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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good Morning all

Miss Lolly shared a handy tip this morning about not deleting friend requests and it made me wonder are there any other little tips people have to share for example for managing mail, pics, profiles or privacy here on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Edit *Ms Lolly

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

If I send a message to a profile I’ve not chatted with before I always delete it from my sent box that way I’m not stressing in it’s read or deleted or whatever. It’s like shrodingers cat

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Use the block button as an additional filter for anyone you aren't compatible with or to tidy up your updates page if you don't want to see inane, abusive or repetitive status updates.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Use common sense. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's not a swan!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who want to gossip about others will do the same to you. Avoid, avoid

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Those who want to gossip about others will do the same to you. Avoid, avoid"

This

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Private notes....a great way of remembering good and bad things about a profile

Like a birthday

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

A very simple one and it really shouldn't need to be said. For lads whinging about lack of replies. Read the bloody profiles.

I don't message women on here all that often. However...

If I see a page that says they're looking for men 40+, I don't message... because I'm not over 40.

If I see a page that says they're looking to play with women only, I don't message, because I'm male...

If they are in the west of Ireland and only want to meet local people, I don't message because... well you get it by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If you put pople on your hotlist you'll see their updated pictures without having to go into their profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you put pople on your hotlist you'll see their updated pictures without having to go into their profile....

"

I call it the stalker facility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"If you put pople on your hotlist you'll see their updated pictures without having to go into their profile....

I call it the stalker facility "

Damn you caught me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who... "

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

When they start up again add clubs to your hotlist so you can easily find updates to socials, M&G and the like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you put pople on your hotlist you'll see their updated pictures without having to go into their profile....

I call it the stalker facility

Damn you caught me "

Don't doubt it for one minute!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private notes best feature ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet "

exactly... Targeting and getting wound up over a faceless profile that you will never meet or will ever know anything about will always be a mystery to me

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who... "

And who verifies who

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet exactly... Targeting and getting wound up over a faceless profile that you will never meet or will ever know anything about will always be a mystery to me "

Agreed. Right up to the point where they share your private pics and messages with others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet exactly... Targeting and getting wound up over a faceless profile that you will never meet or will ever know anything about will always be a mystery to me

Agreed. Right up to the point where they share your private pics and messages with others. "

Whats happening here, I feel like im missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick a day when you are feeling super confident and emotionally strong then get all the rejections done and dusted in one go

Just rip that plaster right off and then the rest of the week is all gravy

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Put up a self-deprecating status update and watch your inbox light up from people boosting your ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take this place too seriously, log off and get back to the real world and what really matters if this place is frustrating you. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up a self-deprecating status update and watch your inbox light up from people boosting your ego "

I suspect this only works for women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I put my profile private for that break. but i didnt realise it looks like ive blocked people so thats unfortunate. id love if there was a feature where you could make the public profile invisible but friends could still see it.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Block and report instead of getting into arguments with gobshites and getting yourself a ban

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive suggested this to guys who get unwanted messages from guys too... keep reporting and clear the decks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I put my profile private for that break. but i didnt realise it looks like ive blocked people so thats unfortunate. id love if there was a feature where you could make the public profile invisible but friends could still see it.

"

They can still see your profile on their friends list, they just can't click on it and view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who want to gossip about others will do the same to you. Avoid, avoid"

Remember if they casually share personal information about others in a group, Then they would easily share about you as quick. So be mindful about what you say.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Use filters

Use notes for both good and bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway"

I'm not in any groups for that reason alone.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway"

It's not just in groups that personal information is shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway"

I'm in two groups and they both have been a blessing through lockdown. Lots of laughs and advice given.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway

I'm not in any groups for that reason alone. "

They sometimes become like echo chambers, and chambers make me claustrophobic lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Watermark your pics and in a way that the watermark can't be cropped unless you are content to have them used by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway

It's not just in groups that personal information is shared. "

That's true

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

We normally try to put a label on our pics so they won't be stolen, not sure if it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't delete your profile, just hide it if you need a break. It's like heartbreak hotel here you truly never leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We normally try to put a label on our pics so they won't be stolen, not sure if it works "

I label mine but doubt anyone would rob mine. Was told once that I definitely wasn't fake as no-one would use my fat pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We normally try to put a label on our pics so they won't be stolen, not sure if it works

I label mine but doubt anyone would rob mine. Was told once that I definitely wasn't fake as no-one would use my fat pics "

Jesus what an asshole .. let that one go gorgeous

im pretty sure mine are too wierd to be stolen... but i like the watermark idea for creative reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We normally try to put a label on our pics so they won't be stolen, not sure if it works

I label mine but doubt anyone would rob mine. Was told once that I definitely wasn't fake as no-one would use my fat pics

Jesus what an asshole .. let that one go gorgeous

im pretty sure mine are too wierd to be stolen... but i like the watermark idea for creative reasons."

