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By *ust4funcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moira

We aren't currently meeting because of Covid and not really checking messages etc but we have just gone through them and holy good fuck.. For one the male half apparently no longer exists and secondly the female half. Is 1 missing out on every single guy in Ireland and 2 should be sniffing cocaine of cocks all night. 3 be able to ignore every health warning and just drop all to fuck strangers.. Anyone elea feel that the lockdown is making folk become increasingly rude and impatient?? Also hi and hope all good lol.. Not a rant just have some respect ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nepht have just released a statement that to the contrary of common belief 'sniffing cocaine off cocks' does not reduce the transmissablity of Covid-19

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No they always were rude and inpatient. Lockdown is just a handy cover story.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"No they always were rude and inpatient. Lockdown is just a handy cover story. "

And despite noticing my own spelling mistake I'll leave it as inpatient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find filters do a lot to reduce this type of message, but there have always been those who favour the scattergun approach

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Another couple complained about the cocaine off cocks message last week also

I wonder why they think it would work ...or maybe it has in the past on other people

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I don't know if it's due to lockdown but I noticed a few women's statuses over the weekend complaining that men had been rude and nasty to them about their pictures. The women seemed very hurt and shaken up by the comments. This seems to be part of the same problem that the OP has identified.

Some people (mostly men, unfortunately) are basically just dicks.

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By *ust4funcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moira


"We find filters do a lot to reduce this type of message, but there have always been those who favour the scattergun approach"
we are very much in favour of a bit of kink.. And like to give single guys the benefit of the doubt but def some (normally with no veris)def have zero chance of meeting unless they realise its about having fun and not being someone's plaything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find filters do a lot to reduce this type of message, but there have always been those who favour the scattergun approachwe are very much in favour of a bit of kink.. And like to give single guys the benefit of the doubt but def some (normally with no veris)def have zero chance of meeting unless they realise its about having fun and not being someone's plaything "

We call it "self-filtering"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Another couple complained about the cocaine off cocks message last week also

I wonder why they think it would work ...or maybe it has in the past on other people "

Sorry op just read that again and i didnt mean to imply anything about you just why do men think it will work on anyone and not you specifically

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By *ust4funcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moira


"Another couple complained about the cocaine off cocks message last week also

I wonder why they think it would work ...or maybe it has in the past on other people

Sorry op just read that again and i didnt mean to imply anything about you just why do men think it will work on anyone and not you specifically your grand it may be bloody awesome but not as an opening line lol "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think lockdown can be blamed messages like that have been on here long before lockdown began.Lockdown is just being used as a handy excuse for shitty behaviour by some.

Like Casey said people who send are messages like that are self filtering and at least you don't waste time talking to them. The same as those who give abuse about pics etc and that goes for both genders it's not just the men who throw abuse. Just block and move on why get upset over some random person on here who is trying to get a reaction. Just be happy you didn't waste time interacting with them before you found out what they were like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we've actually had less messages like that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What some perceive as a creative message others see as stupid or idiotic or downright abusive.

Creative to some people is being able to form a sentence.

To others it's squeezing as many words as possible into a paragraph without punctuation.

Many don't concern themselves with how it sounds because by the time they've finished typing they've probably forgotten why they started.

And if illegal substances are in use they are too stupid to worry about who they've just sent that last message to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerance is not longer tolerated

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By *ust4funcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moira


"Tolerance is not longer tolerated "
pardon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerance is not longer tolerated pardon? "

Peoples tolerance levels and general manners are at an all time low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just accepted that pandemic or not some people will still send stupid or nasty messages, thank god for the block button. If any of the guys actually spoke to a woman in a pub the way some do here they would be kicked in the balls. Thank god for filters and block button

Thankfully the good ones outshine the bad ones

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Tolerance is not longer tolerated "

It’s like the Popper paradox of tolerance theory:

Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerance is not longer tolerated

It’s like the Popper paradox of tolerance theory:

Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them."

Why can't we all just get along

And has anyone even thought of the poor children!

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Tolerance is not longer tolerated

It’s like the Popper paradox of tolerance theory:

Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

Why can't we all just get along

And has anyone even thought of the poor children! "

Now we are heading into Simpson quote territory?

I really had to refrain from a Dillion quote from Alien 3 when I saw you mention tolerance

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Sniffing cocaine off a cock is that really a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get replys on here I send polite messages and not asking to meet but met with silence

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Sniffing cocaine off a cock is that really a thing "

You obviously never got sent the WhatsApp video

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Sniffing cocaine off a cock is that really a thing

You obviously never got sent the WhatsApp video "

I don't think I did either.. I'm perfectly happy with that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. I'm new and don't get hardly any replies, can you give me advice

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