FabSwingers.com forum: “Sex tips”

By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I read a book years ago, in my yoof I suppose, “Sex tips for Straight women from Gay Men”. I still have it and it was well thumbed!

Just wondering if anyone else had a book that was in a similar vein and informative...??

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Hustler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Readers Wives was very informative back in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pornhub.com, and exploration. Practical assignments are the best way to learn

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I remember finding "The joy of sex " in my dads wardrobe as a teenager

Drawings of a very hairy man and a not so hairy woman in loads of different positions

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Omg the joy of sex was hilarious. The bushes were epic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub conversation and the cosmopolitan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fhm was my bible

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

Yes, me too, and all her other books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pregnant women.. By ivor Dunne was a good read.

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

50 shades of grey way better than film

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Omg the joy of sex was hilarious. The bushes were epic!! "

Oh I'd forgotten about that. They were so funny.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

I still have those and dip in and out, absolutely mind-bogglingly sexy. I find erotic fiction almost sexier than porn - the good stuff tho, not the “I fucked her c*nt” fantasy shite I read on forums.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"50 shades of grey way better than film"

That entire series, the books and the movies, was utter tripe IMO. I read it for book club and was disgusted. Can’t believe the amount of twats who got into BDSM after those books LOL

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By *agherafeltmanMan
over a year ago

magherafelt

I remember finding "the art of course sex" in our study when i was a cub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

Never heard of it... will have to investigate..

The sources of sex knowledge was a mixture of mags.. erotic fiction books which I couldn’t be bothered with knowing who wrote it..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I know I wasn't the target audience for fifty shades but I read the first two chapters of the first book and was convinced I'd downloaded the wrong book as it was obviously written by a 16 year old boy. I didn't even get to the sex parts as the whole structure was just so so bad.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener

Never heard of it... will have to investigate..

The sources of sex knowledge was a mixture of mags.. erotic fiction books which I couldn’t be bothered with knowing who wrote it..

It’s an insanely good collection of short stories/fantasy’s. Essential reading.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"I know I wasn't the target audience for fifty shades but I read the first two chapters of the first book and was convinced I'd downloaded the wrong book as it was obviously written by a 16 year old boy. I didn't even get to the sex parts as the whole structure was just so so bad."

It’s a heap of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

Likewise. Revelationary reading and incredibly erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

The lovers guide....xtra vision rented it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

The lovers guide....xtra vision rented it

That's it couldn't remember it for the life of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener

Never heard of it... will have to investigate..

The sources of sex knowledge was a mixture of mags.. erotic fiction books which I couldn’t be bothered with knowing who wrote it..

It’s an insanely good collection of short stories/fantasy’s. Essential reading. "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The way we used to learn things

https://youtu.be/KdTCJY9wT3c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

The lovers guide....xtra vision rented it

That's it couldn't remember it for the life of me "

Found it in my parents drawer when I was a kid , great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

I couldnt get past the terrible writing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is like most things, you can read up all the theory you like, practical experience is far more useful, not least understanding that everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned on by words. Its my go-to eroticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get turned on by words. Its my go-to eroticism"

Is that being a sapiophile??

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

When me and my family moved here I stumped upon a kamasutra book in my new room hidden in the wardrobe changed my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener

Likewise. Revelationary reading and incredibly erotic"

Amazing how many women own Alsatians

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener

Likewise. Revelationary reading and incredibly erotic

Amazing how many women own Alsatians

HAHAHHAHA!!!! I remember that now - OMG. I think the Donkey one was absolutely mind-blowing. I don’t think I’ve been shocked at anything since I got over that one.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

There is the male version of The Secret Garden called Men in Love.. not as erotic tho..

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

Viz was a good read at least I think that's what it used to be called always funny and educational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

Eye opener indeed.... I just had a little look... well I can only imagine what a read like that would do to a young woman... wow...

I feel like an amateur after reading a couple of snippets...

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By *avana_oh_na_naWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

A book came out last year, it's a must read for all, I think. It's called "lick like a lesbian"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A book came out last year, it's a must read for all, I think. It's called "lick like a lesbian""

I'll have to look that one up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The book that has helped me pick up the most chicks, is definitely The Official Driver Theory Test - RSA

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"The Secret Garden by Nancy Friday was my eye opener"

This

Couldn't believe I wasn't alone in some of my fantasies and arousals.

The fact women had the same was an eye opener.

Apparently there's an updated version I must get my hands on soon

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Erica Jong, Henry Miller and Anaïs Nin worth a read oh and Xaviera Hollander was also good.

All distant memories so I may be reminiscing with rose tinted glasses but I'm sure others will correct me if I'm outdated

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The Happy hooker...unbelievable books

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

"Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

Was it the lovers guide?

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"Fifty shades is dreadful tripe. I have a few erotic stories books and they are okay.

Trying to thing of the name of the video that came out in the 90s about sex.

Was it the lovers guide? "

Yes. See above

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By *intage AmigosCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Northsider...D69

Emmanuel, the story of Nicholas, joy of sex & lovers guide...as a 12 Yr old I found a copy of karma Siltra in the lodgers room, she was 21 I was 12, I don't think in 1971 ireland I really knew what I was reading...

Ch4 turned Lovers guide into a TV series

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

in early age it were French classics like Guy de Maupassant or Honore d’Balzac. In my twens the books of Emmanuelle Arsan and Erica Jong , of course joy if sex is a good one too. Absolutely hot is Almudena Grandes “Lulu”.

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

"Erica Jong, Henry Miller and Anaïs Nin worth a read oh and Xaviera Hollander was also good.

All distant memories so I may be reminiscing with rose tinted glasses but I'm sure others will correct me if I'm outdated

Don’t think those are out dated. These are real classics , celluloid for the brains erotic cinema

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the husler mag when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No books, but online forums, question and answer type places and such things back in my mid teenage years

And experimenting with lots of different sensations and physical resources

when masturbating taught me lots about what feels good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 yo me read lots of Cosmo, that was about it, learned everything else on the job

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