FabSwingers.com forum: Outing myself!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?"

I wonder what the chances are of one or two in the WhatsApp group actually being here ? That's something I've realised more and more in the last year or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?"

I’ve had a couple of close calls like that. Did you see if anyone had seen your message? Or were you too busy hitting “delete for everyone”?

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By *tevecabra7Man
over a year ago

cabra

Im on pof aswell and came across me neighbour who moved in about a year ago on pof and she happily married dont think so. So I text her and got talking so see what happens.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Have never done it but I'm in a WhatsApp group with a number of people who all used to be on fab but have left for various reasons so there's no issue there.

However I'm also in a second group that some of those are also involved in and a few times one of the others has accidentally shared fab related stuff to the wrong group. So far no one has passed comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?

I wonder what the chances are of one or two in the WhatsApp group actually being here ? That's something I've realised more and more in the last year or so. "

It’s a new group that I just joined of likeminded individuals, I only know 3 in it and the rest are strangers. Time will tell I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?

I’ve had a couple of close calls like that. Did you see if anyone had seen your message? Or were you too busy hitting “delete for everyone”?

Hitting delete and dying on the inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..did a similar thing sending a pic of me wearing stockings to what I thought was my wife and it ended up going to my old works office organiser..tried to delete but saw the 2 lines turn blue. crapped myself for about an hour until she came back with..Ok.... anything you want to tell me.. and so it came to be that she found out about my alter ego.. We laugh about it now as it opened a whole world for her she literally didnt know about .. but yes...I died a million deaths and so did my wife as we both know this woman. she knows the real us now and just giggles at it all. it could have been worse I guess. my wifes family whatsapp group was next in line under hers. omg..instant heart attack lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?

I wonder what the chances are of one or two in the WhatsApp group actually being here ? That's something I've realised more and more in the last year or so.

It’s a new group that I just joined of likeminded individuals, I only know 3 in it and the rest are strangers. Time will tell I guess "

It could prove very interesting for you. Hopefully no one realised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Sorry but I had a giggle at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after a few drinks at an office party used the company account to order a taxi home.

Changed my mind and the cab took me to a swingers club...

...which then cropped up on the monthly statement for the office manager to sign off and pay...

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By *anFromMarsMan
over a year ago

North

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Is the table still for sale? Send me on some pics of the damage will ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Is the table still for sale? Send me on some pics of the damage will ya

Still have it surely, I’ll do you a good deal

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By *uperchampMan
over a year ago

dublin

No scarlett you cant come to training in no Knicks knee high boots fake fur coat when we come back!

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By *anFromMarsMan
over a year ago

North

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Is the table still for sale? Send me on some pics of the damage will ya

Still have it surely, I’ll do you a good deal "

Am sure we could work something out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was thinking about a seperate fab phone myself...

the photo's are awful easy to get

mixed up on and caught with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No scarlett you cant come to training in no Knicks knee high boots fake fur coat when we come back!

Way too close to the truth here hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Is the table still for sale? Send me on some pics of the damage will ya

Still have it surely, I’ll do you a good deal "

OMG your terrifying me... I’ve thought about these things happening for ages... worst nightmare...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was thinking about a seperate fab phone myself...

the photo's are awful easy to get

mixed up on and caught with

Very easy to mix up and have a heart attack over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaa no way Scarlet.

I am too honest in work and I think they are starting to believe me. I nearly send a fab pic to our group but caught it in time.

Roxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?"

Always stop and check who you are sending to.. don't ask how I know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Crying laughing at this haha. Ya poor thing!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I also sent my nudes to work chat too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Laughing my ass off here

Too Funny. You're name written on his Dick too... Funny Girl Scarlett

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know, coulda maybe talked my way out of it some way but when a guy brands himself with your name, not much you can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, coulda maybe talked my way out of it some way but when a guy brands himself with your name, not much you can say

'Scarlet for ya' seems appropriate Dublinese here! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By name and by nature it appears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a private folder in my Samsung, which can be only opened with my finger print. I keep all my smut in there, seperate from my regular photos. Reduced the close calls by 99%!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

You are gonna get so much vanilla cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" after a few drinks at an office party used the company account to order a taxi home.

Changed my mind and the cab took me to a swingers club...

...which then cropped up on the monthly statement for the office manager to sign off and pay...

Similar story

Went to the uk for a weekend at a couple of swingers clubs. Brought no Sterling with me as I thought I'd put it all on the credit card. Was only at check in at the hotel I realized I had brought my work credit card and not personal one - they were the same colour and I grabbed the wrong one in haste. Several small heart attacks later I realized I had to suck it up and apologize later.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I know, coulda maybe talked my way out of it some way but when a guy brands himself with your name, not much you can say

'Scarlet for ya' seems appropriate Dublinese here! lol

Jackeen ya mean.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"By name and by nature it appears

And also your arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My poor, poor arse.

