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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever went a month of abstinence?

I’m seriously considering doing it (or at least trying lol)

I figured lockdown is as good a time as any to try it! I have quite a high sex drive and I’m sure I’m not the only one. It will definitely be a struggle but it’s something I think would be a healthy challenge!

Any advice welcomed

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I went years without any so ye a month would be easy enough for me.

Just find other things to keep you occupied really

Sorry can't be more help than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m honest OP I couldn’t do it... I actually feel discomfort until I have a release if I don’t have regular sex... not sure what health benefits it would bring tbh.... best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went years without any so ye a month would be easy enough for me.

Just find other things to keep you occupied really

Sorry can't be more help than that "

What she said

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Try 10 years buddy. A month is just a blink of the eye.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Yrs in a sexless marriage so wouldn't bother me to be honest....

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Not by choice......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya no bother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw "

Wishing you a quick recovery... doesn’t sound nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages, just to clarify I am also including a self-imposed wank ban. I genuinely want to see if I can do it (usually give in after about 4 days)

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

I wouldn't last a week

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw "

Ooooch. Hope you are ok.

I’m not giving anything up for any reason. I’ve had to give up alcohol, sex, spicy foods, fruit juice, coffee, going away, going out and eating out the last year. It’s enough fucking giving up shit for one year already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular ejaculation is important for prostate health, not having sex is one thing, not masturbating is another.

The longest I've gone without sex is six months after the birth of my first child, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going without what? Sex or an orgasm?

If you mean sex then I think we're already up to about 5 months-ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw

Ooooch. Hope you are ok.

I’m not giving anything up for any reason. I’ve had to give up alcohol, sex, spicy foods, fruit juice, coffee, going away, going out and eating out the last year. It’s enough fucking giving up shit for one year already "

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw

Ooooch. Hope you are ok.

I’m not giving anything up for any reason. I’ve had to give up alcohol, sex, spicy foods, fruit juice, coffee, going away, going out and eating out the last year. It’s enough fucking giving up shit for one year already "

Thanks for the well wishes.

As another thread describes it "I ripped my banjo"

Referred to a urologist who said he didnt see it mending so in for the procedure I went last week. Road to recovery 1 week down 5 to go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regular ejaculation is important for prostate health, not having sex is one thing, not masturbating is another.

The longest I've gone without sex is six months after the birth of my first child, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair."

If that’s the case my prostrate is in tip top form. I’m sure one month won’t affect almost 20 years of regular maintenance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular ejaculation is important for prostate health, not having sex is one thing, not masturbating is another.

The longest I've gone without sex is six months after the birth of my first child, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair.

If that’s the case my prostrate is in tip top form. I’m sure one month won’t affect almost 20 years of regular maintenance "

Up to you but I honestly wouldn't see the benefits unless there is some kind of addictive or compulsive aspect.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw

Ooooch. Hope you are ok.

I’m not giving anything up for any reason. I’ve had to give up alcohol, sex, spicy foods, fruit juice, coffee, going away, going out and eating out the last year. It’s enough fucking giving up shit for one year already

Thanks for the well wishes.

As another thread describes it "I ripped my banjo"

Referred to a urologist who said he didnt see it mending so in for the procedure I went last week. Road to recovery 1 week down 5 to go.

"

Been there ...good luck with the recovery

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I will join u op. Not by choice though. Had a little procedure last week. 6 weeks before I'm back up and running. Long story btw

Ooooch. Hope you are ok.

I’m not giving anything up for any reason. I’ve had to give up alcohol, sex, spicy foods, fruit juice, coffee, going away, going out and eating out the last year. It’s enough fucking giving up shit for one year already

Thanks for the well wishes.

As another thread describes it "I ripped my banjo"

Referred to a urologist who said he didnt see it mending so in for the procedure I went last week. Road to recovery 1 week down 5 to go.

"

My urologist and I are on texting memes terms.. I feel your pain!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Jaysos are you not deprived enough with the never ending lockdown so that you've to impose more restrictions onto yourself? Each on their own as they say...

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Jaysos are you not deprived enough with the never ending lockdown so that you've to impose more restrictions onto yourself? Each on their own as they say..."

FUCKING THIS!!

Why would you give up more!!!! Gimme and and everything naughty.

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering


"Jaysos are you not deprived enough with the never ending lockdown so that you've to impose more restrictions onto yourself? Each on their own as they say..."

It’s the only thing I have left lol Pamela and her 4 sisters lol

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Why are you doing this. You're denying yourself pleasure!!! You're choosing to torture yourself, physically and mentally. Amnesty wouldn't allow it!. And think of your poor swollen, pulsating prostate, yearning for release. The fluids have to go somewhere, even thinking erotic thoughts causes your prostate to fill up in anticipation of a call to action. Free the sperm.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Jaysos are you not deprived enough with the never ending lockdown so that you've to impose more restrictions onto yourself? Each on their own as they say..."

I agree why make it even harder no pun intended.

Do what you can to enjoy this time.Could I do it yes. Do I want to no

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Awk sure can do 40 days and nights no bother ... try a year ...

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

good luck with this one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awk sure can do 40 days and nights no bother ... try a year ... "

Went 10 months without it before! Just got on with it after a while but the hand was being dropped regularly enough so cant imagine what it would be like not sorting yourself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake "

Not if you make moist delicious melt in your mouth healthy cake ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake

Not if you make moist delicious melt in your mouth healthy cake .... "

When your sex deprived only trans fats and whiter than white processed sugar will fill your hole

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake

Not if you make moist delicious melt in your mouth healthy cake ....

When your sex deprived only trans fats and whiter than white processed sugar will fill your hole "

Yeah aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever went a month of abstinence?

I’m seriously considering doing it (or at least trying lol)

I figured lockdown is as good a time as any to try it! I have quite a high sex drive and I’m sure I’m not the only one. It will definitely be a struggle but it’s something I think would be a healthy challenge!

Any advice welcomed "

You've obviously never been married have you mate

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By *l CaballeroMan
over a year ago

limerick

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By *l CaballeroMan
over a year ago

limerick


"You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake

Not if you make moist delicious melt in your mouth healthy cake .... "

I would love to try your baking LRRH

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"You may get fat, I replaced sex (not my choice) with cake, lots of cake, lots of really good, moist, delicious, melt in the mouth cake

Not if you make moist delicious melt in your mouth healthy cake ....

I would love to try your baking LRRH "

My buns are super yummy

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