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"Think you need to ask her. For some it can be more about trauma for some a bad experience. Its a pity because the vagina is a secret weapon " Makes grown men and some women weak at the knees | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious."Some of us like giving more so ... | |||
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"Well that's what conversation is about is it not ??asking questions ? " Did you ever think she thought you were bad at it and was trying to spare your feelings | |||
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"Well that's what conversation is about is it not ??asking questions ? Did you ever think she thought you were bad at it and was trying to spare your feelings " How could she think of what she hadn't experienced | |||
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"Well that's what conversation is about is it not ??asking questions ? Did you ever think she thought you were bad at it and was trying to spare your feelings How could she think of what she hadn't experienced" I thought the way it was phrased meant you did it and after that no more | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious.
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"The local Priest said it was a sin to lick a vage out of wedlock " Is that paraphrased or word for word what he said  | |||
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"The local Priest said it was a sin to lick a vage out of wedlock Is that paraphrased or word for word what he said "Straight form the Bishops mouth, he don’t beat around the bush. | |||
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- Maybe she simply just doesn't enjoy it and it bores her.
- Maybe she was currently in a relationship with somebody else (open or otherwise) and she had a rule about not letting anybody go down on her. I know people like this.
- Speaking from my own personal experience, the number 1 reason why a woman might not somebody to go down on her is because she thinks she smells bad and they are afraid of being embarrassed. | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S " Preach Queen! | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S " "No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S " With all due respect Mrs S, I think that there is a significant difference between debating with a person who has given you an affirmative "no" (in which case I fully agree with you - no means no and an explanation is not an obligation) and asking people on an online forum for their opinions as to why a woman may not like to receive oral sex. | |||
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""self esteem, maybe she's never had an orgasm through oral before and she thinks she's weird because of it. And so she would rather not try it, than to try and "fail". I may delete my account now and stay home " That's just me brainstorming Dee, I'm not presenting it as a fact. But since there are approximately 4 billion women in the world, I wouldn't be surprised if this has happened to at least one of you. Human beings are ridiculously complex. | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S With all due respect Mrs S, I think that there is a significant difference between debating with a person who has given you an affirmative "no" (in which case I fully agree with you - no means no and an explanation is not an obligation) and asking people on an online forum for their opinions as to why a woman may not like to receive oral sex." But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. Could be a very simple reason she just doesn't like it or could be something quite serious. If I'm with someone and they don't like a particular thing that's OK I'm not going to force it or ask again. Plenty of other things to do. Can still have plenty of fun. I love oral giving and receiving. If a guy I was with didn't like oral thats ok. | |||
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""self esteem, maybe she's never had an orgasm through oral before and she thinks she's weird because of it. And so she would rather not try it, than to try and "fail". I may delete my account now and stay home That's just me brainstorming Dee, I'm not presenting it as a fact. But since there are approximately 4 billion women in the world, I wouldn't be surprised if this has happened to at least one of you. Human beings are ridiculously complex." I've never orgasmed i dont think its weird and it doesn't stop me enough enjoying sex or oral. | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious."She might have an aggressive form of hpv and doesn't Want you to get throat cancer | |||
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""self esteem, maybe she's never had an orgasm through oral before and she thinks she's weird because of it. And so she would rather not try it, than to try and "fail". I may delete my account now and stay home That's just me brainstorming Dee, I'm not presenting it as a fact. But since there are approximately 4 billion women in the world, I wouldn't be surprised if this has happened to at least one of you. Human beings are ridiculously complex. I've never orgasmed i dont think its weird and it doesn't stop me enough enjoying sex or oral. " I know you haven't, and I am in no way being disrespectful towards you anybody else who hasn't by suggesting that you are automatically weird and have low self esteem because of it. | |||
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" But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. " Correct. My understanding of the op's question was that he was asking for a general "why might a woman not enjoy oral sex", and not "why does THIS particular woman enjoy oral sex", because obiously we are not equipped to answer that  | |||
