FabSwingers.com forum: Is most fabbed that important??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Anyway..... It turns out that this girl gets abuse from well known Irish profiles for her photos and....... Wait for it...... gets messaged by some profiles (including regular Irish forum posters) asking her to stop posting photos and to "give others a chance" to get the seemingly most coveted most fab top spot.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

Reminds me of the rival American ice skaters in the lead up to the Lillehammer olypmics when Tonya Harding arranged to have get rival Nancy Kerrigan kneecapped as she knew she wasnt as good a skater, but wanted to win!

The mentality of some people on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking anyone whether they are hot or not is out of line. People need to cop on and let people use fab the way they want.

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here.. "

Nothing surprises me on this site anymore. For sure there are people who totally depend on the amount of fabs they get on their photos to reassure themselves (I've seen it first hand) I take everything people say with a pinch of salt, (good or bad!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking anyone whether they are hot or not is out of line. People need to cop on and let people use fab the way they want."

But messaging fellow females to ask them to stop posting pics and "give others a chance"????

Incredible behaviour from an adult regardless of the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking anyone whether they are hot or not is out of line. People need to cop on and let people use fab the way they want.

But messaging fellow females to ask them to stop posting pics and "give others a chance"????

Incredible behaviour from an adult regardless of the context. "

100% agree. But nothing surprises me on here. Messaging anyone to tell then to stop posting pics is daft but people are weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not at all surprised... I’ve seen it on different platforms... it’s just like Likes on Facebook it taps into our need to be loved and desired and accepted.. it’s the way we are all hard wired.. just some get more lost in it than others... what can you do..

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’m waiting to be told to take mine down as other men are jealous

I’ve managed to last a few days at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the ladies here very supportive and empowering of each other. The only time I would message a lady about her photo is to compliment her on it or ask her where she got her lingerie from. I've never had one bitchy comment or message from any of the girls here. We should lift each other up not knock each other down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it's laughable now the lengths some people will go to here to appear popular. To actually ask someone not to post photos so someone else can be number one is pathetic in my eyes.

I have often fabbed those ladies that are number one,two and so on and will continue to do so. Not all of us are that needy or hungry for attention and can appreciate beautiful women. Happy fabbing all x

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

Thats just ridiculous behaviour from anyone on any social site! It is never ok to send someone shitty messages and then to do it in order to have some sort of 'one up' on them is even worse!!!! People behind a keyboard can sometimes just be the worst!

Mrs C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have rights to upload as many photos as we like.

I've never been on the hot top list because most of my photos are hidden and visible for friends only.

I agree with RedLips most of us women support each other and compliment each other, and this kind of behaviour is inappropriate, especially on the adults website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard the comments and seen cryptic status updates aimed at some women on the hot photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find the ladies here very supportive and empowering of each other. The only time I would message a lady about her photo is to compliment her on it or ask her where she got her lingerie from. I've never had one bitchy comment or message from any of the girls here. We should lift each other up not knock each other down."

Well clearly that's not the case. Or maybe it's just the case in.... dare I say it.... Cliques!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here.. "

Bang average in who's opinion? No need for stupid attention seeking crap like that or asking anyone not to post pics but transparent support of one person's pics over another is just as shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well clearly that's not the case. Or maybe it's just the case in.... dare I say it.... Cliques!!

I'm just explaining my experiences on Fab sweetie. I get lots of lovely messages from girls here and not even to do with these infamous cliques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here.. "
... I had to act actually read that twice to get my head around it... The desperate human obsession for attention and getting the better of someone else knows no bounds....

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It's not acceptable. I get it the whole time. People asking me to take down my ridiculous hot pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here..

Bang average in who's opinion? No need for stupid attention seeking crap like that or asking anyone not to post pics but transparent support of one person's pics over another is just as shallow.

Bang average in MY opinion. I'm allowed an opinion right?? I've seen these pics and in my opinion they are BANG AVERAGE. Now I haven't named any names so I'm not attempting to support or berate any individuals pics publically.

But last time I checked I was allowed to forum an opinion on a photo that someone posts publically on here. If they object to me thinking it's average or if they even care then perhaps they should refrain from making it public rather than messaging someone else asking them to take there's down.

Is there an issue here pal??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well clearly that's not the case. Or maybe it's just the case in.... dare I say it.... Cliques!!

I'm just explaining my experiences on Fab sweetie. I get lots of lovely messages from girls here and not even to do with these infamous cliques

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I think that people who take top fabbed pics seriously need to seek out help.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here..

Bang average in who's opinion? No need for stupid attention seeking crap like that or asking anyone not to post pics but transparent support of one person's pics over another is just as shallow.

Is there an issue here pal??

You should know by now there's no issue at all because I call it as I see it on here. I'm not disagreeing that it's a ridiculous thing to do by anyone. Getting to the top of the hotpics is an obsession by some people as is attention seeking.

