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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came to that conclusion a long time ago. We're quite happy to meet someone for a social meet without exchanging face pics, anyone not happy with that, well, we won't be meeting them.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around. "

Sending a face pic here always garnered trust hence why i won't send one with out first getting g an idea of who i am chatting to

As for sending them on that's something that's being happening for years

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"We came to that conclusion a long time ago. We're quite happy to meet someone for a social meet without exchanging face pics, anyone not happy with that, well, we won't be meeting them. "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. let's face it, physical attraction is hugely important to most.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around. "

I presume you called out the people who sent them to you? It’s all well and good talking about it but unless you’re going to make it clear to your friends that it’s not cool then it’s nothing but lip service

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We came to that conclusion a long time ago. We're quite happy to meet someone for a social meet without exchanging face pics, anyone not happy with that, well, we won't be meeting them. "

Not too many like yous here well done that's a very fair thing to do.

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I understand the need for them, but also understand the reasons not to send one. I won’t normally send if we’re only a few messages into a chat, but if I thought a meet etc may be on the horizon, ld always send one. At the same time, if someone asks for a face pic I’d expect them to share one also.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I will only send a face pic if I've been chatting to someone for a good while. I stopped joining the face pics threads a long time ago .If someone get pushy trying to get one I stop chatting.

Sadly private pics and info is shared quite a bit on here.You just have to take responsibility for your own privacy. I'm not ashamed of being on here but at the same time I prefer to keep my private life private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around.

I presume you called out the people who sent them to you? It’s all well and good talking about it but unless you’re going to make it clear to your friends that it’s not cool then it’s nothing but lip service "

I did ask them where they got these what's apps from but it was just sent to them from other people. In fairness it's not nice to be sending what's apps at other people's expense. It really put me off sending my face pic on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to send face pics now and then...not often but when I thought I could trust someone...

Guess what happened...as soon as I sent a face pic I was sent face pics of women on here without even asking and they aren't aware their pics are being shared

This has happened 3 times by 3 different men...so I'm obviously thinking they must have shared my pics too without permission

So now I don't share face pics anymore and peeps are just gonna have to accept that I'm pretty and have absolutely nothing to hide

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

also may I add chatting endlessly to someone, then exchanging pics to realise there is no attraction is a pure waste of time imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will only send a face pic if I've been chatting to someone for a good while. I stopped joining the face pics threads a long time ago .If someone get pushy trying to get one I stop chatting.

Sadly private pics and info is shared quite a bit on here.You just have to take responsibility for your own privacy. I'm not ashamed of being on here but at the same time I prefer to keep my private life private. "

I totally agree. I have a job that I'd be found apon if a fhoto of me appeared screenshooted from here. I'd find myself disaplined at work for it so I am very cautious now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also may I add chatting endlessly to someone, then exchanging pics to realise there is no attraction is a pure waste of time imo."
its happened me plenty or I'd get blocked after the phot was sent to them but now I'm worried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to send face pics now and then...not often but when I thought I could trust someone...

Guess what happened...as soon as I sent a face pic I was sent face pics of women on here without even asking and they aren't aware their pics are being shared

This has happened 3 times by 3 different men...so I'm obviously thinking they must have shared my pics too without permission

So now I don't share face pics anymore and peeps are just gonna have to accept that I'm pretty and have absolutely nothing to hide"

Sorry to hear that you may have been a victim of it.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Some people are going to be dicks and unfortunately it’s part and parcel of sharing any pic. Only thing you can do if you want to share a face pic is to make sure it’s a PG one that could have been stolen from anywhere. Give yourself some plausible deniability.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

When I first joined there was always a thread called face pic Friday and it gradually stopped for the reasons mentioned

Giving out a phone number to share WhatsApp messages is more of a risk in my opinion if you're worried about work and its your real phone and not one for use on the site only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around.

I presume you called out the people who sent them to you? It’s all well and good talking about it but unless you’re going to make it clear to your friends that it’s not cool then it’s nothing but lip service "

This

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Couldn’t agree more! This is why I purposely choose a pic from my Facebook whenever I share one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around. "

Scary and disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are going to be dicks and unfortunately it’s part and parcel of sharing any pic. Only thing you can do if you want to share a face pic is to make sure it’s a PG one that could have been stolen from anywhere. Give yourself some plausible deniability. "

Great idea but it was a screenshot of the message with the person's face pic that I seen on what's app.its not a great situation at all

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby. "

Dead confused as to what being white has to do with it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby. "

That one on your 7th of october pic is stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now... my random dick pics don't seem so bad do they...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been very hesitant since the Ashley Madison hack a few years ago ..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well now... my random dick pics don't seem so bad do they..."

