FabSwingers.com forum: Sex chat with vanilla friends?

By *outh Dub 29 OP Man
over a year ago

Clapham

Chatting with friends over the weekend and a recent swingers party in Dublin came up in conversation. 12 people fined etc... But my friends were having a good laugh at people actually swinging.

It was hard to sit there without just burst out "Hey! I'm a swinger too!!". Curious to know if anyone else has discussed taboo things with friends in your vanilla life without them realising?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Few of us in the pub one evening one of the women who's married asked if anyone ever had a 3sum and if we knew of any swingers clubs in Ireland that were open to the public so they could go and have a look or are they all private...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatting with friends over the weekend and a recent swingers party in Dublin came up in conversation. 12 people fined etc... But my friends were having a good laugh at people actually swinging.

It was hard to sit there without just burst out "Hey! I'm a swinger too!!". Curious to know if anyone else has discussed taboo things with friends in your vanilla life without them realising?"

Its the quiet ones in those conversations that have to be watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asked two young guys from work to help me lift some furniture down the stairs in my house. Overheard one say to the other 'you go first, I'm afraid I'll take a wrong turn and walk in on some lad tied to a bed'

How well they have me sussed

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By *outh Dub 29 OP Man
over a year ago

Clapham

It's funny trying not to give away too much and get stuck with the "how do you know so much?" Question. Best to just be quiet person haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My company wouldn't be vanilla but probably wouldn't swing either. So the chat can be quite wild anyway although no one would follow through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my closest friends told myself and another friend that she had been invited by a neighbouring couple (in the US when she lived there) to have a threesome with them. She said she declined as she's straight. I said nothing

It wouldn't surprise me if she were into it, as Lee says, she has a gamey eye

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What about chatting with lots of people in a jacuzzi all naked

Never met any of them before but within an hour knowing that 9 of us were on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s funny OP I would run a mile when that chats going on... you never know what would slip out as the lady said... it’s the quiet ones and the ones that make an excuse to leave the table... ahem...

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By *outh Dub 29 OP Man
over a year ago

Clapham

Hard to run a mile when it's your own sitting room. if only they knew they were all sitting on the same couch as we used hahaha

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I was at a family wedding two years ago. We started joking about the groom having organised a threesome. 100% joke btw. One person took over the conversation, stating it was pure greed and no one these days are happy with what they've got. Funny thing is he's on here ,he's also married. Pure greedy I'd say. How I know he's on here.... he messaged me .

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

"Asked two young guys from work to help me lift some furniture down the stairs in my house. Overheard one say to the other 'you go first, I'm afraid I'll take a wrong turn and walk in on some lad tied to a bed'

How well they have me sussed

So funny.

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

We are totally honest and open about our lifestyle with all of our vanilla friends and indeed family, it's our business and nothing to be ashamed of ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a single friend she's fifty this year told her all about fab and she should be on here having fun . She seemed interested but worried it wasn't safe. Haven't chatted to her since , hope she joined. Of course I didn't tell her I'm on her in case it turned her of

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By *outh Dub 29 OP Man
over a year ago

Clapham

"We are totally honest and open about our lifestyle with all of our vanilla friends and indeed family, it's our business and nothing to be ashamed of ????"

And I admire you both for it! It is nothing to be ashamed of per se, just the way my friends spoke was bit off. Perhaps it's an age thing? I notice v few younger people on here so swinging and kink might be something that people grow into as they become more sexually aware? Or am I talking out my arse haha

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I spoke to a very good friend who I work with and told her about the site

I showed her all the features and how to use them

She joined but left as she was overwhelmed by it all

She told me she'll join again when things get back on an even track

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

Have told a few friends about here, one joined that evening and she messaged to say "nice package by the way"

Another friend told his Mrs and they joined here after too. We have had fun since too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends know I'm here. They're super supportive, open minded individuals who think I'm just right to explore my sexuality and indulge in some fun! They do love the stories too

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"Chatting with friends over the weekend and a recent swingers party in Dublin came up in conversation. 12 people fined etc... But my friends were having a good laugh at people actually swinging.

It was hard to sit there without just burst out "Hey! I'm a swinger too!!". Curious to know if anyone else has discussed taboo things with friends in your vanilla life without them realising?

Its the quiet ones in those conversations that have to be watched

Exactly this

I normally fake disbelief that it could actually happen in Ireland and then wait to see who speaks up to tell me I’m wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have told a few mainly female friends over the years and shown them my profile. Some more interested than others and have since joined. All were intrigued though and had no issue with me having fun

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

I like making the gentle comment that guides the conversation and then just sit back and watch for the gamey eyes!

However after a few drinks I cannot do this as what I think is subtle just isn't

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By *oName1906Man
over a year ago

All around

Every close to me people know about my ,,passion and hobby''. Not a issue at all. But not long ago at work canteen we talk with couple lads and one said story that he meet that girl. But first time they had drinks with other people she kissed her female friend in front of him- he said hes lucky he found out how dirty she is before he fall in love. He end it straight away. All of guys had some similar story or something to add up. I never ever been so quiet on my brake

but actually was very tempted to stir thinks up and say few story's just to see them faces

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