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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some I'd say any port in a storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh definitely, for me anyways, it was a nice surprise for all concerned even if it wasn't realised at the time but when thinking back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally yes ...most definitely...attraction n connection is massive

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I find it hard to believe that's there's different types of hardness for different types of attraction....

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By *13_hercMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

There's no hard ( no pun intended ) and fast rule. There can be many influencing factors - alcohol, drugs, emotional baggage, physical issues etc. If it was a simple issue of attraction there would be no need for treatments, such as viagra, to assist sufferers.

A similar question might be does the wetness of a woman indicate the attraction she has to her partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange but true .... Guess it's hormonal factors

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've noticed the attraction/hardness fades quickly with some when they see a condom. That's when I loose my appetite too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

That's a myth!

Its hard or not hard

There's no barometer of hotness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardness comes from blood flowing in that doesn't flow back out so it's kind of random. I have heard of male stripers who put elastics on their dicks to get harder so that will tell you it's not really an attraction thing.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Fuck me as a hormonal teenager you don't even need to see something sexy to get them

The more inappropriate location the harder it got

Never got past the cobbled streets in The Coombe on the 77 bus into town without one so hard a cat wouldn't scratch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

If there’s genuine attraction and a spark then it’s the eyeful tower

Literally

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"There's no hard ( no pun intended ) and fast rule. There can be many influencing factors - alcohol, drugs, emotional baggage, physical issues etc. If it was a simple issue of attraction there would be no need for treatments, such as viagra, to assist sufferers.

A similar question might be does the wetness of a woman indicate the attraction she has to her partner?"

Can only speak for myself,but yes, I get wetter( wet the bed more like) with someone I am very attracted to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

Its more the duration of maintainjng hardness than the levels of initial hardness one would think.

An erection is fairly binary but how long it maintains that level of hardness is influenced by the company imo

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By *outh Dub 29Man
over a year ago

Clapham

Yes and no. Depends on how much time. Edging always brings me to 100% erect, even when I wasn't sure about the other person. Foreplay is always the best!

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Not necessarily. I think you're either turned on or you're not. I mean, if the sex is crap, it might get a bit soft (like playing pool with a rope), but generally if someone turns me on, then I'm hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there can be different levels of hardness but for me its the mood and the situation that dictates.

It can sometimes be so hard it aches but in a pleasure/pain way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident. "

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245. "

Pmsl...

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

Pmsl... "

Bet that put lead in your pencil

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

Or the strength of the tablet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

Pmsl...

Bet that put lead in your pencil "

That actually made me laugh out load...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no hard ( no pun intended ) and fast rule. There can be many influencing factors - alcohol, drugs, emotional baggage, physical issues etc. If it was a simple issue of attraction there would be no need for treatments, such as viagra, to assist sufferers.

A similar question might be does the wetness of a woman indicate the attraction she has to her partner?"

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

Pmsl...

Bet that put lead in your pencil "

The root of all evil is 25.8069758011

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’m up I’m up

Simple as

The amount of cum might depend on the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That shouldn't matter would have thought... Once you cum it's the same amount whoever you're with.. No?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"That shouldn't matter would have thought... Once you cum it's the same amount whoever you're with.. No? "

Thats what i always thought and the amount just depended on the last time you came

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

Pmsl...

Bet that put lead in your pencil

The root of all evil is 25.8069758011

"

No one likes a know all(incert rolling eyes emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount you cum will depend on lots of things - just as the hardness of your erection:

Level of attraction

Length of sex

Amount of alcohol etc

Time since last sex

Level of tiredness

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how turned on I am If I am tired or rested. Time of day. Of course and I am sure it's the same for women-some attractiveness initially is part of it. But after the first visual it depends on if you connect and there is warmth or connection between you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True for me, and then of course attraction is based on other factors, not just the pysical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a very Hard question to answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine.. "

A cat is a pussy haha... Dirty bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245. "

Lol Lol Ms Lolly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine..

A cat is a pussy haha... Dirty bastard "

Needless to say...we didnt meet

lol

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Yes for me I have to be attracted to a woman first, if I was not attracted to her I don't see the point in taking things further, now if the attraction is there I can end up hard with just seeing a text from her, then when we are together I have been so hard I taught my cock was going to split, it can be painful at times. But we always knew how to fix that

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel

Lots of factors come in to play ..attraction both physical and personality and emotional feelings

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine.. "

Wow just wow

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By *heekyChap93Man
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

True for me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

It doesn't have to be just typical hotness. But as you said what ever makes it attractive, could be attitude, style...failing Masonry...ANYTHING. But also very important to note, you can be super attracted but sometimes it might work less. For me it could happen just before being sick like a flu etc. But actually when I have the flu or cold it gets very hard. It would be different for all I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you can get har without attraction. It's just...."harder".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything from alcohol to general blood pressure can be a contributing factor.