Thats not whats said in the whatsapp group

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

The thing where people demand a face pic with first message irks me not that I send many messages I prefer to meet people at parties or events. But if any of these people send me a mail about a party etc I leave them on read unless they have attached a face pic like they demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos"

Agree totally... So its 08...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos"

Asking for a friend but how many pics can I ask for before it gets annoying..... HE I mean how many pics can he ask for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well now... my random dick pics don't seem so bad do they...

Thats not whats said in the whatsapp group "

I'm famous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby.

That one on your 7th of october pic is stunning "

There's tonnes of em!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I guard my privacy very carefully, therefore I have no pics that could potentially identify me, or be shared for nefarious purposes.

There are too many untrustworthy people around nowadays; cynical but accurate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv given my number a few times but its mostly kik if give rather than a number

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg"

I’ve had this a few times yeah! I just ask to keep it here (or kik) until we have a rapport etc! Most are cool with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel obliged to send one with each message so they know who to talk to. They don't know my name so all should be fine. But to share someone's face pic is awful.

Once gave my number and we chatted on WhatsApp. Next thing I know she added my Facebook and followed me on Instagram, privacy out the window altogether so super hesitant about it.

A female friend of mine joined the site too. The amount of people who tried to find out who she was is down right creepy ! Just gotta be careful and call them out when you see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos"

DIVOs haha I love the word

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos"

Jayus id never give out a phone number theres the key to unlock so much about a person

Kik is the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos

Asking for a friend but how many pics can I ask for before it gets annoying..... HE I mean how many pics can he ask for "

They're obviously pic collectors lol... constantly requesting pics... They seem to have an insatiable appetite for some reason... I wouldn't mind I've loads of up to date pics on my profile so the need for more and more pics doesn't add up...

Needy demanding peeps I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos

Jayus id never give out a phone number theres the key to unlock so much about a person

Kik is the way to go "

I have up on Kik when they got rid of the self deleting photobomb feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos

Asking for a friend but how many pics can I ask for before it gets annoying..... HE I mean how many pics can he ask for

They're obviously pic collectors lol... constantly requesting pics... They seem to have an insatiable appetite for some reason... I wouldn't mind I've loads of up to date pics on my profile so the need for more and more pics doesn't add up...

Needy demanding peeps I guess"

Ummmmm ya I'll pass that on to him....

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby. "
35 really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else. "

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna see my face pic?

Anyone?!

Anyone at all?!

Ah the joys of being a 35 year old, white single male....

I have absolutely no need to obscure my identity.

I'm a whore.

Loud and proud baby. 35 really "

Last I checked....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook "

I was just about to ask the same thing. I know it happened to someone else I know on here after they exchanged numbers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else. "

This can happen if you give your phone number and it's connected to face book or insta...you then start to appear as people they may know...once they've saved your phone number to their device.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

This can happen if you give your phone number and it's connected to face book or insta...you then start to appear as people they may know...once they've saved your phone number to their device. "

Always make sure your privacy settings are set to Max and never ever use your phone number to sign in or out of apps ever.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Once you share your face pic with anyone you have lost the right to it.

Trusting your pic doesn't get passed around is a risk we all share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook "

It seems we have a mutual friend and he recognised my smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are many plagued for their phone number also? I am and have been many times...some after just one msg

And the guys who are so difficult to pls...requesting pic after pic after pic and still not happy

It actually speaks volumes about them and therefore they need to be avoided big time as in they're never happy or satisfied and high maintenance divos"

Being pestered or pressurised for anything is a 1st strike No from me, if thats ignored its 2 strike - a block.

Nothings worth that bullshit when there are plenty of respectful people on here to give time to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook

It seems we have a mutual friend and he recognised my smile "

Well it Is a nice smile but yeah he was totally wrong to do what he did

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I got caught on facebook when I gave out my phone number once

Facebook own WhatsApp and they share across the platforms now

If you give someone your real number and they google it...a huge amount of information can come up about you

If they put in into whatsapp your profile picture comes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook

It seems we have a mutual friend and he recognised my smile

Well it Is a nice smile but yeah he was totally wrong to do what he did"

He didn't see anything wrong with it at all

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I got caught on facebook when I gave out my phone number once

Facebook own WhatsApp and they share across the platforms now

If you give someone your real number and they google it...a huge amount of information can come up about you

If they put in into whatsapp your profile picture comes up "

I worked in privacy with a tech firm before and you’d be shocked of the profile a social media company can build on you with just a few bits of information. 99.99999% of the time there is nothing nefarious about it, but it just takes one rogue employee/process/error and it’s there for all to see....! I’m super careful since because of it! (Happy to discuss more in pm if someone has concerns they don’t want to mention here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a scare before and wont be sharing anyone pics and only phone numbers go to actual friends or event organisers.

