impossible"

Never heard of the pity fuck?

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"People only get out of the friend zone in rom coms.

In real life escape is impossible

Never heard of the pity fuck? "

No, what’s that?

This could be a game changer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t keep someone in the friend zone if they really fancied me and I didn’t. I’d cut the connection. It’s ultimately unfair on them and the friendship isn’t based solely on true friendship

I don’t believe these friend zone relationships can be maintained in a true and honest fashion in a way that is truly simply a friendship and that both derive great long term benefit with future prospects as friends and only friends and where there are no other motives

Her wanting more isn’t her being honest with herself or me and from my end it would either be unfair of me or manipulative to allow her some crumbs or slivers of hope

I find that often the person who has done the friendzoning is quite manipulative and selfish and cruel by keeping the friend in their orbit and feeding them crumbs and using them either to make themselves feel better, to signal to other potentail partners that they are wanted and desired or to keep their options open in the event of a failed relationship

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"People only get out of the friend zone in rom coms.

In real life escape is impossible

Never heard of the pity fuck? "

sigh... My favourite kind of fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a group of friends that hung out in a coffee shop. The geeky guy fancied the cheerleader with the amazing hair but she had him firmly in a friend zone. Anyways after years of hilarity they suddenly realised they were madly in love and shared a passionate kiss at the door of the coffee shop. I think they went on a break for a while but she flew to London to stop him getting married and they lived happily ever after... So the moral of the story is.... Never believe everything you see on TV!

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I knew a group of friends that hung out in a coffee shop. The geeky guy fancied the cheerleader with the amazing hair but she had him firmly in a friend zone. Anyways after years of hilarity they suddenly realised they were madly in love and shared a passionate kiss at the door of the coffee shop. I think they went on a break for a while but she flew to London to stop him getting married and they lived happily ever after... So the moral of the story is.... Never believe everything you see on TV! "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a good friend years and we had friendzoned each other for years until one night when it moved onto something else. After a short while of meeting each other I really felt it wasn't working out I preferred him as a friend and we had a talk and decided to stay as friends but sadly our friendship was never the same again. So I would never do it again with someone who had been friend zoned losing a friendship is not worth it.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Aww it's a hure of a place to be. Like going to a sweet shop without any money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww it's a hure of a place to be. Like going to a sweet shop without any money "

Sorry about that, Hardy

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