However, the inverse is surely a true rule

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

Attraction also affect the time of hardiness... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine..

Wow just wow "

swear to God. He wanted to jus meet at hotel. Not exchange pics. I said what is I open door and u think ohhh shite what have I done. Dont u need to b attracted to get turned on..he said nope if I'm having sex il get hard...a pussy if a pussy...ps. i dont not attend such meet lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine..

Wow just wow

swear to God. He wanted to jus meet at hotel. Not exchange pics. I said what is I open door and u think ohhh shite what have I done. Dont u need to b attracted to get turned on..he said nope if I'm having sex il get hard...a pussy if a pussy...ps. i dont not attend such meet lol "

Did you block ??

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

I don’t want to sound like a typical ‘lad’ when I say this but there is situations where I would say rock hard compared to hard! Don’t want to sound like a dickhead using that language but that’s the best way I have of describing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More to do with what’s in my head at the time and that’s controlled by the person I am with. But married seems to get me rock hard.

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By *imjenningsMan
over a year ago

Kinnegad, sometimes Cork, Limerick, Waterford


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

Getting rid of any physical impairment I have found that how hard I get is definitely linked to how horny I am and of course attraction to who you’re with obviously has an impact on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on here once told me he didn't need attraction to get a hard.on.....

"A pussy is a pussy". His words not mine..

Wow just wow

swear to God. He wanted to jus meet at hotel. Not exchange pics. I said what is I open door and u think ohhh shite what have I done. Dont u need to b attracted to get turned on..he said nope if I'm having sex il get hard...a pussy if a pussy...ps. i dont not attend such meet lol

Did you block ??"

Most defo. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. The hotter the lady, the more inadequate you feel, and more pressure there is to match up to her other lovers, nerves increase exponentially.

Not for me of course, I'm a pure Alpha Male obviously

But i could imagine in a lot of lads the rate of blood flow is equily and opposite proportional to the attractiveness of the lady.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

All depends on how teasing the lady is.

If she's straight in grabbing it, then it's going to depend what she does with it.

If she's not touching it for a while but being seductive and playing tease, it's going to be harder when she gets to it.

Or limp as it already coughed from too much teasing

There's a balance.

Of course, for the ladies who like a challenge, they've got to make it rise again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thy could also be a mess in his own pre-ectoplasn before such things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

No...It's Desire for the lady. Desire compels sexual attraction. Desire compels need and want...

Hardon's come and go. A stiff breeze can hoist one up or blow one down...just saying

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

To some degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some degree"

I'd say yes. Some people get your pulse racing fast and that, I suppose, helps keeping a good hard on. But what about the nocturnal erections or the "morning glory". It supposes to be that during REM sleep men have up to three erections. I was cheeky and spied on my better half sometimes to discover that while he was sleeping like a log he was rock hard too....very inviting I must say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

It definitely depends on the attraction to the preferred partner, sexual desire, I had what I thought to be a monogamous relationship with a certain woman and when I found out she was cheating on me, I couldnt achieve a full erection for her.. Ultimately I had to put a stop to it, I'm happy to tell you lady's my erection are back at maximum capacity

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

Most definitely correct

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

It depends on how turned on you are by either the lady, the circumstances/scenario or a combination of those things. So yeah, it does in a way

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Hi OP, it is not true. Its down to how horny you feel.

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By *he jumpstartMan
over a year ago

Donegal

For me its arousal that leads on from attraction which can be in many forms. Initial attraction might not be there but if you give somebody a chance they can arouse you in many different ways and the attraction that you never thought was there grows. The way they hold themselves in conversation, their confidence and their attitude to name a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on a number of factors

- white knight & jumpstart are good explanations.

But it must be said, it's really unreasonable to attribute the results to the sole responsibility of the Woman.

A Man can be interested in a Woman, but many factors can effect the quality of his erection.

It would be wrong to say "ah, she didn't dress slutty enough!" - for example!

