FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let's be real there not.many lads that are allowed to.play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only there was around... Mmm.. If only...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"

How about you actually put it on your profile that you're looking for men for a start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

hi. there are a lot of good ones me for one but seem a lot of couple not reply to single guys.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?

How about you actually put it on your profile that you're looking for men for a start...

They have they are looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After Covid, meet for a social to see how ye get on. Meet a few guys and the ones you like and get on add them to a list....either Friend or Hot depending on each.

Then if ye are looking for a meet, preplanning is always preferred...even a few days in advance. Some people might think that a single guy is just waiting on Fabs 24/7 for a meet and while that can happen also and work out, a bit of preplanning is always good especially with the guys added to 'the list'.

- F

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There's plenty of decent men on here .Take the time to actually chat to people and you'll find them .And go looking at profiles and find those that interest you and contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you just have to put time In and suss them out

Chat and see if they can hold a convo, if they can't then that's unlikely they would be a good meet.

I think a lot of guys like the idea of meeting, but when it comes to actually doing it they shit themselves and don't go ahead with it

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"After Covid, meet for a social to see how ye get on. Meet a few guys and the ones you like and get on add them to a list....either Friend or Hot depending on each.

- F "

You'd think that would be the logical and most effective action plan.

In reality - once we mention that a social to us is no more than a social and there won't be any sexual activities happening because well.. it'd a social... 99% of guys suddenly get overtime, family birthdays to go to, friends/family randomly popping in last minute, cars break down, sudden funerals to attend... list is endless.. so go figure

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh"

haha Brilliant. Exactly

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Summon them ..... they will come in their droves .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Summon them ..... they will come in their droves .....

Thread closed then...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What's a muscular grown man? Does that involve roids?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told you just click your fingers

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By *erlincorkMan
over a year ago

London

Does ‘being muscular’ count if it’s insulated??

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"

If you figure this out pls share with the single women

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step! "

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I was told you just click your fingers

That's when you want us to disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh"

He Shoots. He scores

Exactamondoo...

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd"

Hahaha i like that one.

Arent we all slightly odd though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told you just click your fingers

That's when you want us to disappear "

I'm doing it wrong than

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd

Hahaha i like that one.

Arent we all slightly odd though?"

Of course. If you are aware of that fact it's a huge plus

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I was told you just click your fingers

That's when you want us to disappear

I'm doing it wrong than "

Just remember Thanos

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd"

I lolled

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd

I lolled"

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant understand how this is an issue for couples given the amount of men on here.

And requesting a social before hand seems a logical and necessary step!

The odds are good, but the goods are often odd"

I like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of really decent single Guys here. Some definitely stand out more than others.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"There are lots of really decent single Guys here. Some definitely stand out more than others. "

I second that I know a good few decent ones..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh they are many. just talk nice

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

You'll have to put in the groundwork, not just wait for them to come a knockin'

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"
Tough life for you,

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?Tough life for you,

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Go on Fab Forum on the weekend !! it's called deduction by another word,but may not be into couples.Us Singles fussy too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does ‘being muscular’ count if it’s insulated??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a sex site, and I’m sure every guy states what’s he looking for and also he’s status if he’s single or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio of guys is massive and with the amount of messages some people get it must be hard. I have had some great chats with ladies here who have said sorry not my type but we still chatted. Cant be everyone's type

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

It can be tricky to meet a guy that offers what you want.

And agree with poster above a lot (not all) will become very busy when you mention a social meet will happen first. (The list of excuses we have got is entertainment in itself)

That said we have met some really nice guys,which have led to repeat meets even after they have left the site.

Maybe put on profile what you are both looking for in a guy. It will show what ye are looking for and it will show what guys are actually reading your profile.

Also it could a lot of the genuine guys aren't mailing as much at the moment because they don't want to meet because of the pandemic.

