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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

That sounds beyond weird to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't classify this as a typical or standard request by any stretch of the imagination..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sounds beyond weird to me "
glad I’m not the only one to think so

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Jaysos, run! It's all wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't classify this as a typical or standard request by any stretch of the imagination.."
good I’m not weird then for thinking it’s strange

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Steer clear not something you'd wanna get into me thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jaysos, run! It's all wrong."
defo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Steer clear not something you'd wanna get into me thinks"
yip he’s now been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yeah that sound pretty normal....

Now if he mentions anything Bout the dog scratching at the door I'd be thinking twice .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah yeah that sound pretty normal....

Now if he mentions anything Bout the dog scratching at the door I'd be thinking twice ....."
hahahaha lolz he didn’t mention any pets but if I’d agreed to that you never know what would have been said next

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Were there dueling Banjos playing in the background?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He needs to cut back on his daily allowance of Porn hub

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By *jbootsMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Perfectly normal. If you're Fred West or Josef Fritzl.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Were there dueling Banjos playing in the background? "

There is now when I'm reading it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were there dueling Banjos playing in the background? "
could well have been I haven’t a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks glad I’m not weird then lol and suppose it could have been worse as he could have suggested me being in bed with them actually together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us"
didn’t really need to check I said it was weird and he’d said it’s normal and has happened a few times so I was no can’t have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it in the family haha! Op this is not normal behaviour no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep it in the family haha! Op this is not normal behaviour no. "
definitely not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it in the family haha! Op this is not normal behaviour no. definitely not normal "

Ah go on, see if they kiss the same.....and such!? Haha

That's crazy, some people aren't right. I'm all for being comfortable to TALK to your folks about anything but to share THAT much!? Yiiikes

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

What a fucking freak, his poor son....block and report him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a fucking freak, his poor son....block and report him"
report for what exactly as I said his son is an adult (24) so nothing would probably happen if he was reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing surprises me on here anymore, this is just another of the unusual requests and behaviour of some people on here.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

.He sounds like one of those guys on here who thinks any woman on here is up for anything .And a request like that is creepy as hell I don't care what age his son is.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "
porn fantasy related.

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I've had similar messages, a man in wanting to involve his mother in a sexual encounter I politely declined and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had similar messages, a man in wanting to involve his mother in a sexual encounter I politely declined and blocked "

WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds all manner of wrong and weird. I mean each to their own and all that jazz but yeah if be giving that one a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had similar messages, a man in wanting to involve his mother in a sexual encounter I politely declined and blocked "
.... I thought i had heard it all but I obviously hadn't What next?... Will they ask.. "Can I bring my pet hamster along with me?"... Wonders never cease

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's actually very mild in comparison to one I had a few years ago that I'm not allowed to discuss on here but it was off the scale wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him?

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

30'ish guy meets a 50ish woman in a city centre pub. They get on really well but the guy thinks she's a bit outside his age limit.

After much chat and flirting, she says "Would you like to come back to my place, it's only 5 minutes walk from here" .....seeing his indecision she adds "perhaps I could I tempt you with the promise of some mother and daughter action?" He says to himself "Go for it, when are you ever going to get a chance like this again? "

They leave the pub hurriedly and she almost drags him by the hand to her house.

As she opens the front door she shouts "Mammy I'm home....and I brought a fella for us to fu.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ Miss Reverie, you seem to be the choosen one so for these type of requests so and maybe more to come on the back of this thread

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I've had similar messages, a man in wanting to involve his mother in a sexual encounter I politely declined and blocked "

I was asked if my mother ever walked in and caught me mastubating and would I like to chat about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ Miss Reverie, you seem to be the choosen one so for these type of requests so and maybe more to come on the back of this thread "

Jesus happy to have someone else take that title!!! Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him? "

I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

This was politely declined followed by the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

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This is creative in fairness..

I do like the idea of the husbands cheering you both on with banners and chants as you wrestle the shit out of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him?

I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

This was politely declined followed by the block button. "

Snap!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him?

I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

This was politely declined followed by the block button. "

It's all fun and games until she picks you up l... body slams your through a table and drops the peoples elbow on your ass

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By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Very very weird that one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep weird...had a txt last week of a guy saying he wanted to introduce his son to the fab world and they both like me... polity blocked and delete

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us"

Lookbooobs it's your turn: I don't agree with that, it's better to ask if any doubt than to be sorry later. You shouldn't discourage anyone from asking by embarrassing them or ridiculing it. It might be obvious for you but everyone is different. The op shouldn't have to defend herself for asking. Additionally it draws attention that - by all openmindedness for sexual kinks - some offers are simply going a step to far, are creepy and might be even dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very notion of swinging is not normal behaviour for a lot of people.