At the end of the day, we're complex,and sometimes complicated beings, and not dogs in the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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Just a myth

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

Yes

Hard is hard but when the attraction and chemistry is really good it gets even harder

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Nope when you're hard you're hard there is no middle ground with me.. I find the Amount I ejaculate depends on attraction

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

I dont think level of hardness correlates to the attractiveness to the lady. I wouldnt be hard of i wasnt attracted. Id say levels of horniness are much more of a contributing factor. Ie, if theres been a lot of flirting in the build up, or been a little time since last had sex. Many things which are nothing to do with the lady

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By *ymbunny2016Man
over a year ago

Bangor

Not at all- this bad boy goes up at the drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... that's just silly

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By *rcher42Man
over a year ago

Ennis


"Yes for me... Doesn't have to be a physical attraction either. I've gotten hard talking to an intelligent woman who is confident.

Looks out seductively under sexy glasses and says"The square root of PI is approx 1.77245.

"

You could have at least looked up Pi

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By *rcher42Man
over a year ago

Ennis

I think of it as an arousalometer.The more aroused I am the harder. During a session there will be many levels of arousal. Attraction is a part of that. There are other factors already mentioned like alcohol intake for example or sometimes I've just had enough but I don't think physical attraction is the driving force for me. I mean physical hotness will get me there but it might not keep me there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once Catfishes pretty hard. The girl took very select photos of herself. Only one photo betrayed her...but ai thought ahh probably just a bad one... I mean all my pics are bad. We chat for days and I travel to her in Bray...Bray!!

Very very excited and hadn't had a meet in a good while. Well when I open the door I could not have been more disappointed. Truly. Not my cup of tea at all. Her photos were so misleading. Well I turned around and marched right back to the Dart station and never spoke to her again, is what I should have done.... But I went and I still came 3 or 4 times that morning. So I suppose attractiveness doesn't matter that much, as others said honriness plays a bigger role.

I've never had sex when I was actually angry until that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once Catfishes pretty hard. The girl took very select photos of herself. Only one photo betrayed her...but ai thought ahh probably just a bad one... I mean all my pics are bad. We chat for days and I travel to her in Bray...Bray!!

Very very excited and hadn't had a meet in a good while. Well when I open the door I could not have been more disappointed. Truly. Not my cup of tea at all. Her photos were so misleading. Well I turned around and marched right back to the Dart station and never spoke to her again, is what I should have done.... But I went and I still came 3 or 4 times that morning. So I suppose attractiveness doesn't matter that much, as others said honriness plays a bigger role.

I've never had sex when I was actually angry until that day."

Wow. I really appreciate you sharing this here openly.

Men never stop surprising me. I wonder if you felt slightly disappointed with yourself afterwards? Obviously not physically after 3/4 times of release.

This is something I could never do. I mean have sex with someone I don't like just for the sake of having sex. I suppose men work in different ways...

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well. The hotter the lady, the more inadequate you feel, and more pressure there is to match up to her other lovers, nerves increase exponentially.

Not for me of course, I'm a pure Alpha Male obviously

But i could imagine in a lot of lads the rate of blood flow is equily and opposite proportional to the attractiveness of the lady. "

I'm so glad someone said this! Most of the time when I've experienced a lack of rigidity from my partners it's been when there's more than just sex involved. I definitely think nerves can get the better of a guy, especially if he's big in that department!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow. I really appreciate you sharing this here openly.

Men never stop surprising me. I wonder if you felt slightly disappointed with yourself afterwards? Obviously not physically after 3/4 times of release.

This is something I could never do. I mean have sex with someone I don't like just for the sake of having sex. I suppose men work in different ways..."

And thanks for not saying "ugh yock" or judging me harshly..

I was axtually disappointed big time... Not too.much with my self about 50/50. But I felt kind of unclean or something and just not good. Which in a sense did feel physical. I was just so incredibly horny I guess. Yep...I find this a good argument against biological sex is a construct. Sure you have girls like this. But you have a while bunch more guys.

The horniness is so powerful in relation to the erection I remeber meeting a

average enough couple (previous profile) and again a few ...ahem releases. The next day due to double booking I also met a couple who were a much better in every aspect. But my horniness made it a bit more difficult for erections. There is a meter...and I suppose you can train it.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"To some degree

I'd say yes. Some people get your pulse racing fast and that, I suppose, helps keeping a good hard on. But what about the nocturnal erections or the "morning glory". It supposes to be that during REM sleep men have up to three erections. I was cheeky and spied on my better half sometimes to discover that while he was sleeping like a log he was rock hard too....very inviting I must say "

I'm curious.

Did you ever play with him while he was asleep and hard?

Or even fuck him?

Guy I knew years ago, American girlfriend sleeping beside him and he fucked her.

She told him anytime he wanted to, be her guest and fuck her.

Apparently she really enjoyed but thought it was a dream.

