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"Thankfully none have gone wrong as such. Always meet for a social first so at least I know we will get on. Probably one crap thing that happened when I first joined agreed to a quick coffee and chat with a guy and by the time the coffee was finished we just about remained dressed to get to the hotel room to only realise neither of us had condoms. " Stick to the foreplay? | |||
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"My first meet arranged,drove to Waterford,got there early so went into a car showroom as I was buying a new car. Staff left and locked me in the carpark with no way to do drive out Sent her the video to prove how stupid the situation was " Oh god. You ever meet her in the end? | |||
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"One of the first meets... Dude was soo excited came within a minute ... Went at it again... I was praying it would finish quickly.... Didnt want to injure his pride by telling him he was shite... just made excuses to not see him again... He was clingy as hell though ... " Looks like you dodged a bullet so | |||
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"One of the first meets... Dude was soo excited came within a minute ... Went at it again... I was praying it would finish quickly.... Didnt want to injure his pride by telling him he was shite... just made excuses to not see him again... He was clingy as hell though ... Looks like you dodged a bullet so " More like a potato sack | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! " Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves " Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! " Oh Jesus. People are desperate. You could of asked him who the guy in the pictures was lol | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! Oh Jesus. People are desperate. You could of asked him who the guy in the pictures was lol" Would be too afraid of the answer!! | |||
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"My first meet arranged,drove to Waterford,got there early so went into a car showroom as I was buying a new car. Staff left and locked me in the carpark with no way to do drive out Sent her the video to prove how stupid the situation was Oh god. You ever meet her in the end?" Yes a few times | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! Oh Jesus. People are desperate. You could of asked him who the guy in the pictures was lol Would be too afraid of the answer!! " Lesson learned tho? | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! Oh Jesus. People are desperate. You could of asked him who the guy in the pictures was lol Would be too afraid of the answer!! Lesson learned tho?" Yep. Never trust a good looking man | |||
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"Met a guy I'd been chatting to for a while for coffee. When he arrived, he grabbed a coffee, found me and sat down. He had persistently sent pics of a completely different guy for months. And many of them. Had a very quick chat and made my excuses. He asked me after if I'd like to meet again and if I'd verify him?!?! Hahaha do people not think that they will be found out when they send photos not of themselves Perhaps thought I'd be willing to overlook? Pity cos the guy in pics was hot!!! Oh Jesus. People are desperate. You could of asked him who the guy in the pictures was lol Would be too afraid of the answer!! Lesson learned tho? Yep. Never trust a good looking man " Sounds like a life lessons | |||
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"My first meet arranged,drove to Waterford,got there early so went into a car showroom as I was buying a new car. Staff left and locked me in the carpark with no way to do drive out Sent her the video to prove how stupid the situation was " Sorry | |||
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"I once bunked off from school with a few mates and got d*unk on Beefeter Gin and Creme de Menthe. Had a meet later with a girl from school. I ended up spray painting "I LOVE YOU" on her drive way and vomited on her younger brothers head. " Dear God. Did you ever get near her again? | |||
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"I once bunked off from school with a few mates and got d*unk on Beefeter Gin and Creme de Menthe. Had a meet later with a girl from school. I ended up spray painting "I LOVE YOU" on her drive way and vomited on her younger brothers head. Dear God. Did you ever get near her again? " Ah yeah. I got Inbetween her a few times since | |||
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"I once bunked off from school with a few mates and got d*unk on Beefeter Gin and Creme de Menthe. Had a meet later with a girl from school. I ended up spray painting "I LOVE YOU" on her drive way and vomited on her younger brothers head. Dear God. Did you ever get near her again? Ah yeah. I got Inbetween her a few times since " LOL good man. | |||
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"I once bunked off from school with a few mates and got d*unk on Beefeter Gin and Creme de Menthe. Had a meet later with a girl from school. I ended up spray painting "I LOVE YOU" on her drive way and vomited on her younger brothers head. " My son showed me that episode....those were the days | |||
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"Chatting to a fella for about 6 weeks, flirting, swapping pics, getting on like a house on fire. Arranged to meet for a cuppa, he walked in, took me from the feet up and said you're bigger than I thought and turned and left. Was a great cuppa tho lol" Sounds very familiar | |||