If you are uncomfortable with anything, OP, you should have no qualms about turning it down, it doesn't matter who thinks it's normal or who doesn't.

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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"Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him?

I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

This was politely declined followed by the block button. "

I think we had the same one but it was a catfight . I'm pretty sure it was from the male but we politely declined.

To be honest a whooooole lotta real world people would freak out at what we consider normal here. If it's not going to land someone in mountjoy I personally don't really give too much thought to it. I think the more taboo requests we have had are generally people wanting to talk about their kink knowing that the reality simply isn't going to happen, more roleplay than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us

Lookbooobs it's your turn: I don't agree with that, it's better to ask if any doubt than to be sorry later. You shouldn't discourage anyone from asking by embarrassing them or ridiculing it. It might be obvious for you but everyone is different. The op shouldn't have to defend herself for asking. Additionally it draws attention that - by all openmindedness for sexual kinks - some offers are simply going a step to far, are creepy and might be even dangerous. "

Fair point.....

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"If you are uncomfortable with anything, OP, you should have no qualms about turning it down, it doesn't matter who thinks it's normal or who doesn't."

I was going to advise exactly this

If something doesn't feel right to you OP, trust your instincts, even if it is normal to the person discussing it with you.

One thing's for sure though; involving immediate family members (who are not your spouse/life partner) in your sex life is definitely not normal.

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us

Lookbooobs it's your turn: I don't agree with that, it's better to ask if any doubt than to be sorry later. You shouldn't discourage anyone from asking by embarrassing them or ridiculing it. It might be obvious for you but everyone is different. The op shouldn't have to defend herself for asking. Additionally it draws attention that - by all openmindedness for sexual kinks - some offers are simply going a step to far, are creepy and might be even dangerous. "

Agree totally. @Op is also clearly highlighting the type of person this man is, for others to be aware. Ok no names are allowed, but if I came across him with that offer, I’ll know right off to tell him to fck right off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for replying I just thought it’s wrong on every level but thought I’d ask if I was weird because there is a lot out there I don’t know anything about was wondering if this was another one of those taboo things happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are uncomfortable with anything, OP, you should have no qualms about turning it down, it doesn't matter who thinks it's normal or who doesn't.

I was going to advise exactly this

If something doesn't feel right to you OP, trust your instincts, even if it is normal to the person discussing it with you.

One thing's for sure though; involving immediate family members (who are not your spouse/life partner) in your sex life is definitely not normal. "

Defo... blockedie block cheque book and pen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was messaging a guy a little while before he mentioned my resemblance to his sister... Who he would wrestle with as a teen... And get hard.. Would I be interested in fulfilling a fantasy about her for him?

I have had the wrestling one put to me this week, would I like to wrestle another woman? Coming from the woman and our hubbies can watch.

This was politely declined followed by the block button. "

Ah Cat fighting was also mentioned, I had to ask her what cat fighting was and she told me google it...now my idea of cat fighting is next doors Tom cat and the one down the road squaring up. I can’t fathom at times what some people want or expect on fab.

Thank god for block button though!

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "

Weird you had to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's creepy tbh, always go with what your gut tells you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "
that's weird

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "

Each to their own!!! Not everyone cup of tea

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By *askia_1TV/TS
over a year ago

From Dublin living in Amsterdam


"I've had similar messages, a man in wanting to involve his mother in a sexual encounter I politely declined and blocked .... I thought i had heard it all but I obviously hadn't What next?... Will they ask.. "Can I bring my pet hamster along with me?"... Wonders never cease

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You could bring lemiwinks from South Park!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"The most worrying part of this OP is that you needed to check with us didn’t really need to check I said it was weird and he’d said it’s normal and has happened a few times so I was no can’t have "

If he's saying it's happened a few times he's living in a fantasy world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "

What next like?ffs...that is just so weird...

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By *achelsWoman
over a year ago

ni


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself "

I think I’ve had the same guy message me asking the same thing, is he from Bangor direction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder does son know - or just fantasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself

I think I’ve had the same guy message me asking the same thing, is he from Bangor direction?"
yip he is indeed

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By *achelsWoman
over a year ago

ni


"Been messaging a guy for ages seem to be getting on great a lot of the same likes and things but then he goes on about meeting and says about his son hearing us and coming in and then me going into the son afterwards as it would turn him on him seeing us together and then me with him now his son is an adult but I’d consider to young for myself

I think I’ve had the same guy message me asking the same thing, is he from Bangor direction?yip he is indeed "

Lol big BLOCK button

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