These days some people have gone to jail as it was considered r@pe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And thanks for not saying "ugh yock" or judging me harshly..

Who am I to judge anyone? I'm just another mortal full of chances to make mistakes

I was axtually disappointed big time... Not too.much with my self about 50/50. But I felt kind of unclean or something and just not good. Which in a sense did feel physical. "

I'd say so. Unclean is an accurate word. If I was the woman I'd feel filthy and not nice at all. But isnt it better a clear rejection than a fake promise. For me at least. And don't tempt me or I'll have to yield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm curious.

Did you ever play with him while he was asleep and hard?

Or even fuck him?

Guy I knew years ago, American girlfriend sleeping beside him and he fucked her.

She told him anytime he wanted to, be her guest and fuck her.

Apparently she really enjoyed but thought it was a dream.

These days some people have gone to jail as it was considered r@pe!"

I did play and happy ending for both. Other times too tired or too late....and yes even if it's your partner I think that the intentions have to be explicit and agreed openly. Even in marriages can happen that sometimes one or the other take things for granted. I mean, not because I go to bed naked I want sex. No is no simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

Nope not true for me but attraction does help! Also Id like to ad; a woman with talented hands can get a man hard again in seconds after the first round...it all comes down and around to circumstances in the end and the blood of ya

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"

I'm curious.

Did you ever play with him while he was asleep and hard?

Or even fuck him?

Guy I knew years ago, American girlfriend sleeping beside him and he fucked her.

She told him anytime he wanted to, be her guest and fuck her.

Apparently she really enjoyed but thought it was a dream.

These days some people have gone to jail as it was considered r@pe!

I did play and happy ending for both. Other times too tired or too late....and yes even if it's your partner I think that the intentions have to be explicit and agreed openly. Even in marriages can happen that sometimes one or the other take things for granted. I mean, not because I go to bed naked I want sex. No is no simple as that. "

Fair play

Always dreamed of being played with when sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP, for me yes, but also,to get it harder in general it's all about situation. Like the saying goes of getting in the mood first, well situations and scenarios are massive for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Level of hardness is always influenced by the female partner at the time, yeah defo there has to be attractive to maintain and keep it hard, but I’m sure every guy has he’s kinks and likes when he sees and meets a lady !!

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By *nrealfeelMan
over a year ago

cork


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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10,000,000% or stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And thanks for not saying "ugh yock" or judging me harshly..

Who am I to judge anyone? I'm just another mortal full of chances to make mistakes

I was axtually disappointed big time... Not too.much with my self about 50/50. But I felt kind of unclean or something and just not good. Which in a sense did feel physical.

I'd say so. Unclean is an accurate word. If I was the woman I'd feel filthy and not nice at all. But isnt it better a clear rejection than a fake promise. For me at least. And don't tempt me or I'll have to yield "

Ahh yeah. If she had of posted reasonable photos it might have been okay. Maybe next time I will say, no Almost...I respect my self too much to put me true this kind of thing, I am above this and can control my urg....oh I'm naked hahaha. PeachBum message me away. See if we can resist each other's charms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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100% ture.... dont get me wrong can harden up anytine but... that rock hard long cock only cum when they smoking hot...

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By *heTantrixMan
over a year ago

Dublin 18

Hotness lies in the eyes of beholder. There is no silver bullet to strong hard erection. In general stress free and healthy lifestyle together with chemistry with the partner would greatly contribute to that rock solid cock.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

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Despite some proponents of "the semi" as a third state of sexual arousal it's not as there is little a man (or woman for that matter) can do in that case

So, it's either hard or not hard as you'll never hear a man say

"I felt harder for you than any other woman"

...he's just watching too much Shakespeare, simple as

Now, ask a man how a certain woman ranks on his wrister scales will be a much better indicator of attraction.

Hope that helps OP

* "The Wrister Scales" was a test created by Pádraig Judas O'Leprosy and Rodraig Spartacus O'Leprosy to ascertain a man's attraction towards another person. Like the "Marshmallow test" it's simple to conduct yet remarkably accurate in quantitative results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

"

I can only speak for myself.. but I do need to feel attraction for hardness... but of course I’ve been very attracted to a lady and it can be other factors involved with a not so hard scenario...

I know some guys are robots and are super hard for a hole in the wall... not me

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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"Is it true,hardness of erection depends on the attraction towards the lady ??

MsLittleRedRidingHood

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I think attraction has to be there otherwise wont work.

Tryed pm u but I cant

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By *shornMan
over a year ago

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I would say it’s more how aroused your are that makes it’s “harder” not the attraction bit

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