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"Chatting to a fella for about 6 weeks, flirting, swapping pics, getting on like a house on fire. Arranged to meet for a cuppa, he walked in, took me from the feet up and said you're bigger than I thought and turned and left. Was a great cuppa tho lol Sounds very familiar " Arent some men wankers! Tis a while thing to be shallow, tbf my bestie was more annoyed than me lol I just thought I dodged a bullet! | |||
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"Chatting to a fella for about 6 weeks, flirting, swapping pics, getting on like a house on fire. Arranged to meet for a cuppa, he walked in, took me from the feet up and said you're bigger than I thought and turned and left. Was a great cuppa tho lol Sounds very familiar Arent some men wankers! Tis a while thing to be shallow, tbf my bestie was more annoyed than me lol I just thought I dodged a bullet!" Oh I told a friend and her husband said if he ever found out who the guy is | |||
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"Aw I hope he didnt annoy you too much, you look great in your pics!" At time it stopped me from even meeting for coffee but his loss. Thank you x | |||
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"Not the first time I've told this one but luckily it's the only meet that didn't go to plan. My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla". We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel. After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face. Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed. Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations. I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that. " Thats rough.. lucky escape | |||
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"Not the first time I've told this one but luckily it's the only meet that didn't go to plan. My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla". We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel. After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face. Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed. Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations. I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that. " jesus. in retrospect, and with experience, were there red flags that things might go wrong with her? | |||
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"Not the first time I've told this one but luckily it's the only meet that didn't go to plan. My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla". We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel. After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face. Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed. Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations. I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that. jesus. in retrospect, and with experience, were there red flags that things might go wrong with her?" None at all apart from me possibly not asking the right questions beforehand. Both coffee meets had gone well so there was no hint of what was to come. | |||
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"Not the first time I've told this one but luckily it's the only meet that didn't go to plan. My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla". We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel. After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face. Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed. Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations. I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that. jesus. in retrospect, and with experience, were there red flags that things might go wrong with her? None at all apart from me possibly not asking the right questions beforehand. Both coffee meets had gone well so there was no hint of what was to come. " That is scary | |||
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"Not the first time I've told this one but luckily it's the only meet that didn't go to plan. My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla". We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel. After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face. Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed. Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations. I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that. " I had a somewhat similar experience in terms of the first bit getting an unmerciful slap to the face from a woman whilst in the throes of sex. Was a tinder meet. And it was totally out of the blue. Sex was getting really hot and heavy but at no stage whatsoever had anything like that been even remotely hinted at never mind even discussed I was totally and utterly stunned. to the point where I continued and stayed for the night having sex. She continued to fuck me as if I was just a thing. I never got even close to orgasm. Next morning took her for coffee and have her some touristy advice (she was on hols). Looked at phone a few fours later and SHE had blocked me lol. Quite traumatic when I looked back on it a few days later really. Totally sexual assault | |||