We live in too small an area and dont need our kids being asked questions or hearing rumours about us or parents being shown photos.

Only one of my vanilla friends knows about this and that's how I want to keep it

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers "

That’s mad actually! As wrong as it is get why people would rob pics!! But from the same site is a different type of stupidity lol

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers

That’s mad actually! As wrong as it is get why people would rob pics!! But from the same site is a different type of stupidity lol"
loads of different pages dumb fucks

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

The main picture they used hasn't been on my page for a year

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The main picture they used hasn't been on my page for a year "

Really sorry to hear that! Hope it’s reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers "

There was a very popular female fabber here but her profile has been hidden for 8 months. I recently discovered a Manchester female profile has stolen and is using her pics. She obviously had them stored for such a long time. I've no way of alerting the girl who's pics have been stolen...as I said her profile is hidden and she hasn't been online in over 8months. I've an excellent photographic memory and I'd recognise said females pics anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewwwww didnt know people did stuff like that. I see lots of profiles that say no face picture not going to chat so I send them face pics without a thought. Now guessing maybe shouldn't do that. Not that anyone would want a picture of my bake anyway though.

That's really shitty of people taking other peoples photos and videos and passing as their own. That's creepy!

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers

There was a very popular female fabber here but her profile has been hidden for 8 months. I recently discovered a Manchester female profile has stolen and is using her pics. She obviously had them stored for such a long time. I've no way of alerting the girl who's pics have been stolen...as I said her profile is hidden and she hasn't been online in over 8months. I've an excellent photographic memory and I'd recognise said females pics anywhere. "

Not trying to negate the seriousness of this, but is there any chance it’s the same person who’s just moved to Manchester? I have a couple of fab friends who have UK and Irl profiles?!? So it’s possible from my experience

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Over the weekend a man asked for his profile to be reviewed

7 of his 8 pics were fake and at least 3 of them I recognised as being used by a previous fake profile

A well know male fabber had his pics used by someone else that uses the forums

I don't understand how they still stay on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers

There was a very popular female fabber here but her profile has been hidden for 8 months. I recently discovered a Manchester female profile has stolen and is using her pics. She obviously had them stored for such a long time. I've no way of alerting the girl who's pics have been stolen...as I said her profile is hidden and she hasn't been online in over 8months. I've an excellent photographic memory and I'd recognise said females pics anywhere.

Not trying to negate the seriousness of this, but is there any chance it’s the same person who’s just moved to Manchester? I have a couple of fab friends who have UK and Irl profiles?!? So it’s possible from my experience "

No definitely not the same person. Pics are defo stolen from an Irish female profile. I never jump to conclusions without proper research.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

It's mad cos my picture hasn't been up for a year and another couples picture was from around the summer 2019 crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just after finding my ass picture on this profile funnewcpl and I know other pictures are from well known fabbers

There was a very popular female fabber here but her profile has been hidden for 8 months. I recently discovered a Manchester female profile has stolen and is using her pics. She obviously had them stored for such a long time. I've no way of alerting the girl who's pics have been stolen...as I said her profile is hidden and she hasn't been online in over 8months. I've an excellent photographic memory and I'd recognise said females pics anywhere.

Not trying to negate the seriousness of this, but is there any chance it’s the same person who’s just moved to Manchester? I have a couple of fab friends who have UK and Irl profiles?!? So it’s possible from my experience

No definitely not the same person. Pics are defo stolen from an Irish female profile. I never jump to conclusions without proper research. "

I have to agree and the persons photos that are being used have their profile hidden for 8 months now. She had very recognisable photos and nearly always was number 1 in hot pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look its creepy to steal pics and to share them etc....

But if your going to put them on a public site it's the risk we all run.....

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


" No definitely not the same person. Pics are defo stolen from an Irish female profile. I never jump to conclusions without proper research. "

This is the type of sh1t that makes this site less appealing to the people! Hopefully they get banned etc! The rest of us lose out in the end

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden "

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main picture they used hasn't been on my page for a year "

Can you prove its yours? That's what you will be asked when you report it. Its terrible as unfortunately this happens way too often.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Looks like the account is gone

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"The main picture they used hasn't been on my page for a year

Can you prove its yours? That's what you will be asked when you report it. Its terrible as unfortunately this happens way too often. "
yup I know my ass anywhere the account is deleted

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"Looks like the account is gone "
it is I'm just raging the cheeky bastards had it so long how a picture would get you excited I don't know plenty of free porn online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look its creepy to steal pics and to share them etc....

