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By *oggingtoyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

city

dont you just hate it when you put in time and thought into a nice sized email and they read it and dont bother to reply even if its to say not interested. be nice some men are actually trying here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait for the tyrade to come....take cover!!!

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By *oggingtoyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

city

what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means your going get a smackdown for posting that lol

Saying that we're not too bad. Have a look at the bashing some guys get on the other forums

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

if someone puts effort into a message it isnt much to expect a replay, however most dont! or they didnt bother to read the peoples profile they have just messaged.

we try to reply to all messages but have stopped because of the rude responces,

we do get fed up with people messaging asking questions that are stated clearly on profile or to the well hows u's, or how u finding the site, other than that we do replay if it looks like an effort has been made, including readin the profile, but thats just us, but remember, just because people send messages no one is obliged to reply sometime best just bite the bullet move on x

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

just a question to OP.

why do you have a pic of a pussy on ur profile when your a single guy?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointment is just going to part of things like this.

I agree that it's worse when you put the effort into the message, and try to stand out from what can often be a staggering amount of mail or the ladiesthough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a friend on here tell me she was a muppet clown and ignorant because she didn't reply to a guy's mail. Guys like that give us a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if someone puts effort into a message it isnt much to expect a replay, however most dont! or they didnt bother to read the peoples profile they have just messaged.

we try to reply to all messages but have stopped because of the rude responces,

we do get fed up with people messaging asking questions that are stated clearly on profile or to the well hows u's, or how u finding the site, other than that we do replay if it looks like an effort has been made, including readin the profile, but thats just us, but remember, just because people send messages no one is obliged to reply sometime best just bite the bullet move on x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was relatively tame..usually youd have faired alot worse..apologies for the take cover comment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was relatively tame..usually youd have faired alot worse..apologies for the take cover comment!!"

That's because we're all such lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was relatively tame..usually youd have faired alot worse..apologies for the take cover comment!!"

too late for apologies were all huffin now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touché beebs....touché hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was relatively tame..usually youd have faired alot worse..apologies for the take cover comment!!

too late for apologies were all huffin now lol "

she's huffing and puffing and blowing the the 3 little pigs' house down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was relatively tame..usually youd have faired alot worse..apologies for the take cover comment!!

too late for apologies were all huffin now lol

she's huffing and puffing and blowing the the 3 little pigs' house down lol"

indeed i,m not! i,m meltin wax to make a voodoo doll lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mad as a bag of spiders..the pair of ye :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mad as a bag of spiders..the pair of ye :P"

spiders freak me out when i see one out comes henry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dare i ask who henry is??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dare i ask who henry is??"

me hoover of course lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha....the league of spiders will have u a marked woman!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind when people don't reply to me, saves time. Maybe I;m just used to it though.

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By *oggingtoyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

city

ok i always like to reply just to let them know i got it and if im interested or not and expect the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it written in my profile that I do not reply to all mail so if people read it they won't get upset if I don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to all messages and in a nice way too.....unless......some wanker sends me the same 'copy and paste' message more than once...2nd time I'm still nice and say dont send me this again....3rd time I just delete as hes obviously just random messaged everyone woman with a pulse and didn't even remember my last message and that pisses me off and hes then blocked !!!

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

why should people reply, if they havent invited your message?

there are profiles that state no single guys, unless asked for, yet you still message, so you want a reply for not bothering to read a profile fully?

my dog gets a smack on the snout for not doing what he is told.

take a non reply as the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get more mails then guys. A woman who was on here about two years once told me she recieved up to fifty mails a day. Now this was a woman with a full time job two kids and a husband (he knew she played here) so do you think that she would of had the time to mail back fifty guys who more then likely sent the usual single mail of "hi" "wanna fuck" "insert phone number"

Hmm?

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By *oggingtoyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

city

supose.. i can understand the one liners and the copy and pastes but there is also the genuine..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

The problem is that you can never whittle out the nice guys who will accept no as an answer from the assholes who are going to take a nasty turn...

There are various reasons we don't reply to EVERY message we get (even if they're really well thought out) and the main one is that every now and then, we block single males from messaging us if we want to prioritise meeting a couple/female.

Now, the reason we don't do this is because the MINUTE you reply, it opens them up to messaging you ANY time, even when the filters are up, so we'll still get inundated with messages from guys, even though they're blocked, who clearly can't be bothered to read our profile or what we're looking for, and we can't be bothered to go on a mass blocking/unblocking spree every time we change our preferences. It feels really rude sometimes, but we've had the nicest of conversations turn nasty, so we rely on the whole "If we don't reply, we're not interested" approach.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always reply whether im interested or not,as its common curtersy,and it only takes a couple of mins of my time seen as some1 spent their time mailing me,and i think it can be a confident knock also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always reply whether im interested or not,as its common curtersy,and it only takes a couple of mins of my time seen as some1 spent their time mailing me,and i think it can be a confident knock also."

Same here!

If someone goes to the trouble of mailing, then it's just common courtesy to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont you just hate it when you put in time and thought into a nice sized email and they read it and dont bother to reply even if its to say not interested. be nice some men are actually trying here"

i usually say no thanks but sum men can get very abusive when u do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i usually say no thanks but sum men can get very abusive when u do "

I hope you block/report them. There are quite a few nutters on here.

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By *oggingtoyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

city

thanks for all the replys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is the best way to say no ta without sounding rude though? sometimes I just put no if the message is complete rubbish and sometimes indecipherable. Is it more rude to send a one word reply than none at all. most of the time I be nice tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question, I think a one word 'no' could be a bit severe.

'No thank you, but happy swinging'

seems to be a gentler way.

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"i always reply whether im interested or not,as its common curtersy,and it only takes a couple of mins of my time seen as some1 spent their time mailing me,and i think it can be a confident knock also."

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