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"I had been chatting with a couple from just outside Dublin for a few months and we finally decided to meet up when I was over on my usual monthly business trip. I arranged a lunchtime social meet to see that we were all happy with each other ect and if we were then we could meet at my hotel in Dublin that night....Lunch went well and we agreed to meet at 8pm in my City Centre Hotel. Just before 8pm I went down to hotel bar only to hear a commotion in reception & lots of shouting. I could then see the Couple so d*unk and hardly able to stand up shouting they were here to play with Phil the Scottish Guy.... This is a hotel I had stayed in for at least 2 nights every month for over 20yrs and was personally known to owners I went and spoke with them and security got them to leave...a bit embarrassing " Oh god - Mortified for you | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? " Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago??" Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. " I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you!" Dog chain??? | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? " The thing around your neck in your profile pic | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic " Is a chain a turn off for woman really | |||
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"When I was in the US with work in late 2019 I arranged to meet a lady for a drink through a dating app. The date went well with lots of flirting and touching and we went back to my hotel after a couple of hours. Things were going well at first as we kissed and got more intimate. Until she started to perform oral on me which was the most painful experience ever between her loctite grip and use of her teeth I was writhing around the bed in agony and pleading for her to go easy with her oral technique. I decided maybe giving her some oral attention was a better option. This went well at first as I pleasured her but as she got more turned on and closer to orgasm she gripped my head tightly with her thighs nearly suffocating me while screaming at me “you’re the devil - I’ve never felt like this before” Eventually I managed to rescue myself and we cuddled which I felt was the safest activity. There was no way I was chancing full sex with this lady given my oral experiences She fell asleep but woke maybe 20 minutes later saying “You’re the devil but I love you” Oh how I wished it wasn’t my hotel room and I could escape!!!! There were a couple more attempts at intimacy during the night but I was like a cat on hot coals after my earlier experiences so any sexual urges I had were long gone. Eventually she announced she needed to leave so she could get home to shower before work. Unbelievably she wanted to meet again as she enjoyed herself so much. I just made smoothing responses and I moved her towards the door promising I’d be in touch. That’s the short version of the night I was afraid to go to sleep!! " You make a fine storyteller you devil! | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really " What else do you think it might be?? | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be??" chains arent a turn off since Conall on Normal People wore them! but the angles and poses of your photos could be better. try a few angles on your best features, play around with filters and see how you go. | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be??" Don’t know but a doubt a chain is a deal breaker for a lady | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be?? chains arent a turn off since Conall on Normal People wore them! but the angles and poses of your photos could be better. try a few angles on your best features, play around with filters and see how you go." Thanks for the advice will try improving photos ?? | |||
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"We had a naked cinderella, Chatting flirting for a few nights had a phone call to make sure they were a couple, so we invited them up for some fun. They turned up a little d*unk. we gave them the benifit of the doubt probably got a little too much Dutch courage. We Had a bit of a party,drinks and pizza, Tina got out the guitar we had a sing song. The night drifted into the early hours and we started to play a little. The female stripped and lay on the couch Tina poised to go down on her, she jumped up in her birthday suit and ran out of the door leaving her husband perplexed. He shrugged his shoulders, gathered up her clothes, made his excuses and left. Later on whilst cleaning up we found a phone and a shoe. The next day we got a phone call, "ehhh can I call up and collect the phone" we said no problem you also left a shoe and a pair of knickers, and laughed about what had transpired. That's where the story should have ended, but the newbies in us wanted to give them a second chance. So we carried on chatting, laughing about what had happened and arranged another night. This time they turned up, fresh and we had a few drinks and chats, the two girls started kissing and fondling on the couch. Me and the other guy, romoved our clothing sat either end of the couch. The girls obliged and we each had each others wife's mouth wrapped around our cocks. The girls stripped and Tina went to go down, and the same thing happened, up she got in her nip and out the door. We never spoke again and everytime we rejoin it's an instant block. " that’s brilliant | |||
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"Lots, been swinging a long time. Worst was a husband who changed his mind after I'd had sex with his wife and she'd cum several times. Started crying, begging her to forgive him. Bloody awful. She phoned me to say she wanted to meet again and I tactfully declined, which was difficult because she was lovely. " Oh dear, lol | |||
