FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with some of your senses missing

By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Fascinated after reading a post during the week on here about sense deprivation and sex

Has anyone ever experienced sex in complete darkness either 1 on 1 or in a group setting in a darkroom in a club

I don't mean lights off cause you don't want to wake the kids

Complete darkness where you can't see your hand or anything else right in front of your face

Whats it like....does it lead to a higher state of arousal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex is absolute and complete darkness - And it was funny because both of us commented on how saucy it was because we wouldn't see one another.

And what was even funnier was that we both then later admitted that neither of us were thinking about one another during it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goosebumps from the thought of it alone. Very curious to read what others who have experienced it have to say.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sounds very similar to shifting someone in a nightclub and having serious regrets when the lights come up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a little bit of butterflies reading and thinking about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of us have had sex where all sense was out the window

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

Once the hormones start to rage, sence goes out the window...the hole darkness thing sounds very interesting

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

As many on here regard eye contact the most important factor for having good sex I highly recommend to try out the sex in the dark.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Once the hormones start to rage, sence goes out the window...the hole darkness thing sounds very interesting

The misspelling of whole was a bit of a Freudian slip.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

With someone I knew no problem.

Going into a dark room and finding my hand on a throbbing Adams apple.....no thanks.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"As many on here regard eye contact the most important factor for having good sex I highly recommend to try out the sex in the dark.

Eye contact is overrated. I've never managed it during doggy style shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee and I sometimes have sex on the dark, it tends to be very erotic and intense, with focus on breathing and the sensation of skin on skin, whispered endearments or sheer filth, talk of fantasies involving other people....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Has anyone got a wet wipe I can use please?

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"Has anyone got a wet wipe I can use please?

Do you not carry an old pair of curtains in the van

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

"Once the hormones start to rage, sence goes out the window...the hole darkness thing sounds very interesting

The misspelling of whole was a bit of a Freudian slip.

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is sight the only sense in question?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Has anyone got a wet wipe I can use please?

Do you not carry an old pair of curtains in the van "

It seems curtains have become unfashionable.

It's easy knowing women don't have penises.

#bringbackcurtainsandmaybeabitofbushaswell

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Haven't done room darkness but have done blindfolds, sound and restraints both seperate and together. Its amazing.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"With someone I knew no problem.

Going into a dark room and finding my hand on a throbbing Adams apple.....no thanks.

Might not be an adam apple that's throbbing

But ye with someone I know it could be very erotic but not so much in a room of strangers.

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"Is sight the only sense in question?

Its the only one I can think of that would change it for me

Taste and smell missing...you might be grateful

Touch ....don't know how you could block that

Hearing....I dont think headphones would do anything for me or how it would work

Total darkness to me sounds amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the idea of been blindfolded and restrained so that's two senses removed.

Also like the idea of blinfolding and restraining a guy and giving him pleasure.

Not so sure about in a dark room with few naked people, maybe if only in room with naked guys

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"Like the idea of been blindfolded and restrained so that's two senses removed.

Also like the idea of blinfolding and restraining a guy and giving him pleasure.

Not so sure about in a dark room with few naked people, maybe if only in room with naked guys

Maybe we could have that picnic with us both blindfolded

Food everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the fence. We had a meet where I was blindfolded and restrained by the other lady - it went on so long I was bored and frustrated by it in the end. I'm an extremely visual person though. Auditory deprivation I don't think would be my thing either...I love to hear the moans and gasps of pleasure.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cud end up putting ure dick where u wud not put ure wellie lol..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to sleep with laserlite earplugs....I’ve awoken to sex with them still in....it definitely heightened/changed my other senses. Weird, but fun for something different. Same for blindfolds/hoods.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've taken part in a 30+ group, all blindfolded, mood music, multi racial,.. It was interesting, and pleasurable.. But i need to know who's doing what.. So, couldn't fully relax into the experience. Unforgettable, though, in many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fascinated after reading a post during the week on here about sense deprivation and sex

Has anyone ever experienced sex in complete darkness either 1 on 1 or in a group setting in a darkroom in a club

I don't mean lights off cause you don't want to wake the kids

Complete darkness where you can't see your hand or anything else right in front of your face

Whats it like....does it lead to a higher state of arousal

Yes... love it... such an intense feeling...once you lose a sense the others are more heightened...

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Like the idea of been blindfolded and restrained so that's two senses removed.

Also like the idea of blinfolding and restraining a guy and giving him pleasure.

Not so sure about in a dark room with few naked people, maybe if only in room with naked guys

We should talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is sight the only sense in question?

Its the only one I can think of that would change it for me

Taste and smell missing...you might be grateful

Touch ....don't know how you could block that

Hearing....I dont think headphones would do anything for me or how it would work

Total darkness to me sounds amazing "

Oh!

Kaizer was pondering "mute sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a BDSM than a sex thing, but look up "Vac Bed" on Google images. You vacuum seal yourself into a latex bed so your sense of sight and sound is eliminated, and sense of touch is multiplied.

Very surreal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensory deprivation can take many forms..

I've blindfolded guys before and their reactions are def heightened. Not knowing where I'll touch next and whether it'll be soft graze of fingertips, hard scratch of nails or hot, wet tongue meeting their body..

Cuffing someone is exact same principle. It isn't only the control element but cutting off the ability to touch.

With gagging, they can't freely taste.

It's extremely arousing for many reasons..

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

I hate the dark

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

It does add to the fun for sure.

Had a lovely meet last year where it was quite spontaneous but she didn't want to get too frantic checking in the mirror to do makeup or worrying about her hair being a mess.

Met her at the doorstep with eyes closed, so I could put on a blindfold, and that was that. It was such a fun experience, we ended up doing it again for the later meets.

While I've seen her face in pictures, I still haven't in person.

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"It does add to the fun for sure.

Had a lovely meet last year where it was quite spontaneous but she didn't want to get too frantic checking in the mirror to do makeup or worrying about her hair being a mess.

Met her at the doorstep with eyes closed, so I could put on a blindfold, and that was that. It was such a fun experience, we ended up doing it again for the later meets.

While I've seen her face in pictures, I still haven't in person.

So you don't know if the woman you're meeting is actually the woman in the pictures

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"It does add to the fun for sure.

Had a lovely meet last year where it was quite spontaneous but she didn't want to get too frantic checking in the mirror to do makeup or worrying about her hair being a mess.

Met her at the doorstep with eyes closed, so I could put on a blindfold, and that was that. It was such a fun experience, we ended up doing it again for the later meets.

While I've seen her face in pictures, I still haven't in person.

I did similar years ago... he never saw my face. I bound him and fucked him. It was arranged by a friend and it was amazing. Similar to what you describe.

I’m only remembering now once in absolute pitch darkness having sleepy sex with an ex... I’ve never forgotten that particular shag and I’m wondering if the sensory deprivation was the reason... good post OhPee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense has deserted Kaizer on many occasion!

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"Common sense has deserted Kaizer on many occasion!

The sixth sense

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I see deadly people

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Surely it's smell....no?

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