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By *scouple07 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We see the term 'True swingers' or fabbers quite alot on here, so was just wondering what makes you a true swinger/fabber? Or what would you class as a true swinger/fabber?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I guess everyone will have their own definition of what true swingers are. Some will say singles can't be swingers I've seen that a lot in these threads. Yet without singles threesomes would be a hell of a lot harder to organise.

I think a swinger is a person who is sexually open to new experiences with others .

Am I am true swinger I honestly don't know .But I'm enjoying being on fab most of the time and I've met some amazing people so far,and made some great friends and hopefully when this is all over and things start to open again will continue on this journey.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

For me, swinging has to involve a minimum of 3 people.. there are singles on here that only meet singles, I wouldn't term that as swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a term people seem to use to attempt to establish themselves as higher up in the swinging social hierarchy.

I suppose we're not true swingers as we see it as an occasional hobby, not a lifestyle. We don't do socials, clubs or parties or swinging holidays. Mostly we hang around for the craic on the forum, and the few people we really get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the scene as a couple, albeit years ago, I retracted got married and separated. Met people on the scene on another site.

But now I'm single with no verifications on this site I'm not a true swinger or only here to mess!!

Everyone will have there own thoughts. Tbh, I couldn't give a shit!! Its supposed to be a non judgemental place, its turning into a more judgemental place than "normal" society.

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By *scouple07 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I'm a hobby swinger,coffee drinker, awesome jiver,with the body of a Greek god and the face of an angel. I'm a solar powered doxy love machine. Fuck I am great!!! I think I'm a candidate for another blue Peter badge. Hardy swinger of the year 2010'12'14'15'17'19

What was the tread again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging "

Does it matter? Do what pleases you, there will always be others who aren't happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging

Does it matter? Do what pleases you, there will always be others who aren't happy with it"

Exactly this!! I couldn't give a shit what people think. If I did I probably wouldn't be here.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging

Does it matter? Do what pleases you, there will always be others who aren't happy with it"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging

Does it matter? Do what pleases you, there will always be others who aren't happy with it"

this

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think swinging should involve a minimum of two people. Any less than that and it's not much craic.

Whether it's a threesome,a foursome or a moresome does it really matter if you are wearing an elite swingers badge if you are having fun?

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

It’s a spectrum so impossible to one-size fits all.

Is it the level and variety of meets?

Is it an attitude or outlook that defines a swinger?

Who knows!

I wouldn’t say we are swingers, as our focus is exhibionism and hot wifing, but everyone is here for different reasons some as simple as banter and flirts, and some to the more ‘active’.

Thankfully the stereotypical moustache sporting, robe wearing, pampas grass growing, lava lamp owning, and key party hosting cliche appears to be a relic of days gone by

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Sometimes a term people seem to use to attempt to establish themselves as higher up in the swinging social hierarchy.

I suppose we're not true swingers as we see it as an occasional hobby, not a lifestyle. We don't do socials, clubs or parties or swinging holidays. Mostly we hang around for the craic on the forum, and the few people we really get on with."

Yeah I'd be the same, I'm not interested in the social events of the Irish scene. And I don't really care if I 'qualify' as a swinger or not, I get from the site what I'm looking for.

Funny thing though for every vanilla person we're all swingers just alone for having a profile on here, they don't distinguish, we're just perverts.

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By *scouple07 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"I don't no if we would be classed as true swingers as like stated above as meeting is an occasional thing and not regular but we have been to a club (twice) also being soft swing (which also has so many variations) is that classed as not true swinging

Does it matter? Do what pleases you, there will always be others who aren't happy with it"

Doesn't bother us tbh, we are happy with how its going so far and once it isn't enjoyable we will be stopping

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be more entertaining - a wedding singer or a wedding swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just getting yer hole

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I'm.just.me I dont care about lables im having fun and have met good friend's so I'm happy that's all I really care about...

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"I'm.just.me I dont care about lables im having fun and have met good friend's so I'm happy that's all I really care about... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels are for jars

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

I’m just a guy. Standing in front of girls, asking them to take their clothes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just a guy. Standing in front of girls, asking them to take their clothes off"

Mine just all of a sudden fell off

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

by definition of its origins swinging is an adult game for couples . Anything else is just casual sex . However a libertine mindset makes both compatible, but on this site are a lot of single gents who enjoy or pursue to have an easy leg over would never ever consider to let their partners play if they would have a committed relationship . Apparently true hardcore cuckold relationships don’t count as swinging but are considered part of the BDSM scene . Though stag and hotwifes relationships aka stag/vixen are considered swingers as the stag occasionally also goes for other women too.

The borders are very fluent , so after all each need to find his/her own definition of swinging .

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I see a lot of people saying that single people can't be swingers.

They can.. single people who want a swinging relationship but haven't found a partner yet who is compatible with their choices are very much swingers too.

Single people who have casual sex but can't see any other option but being completely monogamous in their future relationships obviously are not swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to have fun and make some memories, explore my fantasies and make friends along the way. No labels needed

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By *scouple07 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"I'm here to have fun and make some memories, explore my fantasies and make friends along the way. No labels needed "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here to have fun and make some memories, explore my fantasies and make friends along the way. No labels needed "

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By *kd2019Man
over a year ago

North

For me it’s just about meeting easy going and like minded people that are on the same wavelength as yourself and want to experience new things and enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see the term 'True swingers' or fabbers quite alot on here, so was just wondering what makes you a true swinger/fabber? Or what would you class as a true swinger/fabber?"

Just another stick some will use to try and beat others with. I generally ignore labels like that, I'm just here to make friends and have fun

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