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What is a date

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By *j47 OP   Man
over a year ago

limerick

A romantic liaison between two people

A meeting of two adults for a laugh and drinks or maybe just a night out for dinner

A planned meet for getting ur kit of and shagging like bunnies till ur raw

Who ever said dates were just to pick a life partner

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Phoenix dactylifera

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It could be all of the above really. Depending on who you are meeting and what you agreed on.

I wouldn't consider meeting someone off here for a social a date tho.And I've never been on a dating site so I can't talk if it would be one of you meet from them .

I have never been on what a 'traditional' date which to me is going out with someone for a night or a meal and chat in the hope of a relationship. All my real life relationships seem to have been ones I more or less fell into after the other person and I have hung around in the same group of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A distant memory

Summat folk used to do before 2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, a date is something with a relationship element to it - real or potential. In the fab context, we do social meets, sex meets, and sometimes social meets that turn into sex meets, we don't do "dates"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A first date is really 2 people interviewing each other to see if they are compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the culmination of flirting, talking and expectation for whatever period of time preceeding it. By the time a date comes around 80% of the foreplay is completed.. If the chemistry is there, its distilled into physical pleasure and what you would hope is incredible sex.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

In my case I met someone for a coffee meet and got on great so then had Dinner straight afterwards

The next time 6 weeks later,we met at my hotel,went for a drive,a walk on a beach,dinner and drinks before we went back to the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it could be all of the above. It just depends on who you are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it could be all of the above. It just depends on who you are meeting. "

And how much you've spoken to them too I think... Get to know them as much as you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't consider a NSA meet as a date.

A date is an occasion with someone you either see a future with or want to see the possibility of one.

Or at the very least are willing to do more than one coffee social before the sexy bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A date could be anything you have mentioned, CJ.

It really depends on both people, their expectations, fantasies ()

It may lead to a strong friendship or just being friends with benefits - all to be decided by both parties

Or just once off meet as there us no chemistry, no similar interests, etc

It also could end with once off sex and both people decided not meeting again

Lots of scenarios, CJ

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've no idea, never had one.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"A distant memory

Summat folk used to do before 2020"

This, lol

For me a date is a planned and arranged outing, where two people get to know eachother, to determine compatibility and chemistry.

If you're already seeing that person, it's about spending time together outside the bedroom or the daily grind, making time for eachother as people, to have fun and a laugh and keep the chemistry alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you set a location, time and date to meet someone and you both show up. Thats a date to my mind. A simple planning matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea, never had one. "

You're not missing anything

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've no idea, never had one. "

Never had one either

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By *13_hercMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Dates are the fruit of the date palm which grows in many tropical regions of the world.

Almost all dates sold in Western countries are dried.

Dates are chewy with a sweet flavor. They are high in some important nutrients .

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I guess a date is a relative term, like the Schroedinger's cat..

I think both people have certain expectations out of the date, frequently diametrically opposed, and if negotiations are successful, common interests are pursued

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By *j47 OP   Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jayus for a four letter word it has so many different meanings to so many u can see how easy things can get confused in text

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

A lot on here call first meet, a date.

A first meet is to establish connection and verify that the other person is genuine.

A date is something that you go on with the potential to develop into something more with commitment.

I understand people who mix the two up and think nothing of it but I would always point it out just for clarity sake.

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yeah, a date definetly has more of an emotional connotation to it...

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By *j47 OP   Man
over a year ago

limerick


"A lot on here call first meet, a date.

A first meet is to establish connection and verify that the other person is genuine.

A date is something that you go on with the potential to develop into something more with commitment.

I understand people who mix the two up and think nothing of it but I would always point it out just for clarity sake. "

No more play dates for the kids

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"A lot on here call first meet, a date.

A first meet is to establish connection and verify that the other person is genuine.

A date is something that you go on with the potential to develop into something more with commitment.

I understand people who mix the two up and think nothing of it but I would always point it out just for clarity sake.

No more play dates for the kids "

Nope...mamas time to play

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