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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

So you've bagged yourself a (post-Covid) meet/social with the person/couple you've lusted after for ages. You know this is your one opportunity to impress. We've read already about the coffee and home made hot apple tart with custard brought by a kind lady to her date. You need to stand out from the crowd so what will you bring as a gift? (NOTE: All in the interests of research )

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

A bottle of white spirits to clean their brushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IDK, it would never occur to me to bring a gift or to expect one either for that matter. Turn up, be on time, and be the person you describe in your profile is good for me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A flask to keep the custard hot on the long journey from somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankensense

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"A bottle of white spirits to clean their brushes "

Will you bring it to my house altogether Ger and clean the paint stains off the floor

... or maybe not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was somewhat nonplussed to be presented with a bar of chocolate after sex once (it was fancy chocolate in case you think I'm cheap)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankensense "

Myrrh.......whatever that is...!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankensense

Myrrh.......whatever that is...!? "

Be careful you don't break it..... 7 years bad luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x"

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankensense

Myrrh.......whatever that is...!?

Be careful you don't break it..... 7 years bad luck! "

Good tip

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy "

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

A nice whiskey and flowers....

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

All amazing ideas folks

I think it's a nice idea. As I said on the other thread, one lad (now a friend) brought mugs with his own drawings of my pink shoe and J's boot printed on them. A lovely thought and I'm now reminded of him when I see the mugs in the cupboard. Kids think we won them in a raffle

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service."

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service."

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )"

Suppose knitting them from hair takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )"

Mind your own beeswax

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did "

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )

Suppose knitting them from hair takes time."

The toys were made in China..... Thats Chi....Na to you, Capisce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy "

The plushie version or the limited edition hard bristle grouchy version

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )

Suppose knitting them from hair takes time.

The toys were made in China..... Thats Chi....Na to you, Capisce? "

Shoddy workmanship wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck"

It wasn't mailed, it was a response on a thread the first time you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a guy bring

A bottle of wine

Another guy had made me porridge bread.

As for me bringing a gift to a meet I'm the Gift lol

An no in all seriousness a few people I plan to meet when we are allowed so

creme eggs

A few cans of tanora

Tayto crisps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

The plushie version or the limited edition hard bristle grouchy version "

The pull cord version with is plushie and features realistic genitalia and odours!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck

It wasn't mailed, it was a response on a thread the first time you asked "

When i get my teddy u get your korma and pavalova. Capiche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

... along with half the Fab ladies

(Not me though )

Suppose knitting them from hair takes time.

The toys were made in China..... Thats Chi....Na to you, Capisce?

Shoddy workmanship wonderful "

Oi!

Don't diss the Chinese workforce.... They're a great bunch of lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a guy bring

A bottle of wine

Another guy had made me porridge bread.

As for me bringing a gift to a meet I'm the Gift lol

An no in all seriousness a few people I plan to meet when we are allowed so

creme eggs

A few cans of tanora

Tayto crisps

"

Someone mentioned cream eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice yellow flowers, two glasses of wine and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck

It wasn't mailed, it was a response on a thread the first time you asked

When i get my teddy u get your korma and pavalova. Capiche "

Oh hardball is it?

What's on this pavlova BTW?!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck

It wasn't mailed, it was a response on a thread the first time you asked

When i get my teddy u get your korma and pavalova. Capiche

Oh hardball is it?

What's on this pavlova BTW?! "

U get the good grace of choosing. Im nice like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My humble humility. . And a teddy bear. And lollipops. And a coffee grinder. And a passport (You never know). And Good manners. And MnM selection boxes. And a flare gun in case of bad weather. As you can see I've given it a lot of thought...x

Teddy bear eh

You know, for a small fee Kaizer can supply you with a limited edition cuddly Manbeast toy

Im still waiting on mine KT. Very poor customer service.

You were asked to forward your Eircode for delivery but never did

I never received that mail. Not did it go into my spam. Stop passing the buck

It wasn't mailed, it was a response on a thread the first time you asked

When i get my teddy u get your korma and pavalova. Capiche

Oh hardball is it?

What's on this pavlova BTW?!

U get the good grace of choosing. Im nice like that"

Shiver me timbers

How terribly sound of ya

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I've had a guy bring

A bottle of wine

Another guy had made me porridge bread.

