FabSwingers.com forum: Quality of Veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

HI All

Newbie here looking for some advise. Im being approached by men that are very well verified which is great but when i look closer at these they all appear to be from club meets and not down and dirty meets.

Have any other ladies come across this and has there been issues? Thx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HI All

Have any other ladies come across this and has there been issues? Thx x"

Club meets tend to be better in my opinion.....

They are harder to fake especially the ones from the club owners.

People varied from clubs tend to be more involved in the community and while that can't guarantee safety its a better indication the person is well thought of and acts accordingly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

Well nobody is going to post a bad review anyway so they are all subjective.

And what works for some won't work for others...

Talking to someone to make sure your on the same page and then hope for the best is all you can really do....

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Trust you instinct if something doesn't feel right then it probably isn't,

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Have fun and stay safe,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

What exactly do you mean by "quality" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck "

I agree it really is.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"HI All

Have any other ladies come across this and has there been issues? Thx x"

Always follow the trail of verifications. Look at who verified and look at how legit their profile comes across. On another thread, it was mentioned that people will try to verify people that were at clubs and parties in the hope that they don't remember everyone that they spoke to. Club owner or party host verifications are the best to go on. Trust your gut but never loose sight of where you are. Best of luck on your journey

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't go by veris people have I make up my own mind about people .The only reason a veri would matter even slightly is if I know the person who gave it would be one to cause any drama.

As for anything else I make up my own mind and what works for one won't work for another person .

And there is nothing wrong with club veris either and some people don't show their one on one veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is."

Is it? Ive done that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck "

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is."

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris."

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is.

Is it? Ive done that

Messaging a complete stranger for private details of a meet that I didn't feel the need to post in the veri I gave... yip creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris "

Brb I need to write more veris....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is.

Is it? Ive done that

It is, we've gotten them from women asking about men we've met, we delete unanswered

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris "

Exactly that. It's a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

Exactly that. It's a thing.

Or people who want to discuss someone you have both met in the past. No, no, just no. (99 times out of 100, the word "discreet" will be in their profile)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

Exactly that. It's a thing.

Or people who want to discuss someone you have both met in the past. No, no, just no. (99 times out of 100, the word "discreet" will be in their profile) "

I've had women tell me about guys asking to meet and name dropping another fabber as a badge of honour.

I've never been asked about anyone I've met but I know of people who get in touch with others not to find out about someone they've verified but to check out the competition.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I hid all my veris a year ago due to a stalker issue and even though that seems to have stopped now I can't display them because of restrictions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

Exactly that. It's a thing.

Wow! Every day is a schoolday on fab

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

Exactly that. It's a thing.

Wow! Every day is a schoolday on fab

Ye I've seen that on more than one occasion seems very weird to me also .

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You also have to raise an eyebrow at new profiles that are already verified 2 weeks or less after joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok points taken

rookie error i guess.

At the time i thought of it as a way of networking with ladies on here that i may not have an opportunity to say hi to otherwise.

Thanks for posting the question OP.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

And make notes...keeps me busy.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"You also have to raise an eyebrow at new profiles that are already verified 2 weeks or less after joining. "

Not really ive verfied people who ive met in the past that left and rejoined a while later, sometimes a day or so after they open a new profile...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes but they aren't newbies

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Yes but they aren't newbies"

But how can you tell who's a newbie or just someone that rejoined?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes but they aren't newbies

But how can you tell who's a newbie or just someone that rejoined?"

That's part of the problem. Lots of"new" profiles with one cam or one hidden Veri who have been on the forums asking questions and starting threads and showing a greater knowledge of the site than they should have if they really are new.

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple
over a year ago

tipperary

We always check verifications and, if we see someone we know had left one, we might have gone and asked if we were interested.

Despite our couple profile being "new" we both are in the scene since years.

It is not crepy to do that. It is safe.

We have been in the lifestyle long enough to have experienced people very well verified acting as assholes and newbies being the most respectful people ever.

There is no perfect science but checking verifications and being able to talk to other people is what allow us to learn.

After all... If you go out with a friend and they invite someone you don't know and you like... Don't you ask your friend about them?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

I have got mails before asking about veris. I reply saying that the person is genuine and the rest is up to them to decide. On a safety level I reply. I don't discuss. There is a difference.