But if your going to put them on a public site it's the risk we all run....."

You are right.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry "

Jesus H christ!!! Where do people get off. That's fucked up on so many levels.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around. "

Happened to me years ago no kik has MSN swapped numbers next thing I knew was getting them sent to me demanding a meet, soon put a stop to it, he tried to demand a meet, soon pulled his horns in and put in his place

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"Recently iv seen videos and screenshot of face pics in messages from here sent to me via what's app. And a couple of the screen shots were messages to couples profiles that are well verified on here. Iv often sent my face pic but I'm starting to think it's not worth it anymore as I don't want to be sent around what's app anyone see them going around.

Happened to me years ago no kik has MSN swapped numbers next thing I knew was getting them sent to me demanding a meet, soon put a stop to it, he tried to demand a meet, soon pulled his horns in and put in his place"
I've of people trying to get money with pictures seriously how do they think thats going to end well for them

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry "

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time "

I remember it happened to a few people

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time

I remember it happened to a few people "

There's been a lot of cunts passed through here over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time

I remember it happened to a few people

There's been a lot of cunts passed through here over the years. "

We may have even met some of them

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time

I remember it happened to a few people

There's been a lot of cunts passed through here over the years.

We may have even met some of them "

Ha haha

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

london

It’s a total no no ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will only send a face pic if I've been chatting to someone for a good while. I stopped joining the face pics threads a long time ago .If someone get pushy trying to get one I stop chatting.

Sadly private pics and info is shared quite a bit on here.You just have to take responsibility for your own privacy. I'm not ashamed of being on here but at the same time I prefer to keep my private life private. "

My thoughts exactly. Any pushy requests early on for face pics i just say politely that i will in time but i need to feel some kind of trust. I never ever use the same pictures as i have elsewhere on the net. Exclusive to here only. Its amazing how many folk use the same face pictures as are on their fb and social media. Even married women playing away ... That means zero privacy at all, so easily searched out ... Nuts.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Folks it's relatively simple.

Use Fab in Secret folder only (Samsung phone), using AdBlock browsers. Only use Kik/WickrMe/etc for contact, as they don't give out phone number.

Stick to those and only ever send ugly, glasses wearing, gurning face pics.

It's saved me from being rode senseless for years and I see no point changing now

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

Face pic if you send 1 fair play but mental lol if you value privacy,we never send and never ask either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a couple a few years back and they asked for face pic. Being more naive at the time i sent one. Turns out they worked for the same company as me.

They then threatened me by saying if i didnt tell my boss that i was a member on here then they would.

I called them out on it by saying that if they did then questions would be asked as to how they knew. They blocked me.

I left the site for a year or so but it made me never want to share face pics again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was chatting to a couple a few years back and they asked for face pic. Being more naive at the time i sent one. Turns out they worked for the same company as me.

They then threatened me by saying if i didnt tell my boss that i was a member on here then they would.

I called them out on it by saying that if they did then questions would be asked as to how they knew. They blocked me.

I left the site for a year or so but it made me never want to share face pics again. "

Hate them kind of games these crazy people play. It could effect someone's mental health and could lead to more serious issues with the person. Only the lowest of the low would consider doing such an act

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Face pic if you send 1 fair play but mental lol if you value privacy,we never send and never ask either."

We are being damned if we don't. Most of the time you will get no reply from cpls or females if you don't attach a face pic but I sure will be afraid to from now on after the what's apps I got from people that I'd say aren't even on this site but just this what's app messages that circulate

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"God, reading this is kind of worrying. I'm reassuring myself I'm good, and nobody will out my pictures as long as I don't become famous all of a sudden

This shite is mild there was a time when we had people stealing pics and bios and setting up face book pages with the persons real name and sending it to all their friends on FB now that shite was scarry

I remember that it happened to my cpls profile at the time "

Thats right urs and others a local cpl a year later she got a right fright took a lot reassure her that mostly they are assholes trying to get a reaction

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Face pic if you send 1 fair play but mental lol if you value privacy,we never send and never ask either.

We are being damned if we don't. Most of the time you will get no reply from cpls or females if you don't attach a face pic but I sure will be afraid to from now on after the what's apps I got from people that I'd say aren't even on this site but just this what's app messages that circulate "

Look at it as their loss and u dogged a bullet

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I always ask for face pics and I'm happy to share mine once I've received one.

I will share a pic for safety reasons - if a guy is coming to my home and we've never met before, I send their pic, name and Fab profile details / phone number to a friend in case something happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very cautious, I have been on here before and have shared face pics only to find people have shared these pics onward. Being on this very small island it wasn't long before pics got back to my family (mother & sister) and god knows who else. Also found my pics were being used on various social media sites too. But I'm back again, hopefully a bit wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always ask for face pics and I'm happy to share mine once I've received one.