When ye have a good meet it will be so worth it , trust us

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By *ucky.Mr.FMan
over a year ago

Right Here

Like the good lord Jebus, I hope all single men get a rise today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"
This Post is definitely from male half of the couple, you are saying no good single male on here u can chat to, u need to check yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So 90% of men in this country are of no good and odd, except those that are married,by reading all this comment from women here,i can't stop laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll have to put in the groundwork, not just wait for them to come a knockin'

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Groundwork, this is not a rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be chemistry and a certain amount of build up. That always adds to the intrigue. Always some amount of luck involved as well.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"

It takes time and a fair amount of effort. Easy to find lads, but lads that meet your criteria, lads the understand the situation and their role (depending on what your looking for), lads that can hold a conversation beyond either small talk or immediately in the hard chat, and lads that are actually single are extremely rare.

The term unicorn gets used for single females a bit but could easily apply to a single male depending on the couples requirements

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?

The term unicorn gets used for single females a bit but could easily apply to a single male depending on the couples requirements"

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh"

Aw shite

(I jokes...obvs!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?"

I like to think I’m a decent honest guy, I’m here with pure intentions but find it incredibly difficult to genuinely gauge some interest! Il always be polite and respectful when messaging anyone, maybe that’s my downfall to formal ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh

Aw shite

(I jokes...obvs!) "

Sorry Kall my French maids outfit is in the dry cleaner

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"There everywhere when you don’t want them and when your looking no good ones !

How to pick a good single guys or even one that’s allowed play alone ?

Just be yourself and be a decent bloke and you’ll be fine. Not everyone is going to reply and be interested but if you come across as a genuine enough person then you’re okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers for your input it’s appreciated, going by your advice il keep doing what I’m doing!..haha sometimes it’s feels like the age old saying “nice guys finish last” ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers for your input it’s appreciated, going by your advice il keep doing what I’m doing!..haha sometimes it’s feels like the age old saying “nice guys finish last” ??"

There more someone says how nice and genuine they are in here there more I'm convinced they eat puppies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha yeah you make a valid point tbh ?????

Does stink of despair.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

"Ya I'm assuming the good ones don't wait around to be summoned like a servant tbh

Aw shite

(I jokes...obvs!)

Sorry Kall my French maids outfit is in the dry cleaner "

Naked butler?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some of us abide by the suggested parameters, as in not sending any more messages when not replied to and move on so maybe that's part of the problem, no way of knowing what anyone is like without engaging in some conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of Single guys here can sometimes be like a dog in heat they will say or do anything and everything just to empty the bag , for instant gratification.

More are fantasy realm hide under the covers and pull the front off themselves before rolling over and going to sleep.

Some do ok up to a certain point and could be just outside the hotel room door and bottle it. Could be nerves , the thought of wtf am I doing or , Jeez the Husband is there I can't go through with this .

Couples where the dynamic is that Mr or Mrs can play alone with the full knowledge before a meet are out there , but the forums are definitely a good place to start.

Thing's are a bit shit at the minute with meeting in person but that's when creativity kicks in. There are messaging platforms that you can chat with out giving over your phone details. The pm system here is pretty decent too.

As for finding/picking a single guy. The Social events were really good, and the verification that guys have on their profile are pretty much the equivalent of a Resume. Look who gave the verification and possibly drop them a message for a bit more information.

Red flags are ,

Refusing to send a face pic,

If a couple only male replies,

Reluctant to chat on messaging,

Not able to talk on the phone,

(Occasionally only available at specific times /location)

It's important they understand the dynamics and that you alongside your partner and guest discuss boundaries, ground rules and what you hope to get from the meet, so long as everyone is on the same page it makes for an absolutely cracking playdate/meet.

Happy Swinging guys

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Considering that the OP hasn't returned to this thread since the day he posted it, I think this was the 'summons' and anyone who wishes to 'apply' should pm them, not go to the bother of typing out advice.

Secondly OP, you have been here previously with a single male profile and thus already have a good idea of how to find a decent guy.

Good luck with your 'search'. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys reguarly get some flak here but honestly there are folk in all categories that let the side down.

Lets not generalise, treat individual profiles on merit with consistent respectful communication being a key principal. Thats my 2cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys reguarly get some flak here but honestly there are folk in all categories that let the side down.

Lets not generalise, treat individual profiles on merit with consistent respectful communication being a key principal. Thats my 2cents"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as chilli c...

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