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By *oulman OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.

It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here two months and already have two verifications. Seems like you're doing just fine. Also not sure if you're aware but we're in the middle of a pandemic. Might have something to do with people not meeting

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

There have been many threads on this so ill just highlight the bullet points

You joined in the middle of covid where a lot of people arent meeting and therefore arent engaging with new people

The ratio of men to women is waaaaay out of wack so youre up against 100s of other men

People often have a look at profile/pics before deciding whether or not to reply. If they dont feel the profile fits them they wont reply

Best advice i can give, enjoy the forums and join in, have a bitnof craic, let people see what youre like, and once things are lifted then maybe see how things are.

You need a LOT of patience on here especially as a single male

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure this topic has been covered before ?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"I'm sure this topic has been covered before ?"

Ah only once or twice

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By *oulman OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

All good points for sure. Yes this topic has certainly being covered before.

Being new I suppose I just would like to engage with people in the hope we get on and meet up at some stage.

Patience is a virtue

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Hang in there PT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a pandemic and majority of people aren't meeting. And I've seen comments from people that they won't meet anyone who has met other people during the pandemic.

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By *oulman OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ?? "

Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.

I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not that difficult really

Just hang in there

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's more than ten times the amount of men than women on here.

A while ago us fab-women tried to take shifts so that every man is looked after in time and regular basis but it was simply not doable.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ?? "

Only so much chatting can be done. It's been a long year and the chat can fizzle out, only so many conversations about the weather, what sex position you like, or what cake you like

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By *oulman OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m looking for people who are close by to me so the fun element can still happen. Obviously anyone who is miles outside my radius just won’t work. I agree with the women to men ratio is way off. I can only assume women are bombarded with messages from guys. I get it.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Don't worry OP when the plague has been dealt with Fab normality will resume.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??

Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.

I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?"

This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city


"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??

Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.

I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?

This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague "

The genuine

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??

Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.

I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?

This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague

The genuine "

Non genuine surely

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Many people including us are a bit "chatted out" at this stage and are only really chatting on the forums. Join in the chats here for now and you can get to know people that way

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

As others have already said, the majority of us are not looking to meet at the moment

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Like you said op patience is a virtue maybe listen to your own advice and of course add in the other factors

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By *rcher42Man
over a year ago

Ennis


"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.

It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "

Don't let it get you down, people aren't meeting now, mostly and lots won't want to engage in chats when it's not clear when meets will be a thing again. The forum is good craic!

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By *rcher42Man
over a year ago

Ennis


"There's more than ten times the amount of men than women on here.

A while ago us fab-women tried to take shifts so that every man is looked after in time and regular basis but it was simply not doable.....

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Was the ballance better before??

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh


"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.

It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "
Hugo boss is the answer op you'll have to bate them off with a big stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people including us are a bit "chatted out" at this stage and are only really chatting on the forums. Join in the chats here for now and you can get to know people that way "

Absolutely this, there's only so many times you can tell someone how lockdown is treating you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.

It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "

PAndemic.... rotation male female... etc etc..

HAve patience ..breath relax

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.

It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "

Hiding your profile won’t help you either just FYI.

Might have a legit reason but can look like a fella is attached if he stops chatting or hides his profile in an evening/weekend.

Otherwise, lots of good advice already provide

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