I will share a pic for safety reasons - if a guy is coming to my home and we've never met before, I send their pic, name and Fab profile details / phone number to a friend in case something happens.

"

Wise Decision ^^^^^^^

I once had a fwbs who refused to give me his phone number point blank He'd always ring me on a blocked number. I wouldn't mind I can be trusted 1,000%. But my BF would not allow me to see this guy unless he'd produce his phone number...So I used to meet this fwbs on the QT. I never ever understood why he always and ever blocked his number...Till one day I received a msg via fab from a female stating my fwb is married... Lol naive me eh... I never meet cheating married men ever... Anyway he turned out to be a dark horse in more ways than one... He was extremely secretive in many many ways... Sometimes peeps are not as they seem... Some have many guises.

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By *un WifeWoman
over a year ago

City

Used send face pics but unfortunately got a stalker at one point who managed to track me down and get my phone number. He used send me pics of myself to my mobile. Totally freaked me out! So am very cautious now with what details I disclose never mind face pics. It means many think I’m not real and won’t meet but you really don’t know what people will do with information you give them

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

I think the context would have a lot to do with it. I know that for some people there could be social or financial consequences, so I can understand why people wouldn't want it to happen. In general though, I don't think anyone likes the idea of their image being shared as a source of derision. This would be true for even the most innocuous photo on facebook.

If the accompanying narrative were, "look at this legend", it probably wouldn't be so bad. Obviously, this goes for face pics. Nude pics would be different - although I think that is just a different level of social conditioning.

I've thought about the dangers of having my face pic in my profile but I'm not ashamed to be on here in the first place. I would initially be embarrassed if I discovered my pics were doing the rounds on the internet, but that is more to do with cultural conditioning, I feel.

With a bit of meditation I feel like I would be able to be like "eh, ya, and....I know most of you fuckers would like to be on here as well "

As long as I'm behaving appropriately on here, I feel like I would have nothing to hide.

Now, that's not a license to go sharing my pics all over whatsapp!

I think we need an edit post button on here.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.


"Used send face pics but unfortunately got a stalker at one point who managed to track me down and get my phone number. He used send me pics of myself to my mobile. Totally freaked me out! So am very cautious now with what details I disclose never mind face pics. It means many think I’m not real and won’t meet but you really don’t know what people will do with information you give them "

OH shit! I guess my not even thinking of this is an example of male privilege.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't. It's hard enough as it is without showing my fugly mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for guys on here. You need to send a pic. Alot of people will not replying if you don't.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first..."

What if I'm pig ugly though?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first...

What if I'm pig ugly though?

"

I don't meet anyone just for the love of tea it's to see if there is attraction there for future fun, id be honest and would expect the same if they sent a face pic or I did and didn't see an attraction id be honest with them

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first...

What if I'm pig ugly though?

I don't meet anyone just for the love of tea it's to see if there is attraction there for future fun, id be honest and would expect the same if they sent a face pic or I did and didn't see an attraction id be honest with them "

Jaysus, I'll hold off so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We realise there are inherent risks in sharing but we would never meet without seeing a face pic. It's not blind date.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first...

What if I'm pig ugly though?

I don't meet anyone just for the love of tea it's to see if there is attraction there for future fun, id be honest and would expect the same if they sent a face pic or I did and didn't see an attraction id be honest with them

Jaysus, I'll hold off so! "

Ah ive seen your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We realise there are inherent risks in sharing but we would never meet without seeing a face pic. It's not blind date. "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like a few on here who decided long time ago not to send a face pic. If they don't like it then that's cool with me and we don't meet. Simple.

I've seen face pics share in fab Kik groups and as others have said they should be called out, but what usually happens is it backfires especially as a single guy and their friends rally round them.

All you can do is protect your own identity and not get involved with those who have done it/do it. I've left a couple Kik groups in the past over this very issue then the mods don't do anything when it's challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm like a few on here who decided long time ago not to send a face pic. If they don't like it then that's cool with me and we don't meet. Simple.

I've seen face pics share in fab Kik groups and as others have said they should be called out, but what usually happens is it backfires especially as a single guy and their friends rally round them.

All you can do is protect your own identity and not get involved with those who have done it/do it. I've left a couple Kik groups in the past over this very issue then the mods don't do anything when it's challenged."

So you want share a pic and just rock up to a social not knowing what the other person looks like?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"To be honest I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic first...

What if I'm pig ugly though?