You are entitled to your opinion on what is hot and what is not. I asked so you could clarify if it was your opinion or the opinion of the person being asked not to post.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I might get shot down for this but I believe that there are some people (mainly ladies) whose main motivation here is attention/validation/verification, it's not sex at all. Plus the more attention they get, the more they crave so it's a vicious circle which can lead to actions such as what you describe, OP. However, let me say that any ladies here that I've chatted to, or met have been really lovely and supportive. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might get shot down for this but I believe that there are some people (mainly ladies) whose main motivation here is attention/validation/verification, it's not sex at all. Plus the more attention they get, the more they crave so it's a vicious circle which can lead to actions such as what you describe, OP. However, let me say that any ladies here that I've chatted to, or met have been really lovely and supportive. Mrs

You may well be onto something there Mrs!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Well thats very odd. dont see why anyone would stoop to that but stranger things and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope me neither I find the ladies of fab very supportive of one another as a general rule

Mrs S

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nope me neither I find the ladies of fab very supportive of one another as a general rule

Mrs S "

Same here. Any ladies I have met or chat to are absolutely lovely

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Is getting to the top of hot pics that big a deal anyhow ?

The pics that are usually at the top usually deserve to be up there. Yes there are people who are regularly up at the top but they put the effort in to take good pics and post them regularly. And fair play to them. I really wouldn't have thought getting to the top would be that big a deal that people would ask others not to post.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is remarkable considering the top pics are usually littered with Transylvanians and their Williams!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

who gives a flying tiddlers fuck. "ohhh i want to be top, I want to be on top". its an online site

. some must have seriously sad lives but this place is a huge part of life for some individuals so I'm not surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope me neither I find the ladies of fab very supportive of one another as a general rule

Mrs S "

Same as and I have made some lovely friends here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on the hot pic list, don't think I ever will be for that matter! Do I care? Definitely not! But... And it's a huge but, if I was and a woman or any fab member for that matter asked me not to post so many hot pics it would just make me want to post far more! I'm twisted like that!

Daisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit desperate if they were serious...but is there a possibility it was meant in jest and taken the wrong way?

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Is it really such a big thing to be on top fab pics? I don’t know as it doesn’t bother me. I’ll never make it there & I don’t care either. The ladies on here are amazing, they don’t shut the door on anyone, but then it only takes one to rock the boat. Who knows, was it said in jest? Is it really jealousy? I’m guessing, but I hope the lady doesn’t stop with her pics.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Yeah one of the reasons I don't post pics that often is I don't want to be always hogging that top spot. Be sound and let the other lads at it, y'know yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a little surprised (yep even after all the shit I see on here) at the mentality of some fabsters in general, including some prominent Irish forum posters!

I was recently chatting to a woman on her who frequently posts hot photos which deservedly attract lots of fabs. No not that woman, another one.

Seriously!!!! Asking a hot girl to stop posting photos so that one might get their bang average photos to the number 1 most fabbed spot.

The mentality of some people on here.. "

Wtf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few can be 'most fabbed' so its not important enough to be getting hung up on. However it takes time, creativity and investment to get the pictures to put here so I think its ok to enjoy the appreciation for that

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

I also find this strange any one would send this to any female ...are u sure ?

Any fab ladies I know are very supportive of each other and I'd echo a few of the above ladies sentiments we would compliment each other ?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I smell a discrepancy:

1. My single profile photos were regularly in most fabbed list and zero times have I received any messages telling me to give someone else a chance.

2. Most regular forum posters (with only exception of profiles who just feel the need to fight with everyone for any reason, yes you know who you are) have more class than that and generally don't give a damn about who's on top fabbed photos. Quite the opposite actually - they create "well done" posts to celebrate them. Most recent one I've seen was one dedicated to our beautiful Isserley.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I also find this strange any one would send this to any female ...are u sure ?

Any fab ladies I know are very supportive of each other and I'd echo a few of the above ladies sentiments we would compliment each other ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I smell a discrepancy:

1. My single profile photos were regularly in most fabbed list and zero times have I received any messages telling me to give someone else a chance.

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would even go as far as to say that maybe the OP is mistaken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would even go as far as to say that maybe the OP is mistaken.

I can assure you and others who voiced scepticism that there is no "discrepancy" or mistake and sadly it is indeed the case.

Actually surprised about the number of private messages I've had regarding the same.

It also appears that what some 'women' say on here and what they say elsewhere is where the 'discrepancy' lies. Nothing like keeping up appearances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would even go as far as to say that maybe the OP is mistaken.

I can assure you and others who voiced scepticism that there is no "discrepancy" or mistake and sadly it is indeed the case.

Actually surprised about the number of private messages I've had regarding the same.

It also appears that what some 'women' say on here and what they say elsewhere is where the 'discrepancy' lies. Nothing like keeping up appearances!

Well call these so called women out on their behaviour, stop beating around the Bush or stirring the pot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh here's a thought why doesn't the lady herself come on and say it has happened! I know if anything like that happened I wouldn't be long pointing it out.