As for me bringing a gift to a meet I'm the Gift lol

An no in all seriousness a few people I plan to meet when we are allowed so

creme eggs

A few cans of tanora

Tayto crisps

"

Porridge bread...thats a new one

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Well I would start by bringing a dessert. Maybe make a Chocolate Orange Cointreau Bombé

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I would start by bringing a dessert. Maybe make a Chocolate Orange Cointreau Bombé"

I will bring something nice too plus bottle of whiskey

Please font forget to bring the tent fir camping hahaha

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Well I would start by bringing a dessert. Maybe make a Chocolate Orange Cointreau Bombé

I will bring something nice too plus bottle of whiskey

Please font forget to bring the tent fir camping hahaha

"

Actually been a few years since i was camping but it was great craic.I better add a bottle of the good whiskey

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

A strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP great thread

It is really depends. In the past I always brought some handmade sweets, an exotic plant, bottle of wine

I think when meeting so great personalities like Mr Bog M, SeanBelfast or Kaizer (that would be really challenging as he is meat eater!) I would bring something unique, they never get a chance to eat plus a bottle of whiskey limited edition

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"OP great thread

It is really depends. In the past I always brought some handmade sweets, an exotic plant, bottle of wine

I think when meeting so great personalities like Mr Bog M, SeanBelfast or Kaizer (that would be really challenging as he is meat eater!) I would bring something unique, they never get a chance to eat plus a bottle of whiskey limited edition

"

Sold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Tribble

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Custard creams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milk tray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cupcake with delicious icing that we can cut up and enjoy..., while chatting over a coffee.

A happy memory and one that I hope to recreate.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"A flask to keep the custard hot on the long journey from somewhere else"

Or just meet close to where they really live so it's still warm

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ropes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands. "

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

I got a previous meet a T shirt that read,

"I gave Yoser a job"

She saw the funny side

I did the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself "

That seems reasonable

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Bottle of wine to go with the dinner he cooks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum! "

In the cold light of day i can see any party invites being torn up when this is seen - pmsl!!

Ill bring beer and crisps

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Just me wrapped in a bow

Honestly tho I've never bought a gift when I'm first meeting anyone nor would I expect or want one from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gift of song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just me wrapped in a bow

"

JustBow

Thats must be the origin of the username so

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Just me wrapped in a bow

JustBow

Thats must be the origin of the username so "

how did you guess

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Brought a few drinks to one meet as I was invited to his home for the night and we ordered take out...

Had being gifted the most amazing handmade chocolate by one lovely gentleman at our coffee meet he'd read that I loved chocolate on my bio....

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"

Had being gifted the most amazing handmade chocolate by one lovely gentleman at our coffee meet he'd read that I loved chocolate on my bio.... "

That's the type of thing I'm talking about!

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum!

In the cold light of day i can see any party invites being torn up when this is seen - pmsl!!

Ill bring beer and crisps "

In fairness Rub, I couldn't see anyone throwing you out of bed for eating hazelnut cocoa balls! Mrs

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"

Had being gifted the most amazing handmade chocolate by one lovely gentleman at our coffee meet he'd read that I loved chocolate on my bio....

That's the type of thing I'm talking about! "

He's one of a kinda a true gentleman

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different "

Once he got them in the right order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A strap on "

A present that keeps on giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum!

In the cold light of day i can see any party invites being torn up when this is seen - pmsl!!

Ill bring beer and crisps "

you are gas Rub!! I wouldn't be a big fan of vegan ferroro rocher!! Now Beer and crisps?... That will bowl me over!!

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different

Once he got them in the right order "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dead bat from a wet market

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down


"A strap on

A present that keeps on giving "

Oh yes

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different "

Ya see, that's what separates the genuinely nice people from those just looking for a quick shag. If you are the former, then this is one way to show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different

Ya see, that's what separates the genuinely nice people from those just looking for a quick shag. If you are the former, then this is one way to show it "

Tbh, I don't think it's fair to place those kind of expectations on people. Some people are simply good at that kind of thing, others aren't, it's no indication of character in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different

Ya see, that's what separates the genuinely nice people from those just looking for a quick shag. If you are the former, then this is one way to show it

Tbh, I don't think it's fair to place those kind of expectations on people. Some people are simply good at that kind of thing, others aren't, it's no indication of character in my book."

Indeed, some people could land with nothing and leave you with everything.

I just cant resist bringing snacks, but ive Irish mammy syndrome when it comes to feeding people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum!

In the cold light of day i can see any party invites being torn up when this is seen - pmsl!!