Doesn’t know what coming to it this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a text from a guy who had completed work in my house recently.

"Hi Hun I'll call by in the morning to collect those knickers" ....

I'm guessing he sent it to the wrong person!!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?

I wonder what the chances are of one or two in the WhatsApp group actually being here ? That's something I've realised more and more in the last year or so.

It’s a new group that I just joined of likeminded individuals, I only know 3 in it and the rest are strangers. Time will tell I guess "

Like minded? In a fab way?

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By *ustIncredible25Man
over a year ago

cavan

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Sorry but I had a giggle at that"

Me 2

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By *ustIncredible25Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Yeah I also sent my nudes to work chat too!

I'm starting to think you like the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Moving all kinky videos and photos to a secure folder on your phone can help with this. Its peace of mind. The folder can only be accessed using your phone pin code. The video and pictures are not available to send unless accessed. If I give my phone to someone now its also comforting to know they won't accidentally see kinky content. Samsung has 'Secure Folder' app.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Did it in Snapchat in 2018

Ment to post it in private posted it on story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

Must check this out

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The great thing about the secure folder is having apps in there that dont show outside it

Once you've the camera app all photo's stay hidden

If kik is in there every now and then you've to clear the cache

Don't forget to change the lock setting on it to lock everytime you leave it as thats not standard

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"The great thing about the secure folder is having apps in there that dont show outside it

Once you've the camera app all photo's stay hidden

If kik is in there every now and then you've to clear the cache

Don't forget to change the lock setting on it to lock everytime you leave it as thats not standard "

And also stop the apps in Secure Folder from sending Notifications/ Alerts as that can also lead to questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have another story too, I think I needs separate fab phone!

I was selling furniture on Facebook and a women contacted me looking to purchase a side table. She asked was there any marks and I said a small one I’ll send on a picture.

Went into photos and my finger thumbs sent her a video of a soaped up man playing with himself with my real life name written on marker about his dick.

I screamed and threw my phone across the room. I apologised after deleting it, the video was indeed viewed.

She did not buy the side table

I’m in tears laughing.......sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a wife of couple... Usually send hot wife updates to the hubby etc of playtime... Low and behold few whiskeys in and send a WhatsApp photo to my family group by accident, of a girl bent over naked in lingerie... Luckily my nephew was admin cleared it before any young folk where traumatised .. My sister seen it tho ????never returned too group since.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Soooo just sent a link to Fab to a real life WhatsApp group with around 30 local people I barely know.

Deleted it straight away but I’m a little mortified

Anyone else almost out themselves or have a sorry tale to tell how friends/family/neighbours may have found out about your extra curricular activities on Fab?"

*Inserts gif of Steve Carell cringing really hard*

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Meeting a wife of couple... Usually send hot wife updates to the hubby etc of playtime... Low and behold few whiskeys in and send a WhatsApp photo to my family group by accident, of a girl bent over naked in lingerie... Luckily my nephew was admin cleared it before any young folk where traumatised .. My sister seen it tho ????never returned too group since.

Funny as fuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol Haha it would have increased the value of the side table for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Golden Rule: WhatsApp for "real life", kik for fab

Although I did once accidentally send a topless pic to my 19 year old daughter on WhatsApp when my other half was the intended recipient. Thankfully I realised immediately and deleted, as it was morning, there was no chance she'd have been awake to open it

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Golden Rule: WhatsApp for "real life", kik for fab

Is it not the case that depending on settings a pic can save down automatically from WhatsApp to the recipients gallery even if deleted almost immediately? This function has to be disabled I think? Maybe I have that wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Golden Rule: WhatsApp for "real life", kik for fab

I would have thought the recipient has to at least have the app open? I've never subsequently found anything sent to me and deleted before I opened it.

She's still speaking to me anyway, it's not like she's never seen me naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not the case that depending on settings a pic can save down automatically from WhatsApp to the recipients gallery even if deleted almost immediately? This function has to be disabled I think? Maybe I have that wrong?

I would have thought the recipient has to at least have the app open? I've never subsequently found anything sent to me and deleted before I opened it.

She's still speaking to me anyway, it's not like she's never seen me naked

I'm willing to be the guinea pig for this hypothesis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought the recipient has to at least have the app open? I've never subsequently found anything sent to me and deleted before I opened it.

She's still speaking to me anyway, it's not like she's never seen me naked

I'm willing to be the guinea pig for this hypothesis

Gosh that's very good of you

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By *shornMan
over a year ago

Not WhatsApp but I have managed to accidentally send a link for fab itself to a friend on Facebook messenger lol and to make it worse it turned the link into one of those picture links lol

Red faced was an understatement lol thankfully she did it totally freak out and never speak to me again

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