FabSwingers.com forum: Any tips on how to deal with Valentine's day

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any opinions welcome

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If your lonely or on your own why not join in a few threads on here and have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay in bed.. Applies, weather you're single or partnered

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Have a pamper day, nice bubble bath, glass of wine, watch a movie show yourself some love and attention

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Just another day in all honesty join in the fun and banter on the forum page

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

See it for what it is OP ... an over-commercialised load of crap

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

A day in bed with a big bucket of ice cream to drown my sorrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See it for what it is OP ... an over-commercialised load of crap

Yeap!!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Just another day... another Sunday...

Nothing to make a fuss about...

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Just another Sunday, you may be feeling alone but you are not on your own, lots of us dont have a significant other but I believe that you must look after yourself and your own mental health and well being, that's more important than a hallmark card day.

As others have said join in the forums, try the chat rooms, you dont have to switch cam on, take yourself out for a walk, try meditation or even make yourself your favourite meal. Then before you know it, its Monday and the start of a new week.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Any opinions welcome "

Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another commercialised hallmark day

I'll b home bout 9am from work. Hopefully get couple hours sleep, have some food and than back to bed for few more hours before night shift again.

However I did buy myself a bouquet of flowers and sent a few cards to friends. I will take a valentines themed pic for here and probably join in the banter on the forums.

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

Dublin

If your in a strong relationship you should be able to ignore Valentine’s Day as it’s only a commercial hallmark day. Maybe not necessarily ignore the day but do something that doesn’t involve money or make something homemade, food or a gift.

It’s 8:30pm and I’ve just been to my local Spar Shop and petrol station. It was full of confused looking men buying over priced chocolates and bouquets of flowers and cards. I felt cringe for them. Seemed like a tick the box exercise with no thought or love. Like a lot of relationships.

If your single, more power to you, if your in a relationship do something extra ordinary for your other half.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Any opinions welcome

Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself

What's this 'man up' crap? That went out with the last century. Cop on to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any opinions welcome

Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself

Where did he say he was feeling sorry for himself maybe he was asking for a general discussion. There's a sating if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any opinions welcome

Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself

Uncalled for

OP as a single woman I can relate Valentines seems like the one day where it's amplified that hey in case no one told you or you forgot

YOURE SINGLE!!!

But hey look at it like this better sitting on the shelf then stored in the wrong cupboard

Come Monday it'll all be forgotten about xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any opinions welcome

Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself

Not appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's commercialism personified but I will present my lady with breakfast in bed, a nice cosy fire when she alights from her slumber and a gift of a book she has been talking about. OK it's nothing special but the little things add up to saying how much your partner means.

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Of course it's commercialism personified but I will present my lady with breakfast in bed, a nice cosy fire when she alights from her slumber and a gift of a book she has been talking about. OK it's nothing special but the little things add up to saying how much your partner means."

Sounds very thoughtful op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly... it's the little things... no big gestures..

Most important is to love and mind your number 1...

That's yourself ...

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

"Any opinions welcome "
on what though??, not having a significant other? being in a loveless relationship? etc etc.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Just another day in all honesty join in the fun and banter on the forum page

100% this lol

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