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

Its hard to tell at minute with veris as obvious meets are hidden but I never go by someone's veris and certainly wouldn't message someone to ask about meet they had with someone. Noone is going to like the exact same things as me and every experience is different.

I've obviously been back showing as a newbie even though I first joined over 10 years ago and been verified by past meets but ive never asked anyone to specifically verify me either.

As said previously noone is going to show a bad review not that most would give one about someone. I just find I like to know the person myself not by what someone else has said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always check verifications and, if we see someone we know had left one, we might have gone and asked if we were interested.

Despite our couple profile being "new" we both are in the scene since years.

It is not crepy to do that. It is safe.

We have been in the lifestyle long enough to have experienced people very well verified acting as assholes and newbies being the most respectful people ever.

There is no perfect science but checking verifications and being able to talk to other people is what allow us to learn.

After all... If you go out with a friend and they invite someone you don't know and you like... Don't you ask your friend about them?

Asking your friend and asking about safey concerns is a completely different scenario to asking random strangers about their sexual prowess

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

I agree, Club veris are better as these are people happy to be seen on the scene. As for quality, go by the chat, are you on the same wavelength and if so, meet them for coffee. Veris are overrated and often exaggerated, imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got mails before asking about veris. I reply saying that the person is genuine and the rest is up to them to decide. On a safety level I reply. I don't discuss. There is a difference. "

But I wouldn't be writing a veri for someone if I felt they weren't genuine or could be dangerous

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

I'm assuming you mean quality of sex.

From personal experience - sex is at its best when you meet a person you're genuinely attracted to and are on a same level as they are, and absolutely not someone who has 200 veris describing how good he can finger a woman and how he's going down for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got mails before asking about veris. I reply saying that the person is genuine and the rest is up to them to decide. On a safety level I reply. I don't discuss. There is a difference. "

That would have been my take on it - at safety level only.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

I'm assuming you mean quality of sex.

As far as quality / performance goes, I wouldn't believe a word of any veri on the site because (a) people lie out of politeness and (b) someone else's standards, likes, dislikes are different to mine.

I also had a really disappointing meet with someone who had 10+ glowing veris... were they lies or was he having an off day? Doesn't ultimately matter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

are you implying that because Im here a short while I should not have veris and the fact that i do is suspicious. Also because i have created a post on a forum to get some information that creates suspicion too? Seems I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

Think i should go back in my little lady box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are you implying that because Im here a short while I should not have veris and the fact that i do is suspicious. Also because i have created a post on a forum to get some information that creates suspicion too? Seems I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

Think i should go back in my little lady box

Use the reply and quote button it helps clarify which post your replying too.

RB wasn't referring to you he was talking about "new profiles" who have already gotten a verification. It can be a red flag that its a catfish profile. Not always but just one of the indicators people look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone message's me I do look at their verifications and follow the trail too as that can tell me a little more about who they are than a glowing verification. Also sometimes their photos can tell a little more about what they are into. I would never ask anyone about who they have met as its on their profile. Also if someone is actually being discussed and maybe not in a favourable light ask yourself is this because someone rebuffed them and they feel a character assassination is their revenge as that happens a lot here. Trust your instincts and when it does get to the stage of meeting then keep simple safety guidelines in your head and not take risks. I would prefer not to give or receive a verification as I like to keep some things private and I like to be discreet and expect the same from who I meet.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

I'm assuming you mean quality of sex.

I also had a really disappointing meet with someone who had 10+ glowing veris... were they lies or was he having an off day? Doesn't ultimately matter!"

Id a not so great meet with someone before and left them a glowing verfie regretted it after don't know if it was him or me or bit of both the attraction was there for me if im honest,but if anyone asked me about them id be honest and let them make there own mind up...

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I hid all my veris a year ago due to a stalker issue and even though that seems to have stopped now I can't display them because of restrictions."

Jeez I had to do the same! The guy began threatening a guy I had been seeing who had verified me. It was a nightmare for weeks!

I don’t look at veris, unless something doesn’t feel right. Everyone’s different though. Go by your gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think i should go back in my little lady box

Use the reply and quote button it helps clarify which post your replying too.

It certainly did not read like that to me. Thx for replying advice.....see defo newbie lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

I'm assuming you mean quality of sex.

I also had a really disappointing meet with someone who had 10+ glowing veris... were they lies or was he having an off day? Doesn't ultimately matter!