Well used to it. I've thick skin like a whale now lol

Definitely do the watermark/label thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly thats a Fab tip in itself, develop a thick skin and wear weighted boots to keep yourself well grounded lol!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get messages insulting our profiles, our photos and our likes and dislikes. Great advice I got was don't feed into these people because if you do you enable them. Ignore them and don't let them see it bothers you. If they don't get a reaction then they will just move on.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Switch of the fab option on your pics. Solves several issues in one go and keeps your profile nicely quiet.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Use your filters especially if you are female it cuts down the amount of messages you get .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly thats a Fab tip in itself, develop a thick skin and wear weighted boots to keep yourself well grounded lol!!

xx"

And if they kinky boots even better again

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway

I'm in two groups and they both have been a blessing through lockdown. Lots of laughs and advice given. "

Group emails?

Whats that?

Is it where fab put all your mail from individuals into one chat or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh maybe thats it.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Thanks all especially the notes feature. ill check it out. I cant figure out the 'grouped mails' thing either does anyone use it?

Im not in any of the groups so god knows whats said about me. and i dont care anyway

I'm in two groups and they both have been a blessing through lockdown. Lots of laughs and advice given.

Group emails?

Whats that?

Is it where fab put all your mail from individuals into one chat or something?"

I think what's meant here is chat groups as in kik groups.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

The group mailbox is handy, it just groups mails from a person into one thread instead of individual messages.

You have less congestion in your mailbox and it's easy to see when that person mailed you last.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"The group mailbox is handy, it just groups mails from a person into one thread instead of individual messages.

You have less congestion in your mailbox and it's easy to see when that person mailed you last. "

Is it standard....thats what mine does anyway although I seem to remember being asked did i want to use the new type mailbox

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"The group mailbox is handy, it just groups mails from a person into one thread instead of individual messages.

You have less congestion in your mailbox and it's easy to see when that person mailed you last.

Is it standard....thats what mine does anyway although I seem to remember being asked did i want to use the new type mailbox "

Less stamps to lick

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"The group mailbox is handy, it just groups mails from a person into one thread instead of individual messages.

You have less congestion in your mailbox and it's easy to see when that person mailed you last.

Is it standard....thats what mine does anyway although I seem to remember being asked did i want to use the new type mailbox "

Once you change over it just stays like that. I think you can revert back if you don't like it to old style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware who you share face pictures with (one of the reasons we avoid the face pic Friday threads like a plague)

Avoid the people with egos

If you are worried about your name being known use a name similar to your real one.

Never give people your last name

Never delete winks as it stops people sending them (only lasts a month but better then constant winks from the same people)

Don't get involve in other people's drama as you may get dragged into it unknowingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pity we can't have this pinned to the top of the page

Oh if you send a message and its read and deleted but you get no reply. Just move on and keep smiling. Not everyone will like you, your not a jar of Nutella

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Block anyone who puts up "bored" as a status

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Block anyone who puts up "bored" as a status "

Or fill in later

Or here before..know the score

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Block anyone who puts up "bored" as a status "

Sorry but it just paints a picture of laziness to me. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also Thank you for the fabs on your status don't do it. To me it comes across as please please fab my photos ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning all

Miss Lolly shared a handy tip this morning about not deleting friend requests and it made me wonder are there any other little tips people have to share for example for managing mail, pics, profiles or privacy here on Fab. "

DTA

Don't trust anybody!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Also Thank you for the fabs on your status don't do it. To me it comes across as please please fab my photos ha ha

"

I was desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also Thank you for the fabs on your status don't do it. To me it comes across as please please fab my photos ha ha

I was desperate "

I have already spoken to you about doing this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

or just a thanks?

some people are sincere i like to think.

But thats in conflict with the DTA...

Ach, Im not gonna overthink that one.

As one of my wisest friends says

"Just do you, boo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or just a thanks?

some people are sincere i like to think.

But thats in conflict with the DTA...

Ach, Im not gonna overthink that one.

As one of my wisest friends says

"Just do you, boo"

"

And enjoy the ride

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah ha ha - believe me I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or just a thanks?

some people are sincere i like to think.

But thats in conflict with the DTA...