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"We’d been speaking to a couple for a while. Nice people, but not entirely what we’d go for. However as the chat progressed, we came to enjoy the flirting so decided why not. We agreed for an afternoon session as they had kids, and couldn’t do later and we booked the hotel (Clarion maybe?) next time Liffey Valley. Day came and we went over to check in and do some shopping. Then we met them at the bar at the agreed time. Spent an hour or two having a laugh, having a few drinks, and getting comfortable before I said our code phrase in conversation, getting the response which meant I could invite them back. All going very well, and looking good. Stopped at the off-licence on the way and went up to the room. I went for a tinkle and came out to find the girls already kissing which quickly progressed to nakedness and further exploration. Lads, had a few drinks and watched before joining them in the bed. Where we swapped for a soft swap start. Still very hot, until suddenly she excused herself to the bathroom. Giving her a moment to use the facilities, I joined him in entertaining Scarlett until she re-emerges and takes me back in her mouth. Service resumed for a few minutes until she left again. Brow now furrowed, I joined back in playing with Scarlett until I could make out the unmistakable sounds of her vomiting. A look on Scarlett’s face confirmed she heard it too, but hubby kept eating her until I said. ‘I think you might wanna check in your mrs m, mate’ Reluctantly he did and we gave them privacy but we could hear crying and vomiting. After a bit he came out and said he’ll call her a taxi and send her home. We told him that he ought to do the right thing and join her... after cleaning up the bathroom. He did after protest and left, but forgot some items that we had to post. Wasn’t her fault but was our first couple play, and Scarlett’s first bi so it was annoying. We laugh about it now, but every so often they rejoin and send a message. We chat, but would never meet them again because his lack of regard for her well-being left a worse impression then her getting too d*unk " Drink and swinging are not good bed fellows, we only have a couple at a meet, i usual don't drink at all. We have learnt over the years there are other nights for getting d*unk. | |||
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"We’d been speaking to a couple for a while. Nice people, but not entirely what we’d go for. However as the chat progressed, we came to enjoy the flirting so decided why not. We agreed for an afternoon session as they had kids, and couldn’t do later and we booked the hotel (Clarion maybe?) next time Liffey Valley. Day came and we went over to check in and do some shopping. Then we met them at the bar at the agreed time. Spent an hour or two having a laugh, having a few drinks, and getting comfortable before I said our code phrase in conversation, getting the response which meant I could invite them back. All going very well, and looking good. Stopped at the off-licence on the way and went up to the room. I went for a tinkle and came out to find the girls already kissing which quickly progressed to nakedness and further exploration. Lads, had a few drinks and watched before joining them in the bed. Where we swapped for a soft swap start. Still very hot, until suddenly she excused herself to the bathroom. Giving her a moment to use the facilities, I joined him in entertaining Scarlett until she re-emerges and takes me back in her mouth. Service resumed for a few minutes until she left again. Brow now furrowed, I joined back in playing with Scarlett until I could make out the unmistakable sounds of her vomiting. A look on Scarlett’s face confirmed she heard it too, but hubby kept eating her until I said. ‘I think you might wanna check in your mrs m, mate’ Reluctantly he did and we gave them privacy but we could hear crying and vomiting. After a bit he came out and said he’ll call her a taxi and send her home. We told him that he ought to do the right thing and join her... after cleaning up the bathroom. He did after protest and left, but forgot some items that we had to post. Wasn’t her fault but was our first couple play, and Scarlett’s first bi so it was annoying. We laugh about it now, but every so often they rejoin and send a message. We chat, but would never meet them again because his lack of regard for her well-being left a worse impression then her getting too d*unk Drink and swinging are not good bed fellows, we only have a couple at a meet, i usual don't drink at all. We have learnt over the years there are other nights for getting d*unk. " Absolutely agree. It seems to intensify those teenage insecurities too, and that is never going to go down well. We still have a social one or two, but if you need more than that then probably shouldn’t be doing it in the first instance. At least in our experience but everyone has their own meet process. | |||
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"We’d been speaking to a couple for a while. Nice people, but not entirely what we’d go for. However as the chat progressed, we came to enjoy the flirting so decided why not. We agreed for an afternoon session as they had kids, and couldn’t do later and we booked the hotel (Clarion maybe?) next time Liffey Valley. Day came and we went over to check in and do some shopping. Then we met them at the bar at the agreed time. Spent an hour or two having a laugh, having a few drinks, and getting comfortable before I said our code phrase in conversation, getting the response which meant I could invite them back. All going very well, and looking good. Stopped at the off-licence on the way and went up to the room. I went for a tinkle and came out to find the girls already kissing which quickly progressed to nakedness and further exploration. Lads, had a few drinks and watched before joining them in the bed. Where we swapped for a soft swap start. Still very