I know im going against the majority here but I would have thought it would be a good thing to follow up on someones verification.Why show where it came from otherwise. You don't have to give the nuts and bolts the meet just confirm the person is genuine. I for one scrutinise veris to check for their validity and so far so good but lately I've come across some very well verified but they were " in passing" veris which tells very little.

Anyway thank you for all your advise. Greatly appreciated B

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

I haven't done it myself, but especially from a ladies point of view i think its an acceptable thing to message a previous veri of someone.. a veri is a character reference after all and can help ease someone's anxiety in regards to safety etc

I mean to message asking for details of a meet etc might be an odd one, but a message to ensure the veri still stands (ie. They didnt turn into a total dick after the veri) and for a quick check on the way the person conducts themselves throughout their fab experience rather than just on a one off "performance" shouldnt be such a big deal ,should it?

Is that really so creepy? In my own opinion taking issue with such a thing happening would be more creepy.. i mean what is there to hide?

There are plenty who can build a nice platform here on fab.. however it doesnt entirely mean its an accurate representation of who they truly are.. it is afterall built by the person selling that perception of themselves.

An outside opinion can never hurt.. plus its down to the individual to display their veris.

If you are proud enough to display them, then you should be confident enough that they will stand to you should anyone partake in some follow up.

Its like submitting a CV and then saying your potential employer is a creep for actually checking of your references are legit/still accurate.. hence "references available upon request"

Open your info to a public domain, it becomes public knowledge and each is entitled to follow up how they see fit.

But hey, each to their own opinion and all that... I as a an would never feel the need... but then I as a man never really feel the vulnerability or potential fear of putting myself in private/secret scenario with someone who can physically overpower me or hurt me amongst other things.

A failure to understand and comprehend that danger and that its a very real and common thing... now that to me is creepy!

Just my 2 cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't done it myself, but especially from a ladies point of view i think its an acceptable thing to message a previous veri of someone.. a veri is a character reference after all and can help ease someone's anxiety in regards to safety etc

Is that really so creepy? In my own opinion taking issue with such a thing happening would be more creepy.. i mean what is there to hide?

An outside opinion can never hurt.. plus its down to the individual to display their veris.

If you are proud enough to display them, then you should be confident enough that they will stand to you should anyone partake in some follow up.

Its like submitting a CV and then saying your potential employer is a creep for actually checking of your references are legit/still accurate.. hence "references available upon request"

Open your info to a public domain, it becomes public knowledge and each is entitled to follow up how they see fit.

A failure to understand and comprehend that danger and that its a very real and common thing... now that to me is creepy!

Just my 2 cents

You can block someone you've verified and they will no longer be able to display the veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust my own instincts about people over those of other strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I trust my own instincts about people over those of other strangers "

I absolutely agree. Trust your instincts.Don't put yourself in compromising situations and stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged another woman about a veri she gave a guy. It was a little vague and my gut feeling wasn't right.

Only recently heard about extremely inappropriate behaviour at a party by a guy who was verified by two women so can't judge someone just by their veris.

As for quality? Do you mean sex wise? Again don't go by that either just because someone rocked their boat doesn't mean they will even float yours

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

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"I have messaged another woman about a veri she gave a guy. It was a little vague and my gut feeling wasn't right.

Only recently heard about extremely inappropriate behaviour at a party by a guy who was verified by two women so can't judge someone just by their veris.

As for quality? Do you mean sex wise? Again don't go by that either just because someone rocked their boat doesn't mean they will even float yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down. "

I suppose i should clarify it was more the quality of the "meet" and not so much the fuck but i get how the two could be closely linked

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Everyone has their own view and strategy when it comes to veris. I myself regard social/club veris as useless. Most know how to behave in public and can drink a coffee without spilling it, yet it could be a complete different story behind closed doors. And I think it's perfectly fine to doublecheck for safety reasons with someone who verified the person of interest.

As for play veris, you can draw some information out of it by reading inbetween the lines but as we're all individual and look for different things it often means what's good for one might not be for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down.

I suppose i should clarify it was more the quality of the "meet" and not so much the fuck but i get how the two could be closely linked

I think quality is quite a vague word. What's quality to me might be totally different to you. I always meet a guy socially first and I've had a few where I've come away thinking meh not so sure to than meet them again and literally wait to jump on them lol

My advice is get chatting on forums and make your own decisions whether someone is for you. And be weary of anyone bad mouthing someone else there is always two sides to a story. And be careful who you trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down.