Ill bring beer and crisps you are gas Rub!! I wouldn't be a big fan of vegan ferroro rocher!! Now Beer and crisps?... That will bowl me over!! "

Noted - Beer, crisps and maybe a little something to perk up your flower garden?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"After chatting with one guy a long time he landed with bottle of prosseco for me and kitten milk for my new fur babies

Definately different

Ya see, that's what separates the genuinely nice people from those just looking for a quick shag. If you are the former, then this is one way to show it

Tbh, I don't think it's fair to place those kind of expectations on people. Some people are simply good at that kind of thing, others aren't, it's no indication of character in my book."

I agree Casey plus someone giving me gifts the first time I meet them would make me feel awkward almost like more is expected .It is different if it is someone I know well or if I was going to someones home .But I'd never go to someones home on a first meet made that mistake once and never will again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was brought a lovely bottle of wine by a meet last year and a bottle for my birthday night out aswell as a few other gifts and cards. Totally unexpected but those people have great kindness and I still have those cards now. They are friends now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was brought a lovely bottle of wine by a meet last year and a bottle for my birthday night out aswell as a few other gifts and cards. Totally unexpected but those people have great kindness and I still have those cards now. They are friends now "

If I'm meeting a friend from fab I would bring a gift but if was a new meet I wouldn't

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am not a giver of gifts it just not me its not being mean or stingy its just not me if i meet someone then i am there to meet them not won them over with tokens of generosity.

I buy my round pay for dinner hell even pay for the room but trying to think what I could buy to impress a woman doesn't come in to it

If i am invited to a house I may bring a bottle of wine to the hosts or cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a giver of gifts it just not me its not being mean or stingy its just not me if i meet someone then i am there to meet them not won them over with tokens of generosity.

I buy my round pay for dinner hell even pay for the room but trying to think what I could buy to impress a woman doesn't come in to it

If i am invited to a house I may bring a bottle of wine to the hosts or cake "

But your company cj would be a gift enough

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By *ainted SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Longford Town Area

"Swinging for Dummies" as a reference reminder book as it will have been soooo long

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I rarely if ever bring gifts when visiting friends or family and would never consider it on a fab meet.

I know lots of people who always turn up with cakes and bottles of wine etc when they visit and I don't give them much credit for those as they know I can't eat the cake and I don't drink so it's just done out of habit and to make them feel better.

Fab gifts especially from or for someone I don't really know or I'm meeting for the first time just wouldn't sit comfortably.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I am not a giver of gifts it just not me its not being mean or stingy its just not me if i meet someone then i am there to meet them not won them over with tokens of generosity.

I buy my round pay for dinner hell even pay for the room but trying to think what I could buy to impress a woman doesn't come in to it

If i am invited to a house I may bring a bottle of wine to the hosts or cake "

Any vouchers for dry cleaning the curtains at least?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I am not a giver of gifts it just not me its not being mean or stingy its just not me if i meet someone then i am there to meet them not won them over with tokens of generosity.

I buy my round pay for dinner hell even pay for the room but trying to think what I could buy to impress a woman doesn't come in to it

If i am invited to a house I may bring a bottle of wine to the hosts or cake

Any vouchers for dry cleaning the curtains at least? "

I told u put up flowery ones the stains don't show up as much

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I am not a giver of gifts it just not me its not being mean or stingy its just not me if i meet someone then i am there to meet them not won them over with tokens of generosity.

I buy my round pay for dinner hell even pay for the room but trying to think what I could buy to impress a woman doesn't come in to it

If i am invited to a house I may bring a bottle of wine to the hosts or cake

But your company cj would be a gift enough "

Ohhh myyy

If i didn't know better Id swear ur trying to get into my boxers devine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the build up and conversations shared before meeting. Like certain interests may have been shared as in any normal conversation so a small gift that fits in with that might be suitable or thoughtful.

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over a year ago


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum!

In the cold light of day i can see any party invites being torn up when this is seen - pmsl!!

Ill bring beer and crisps you are gas Rub!! I wouldn't be a big fan of vegan ferroro rocher!! Now Beer and crisps?... That will bowl me over!!

Noted - Beer, crisps and maybe a little something to perk up your flower garden? "

oh yes it certainly needs regular maintenence

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"I'll bring my massage table, some coconut oil, and my warm hands.

Ill arrive early to be top of that queue!!. And ill bring my hazelnut cocoa balls, quick bites of naturally sweet protein. They are basically the vegan Ferrero Rocher. yum! "

You know the way to my heart. Its a date!

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