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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive.. "

Id say at the moment its something else, will be interesting to watch it change when restrictions are lifted

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

At the moment has to be something different,in saying that I never classified it as a sex site if I never met anyone again id be happy chat away on the forum page and attend some social nights.. Unfortunately with everything going on it's on the back burner for now but in time it will pass...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I'd say it's a swingers site

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's different things to different people but usually when it has been described in the forums as a sex site that has been shot down in flames.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I think its a sex site outside the forums which themselves must only represent a very minor part of the site

You only have to look at the amount of party pictures up after every weekend to realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of sex going on, you've only got to glance at your local updates to see that

There's also a lot of members not having sex for obvious reasons

Quite divided at the moment

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Think if we all called it sex site and treated it just like a random hook up site for quick shags with strangers never to be seen again - fab would become quite a dodgy place for people who don't know/don't care/never want to experience what is actually good, satisfying sex.

So let's let fab remain what it is called - fab swingers. A swingers site which allows a lot more connection, friendships and actual communities of like minded people to form rather than just a quick suck fuck and go (while there's nothing wrong with it either, I'd rather meet someone I already formed a connection with for that particular purpose).

Also to add off topic thought: maybe more women would be able to live out a fantasy of being fucked by a complete stranger, only most fear not to be murdered by some psycho.

Same goes for men: random invitations to have sex with gorgeous woman in a middle of the night more often than not end up too good to be true and end up in some form of not most pleasant events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s social networking for swingers. Not everyone here is here for sex, but swinging it the thing that has brought us all together

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I think it’s social networking for swingers. Not everyone here is here for sex, but swinging it the thing that has brought us all together "

Was literally about to type the same thing!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


".... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive.. "
any site where you sign up looking for sex as the ultimate aim is a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive.. any site where you sign up looking for sex as the ultimate aim is a sex site. "

Yeah but it's a bit different to Irish Escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s social networking for swingers. Not everyone here is here for sex, but swinging it the thing that has brought us all together

Was literally about to type the same thing!"

Alot of people here aren't interested in swinging either though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s social networking for swingers. Not everyone here is here for sex, but swinging it the thing that has brought us all together

Was literally about to type the same thing!

Alot of people here aren't interested in swinging either though"

I was going to say that the fact that people use something for a purpose other than that which was intended doesn’t change the purpose of the thing, but it actually kinda does.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Just my own thoughts. Its whatever you want it to be. If its a suck and fuck you want chances are you'll find it. If its a regular fb you want, chances are you'll connect with someone and become just that. Friendships, plenty to be found. Forum chit chat, never shuts up. Parties, when its not covid a great option. Fab is fab, whatever your perception of it is your experience and thats what fab is to you. While we may all chat to each other our experiences are all personal. Remember though opinions are like assholes, we all have em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my own thoughts. Its whatever you want it to be. If its a suck and fuck you want chances are you'll find it. If its a regular fb you want, chances are you'll connect with someone and become just that. Friendships, plenty to be found. Forum chit chat, never shuts up. Parties, when its not covid a great option. Fab is fab, whatever your perception of it is your experience and thats what fab is to you. While we may all chat to each other our experiences are all personal. Remember though opinions are like assholes, we all have em

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Well said

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Just my own thoughts. Its whatever you want it to be. If its a suck and fuck you want chances are you'll find it. If its a regular fb you want, chances are you'll connect with someone and become just that. Friendships, plenty to be found. Forum chit chat, never shuts up. Parties, when its not covid a great option. Fab is fab, whatever your perception of it is your experience and thats what fab is to you. While we may all chat to each other our experiences are all personal. Remember though opinions are like assholes, we all have em

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I was just about to post something very similar to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my own thoughts. Its whatever you want it to be. If its a suck and fuck you want chances are you'll find it. If its a regular fb you want, chances are you'll connect with someone and become just that. Friendships, plenty to be found. Forum chit chat, never shuts up. Parties, when its not covid a great option. Fab is fab, whatever your perception of it is your experience and thats what fab is to you. While we may all chat to each other our experiences are all personal. Remember though opinions are like assholes, we all have em

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Yep it's whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people use it for advice, others to source tradesmen

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I'd say it's a swingers site"

I agree, swinging isn't just sex. It's about building connections and understanding the dynamics of more than one person in the mix. Its about openness, boundaries, respect and trust. I think that is why the social scene is so important and such a success.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


".... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive.. any site where you sign up looking for sex as the ultimate aim is a sex site.