I suppose i should clarify it was more the quality of the "meet" and not so much the fuck but i get how the two could be closely linked

Down to individual chemistry in my view

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Is that really so creepy? In my own opinion taking issue with such a thing happening would be more creepy.. i mean what is there to hide?

An outside opinion can never hurt.. plus its down to the individual to display their veris.

If you are proud enough to display them, then you should be confident enough that they will stand to you should anyone partake in some follow up.

Its like submitting a CV and then saying your potential employer is a creep for actually checking of your references are legit/still accurate.. hence "references available upon request"

Open your info to a public domain, it becomes public knowledge and each is entitled to follow up how they see fit.

A failure to understand and comprehend that danger and that its a very real and common thing... now that to me is creepy!

Just my 2 cents

I prefer to make up my own mind about someone. And usually if you chat for any length of time before a meet even a social you normally get a good idea of someone and red flags tend to show if you chat for a while .

I've never felt the need to ask anyone about someone that they met if I felt that nervous about meeting I simply wouldn't meet off here and having a social as well before anything else will let you know if there is a connection before taking things farther.

And I wouldn't veri anyone who I thought was dodgy or a danger to anyone to meet off here .It would be pointless to anyone as no one will show a bad veri anyhow .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an opinion, too much trust is attached to verifications, some people throw them around like spaghetti, rather than taking the time to chat

One profile says joined 24 hours ago, last online 23 hours ago, 4 verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A failure to understand and comprehend that danger and that its a very real and common thing... now that to me is creepy!

Just my 2 cents

The creepy comment was in relation to people asking others about the "quality" of the meet. As in the sexual details.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down.

I suppose i should clarify it was more the quality of the "meet" and not so much the fuck but i get how the two could be closely linked

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just an opinion, too much trust is attached to verifications, some people throw them around like spaghetti, rather than taking the time to chat

One profile says joined 24 hours ago, last online 23 hours ago, 4 verifications"

But as mentioned before, people who have been here before can delete and remake their profile and their actual friends and past meets can re-verify them. Length of profile doesn't automatically mean someone is dodgy either!

I think the conclusion is not to put much stock in veris either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just an opinion, too much trust is attached to verifications, some people throw them around like spaghetti, rather than taking the time to chat

One profile says joined 24 hours ago, last online 23 hours ago, 4 verifications

I think the conclusion is not to put much stock in veris either way."

Just make your own mind up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is."

Awful weird behaviour at best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really will have to make your own mind up on veris. If someone has 100 veris, is that good or bad?? Were the veris from meet and greets or sexual ones??. You could keep asking these questions for ever. Just go with your gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

Almost as creepy as those that deliberately work their way through someone else's veris.

As in try and have meets with the same Veris

Exactly that. It's a thing.

Or people who want to discuss someone you have both met in the past. No, no, just no. (99 times out of 100, the word "discreet" will be in their profile)

I've had women tell me about guys asking to meet and name dropping another fabber as a badge of honour.

I've never been asked about anyone I've met but I know of people who get in touch with others not to find out about someone they've verified but to check out the competition."

I’ve had a few women name drop a few guys who they thought it would sound cool to bring them up to me or to either impress me or I dunno increase their desirability or status in my head - a kind of a “oh I’ll get him to think he has to up his game” vibe.

It’s really transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok points taken

rookie error i guess.

At the time i thought of it as a way of networking with ladies on here that i may not have an opportunity to say hi to otherwise.

Thanks for posting the question OP.

Surely you can network with ladies without discussing their previous meets? Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree about the verification s from club owners. Any others might not be the same type of person that would be for you.Some people leave just a basic verification and that means yes the person showed up and that's about it.Better off to judge for urself.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"I have got mails before asking about veris. I reply saying that the person is genuine and the rest is up to them to decide. On a safety level I reply. I don't discuss. There is a difference.

But I wouldn't be writing a veri for someone if I felt they weren't genuine or could be dangerous

Nor would I. We are on a sex site. I trust my gut but for everything that goes on that we are aware of, there's way more that we are not aware of. If a woman messaged and simply asked is this person legit, I would say yes, I stand by my verification. I would not discuss anything beyond that. I would also check the profile of person messaging me.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I have got mails before asking about veris. I reply saying that the person is genuine and the rest is up to them to decide. On a safety level I reply. I don't discuss. There is a difference.

