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"Curious to know how it got started and how did one initiate the conversation...? I’ve listened to a podcast with a couple who first mentioned it to his missus in a text. They found that face to face conversation was difficult discussing swapping or introducing another into their marriage... and that the idea started with dirty talk during sex and escalated to texting and then finally acting on the fantasy... hopefully you can share your story... " Usual way I suppose, talking about fantasies and previous experiences.. it turned out we both had our share of swinging experiences prior to meeting.. a couple of days later Mrs P messages me with log in details to our new fab profile..  | |||
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"Curious to know how it got started and how did one initiate the conversation...? I’ve listened to a podcast with a couple who first mentioned it to his missus in a text. They found that face to face conversation was difficult discussing swapping or introducing another into their marriage... and that the idea started with dirty talk during sex and escalated to texting and then finally acting on the fantasy... hopefully you can share your story... Usual way I suppose, talking about fantasies and previous experiences.. it turned out we both had our share of swinging experiences prior to meeting.. a couple of days later Mrs P messages me with log in details to our new fab profile.. "Usual... I guess that’s what I’m interested in seeing if it’s the usual... lol.. that’s cool though that you had discovered past swinging experiences.. makes it a lot easier to keep it up.. so to speak... I like that Mrs took the initiative..  | |||
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"Good old Dutch courage.... alcohol helped me. I thought about it for quite a while before I even approached the subject with my husband. He was amazing when I told him. We sat and had a good chat about the do's and dont's of how we want the experience to go." I’m sure a couple of drinks before you take the plunge was needed... but fair play and glad it worked out for you...  | |||
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"First seen it in the papers thinking any cples that done this where crazy! Real crazy! I guess we are conditioned to believe this from an early age in Ireland. But..... It was arousing and seemed to get our blood going when we talked about it. Started watching some porn and discussing it more. Join another Irish swinging site to talk to other but never had the courage to meet. Another few years went by then had our first meet and now know we should have been doing this sooner. All that wasted time! Now, covid has put a dent on our swinging life. As soon as restrictions are lifted and we know it's safe to meet. Let's just say we're going to enjoy ourselves ALOT!!! "Definitely not on your own there... I felt it’s a place for the depraved too... ehhh sure I probably still think that lol...I’m sure you’ll have great fun when it’s back to normal... Interesting that it took a number of years to actually transition from fantasy to actually meets.. although I suppose not surprised.. it’s a massive leap... | |||
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"We got told about this site on a Facebook group as we was interested in Mrs Gs exploring her bi side, joined up and we decided to give other aspects a try and we've enjoyed it so far" It’s the lifestyle choice I was more interested in not the finding fab.. as in I wouldn’t expect married couples to have always shared their adventurous side with each other... when or how did this happen... thanks for the response anyway | |||
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"We've always been open and honest with each other, were discussing past experiences and fantasies one night and Lee suggested we put mine to the test (MFM). I made a profile on fab and here we are. It was a while before we had an actual meet as we both needed to feel comfortable about what we were doing and the possible consequences for our relationship." I suppose it always helps if you’re open about it from the outset... and a lot of courage to make it reality too... thanks Casey | |||
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"First seen it in the papers thinking any cples that done this where crazy! Real crazy! I guess we are conditioned to believe this from an early age in Ireland. But..... It was arousing and seemed to get our blood going when we talked about it. Started watching some porn and discussing it more. Join another Irish swinging site to talk to other but never had the courage to meet. Another few years went by then had our first meet and now know we should have been doing this sooner. All that wasted time! Now, covid has put a dent on our swinging life. As soon as restrictions are lifted and we know it's safe to meet. Let's just say we're going to enjoy ourselves ALOT!!! "We are together over 10 years and I only brought it up at the end of last year. I wish I said something sooner but life etc was all go and me exploring my Bi side just wasnt a priority. So yea, I picked the real wrong time to bring it up with my husband, slap bang in the middle of COVID lockdown. We met someone from near by on here who wants to join us for FFM but because of the restrictions it just hasn't happened. I will get my experience at some stage!!! | |||
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