I don't meet anyone just for the love of tea it's to see if there is attraction there for future fun, id be honest and would expect the same if they sent a face pic or I did and didn't see an attraction id be honest with them

Jaysus, I'll hold off so!

Ah ive seen your face "

Bejeepers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face pics but would normally get one before a meet. No point in meeting if there's no attraction.

Also sometimes you can tell the loons just by looking at them.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I never send face pics but would normally get one before a meet. No point in meeting if there's no attraction.

Also sometimes you can tell the loons just by looking at them. "

I think I sent you one and you never replied. Now I know why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send face pics but would normally get one before a meet. No point in meeting if there's no attraction.

Also sometimes you can tell the loons just by looking at them.

I think I sent you one and you never replied. Now I know why! "

Ah Micheal I never seen your ugly mug I mean face

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

im a priest so i wont

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I won't meet without a face pic I need to know who I'm meeting..

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city


"I won't meet without a face pic I need to know who I'm meeting.."

Alot of people request video which I also think is a great idea for any safety concerns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet without a face pic I need to know who I'm meeting..

Alot of people request video which I also think is a great idea for any safety concerns"

An action video to check performance lol. Jesus they must be picky

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city


"I won't meet without a face pic I need to know who I'm meeting..

Alot of people request video which I also think is a great idea for any safety concerns

An action video to check performance lol. Jesus they must be picky "

Not performance just to make sure not a fake pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet without a face pic I need to know who I'm meeting..

Alot of people request video which I also think is a great idea for any safety concerns

An action video to check performance lol. Jesus they must be picky

Not performance just to make sure not a fake pic"

I know was just thinking about all the wanking vids you'd be sent instead of dick pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Used send face pics but unfortunately got a stalker at one point who managed to track me down and get my phone number. He used send me pics of myself to my mobile. Totally freaked me out! So am very cautious now with what details I disclose never mind face pics. It means many think I’m not real and won’t meet but you really don’t know what people will do with information you give them "

What an absolute SC.. B. G that did that to you

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If you care about your sexual privacy then always been a risk to provide facepics here. Always.

At the same time we wouldn't DREAM of meeting someone even for a coffee without a facepic, so it's just one of those things that you need to give if you want to receive.

You just need to have your head screwed in right about who you give it to and who you don't in order to minimise the risk.

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By *un WifeWoman
over a year ago

City


" You just need to have your head screwed in right about who you give it to and who you don't in order to minimise the risk. "

So true!! It was early on my fab journey when I was all excited and very little other than horny thoughts in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm like a few on here who decided long time ago not to send a face pic. If they don't like it then that's cool with me and we don't meet. Simple.

I've seen face pics share in fab Kik groups and as others have said they should be called out, but what usually happens is it backfires especially as a single guy and their friends rally round them.

All you can do is protect your own identity and not get involved with those who have done it/do it. I've left a couple Kik groups in the past over this very issue then the mods don't do anything when it's challenged.

So you want share a pic and just rock up to a social not knowing what the other person looks like? "

I've never shared a pic to go to a social. If the person insists then I'll politely decline as I've done in the past. Some have understood my shared concerns and have accepted that and the social and meets have proceeded. A few chose not to meet.

That's the way it goes. Some people use it as partbof a filtering system like other things.

No one is forced to meet and we all meet by choice.

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over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens and that's the chance you take when you share a pic. I had swapped face pics with a guy recently that had been chatting with. He than messaged me using my real name when I asked how he knew my name told me I came up as a friend suggestion in Facebook. When I told him it was creepy and inappropriate to use my name ( as hadn't given it to him here) he proceeded to say oh its OK he's discreet and my secret is safe. What secret I'm the single one he's the married one.

I've seen pics shared in groups and even left one chat group over it. If I share a pic with anyone I don't expect them to share it with someone else.

Jeeze how did it come up in Facebook "

Facebook own Whattsapp and all the data sent through it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Well no. WhatsApp data is encrypted end to end so they can't see what's in it. They DO have and use metadata about who you contact and when, but not the actual data.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

If I was going to a social then I wouldn't ask for one cause it would be a lot of people bit for a one on one definitely

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

We have given up trying to meet a couple just stick to clubs and party's no need to send face pictures then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it . "

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a lady contact us on here yesterday, after the initial pleasantries were said the second question was can i have a face pic, When we declined the face pic request the conversation abruptly ceased. One has to wonder the motives for not even starting a conversation first but to demand a face pic even before chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends."