But I wouldn't be writing a veri for someone if I felt they weren't genuine or could be dangerous

Same, I don't think I'd be answering a query like that unless I'd seen the person around before or they were a reasonably established user.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Anyway, I believe the OP was asking about what people are like to fuck, only one way to find that out. One person's Don Juan is another's big let-down.

I suppose i should clarify it was more the quality of the "meet" and not so much the fuck but i get how the two could be closely linked

"when i look closer at these they all appear to be from club meets and not down and dirty meets." Think this line got everyone confused. As try as I might I can't seem to find the difference between "dirty meet" and "a fuck".

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

You could also contact the people that gave it and ask them,

Oh god noooo don't do that its creepy as fuck

I agree it really is."

It is extremely. Make your own mind up. Not what someone else wrote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are both informative and useless all at the same time. They dont represent the truth of a moment. They are the swinging version of getting your leg cast signed by your class mates. People often lie. People sometimes exaggerate. We used verifications as a way to see dynamics. We found we could get a hint of the people by the verifications. A little bit of personality sometimes peeks through. We also found that sometimes the in person interaction didnt sometimes match the verifications.

To the OP all you can do is trust your gut. Chat to people and if they make you feel uncomfortable or something looks like a red flag, then put them back in the pile.

Swinging teaches you patience. You have to sift through a lot time wasters and unfortunate bad timing to find what you are looking for

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Just to remind everyone, the main reason for a verification is to say that Yes they turned up and Yes their photos are representative of the actual person.

That's all the original intention of them are.

As fo quality, see Casey's comment.

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over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

I can't mail u but perhaps u might be able to mail me .

Il go through a few random verifications on someone's profile and translate what they REALLY mean . Like what the validations is saying with out saying it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

I can't mail u but perhaps u might be able to mail me .

Il go through a few random verifications on someone's profile and translate what they REALLY mean . Like what the validations is saying with out saying it! "

Sure why not share your knowledge with the rest of us

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

I can't mail u but perhaps u might be able to mail me .

Il go through a few random verifications on someone's profile and translate what they REALLY mean . Like what the validations is saying with out saying it!

Sure why not share your knowledge with the rest of us

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over a year ago

An awful lot of verifications can be full of shit. Exaggerating is only one issue with them.

They have more potential to put me off someone than they have of reassuring me.

When you see the amount of cliches people use it really makes me doubt how good these meets could possibly have been when people can’t get past writing cliches.

For me, if a person hasn’t enough imagination to write a REAL and proper and unique verification lacking in cliches, then I can’t see how the sex would be any way memorable with them either.

I mean, the amount of men who write “this woman deserves respect” just because either they find her hot or they got fucked, is hilarious.

Shouldn’t everyone person, man or woman, deserve respect until shown otherwise?

Like I say, I could be into a woman and then I come across verifications she has left for guys, and the poor writing, the cliches and the exaggeration totally put me off. Lots of times I wish I hadn’t seen them as they disappoint me. There is some serious lacking in intelligence in so many of them.

So, I think they can tell you some stuff, at least in terms of who to rule out and who appears full of shit. Of course the old adage still applies - how much of someone’s personality or fab online presence do we feel we can ignore because we want sex

In terms of safety, they tell you jack shit really. People can change, show their true colours later, or you just get to know them better later.

Also, don’t discount whisper campaigns being orchestrated by some people who have been rejected and them then trying to tarnish someone as dangerous or shit in bed simply because the old veil of jealousy has descended. This is something that the masterful bullies and secret letter writers are good at

In essence, you’ll learn little from verifications except maybe enough in the negative sense. After that you must use your own cop on, and never mind believing the half of what people tell you in private either as likely you don’t know the person feeding you the info privately too well either

Aren’t I a ray of sunshine on this hump day

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over a year ago

"An awful lot of verifications can be full of shit. Exaggerating is only one issue with them.

They have more potential to put me off someone than they have of reassuring me.

When you see the amount of cliches people use it really makes me doubt how good these meets could possibly have been when people can’t get past writing cliches.

For me, if a person hasn’t enough imagination to write a REAL and proper and unique verification lacking in cliches, then I can’t see how the sex would be any way memorable with them either.