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" But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. Correct. My understanding of the op's question was that he was asking for a general "why might a woman not enjoy oral sex", and not "why does THIS particular woman enjoy oral sex", because obiously we are not equipped to answer that "Sure women can't makeup their mind when it comes to anything so why can't oral be any different. As I said at start ask her only she can answer. I met a guy who didn't like doggy style didn't stop me meeting him yet its one of my fav positions, didn't feel I needed to come on here and ask because we all have a choice on what we like or don't like. | |||
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"didn't feel I needed to come on here and ask because we all have a choice on what we like or don't like. " Well I would imagine that you and the op are very different people. You're happy with accepting that your man didn't want doggy and that's fine. Op has a curious mind as to why a woman might not want oral and that's fine too. | |||
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" But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. Correct. My understanding of the op's question was that he was asking for a general "why might a woman not enjoy oral sex", and not "why does THIS particular woman enjoy oral sex", because obiously we are not equipped to answer that
Sure women can't makeup their mind when it comes to anything so why can't oral be any different. As I said at start ask her only she can answer. I met a guy who didn't like doggy style didn't stop me meeting him yet its one of my fav positions, didn't feel I needed to come on here and ask because we all have a choice on what we like or don't like. "I am partial to both | |||
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" But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. Correct. My understanding of the op's question was that he was asking for a general "why might a woman not enjoy oral sex", and not "why does THIS particular woman enjoy oral sex", because obiously we are not equipped to answer that
Sure women can't makeup their mind when it comes to anything so why can't oral be any different. As I said at start ask her only she can answer. I met a guy who didn't like doggy style didn't stop me meeting him yet its one of my fav positions, didn't feel I needed to come on here and ask because we all have a choice on what we like or don't like.
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"I enjoy giving & receiving oral...but I have to say I get more satisfaction outta giving. Saying that I have absolutely no idea why a woman wouldn't like receiving...aesthetic reasons maybe... Anyway let's turn this around...How Many Men Don't Enjoy Receiving Oral & Why?" I enjoy it, which is fantastic as Scarlett is awesome at it (not to brag at all ).
However, if given the choice, I’d much rather give them get. So much hotter for me to see her squirm and hear her moan when I’ve my head between her legs. Even hotter again if she has just come home from a date and is already wet, but that’s probably for another thread | |||
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"I miss sex  "Here's your brother 
Well no actually that won't work!
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" But no one can give an opinion thats right except the lady herself. Correct. My understanding of the op's question was that he was asking for a general "why might a woman not enjoy oral sex", and not "why does THIS particular woman enjoy oral sex", because obiously we are not equipped to answer that "This is true . Yes relationship is in the past .there's some good answers to acknowledge ! Devine destiny raises something closer to what I suspected. But like alot of you would rather point out is I cannot ask her individually .thanks . | |||
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"I miss sex
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Well no actually that won't work!
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"She probably has a smelly fanny. " it was a beauty that was the frustrating part on my end | |||
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"She probably has a smelly fanny. it was a beauty that was the frustrating part on my end " Your end was smelly? | |||
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"Am i the only one that thinks oral is more intimate than intercourse " Nope, plenty of people agree with you there. I can't say I'm one of them though | |||
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"I miss sex "Ah stop don't remind us. Jaysus just imagine the amount of Fab ridin' that'll be going on once we're out of all this. Won't be able to move for all the ridin' happening | |||
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"I miss sex
Ah stop don't remind us.
Jaysus just imagine the amount of Fab ridin' that'll be going on once we're out of all this. Won't be able to move for all the ridin' happening
It will be chaos... I joined in October and have been pretty much teased and frustrated ever since... thats a lot of pent up potential lol "Pfft, October I'm here every day since 1st lockdown scrolling through pages like yours... I'm a seasoned pro in pent up Fab covid frustration  | |||
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"I miss sex
Ah stop don't remind us.
Jaysus just imagine the amount of Fab ridin' that'll be going on once we're out of all this. Won't be able to move for all the ridin' happening
It will be chaos... I joined in October and have been pretty much teased and frustrated ever since... thats a lot of pent up potential lol
Pfft, October I'm here every day since 1st lockdown scrolling through pages like yours... I'm a seasoned pro in pent up Fab covid frustration "Pfft yourself, just saying ! Start another thread for your 'most frustrated fabber' competition lol | |||
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"I enjoy giving & receiving oral...but I have to say I get more satisfaction outta giving. Saying that I have absolutely no idea why a woman wouldn't like receiving...aesthetic reasons maybe... Anyway let's turn this around...How Many Men Don't Enjoy Receiving Oral & Why? I enjoy it, which is fantastic as Scarlett is awesome at it (not to brag at all ).