If that works for you then that's great. You are so right about screenshots and it does happen all the time. Its definitely a risk sharing. Ido agree with trusting your gut and having proper safety measures in place. After chatting to someone for a while they've generally suggested sharing a face pic and I'd not be the one to ask first for one. I do think it's a bit risky for a woman to go to a one to one meet without actually seeing a face pic first. A social where there are lots of others around is different as there is safety in numbers. I am actually chatting to someone since I think last October and neither of us have seen each others face. He's not asked to see me and I've not asked to see him. So good chat keeps things interesting and not what someone's face looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a risk sharing anything!

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"We have given up trying to meet a couple just stick to clubs and party's no need to send face pictures then "

I'm so supprised at that cause ye two are hot as fuck..

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"It's a risk sharing anything! "
this is it 100 % and always has been.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"It's a risk sharing anything! this is it 100 % and always has been. "

Totally agree bit at the end of the day I have to be attracted to the person

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends.

If that works for you then that's great. You are so right about screenshots and it does happen all the time. Its definitely a risk sharing. Ido agree with trusting your gut and having proper safety measures in place. After chatting to someone for a while they've generally suggested sharing a face pic and I'd not be the one to ask first for one. I do think it's a bit risky for a woman to go to a one to one meet without actually seeing a face pic first. A social where there are lots of others around is different as there is safety in numbers. I am actually chatting to someone since I think last October and neither of us have seen each others face. He's not asked to see me and I've not asked to see him. So good chat keeps things interesting and not what someone's face looks like."

What after months of chat and when everything is somewhat lifted you decide to meet and exchange face pics,and there's absolutely no attraction there on one or both sides, was that not a waste of time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a risk sharing anything! this is it 100 % and always has been. "

Absolutely Willy!

It's one of the pitfalls of Fablife

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends.

If that works for you then that's great. You are so right about screenshots and it does happen all the time. Its definitely a risk sharing. Ido agree with trusting your gut and having proper safety measures in place. After chatting to someone for a while they've generally suggested sharing a face pic and I'd not be the one to ask first for one. I do think it's a bit risky for a woman to go to a one to one meet without actually seeing a face pic first. A social where there are lots of others around is different as there is safety in numbers. I am actually chatting to someone since I think last October and neither of us have seen each others face. He's not asked to see me and I've not asked to see him. So good chat keeps things interesting and not what someone's face looks like.

What after months of chat and when everything is somewhat lifted you decide to meet and exchange face pics,and there's absolutely no attraction there on one or both sides, was that not a waste of time?"
that's how it is for me. endless chat and then no physical attraction is a pure waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends.

If that works for you then that's great. You are so right about screenshots and it does happen all the time. Its definitely a risk sharing. Ido agree with trusting your gut and having proper safety measures in place. After chatting to someone for a while they've generally suggested sharing a face pic and I'd not be the one to ask first for one. I do think it's a bit risky for a woman to go to a one to one meet without actually seeing a face pic first. A social where there are lots of others around is different as there is safety in numbers. I am actually chatting to someone since I think last October and neither of us have seen each others face. He's not asked to see me and I've not asked to see him. So good chat keeps things interesting and not what someone's face looks like.

What after months of chat and when everything is somewhat lifted you decide to meet and exchange face pics,and there's absolutely no attraction there on one or both sides, was that not a waste of time?"

I am attracted to more than just a face. So no I wouldn't say its waste of time.

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"What after months of chat and when everything is somewhat lifted you decide to meet and exchange face pics,and there's absolutely no attraction there on one or both sides, was that not a waste of time?"

They may find intellectual chat an attractive quality so it maybe negates it to a bit!!

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Everyone is different in what they are attracted to and who that's what makes us human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "

Now that's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also i am very polite...i like to think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different in what they are attracted to and who that's what makes us human"

If we all wanted the same thing life would be boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ms lolly

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "

That is so creepy.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Well my face is in plain view I've nothing to hide all my family know I'm on this even half of my work place Know

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Everyone is different in what they are attracted to and who that's what makes us human

If we all wanted the same thing life would be boring. "

Exactly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "

That is scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "

That's outrageous!

Fuck that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of bad experiences on here but the good ones have outweighed those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it .

That is true but what's to stop them taking a screen shot though?

What I found is that those who insist on one rarely if ever are willing to send one first, which I feel should be the case if you're asking.

It's one of those things that some are comfortable with and others aren't.

I've had a few blindfold first meets, no social involved, a lot of time chatting and getting to know each other and on the same wavelength. Good safety measures in place for both people but it boils down to a good gut feeling and trusting your gut. Again many would never consider that but others do and have had some amazing meets and made some great like minded friends.