I mean, the amount of men who write “this woman deserves respect” just because either they find her hot or they got fucked, is hilarious.

Shouldn’t everyone person, man or woman, deserve respect until shown otherwise?

In terms of safety, they tell you jack shit really. People can change, show their true colours later, or you just get to know them better later.

Aren’t I a ray of sunshine on this hump day

Have to agree on most of above , use your own cop on or gut feeling and take a veri with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An awful lot of verifications can be full of shit. Exaggerating is only one issue with them.

They have more potential to put me off someone than they have of reassuring me.

When you see the amount of cliches people use it really makes me doubt how good these meets could possibly have been when people can’t get past writing cliches.

For me, if a person hasn’t enough imagination to write a REAL and proper and unique verification lacking in cliches, then I can’t see how the sex would be any way memorable with them either.

I mean, the amount of men who write “this woman deserves respect” just because either they find her hot or they got fucked, is hilarious.

Shouldn’t everyone person, man or woman, deserve respect until shown otherwise?

In terms of safety, they tell you jack shit really. People can change, show their true colours later, or you just get to know them better later.

Aren’t I a ray of sunshine on this hump day

I do agree with a lot of what you are saying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HI All

Have any other ladies come across this and has there been issues? Thx x

Club meets tend to be better in my opinion.....

They are harder to fake especially the ones from the club owners.

People varied from clubs tend to be more involved in the community and while that can't guarantee safety its a better indication the person is well thought of and acts accordingly "

Partially agree with you.

They may behave well in the club but being a completely jerks when meeting in person

OP, if I may advise you , please check not only verifications but only try to know the person better before you decide the coffee meet in the cars where you can still feel safe but have the opportunity to talk to this person face to face.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

Doubt he will get one after that he basically called people stupid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

You up for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

Doubt he will get one after that he basically called people stupid.."

And where might that be? I think only those who cliche the hell out of things will be offended, or those who exaggerate, or those who lie, or those or carry out whisper campaigns, or those lacking in imagination to write a short, unique to the point review without resorting to tropes or blandness

My guess is that only those who feel called stupid will “feel attacked” as the young wans say. And sure those without confidence don’t appeal to me.

I’m surprised an honest comment on verifications highlighting the many pitfalls of it has irked you. Maybe you feel seen?

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over a year ago

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

You up for it?

Once I can get outta the county ill treat you with respect like you have never been treated with respect before

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over a year ago

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

You up for it?

Once I can get outta the county ill treat you with respect like you have never been treated with respect before"

Oh sounds delightful dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I watch?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

You up for it?

Once I can get outta the county ill treat you with respect like you have never been treated with respect before

Oh sounds delightful dear

Whoooo hooooooo mad passion angry sex, fuck like ye hate each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs someone give man at large a ride already

You up for it?

Once I can get outta the county ill treat you with respect like you have never been treated with respect before

Oh sounds delightful dear

Whoooo hooooooo mad passion angry sex, fuck like ye hate each other

It’ll be glorious

I’m actually totally flummoxed as to what his issue with me is. It’s very subverted or passions aggressive

Maybe all that will add to the ride quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch? "

Only if you promise to join in

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in "

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?"

Tbh I think all you're getting is verification that they are who they say they are.

After that it's up to you.

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over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

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over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

I'll just politely fuck off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

I'll just politely fuck off then

You can watch if you want, but I have to admit to preferring Madame

Soz

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

I'll just politely fuck off then

Ahh but you are part of what made it interesting

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good? "

Then they are veri veri fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake"

That’s veri veri insightful of you

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good!

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over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good! "

But many’s the person is “fab” great

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good!

But many’s the person is “fab” great

Fab great

Fab straight

Fab hate

Fab late

Best I think is the oh my favourite Fabber in all 300 veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

I'll just politely fuck off then

Ahh but you are part of what made it interesting "

Private viewings only

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

I'll just politely fuck off then

Ahh but you are part of what made it interesting

Private viewings only

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

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over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good!

But many’s the person is “fab” great

Fab great

Fab straight

Fab hate

Fab late

Best I think is the oh my favourite Fabber in all 300 veris

There are lots of favourite slabbers here anyway

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over a year ago

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good!