People both men and women need to be called out on their behaviour

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Is there something to be gained from being top of the list?

I mean, besides the fact that it’s nice to get fabs, particularly for those of us who may not get many

But is there something to be gained from being top of the list on a regular basis, or a certain number of times in a month, apart form an ego boost, which I’m sure is well deserved, but do you get a membership discount or something?

Or job offers as a model or something?.....

I’m only asking so I know what I’m aiming for.....

I really need to up my game......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there something to be gained from being top of the list?

I mean, besides the fact that it’s nice to get fabs, particularly for those of us who may not get many

Or job offers as a model or something?.....

I’m only asking so I know what I’m aiming for.....

I really need to up my game......

I've heard there's creme eggs for 1st placd

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I've heard there's creme eggs for 1st placd"

I feckin love creme eggs......

Now I really have something to aim for....

Now tell me, how do you eat yours?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard there's creme eggs for 1st placd

I feckin love creme eggs......

Now I really have something to aim for....

Now tell me, how do you eat yours?...

Nibble the top off and slowly lick all of the cream inside out and than let the chocolate melt in my mouth and .....swallow mmmm

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Nibble the top off and slowly lick all of the cream inside out and than let the chocolate melt in my mouth and .....swallow mmmm"

I feckin love you too now....

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

"Oh here's a thought why doesn't the lady herself come on and say it has happened! I know if anything like that happened I wouldn't be long pointing it out.

People both men and women need to be called out on their behaviour "

I agree with u on this why wouldn't she say ?

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

I can't say I've ever thought or noticed the most fabbed pictures. It's not a feature I'd be bothered with especially regarding numbers of times fabbed. Suppose its just a nice photo or not no more no less.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Can I ask have u actually seen these message that was sent to this lady sometimes everything isn't as it seems on here..

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

And IP you calling people's pic bang average make u no different to these people...

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"And IP you calling people's pic bang average make u no different to these people..."

Just another shit stirring post from the King of Shitstirville himself.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Such drama on the Internet

IF it's true then I feel sorry for the person who feels the need for their attractiveness validated by random strangers

I do feel it's more a case of someone being duped by the whole 'oh I'm so hot women are scared no one else will notice them so they are mean to me'

If someone was getting these types of mail then surely the report block and move on mantra should be applied here

If it's something the OP has made up to amuse himself or pay tribute to the hot woman who stands out so much from the bang average in his eyes, hopefully it will get him a shag

It's all just font on a screen. Most people have more going on in their lives than worrying about strangers approval

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Doesn't bother us who is top of the hotlist tbh, we do look and sometimes we fab them and sometimes we don't, all depends on the pic and not the person for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Woah, I think given the posts of a few women on here it's easy to see that this could happen.

I know names, I'm not going to post them on here, we all know naming and shaming isn't allowed.

Me calling these pics bang average is nothing like the same. Ive kept it anonymous and I'm allowed to have an opinion. As I've said before if someone posts photos of themselves on a public forum then they are opening themselves up to that. Just because they seem deluded enough to think they should expect to get lots of fabs on their photos doesn't mean everykne thinks the same. Now I agree, messaging such women to tell them their pics are bang average would make me no better and would be wrong, but I haven't done that. So your point is completely irrelevant, touchy much??

Anyone who thinks I'm sad enough to make this up or to pedal it with an agenda in the hope of getting laid is just as sad. I guess that's the typical fab mindset that there has to be a motive for everything to try to get a leg over.

And the hypocrisy of this whole thing?? some of those involved have actually posted on this thread. Nice people!

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Some people are desperate to get to the top pages. They have their reasons why.

There is alot more to life...

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And IP you calling people's pic bang average make u no different to these people...

Just another shit stirring post from the King of Shitstirville himself. "

This post isn't about you or whether you got fabs on your pics or not.

Thanks for the kind words, I don't even recognise your profile. Irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At end of day by posting pic on here unfortunately people both men and women are open to abuse etc as someone else said , report block and move on. At end of day it says more about the person sending the message than anything else.

Happy Wednesday

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've been here for a good while and I've seen and witnessed quite substantial drama deriving from the hot pic feature.

It spans from bending over backwards to get the hundreds of fabs needed for the top ten and even into the uk tops to pure and bare rivalry, jealousy, spite, malice, intrigues and piles of lies.

While the 'collecting fabs addiction' doesn't harm others, it's their business, their way of using fab and it's each on their own.

The other end of the scale, when the fab competition is being taken too seriously, that's way more scary and malicious but thankfully also not too common. As others mentioned above most ladies are supportive of each other but there's the odd ones that go off the rails for whatever reason.

Anyhow got a small taste of it myself many moons ago, one (of several) reason I took my pics out of the fab circus. I'm not here to compete or for drama.

Finally as also mentioned above, op keep in mind there's always two sides of a story and not everything that shines is gold. 'Above average' lookers are not always angels and the victims of said attacks, I've actually seen it more the other way around.

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over a year ago

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