If that works for you then that's great. You are so right about screenshots and it does happen all the time. Its definitely a risk sharing. Ido agree with trusting your gut and having proper safety measures in place. After chatting to someone for a while they've generally suggested sharing a face pic and I'd not be the one to ask first for one. I do think it's a bit risky for a woman to go to a one to one meet without actually seeing a face pic first. A social where there are lots of others around is different as there is safety in numbers. I am actually chatting to someone since I think last October and neither of us have seen each others face. He's not asked to see me and I've not asked to see him. So good chat keeps things interesting and not what someone's face looks like."

Ability to keep my interest is in conversation not what their face may or may not look like. Regular meets are stimulated by a face, it may help but as you rightly imply and imo the mind is what really engages and maintains the interest. Some struggle to have any meaningful conversation or expect the guy to do all the work.

A smile and eyes say an awful lot but can't always rely that they reflect the rest of the body in the same way either.

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We're all different and there are many different expectations and requirements for meeting.

We're not all to everyone's taste, doesn't make anyone less desirable to others either.

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!!

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "

Jesus that really is very scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!! "

Snapchat pics knocked off 15 years at a click and they say there's no time travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!!

Snapchat pics knocked off 15 years at a click and they say there's no time travel. "

And not everyone sparkles like that in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister "
... Oh no! It's worst fear come true. Some nut job sharing your personal information and knowing your work too. In some industries your reputation is like gold. Hopefully it was a bullet dodged for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of bad experiences on here but the good ones have outweighed those "

That's very very true buddy !

The good eventually outweighs the bad

It's just unfortunate, when incidents and breaches of trust make you question everything

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!!

Snapchat pics knocked off 15 years at a click and they say there's no time travel.

And not everyone sparkles like that in real life :-

D"

I sparkle even when I’m sleeping. Just excuse the snoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!! "

Plenty of them but I think you have to look harder

I found lots of sexy ladies 50+ without the PS amendments. How they look in real (on cam) were exactly what Ive seen on the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a year ago i sent a woman my facepic, now im not the most handsome lad but im not bad looking. This woman told me where i worked and my real name then instead of sending me a facepic all i got was a pic of an eye then blocked me abit sinister ... Oh no! It's worst fear come true. Some nut job sharing your personal information and knowing your work too. In some industries your reputation is like gold. Hopefully it was a bullet dodged for you "
yeah id say i dodged more than that, when you see a woman on here that you like you dont think of the consequences until its too late....but she is still on here, one of those profiles that say facepic in first msg or no reply

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!!

Plenty of them but I think you have to look harder

I found lots of sexy ladies 50+ without the PS amendments. How they look in real (on cam) were exactly what Ive seen on the photos "

Ah yeah totally ,loads of them out there just aswell they don’t have Snapchat. Worst thing is getting a face pic with the dog ears

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!! "

U have met me a few times can't get more that espically when I was always pissed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone unless I saw a face pic. I also wouldn't exchange a face pic with someone unless we've being chatting for a while. You can exchange here and remove as soon as the other person has seen it . "

In a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had a lady contact us on here yesterday, after the initial pleasantries were said the second question was can i have a face pic, When we declined the face pic request the conversation abruptly ceased. One has to wonder the motives for not even starting a conversation first but to demand a face pic even before chatting? "

Happened me quite a lot for a couple of years but I got used to it but yeah you gota wonder

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By *eelick-SwingersCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my good friend Kendrick Lamar once said.

I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop Show me something natural!!

Plenty of them but I think you have to look harder

I found lots of sexy ladies 50+ without the PS amendments. How they look in real (on cam) were exactly what Ive seen on the photos

Ah yeah totally ,loads of them out there just aswell they don’t have Snapchat. Worst thing is getting a face pic with the dog ears "

Hahaha

The ones I know don't use silly features on Snapchat

I know what do you have in mind...

Hey! Sometimes they are very funny photos!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I never feel nervous about sending face pics.

Probably because I usually just send someone else's pic.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I never feel nervous about sending face pics.

Probably because I usually just send someone else's pic. "

Its a bit like that game as kids where the paper was folded and you had to draw the rest of the body in

You handsome devil Michael but at least remember to send the same pic...I have 12 different face pics of you and not a Weiner in sight!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I never feel nervous about sending face pics.

Probably because I usually just send someone else's pic.

Its a bit like that game as kids where the paper was folded and you had to draw the rest of the body in

You handsome devil Michael but at least remember to send the same pic...I have 12 different face pics of you and not a Weiner in sight! "

Well I can fix that if you want?

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I never feel nervous about sending face pics.

Probably because I usually just send someone else's pic.

Its a bit like that game as kids where the paper was folded and you had to draw the rest of the body in

You handsome devil Michael but at least remember to send the same pic...I have 12 different face pics of you and not a Weiner in sight!

Well I can fix that if you want? "

Don't worry M, I'll send some of mine for you

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