But many’s the person is “fab” great

Fab great

Fab straight

Fab hate

Fab late

Best I think is the oh my favourite Fabber in all 300 veris

There are lots of favourite slabbers here anyway

Favourite ones? Hmmm not sure about that.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game "

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

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over a year ago

"Can I watch?

Only if you promise to join in

Well if they are the conditions then throw me in

The more the merrier, Madame! What a welcome introduction you shall be. Maybe I will get the ride after all? Imagine

Stranger things have happened on here

And things have also happened with strangers I hear

Don't believe a word in the veris

But what if they’re veri veri good?

Then they are veri veri fake

That’s veri veri insightful of you

Nobody's that good!

But many’s the person is “fab” great

Fab great

Fab straight

Fab hate

Fab late

Best I think is the oh my favourite Fabber in all 300 veris

There are lots of slabbers on fab anyway

Favourite ones? Hmmm not sure about that.

Fixed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just when you thought it was safe to come out, out of the dark comes verifacations again and turns the fab world upside-down.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely "

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

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over a year ago

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts "

I still remember my scout knots too.....

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

I still remember my scout knots too..... "

Uh oh, Easy sailor

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over a year ago

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

I still remember my scout knots too.....

Uh oh, Easy sailor

I draw the line being dressed up as a sailor

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

I still remember my scout knots too.....

Uh oh, Easy sailor

I draw the line being dressed up as a sailor "

But I like seamen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I like seamen

Yes garda that is why I hang around the docks....swears

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

But I like seamen

Yes garda that is why I hang around the docks....swears"

Yep just sitting on the dock wasting time

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over a year ago

But I like seamen

Yes garda that is why I hang around the docks....swears

Yep just sitting on the dock wasting time "

Back to Georgia

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over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

But I like seamen

Yes garda that is why I hang around the docks....swears

Yep just sitting on the dock wasting time

Back to Georgia "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is it this is why I put this up , women have to be safe and know your not in danger , in the past this happen as result I had to leave as it took a lot out of me , so back to finish what I started etc so not as blind to things eyes wide open with better hopes I just want to see there views everyone has there own

"We always check verifications and, if we see someone we know had left one, we might have gone and asked if we were interested.

Despite our couple profile being "new" we both are in the scene since years.

It is not crepy to do that. It is safe.

We have been in the lifestyle long enough to have experienced people very well verified acting as assholes and newbies being the most respectful people ever.

There is no perfect science but checking verifications and being able to talk to other people is what allow us to learn.

After all... If you go out with a friend and they invite someone you don't know and you like... Don't you ask your friend about them?

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By *adboyandgirlCouple
over a year ago

Louth/M1

"HI All

Have any other ladies come across this and has there been issues? Thx x"

Sound like a ringer... your profile doesnt shout newbie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

I still remember my scout knots too.....

Uh oh, Easy sailor

I draw the line being dressed up as a sailor "

Oh can we have a pic of you dressed as a sailor

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Awww and I was hoping to completely corrupt you...just to ease the boredom

Jesus you only have a few months left.... you seriously need to up your game

I know...it's my age, everything starts slowing down and seizing up. I need an oil change

I've access to a pallet truck and slings atm... I could make it work so long it doesn't rain and you start seizing up completely

Am partial to a hoist of sorts

I still remember my scout knots too.....

Uh oh, Easy sailor

I draw the line being dressed up as a sailor

Oh can we have a pic of you dressed as a sailor

Ahoy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Of course there is an element of safety involved but there are also elements of information and ammunition gathering,nosiness and sizing up the competition.

I've spoken to at least a dozen women on here in the the last 4 years who have had problems with other women contacting most of their veris to arrange meets. It has never ended well.

Sometimes they befriended the other woman first to get an idea of how they might react but mostly they went directly to the guys themselves.

I know of 5 or 6 who have had people on their verification list contacted by others stirring trouble and a number of others who have blocked someone they verified because they regretted doing so.

I have been messaged by a woman with 3 active profiles all containing the same pics and similar bios telling me how she would never meet me because I had met and verified another woman.

I know for a fact from speaking to others in my small fab circle that these things have happened to all of them.

Verifications are easy to write but often they are not easy to live up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx for advice....i agree about safety aspect but what about quality?

Well nobody is going to post a bad review anyway so they are all subjective.

And what works for some won't work for others...

Talking to someone to make sure your on the same page and then hope for the best is all you can really do...."

Exactly

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