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"I enjoy my own company " I discovered this early in life | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time " Absolutely, you can improve the quality of your life immensely in this way | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time Has it really made you view some people in a totally different light due to the way they have behaved/reacted in the last year?" Yes it really has. Some family members choose to carry on as normal and spend there lives complaining morning noon and night in family chats and FB etc. I've removed them from all of the above and told them why. Why would anyone subject themselves to that ?. The last year hasn't so much changed those people but more so amplified the amount of absolute BS people come out with. | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time " Have to agree with you there. Negative people in trying times can suck the life out of you. Surrounding yourself with positive people can really lift your spirits. | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time Has it really made you view some people in a totally different light due to the way they have behaved/reacted in the last year? Yes it really has. Some family members choose to carry on as normal and spend there lives complaining morning noon and night in family chats and FB etc. I've removed them from all of the above and told them why. Why would anyone subject themselves to that ?. The last year hasn't so much changed those people but more so amplified the amount of absolute BS people come out with. " It definitely highlighted the important things and important people in my life and as they say surround yourself with happy and good people life is better. | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time Have to agree with you there. Negative people in trying times can suck the life out of you. Surrounding yourself with positive people can really lift your spirits. " You are one of the positive ones Inquisitive... A star | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time Have to agree with you there. Negative people in trying times can suck the life out of you. Surrounding yourself with positive people can really lift your spirits. You are one of the positive ones Inquisitive... A star " Awww thank you | |||
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"I use to think I disliked a lot of people now I realise I hate everyone. " | |||
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"For the most part it has made us realise that we can do pretty well if we try to focus on the positives in a bad situation. We've activily distanced ourselves from those who choose to concentrate on the negatives including family and former close friends and our lives have become a lot less stressful. Basically I've learned that positivity is hard sometimes but it's better than being a moany f*#ker all the time " Love this | |||
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"I’ve learned to stop over thinking and embrace everything! " Over thinking can be something that will kill your peace of mind. I too now can shut off those thoughts and feel the better for it. | |||
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"It has thought me that regardless of how much time is available, there’s always more house work that can be done. " You really need to get out more | |||
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"It has really hammered home what is important to me and how I want/need to live my life. Also that there is a difference between keeping up with current affairs and tuning in to scare mongering. That I have way too many clothes but the clear out and letting go was really therapeutic. " I've done the clear out but the charity shops are closed!!! Fully agree with you on the difference between news and scaremongering, unfortunately the internet has provided infinite space to be filled with speculation and misinformation. | |||
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"I can cook. I don't like being sober. I don't like myself. " I'm sorry to hear you feel that way, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Be kind to yourself, life is hard for everyone at times | |||
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"That I can have bad days and good days and things are never as bad as they seem at 4 o clock in the morning I'm stronger than I think I am " We all have days when we feel bad, I've found the trick is to remember that it is just that, a feeling. This too shall pass | |||
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"That I can have bad days and good days and things are never as bad as they seem at 4 o clock in the morning I'm stronger than I think I am " This is very true , you are strong | |||
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"That I'm very content on my own, only interacting with a few people. Having a form of routine is good. And a lot of stuff you think you need or want .. you really don't. It's been not bad. " I think introverts are temperamentally better suited to lockdown, a lot of people may have been surprised to find how little interaction (when it's of a meaningful nature) they can be content with. Our culture is hugely biased towards extroversion. | |||
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"That I'm very content on my own, only interacting with a few people. Having a form of routine is good. And a lot of stuff you think you need or want .. you really don't. It's been not bad. I think introverts are temperamentally better suited to lockdown, a lot of people may have been surprised to find how little interaction (when it's of a meaningful nature) they can be content with. Our culture is hugely biased towards extroversion." very very true | |||
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"That I'm very content on my own, only interacting with a few people. Having a form of routine is good. And a lot of stuff you think you need or want .. you really don't. It's been not bad. I think introverts are temperamentally better suited to lockdown, a lot of people may have been surprised to find how little interaction (when it's of a meaningful nature) they can be content with. Our culture is hugely biased towards extroversion." This is a really good point. By nature I suppose I would be classed as a comfortable introvert but I don't hide away, I just don't need company to feel like my world is complete. Mrs in the other hand is a people person, a golden soul who thrives around others and she misses the social aspect of everyday life. So one more thing I have learned about myself, I will never be able to break my addiction to hobnobs and I'll just have to live with that | |||
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"It has really hammered home what is important to me and how I want/need to live my life. Also that there is a difference between keeping up with current affairs and tuning in to scare mongering. That I have way too many clothes but the clear out and letting go was really therapeutic. I've done the clear out but the charity shops are closed!!! Fully agree with you on the difference between news and scaremongering, unfortunately the internet has provided infinite space to be filled with speculation and misinformation. " Absolutely love charity shops hence way too much clothes. It's funny I was quite ruthless about the clothes but parting with any of my heels was difficult. | |||
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"Lockdown brought me to Fab - so Ive learnt the whole Fab thing " Same here...We are lockdown fabbers | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be " What a woman! | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be What a woman! " You need any jobs done? | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be What a woman! You need any jobs done? " You could help me strip this eh..... Wallpaper? ...it would be easier to get off with an extra pair of hands? | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be What a woman! You need any jobs done? You could help me strip this eh..... Wallpaper? ...it would be easier to get off with an extra pair of hands? " Ill grab my tools, or do you provide a tool? | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be What a woman! You need any jobs done? You could help me strip this eh..... Wallpaper? ...it would be easier to get off with an extra pair of hands? Ill grab my tools, or do you provide a tool? " Tool will be provided...hope you ready for some physical labour? | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be What a woman! You need any jobs done? You could help me strip this eh..... Wallpaper? ...it would be easier to get off with an extra pair of hands? Ill grab my tools, or do you provide a tool? Tool will be provided...hope you ready for some physical labour? " You have no idea how ready! | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be " Thats feckin great, good woman | |||
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"That im not as shit at DIY as my ex told me i probably would be Thats feckin great, good woman " Thanks! | |||
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"That I'm a social butterfly and I really miss spreading my wings " Most people miss spreading other things | |||
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"That I'm a social butterfly and I really miss spreading my wings Most people miss spreading other things " This is true...I never thought but it all starts with being social | |||
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"I spend too much time on my phone. Usually on fab... " Sure what else would you be doing this time of the night | |||
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"I spend too much time on my phone. Usually on fab... Sure what else would you be doing this time of the night " Sleeping maybe.... | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) " Well done | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) Well done " yes good for you!! Well done | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) " Well done, i wish i had your motivation | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) Well done, i wish i had your motivation " you don't need motivation RH. You are already stunning | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) Well done, i wish i had your motivation you don't need motivation RH. You are already stunning " Youre very sweet x | |||
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"If you can put enough of a effort into exercise it will pay off (2.5 stone down since last June) Well done, i wish i had your motivation you don't need motivation RH. You are already stunning Youre very sweet x" trust me when you start it's hard but after a few days you will be looking forward to your walk every evening. It's a great way to clear the head and mind. Throw on the headphones and belt away | |||
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