However, if given the choice, I’d much rather give them get. So much hotter for me to see her squirm and hear her moan when I’ve my head between her legs. Even hotter again if she has just come home from a date and is already wet, but that’s probably for another thread "Mmmmmmmmmm so another who enjoys giving rather than receiving... It's so Hot & such a turn-on to feel a cock swell and throb in my mouth & throat... Delish | |||
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"I enjoy giving & receiving oral...but I have to say I get more satisfaction outta giving. Saying that I have absolutely no idea why a woman wouldn't like receiving...aesthetic reasons maybe... Anyway let's turn this around...How Many Men Don't Enjoy Receiving Oral & Why? I enjoy it, which is fantastic as Scarlett is awesome at it (not to brag at all ).
However, if given the choice, I’d much rather give them get. So much hotter for me to see her squirm and hear her moan when I’ve my head between her legs. Even hotter again if she has just come home from a date and is already wet, but that’s probably for another thread
Mmmmmmmmmm so another who enjoys giving rather than receiving... It's so Hot & such a turn-on to feel a cock swell and throb in my mouth & throat... Delish "Swoon  | |||
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"I miss sex
Ah stop don't remind us.
Jaysus just imagine the amount of Fab ridin' that'll be going on once we're out of all this. Won't be able to move for all the ridin' happening "We will be painting the town white and it’ll make the last days of Rome look like a church picnic. Seriously, I’ve said it before but stock up on condoms now because they’ll be just as scarce as TP was in March 2020! | |||
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"I miss sex
Ah stop don't remind us.
Jaysus just imagine the amount of Fab ridin' that'll be going on once we're out of all this. Won't be able to move for all the ridin' happening
We will be painting the town white and it’ll make the last days of Rome look like a church picnic.
Seriously, I’ve said it before but stock up on condoms now because they’ll be just as scarce as TP was in March 2020! "That is good thinking get a bulk shipment of johnnies and make a small profit! cover the petrol costs for all these ridin' tours | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious."Some find it tickles | |||
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"Mmmmmmmmmm so another who enjoys giving rather than receiving... " You can add me to that list too! Nothing better than bringing a girl into the depths of ecstacy while she sits on my face, rubbing my hands all over her body | |||
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"Mmmmmmmmmm so another who enjoys giving rather than receiving... You can add me to that list too! Nothing better than bringing a girl into the depths of ecstacy while she sits on my face, rubbing my hands all over her body "
I must comment on your remark... Quote... ``Speaking from my own personal experience, the number 1 reason why a woman might not want somebody to go down on her is because she thinks she smells bad and they are afraid of being embarrassed``
^^^^^^^ Thankfully I personally have never had a `bad` smelling pussy as you put it Lol.
A few factors may contribute ...
Personal Hygiene
Stale Semen
What a woman may eat
The stale Semen is that horrid fishy smell. I worked closely beside a girl before and the smell of her pussy was literally rising into the air. TRUE. I have on occasion experienced that horrid fishy smell from a guys cock too. And they'd still expect me to give them oral I'd be running for the hills.
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious."She gave you a reason The fact you don't like the reason says more about you than it does about her. Just another self entitled man | |||
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"Mmmmmmmmmm so another who enjoys giving rather than receiving... You can add me to that list too! Nothing better than bringing a girl into the depths of ecstacy while she sits on my face, rubbing my hands all over her body
I must comment on your remark... Quote... ``Speaking from my own personal experience, the number 1 reason why a woman might not want somebody to go down on her is because she thinks she smells bad and they are afraid of being embarrassed``
^^^^^^^ Thankfully I personally have never had a `bad` smelling pussy as you put it Lol.
A few factors may contribute ...
Personal Hygiene
Stale Semen
What a woman may eat
The stale Semen is that horrid fishy smell. I worked closely beside a girl before and the smell of her pussy was literally rising into the air. TRUE. I have on occasion experienced that horrid fishy smell from a guys cock too. And they'd still expect me to give them oral I'd be running for the hills.