Ach, Im not gonna overthink that one.

As one of my wisest friends says

"Just do you, boo"

"

Ideally a balance of trust and scepticism is best.

But speaking from experience, its best not to trust anyone therefore you avoid the inevitable disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fab as in life, most people can be trusted to a point, but only insofar as their goals are congruent with yours

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Pity we can't have this pinned to the top of the page

Oh if you send a message and its read and deleted but you get no reply. Just move on and keep smiling. Not everyone will like you, your not a jar of Nutella "

I don't like Nutella.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"or just a thanks?

some people are sincere i like to think.

But thats in conflict with the DTA...

Ach, Im not gonna overthink that one.

As one of my wisest friends says

"Just do you, boo"

Ideally a balance of trust and scepticism is best.

But speaking from experience, its best not to trust anyone therefore you avoid the inevitable disappointment "

Ah No..

thats like not looking forward to holidays or not falling in love

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County


"Block anyone who puts up "bored" as a status

Or fill in later

Or here before..know the score "

The later drives us mad...with the added line if anyone knows me verify me.

Not trying to single out males bit we have found them most guilty of it

If you "know the score" , you surely know a one line profile won't get you far..rant over

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Don’t get too popular, you quickly become a target

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Don’t get too popular, you quickly become a target"

From who

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County


"Don’t get too popular, you quickly become a target

From who "

Maybe _xplicit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't eat yellow snow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point this place is not new user friendly and there are certain cliques on here.if you even mention it you are banned

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Don't feed the trolls

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Don't feed the trolls"

Very good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't feed the trolls"

Or enable the needy attention seekers.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"What's the point this place is not new user friendly and there are certain cliques on here.if you even mention it you are banned"

Hey man! What's the story?! Ya well? Good of you to bring some positivity to the place. The old inbox must be heaving with messages from all the rides on here ye? I'd say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware if Kelly Brook makes an appearance!

She's mad for it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"What's the point this place is not new user friendly and there are certain cliques on here.if you even mention it you are banned"

Only what you write can get you banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point this place is not new user friendly and there are certain cliques on here.if you even mention it you are banned

Hey man! What's the story?! Ya well? Good of you to bring some positivity to the place. The old inbox must be heaving with messages from all the rides on here ye? I'd say so!"

See this is the shit that comes along when ever anyone has an opinion on this site

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok back to the OP

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you join a site that has rules and regulations don't whinge and moan about the rules. In the majority of cases they were here before you were. Either accept them or go elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the helpful hints and tips.

And yes it would be great if some could indeed be pinned for future reference...

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I miss the lion...oh, and Ash, feck me she was completely bonkers....amongst others

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I miss the lion...oh, and Ash, feck me she was completely bonkers....amongst others "

Ash was stone mad and fuck me she was great craic on the forums.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"I miss the lion...oh, and Ash, feck me she was completely bonkers....amongst others

Ash was stone mad and fuck me she was great craic on the forums.

"

Think best advice from that era was ‘don’t try to understand Ash’

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I miss the lion...oh, and Ash, feck me she was completely bonkers....amongst others

Ash was stone mad and fuck me she was great craic on the forums.

Think best advice from that era was ‘don’t try to understand Ash’"

Good times

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

The only piece of advice I can give is to always wear sunscreen

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet "

I thought this was a myth until I started going on kik groups some cnuts on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet I thought this was a myth until I started going on kik groups some cnuts on them "

And the worst are the ones that pretend to be your friend while stabbing u in the back.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"I have learned to watch out for who is friendly with who...

Even more fascinating are the bitter grudges built up against total strangers on the frickin internet I thought this was a myth until I started going on kik groups some cnuts on them

And the worst are the ones that pretend to be your friend while stabbing u in the back. "

until you crack and call them out on their own page getting black listed but so worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only piece of advice I can give is to always wear sunscreen "

Trust me... on the sunscreen

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"The only piece of advice I can give is to always wear sunscreen

Trust me... on the sunscreen "

Ou get your own lines,,,, and look after your knees, you'll miss them when they are gone

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Write a half decent “thanks but no Thanks” message and copy and paste it to anyone who’s made an effort to write a nice message but you aren’t interested in. Then block them and delete it. That way you don’t burn bridges and at least you know yourself you aren’t a raging c*nt.

If you get a message you like and you want to reply but don’t have time, mark it as unread to remind you to reply later.

Your profile being hidden looks different to your profile blocking someone. You can put up an update and friends can see “taking a break” if they look jn their friends list.

Loads of others but you’ve gotten great tips here.

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