Yeah but it's a bit different to Irish Escorts

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irish escorts you pay for sex. the vast majority sign up here with sex as the goal and there is an awful lot who just see the site as a chance for no strings fun and have no interest in swinging.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I thought the clue was in the name.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all here for different reasons...

Me personally, I'll be honest... I got bored of dating sites & joined here... This site sure ain't boring... I'll say no more. We're all entitled to use this site as we wish within reason of course & within site rules...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions "

What he said

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions "

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site."

Very good point about the threads. Why no replies, help with my profile, im out of here threads, mostly from newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a social networking website that connects people who practice non monogamy, be they couples or singles.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

the bottom line is you try interact on here same way as u would on any site like it. chat to men/ women, build up a rapport, meet, see if there is an attraction and have sex eventually. there is more too the site for true swingers but the ultimate aim for the large majority signing up is sex. thats the bottom line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... a sex site or something else. Had this discussion with a beauty today and the conclusion was indecisive.. "

Depends on who your talking to I reckon !

Some are straight out brash firing out phone numbers in the first sentence talking madness !

Then you have other people that treat it as a site just to meet new people not necessarily just to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site."

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^

``Some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex`` quote from comment above.

The amount of mail most Females receive saying meet now... I'm available now... from total strangers is unreal. Jassssssuuusss do peeps honestly think that I or any other Female or Male would meet a total unverified stranger just like that wtf & in the middle of the night

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site.

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^

``Some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex`` quote from comment above.

The amount of mail most Females receive saying meet now... I'm available now... from total strangers is unreal. Jassssssuuusss do peeps honestly think that I or any other Female or Male would meet a total unverified stranger just like that wtf & in the middle of the night "
no, but the treatment some unverified males get on here is harsh. very very few women are willing to take a chance and

meet a lad whose unverified so how is he supposed to get a start on the site? we all started in the same place. as unverified users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site.

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^

``Some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex`` quote from comment above.

The amount of mail most Females receive saying meet now... I'm available now... from total strangers is unreal. Jassssssuuusss do peeps honestly think that I or any other Female or Male would meet a total unverified stranger just like that wtf & in the middle of the night no, but the treatment some unverified males get on here is harsh. very very few women are willing to take a chance and

meet a lad whose unverified so how is he supposed to get a start on the site? we all started in the same place. as unverified users. "

^^^^^^^^

I shouldn't have said unverified... Regardless of verified or not... I'm not going to meet a total stranger within minutes of a first msg... & yes imagine... some `Men` actually expect that from this site.

I personally need to chat for ages before a meet... too build up a rapport/connection/trust/chemistry or whatever.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

In your opinion it's a sex site but you also praised the diversity of people and opinions. So for me it's a swingers site.

I personally think, and this is aimed at no one in particular, because there is so much more to the site geared at connecting and socialising with other swingers, there is a little bit more work involved and some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex hence way more threads about that than there are about this being a swingers site or a sex site.

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^

``Some that have the view of it being a sex site or hook up site can get very frustrated by the lack of instantaneous initiation sex`` quote from comment above.

The amount of mail most Females receive saying meet now... I'm available now... from total strangers is unreal. Jassssssuuusss do peeps honestly think that I or any other Female or Male would meet a total unverified stranger just like that wtf & in the middle of the night no, but the treatment some unverified males get on here is harsh. very very few women are willing to take a chance and

meet a lad whose unverified so how is he supposed to get a start on the site? we all started in the same place. as unverified users.

^^^^^^^^

I shouldn't have said unverified... Regardless of verified or not... I'm not going to meet a total stranger within minutes of a first msg... & yes imagine... some `Men` actually expect that from this site.

I personally need to chat for ages before a meet... too build up a rapport/connection/trust/chemistry or whatever. "
your last point is also interesting. there is only so much chatting through a screen u can do before things become repetitive. in my opinion the next step is needed whether that be a chat through video calling or whatever.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions "

Is all this thanking God going back to him leading you the way out of the catholic church onto a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

Is all this thanking God going back to him leading you the way out of the catholic church onto a sex site? "

The Catholic Church is the definitive sex site albeit behind a veneer of piousness

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I actually thought a couple of months ago that the majority of those that answered the question

" are you a swinger " on a thread said no.

Is it a sex site yes thank god

Is it more than that ...yes thank god

It means different things to different people and thank god for the diversity of people and opinions

Is all this thanking God going back to him leading you the way out of the catholic church onto a sex site? "

I was thinking as I typed it why are you saying thank God when I don't believe in God

I'll have to get a new phrase book

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