"Fishy smell points more to Bacteria Vaginosis (BV) which is a vaginal infection, quite common and easy to treat. It's not a std. Speaking of STDs fishy smell can also be a symptom of certain STDs. If you experience any unpleasant smell coming from your pussy, go and see your GP. | |||
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"I must comment on your remark... Quote... ``Speaking from my own personal experience, the number 1 reason why a woman might not want somebody to go down on her is because she thinks she smells bad and they are afraid of being embarrassed`` ^^^^^^^ Thankfully I personally have never had a `bad` smelling pussy as you put it Lol. " Their words, not mine | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S " Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation.... | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation.... "From a woman's point of view - There's many things we may not like which everyone always feels the need to know why. Which also very often results into many attempts to change our minds with phrases like "just try it, you'll love it", "Ah come on just once" etc. It doesn't only cover oral sex too. It's pretty much every single thing we decide not to do in our lives. So yes, women become quite aggessive about it. Not because they're not being adult. Because they're fed up with having to explain themselves. | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious."Or just the simple fact she said No is why . No need to ask again or for her to explain. Mr dirty | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation....
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There's many things we may not like which everyone always feels the need to know why. Which also very often results into many attempts to change our minds with phrases like "just try it, you'll love it", "Ah come on just once" etc. It doesn't only cover oral sex too. It's pretty much every single thing we decide not to do in our lives.
So yes, women become quite aggessive about it. Not because they're not being adult. Because they're fed up with having to explain themselves. "That's fair enough, but the women on here aren't explaining why the woman(that the whole thread is technically about) doesn't not like it, in fairness why would you know each to their own and all that, but how do you know she herself is sick of explaining why to people. That's my reason for commenting on this, that people are jumping someone simply because they ask a question. I've been asked by girls to do something with my ass, said no, they asked why, gave them the reason end of story. No need for other people to be getting pissy at someone for their own personal reasons or previous experiences or even previous experiences on someone's past. Many people on these forums are toxic that just hound/criticise people on here for asking a general question 
Not like when someone says no and you ask why they don't like it, means they are trying to be forced into liking it. I don't like chocolate ice cream, of someone asks me why, doesn't it mean they are grabbing spoonfuls trying to force me to eat it? No, they're just asking why I don't like it, simple as, it's a conversation as to why not you said "No" so if I ask why it means I'm going to force it to happen anyway. | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious.
Or just the simple fact she said No is why . No need to ask again or for her to explain.
Mr dirty "The OP was in a relationship with the Lady mentioned. I see no harm whatsoever in him asking how come she doesn't like it. I think it's called communication. Maybe it's a simple fact it doesn't turn her on or whatever. | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious.
Or just the simple fact she said No is why . No need to ask again or for her to explain.
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The OP was in a relationship with the Lady mentioned. I see no harm whatsoever in him asking how come she doesn't like it. I think it's called communication. Maybe it's a simple fact it doesn't turn her on or whatever. "And also I don't like anal. Have never done it nor will I ever. But I have no probs whatsoever in explaining why to anybody. This is in reference to the cucumber up the ass comment... Ouuuuuccccccchhhy | |||
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"You don’t like chocolate ice cream?!? Why? What’s wrong with you?
It’s chocolate and it’s ice cream!"I like chocolate and I like ice cream but I just don't like chocolate ice cream, what makes it even more weird is that I could eat vanilla ice cream with bits of chocolate in it, like chocolate buttons or malteasers or Mint choc ice cream but something in my head just doesn't like the flavour of chocolate ice cream | |||
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"You don’t like chocolate ice cream?!? Why? What’s wrong with you?
It’s chocolate and it’s ice cream!"Chocolate ice cream is just vile | |||
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"I used to think oral sex meant just talking about it. "And anal was talking out of your arse about it. | |||
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"I used to think oral sex meant just talking about it.
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"Maybe she just didn't enjoy it because guys she was with before haven't been good at it. Some guys are not good at it and it gets boring fast when they are down there. I've only been with a had a very small number of guys who actually know what they are doing down enough to make me orgasm.With other guys I just want to stop it and do something else instead rather than them licking at me as though they are lapping up a bowl of water. It may sound harsh but it gets boring fast if guys don't take the time to know female anatomy and where a clit is. The same a a guy getting a bad bj it's no fun. So maybe that's another reason why she didn't want it. " I totally get this and feel the same about it it's absolutely shocking the amount of guys don't know but then again different women like it different way just like guys like bj in a certain way. | |||
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"I'm shocked how can someone like chocolate but not like chocolate ice cream
I need to lie down now"Sometimes the whole really is less than the sum of the parts. | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation....
From a woman's point of view -
There's many things we may not like which everyone always feels the need to know why. Which also very often results into many attempts to change our minds with phrases like "just try it, you'll love it", "Ah come on just once" etc. It doesn't only cover oral sex too. It's pretty much every single thing we decide not to do in our lives.
So yes, women become quite aggessive about it. Not because they're not being adult. Because they're fed up with having to explain themselves.
That's fair enough, but the women on here aren't explaining why the woman(that the whole thread is technically about) doesn't not like it, in fairness why would you know each to their own and all that, but how do you know she herself is sick of explaining why to people. That's my reason for commenting on this, that people are jumping someone simply because they ask a question. I've been asked by girls to do something with my ass, said no, they asked why, gave them the reason end of story. No need for other people to be getting pissy at someone for their own personal reasons or previous experiences or even previous experiences on someone's past. Many people on these forums are toxic that just hound/criticise people on here for asking a general question
Not like when someone says no and you ask why they don't like it, means they are trying to be forced into liking it. I don't like chocolate ice cream, of someone asks me why, doesn't it mean they are grabbing spoonfuls trying to force me to eat it? No, they're just asking why I don't like it, simple as, it's a conversation as to why not you said "No" so if I ask why it means I'm going to force it to happen anyway."
1. You asked why. Someone asked why do men always feel the need to know why then push someone to do it just because they like it.
Legit question. Legit issue.
This does happen! Every single day! To all women. No exceptions.
Maybe you personally didn't want to push it upon your lady in this particular situation but it's a public forum. People ask questions and get carried off a thread with related topics. That's the whole point in having a discussion.
2. YOU told them to grow up. Then YOU complained that people on forums are toxic.
Madude, you seem to be one of them.
3. Women on here are explaining many reasons why not liking oral could be the case, you just chose to cling onto one comment that compared woman to man situation where the question "why" leads to a lot more often than any women would like it to.
4. I have explained why some people may get a tad touchy on a subject - you chose to:
4.1. Complain about attitudes.
4.2. Criticize them for past experiences.
4.3. Explain how it doesn't happen to you so it probably doesn't happen to others.
Not cool madude. Not cool.
Missus
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"You don’t like chocolate ice cream?!? Why? What’s wrong with you?
It’s chocolate and it’s ice cream!I like chocolate and I like ice cream but I just don't like chocolate ice cream, what makes it even more weird is that I could eat vanilla ice cream with bits of chocolate in it, like chocolate buttons or malteasers or Mint choc ice cream but something in my head just doesn't like the flavour of chocolate ice cream "You just haven’t tasted the right chocolate ice cream, if you tasted the good stuff you’d never go back to vanilla, you really should try it with an open mind. | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation....
From a woman's point of view -
There's many things we may not like which everyone always feels the need to know why. Which also very often results into many attempts to change our minds with phrases like "just try it, you'll love it", "Ah come on just once" etc. It doesn't only cover oral sex too. It's pretty much every single thing we decide not to do in our lives.
So yes, women become quite aggessive about it. Not because they're not being adult. Because they're fed up with having to explain themselves.
That's fair enough, but the women on here aren't explaining why the woman(that the whole thread is technically about) doesn't not like it, in fairness why would you know each to their own and all that, but how do you know she herself is sick of explaining why to people. That's my reason for commenting on this, that people are jumping someone simply because they ask a question. I've been asked by girls to do something with my ass, said no, they asked why, gave them the reason end of story. No need for other people to be getting pissy at someone for their own personal reasons or previous experiences or even previous experiences on someone's past. Many people on these forums are toxic that just hound/criticise people on here for asking a general question
Not like when someone says no and you ask why they don't like it, means they are trying to be forced into liking it. I don't like chocolate ice cream, of someone asks me why, doesn't it mean they are grabbing spoonfuls trying to force me to eat it? No, they're just asking why I don't like it, simple as, it's a conversation as to why not you said "No" so if I ask why it means I'm going to force it to happen anyway.
1. You asked why. Someone asked why do men always feel the need to know why then push someone to do it just because they like it.
Legit question. Legit issue.
This does happen! Every single day! To all women. No exceptions.
Maybe you personally didn't want to push it upon your lady in this particular situation but it's a public forum. People ask questions and get carried off a thread with related topics. That's the whole point in having a discussion.
2. YOU told them to grow up. Then YOU complained that people on forums are toxic.
Madude, you seem to be one of them.
3. Women on here are explaining many reasons why not liking oral could be the case, you just chose to cling onto one comment that compared woman to man situation where the question "why" leads to a lot more often than any women would like it to.
4. I have explained why some people may get a tad touchy on a subject - you chose to:
4.1. Complain about attitudes.
4.2. Criticize them for past experiences.
4.3. Explain how it doesn't happen to you so it probably doesn't happen to others.
Not cool madude. Not cool.
Missus
"Madude, being immature and toxic are very different things. Peace and love honey bunny, just pointing the hypocrisy of many forum users plain as. 4.3, that's the situation in my case, never said because that's what happens to me, therefore it happens to every single other person nor did I say it's probably happens to other people. I just used my experiences as an example, not saying that's the way it should be. I did not criticise anyone for their past experiences, I used that as a possible excuse. Name one person I called our on their past experiences,you can't do it, as I did not single out anyone or even state someone in this thread was the case as I don't know anyone personally. Not cool madude of falsely accusing me of things that you mistook/misunderstood, not cool. | |||
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"This is probably the wrong place to ask why a woman would refuse to receive oral sex? Not just the once but resolutly not wanting me down there on numerous occasions. She said I was getting a bad deal I wholeheartedly disagreed ,but my persuasions were futile. Any ideas why ? ,To this day I'm perplexed I put it down to underlying catholic conditioning but I can't really pin this one on the church since she wasn't religious.
Some of us like giving more so ...
I love u "Maybe she thinks if you do that she will have to reciprocate and she might not like sucking cock | |||
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"On another note tho chocolate ice cream is horrible much as I like chocolate I really dislike chocolate ice cream. " Yes, a thousand times this... | |||
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"On another note tho chocolate ice cream is horrible much as I like chocolate I really dislike chocolate ice cream. " Thank God it's not just me haha | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation.... "Here. You've done all of the above here in this response madude | |||
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck "Got a bit verbal | |||
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck "I'm still lying down in shock over the chocolate ice cream | |||
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck
I'm still lying down in shock over the chocolate ice cream "Chocolate ice cream is one of the least things I'd be in shock of on fab  | |||
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck
I'm still lying down in shock over the chocolate ice cream
Chocolate ice cream is one of the least things I'd be in shock of on fab " | |||
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck
I'm still lying down in shock over the chocolate ice cream
Chocolate ice cream is one of the least things I'd be in shock of on fab
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"This turned a bit into a headfuck
I'm still lying down in shock over the chocolate ice cream
Chocolate ice cream is one of the least things I'd be in shock of on fab
Oh now I need to go to the shop
I highly recommend chocolate cornetto with nuts. " | |||
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"No, if a man said he didnt want a cucumber stuck up his butt that the end of the conversation, but if a women says she doesnt want something theres a big debate in the male mind about why because he wants to do it..and shes wrong and maybe he can persuade her thats shes wrong. Thats my point. No means no..if she doesnt like it its the end of the story. Mrs S Fair is fair, but what's the big issue of just asking why? Coming off very aggressive for someone who is asking a question. If a girl asked me for a cucumber up the arse and I said no, I wouldn't go throwing a temper tantrum when asked why I wouldn't like it. Be an adult and don't have a hissy fit when someone just asks a question as to why Not like asking why means you're trying to force them to change their mind or even that you are trying to in the first place. It's called having a conversation.... "There's an awful lot of merit in what you’re saying there | |||
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"I'm shocked how can someone like chocolate but not like chocolate ice cream
I need to lie down now
Sometimes the whole really is less than the sum of the parts. "As long as the hole isn’t less than the hum of the farts!! | |||
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