hot, until suddenly she excused herself to the bathroom. Giving her a moment to use the facilities, I joined him in entertaining Scarlett until she re-emerges and takes me back in her mouth. Service resumed for a few minutes until she left again. Brow now furrowed, I joined back in playing with Scarlett until I could make out the unmistakable sounds of her vomiting. A look on Scarlett’s face confirmed she heard it too, but hubby kept eating her until I said. ‘I think you might wanna check in your mrs m, mate’ Reluctantly he did and we gave them privacy but we could hear crying and vomiting. After a bit he came out and said he’ll call her a taxi and send her home. We told him that he ought to do the right thing and join her... after cleaning up the bathroom. He did after protest and left, but forgot some items that we had to post. Wasn’t her fault but was our first couple play, and Scarlett’s first bi so it was annoying. We laugh about it now, but every so often they rejoin and send a message. We chat, but would never meet them again because his lack of regard for her well-being left a worse impression then her getting too d*unk Drink and swinging are not good bed fellows, we only have a couple at a meet, i usual don't drink at all. We have learnt over the years there are other nights for getting d*unk. Absolutely agree. It seems to intensify those teenage insecurities too, and that is never going to go down well. We still have a social one or two, but if you need more than that then probably shouldn’t be doing it in the first instance. At least in our experience but everyone has their own meet process. " Very true | |||
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"We’d been speaking to a couple for a while. Nice people, but not entirely what we’d go for. However as the chat progressed, we came to enjoy the flirting so decided why not. We agreed for an afternoon session as they had kids, and couldn’t do later and we booked the hotel (Clarion maybe?) next time Liffey Valley. Day came and we went over to check in and do some shopping. Then we met them at the bar at the agreed time. Spent an hour or two having a laugh, having a few drinks, and getting comfortable before I said our code phrase in conversation, getting the response which meant I could invite them back. All going very well, and looking good. Stopped at the off-licence on the way and went up to the room. I went for a tinkle and came out to find the girls already kissing which quickly progressed to nakedness and further exploration. Lads, had a few drinks and watched before joining them in the bed. Where we swapped for a soft swap start. Still very hot, until suddenly she excused herself to the bathroom. Giving her a moment to use the facilities, I joined him in entertaining Scarlett until she re-emerges and takes me back in her mouth. Service resumed for a few minutes until she left again. Brow now furrowed, I joined back in playing with Scarlett until I could make out the unmistakable sounds of her vomiting. A look on Scarlett’s face confirmed she heard it too, but hubby kept eating her until I said. ‘I think you might wanna check in your mrs m, mate’ Reluctantly he did and we gave them privacy but we could hear crying and vomiting. After a bit he came out and said he’ll call her a taxi and send her home. We told him that he ought to do the right thing and join her... after cleaning up the bathroom. He did after protest and left, but forgot some items that we had to post. Wasn’t her fault but was our first couple play, and Scarlett’s first bi so it was annoying. We laugh about it now, but every so often they rejoin and send a message. We chat, but would never meet them again because his lack of regard for her well-being left a worse impression then her getting too d*unk " Again... really sorry about that | |||
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"Wasn't sure if I should post this I don't really like talking about that time of my life but it fits here. Met a woman online years ago not swinging as such just singles/hook up. After months of back and forward pictures and short (grainy) video clips, our diaries aligned and we agreed to meet. She brought me to a hotel in town and told me to come straight to her room, she gave me a secret knock and all, very exciting. When I walked in I should have turned on my heels, barrack busters of cider at various stages of being emptied all over the place, feg butts in some of them, the room stank of stale booze and cigarette smoke, think of a sterotypical alcoholics room, and this was it. Frank Gallagher from shameless. Anyway. She was hot. Way out of my league and I was young and every ride could be your last at that age, or so you think. Some real bad sloppy kissing with a taste of cider I'll never forget, some really cringe and out of context dirty talk came next. Then she dropped to her knees, not in a sexy way, in a hockey goalie making a save way. So things got going and I'm not having a good time, but as I say I'm young and my little brain has over ruled the big brain so I stick it out. We had spoken about some bondage and S&M stuff but she never seemed keen on it in the chat, till she whipped out some under bed restraints, and tied me face first to the bed. Now even as a youngun I was pretty open sexually and didn't care about things going on the exit so I was starting to get into it, until... She came up to my ear and started whispering what she wanted to do to me, it was pretty vile stuff and even the least bad stuff won't get past the filters on here. I'm just thinking she's getting off on this just role with it, she produces a big skin coloured dildo from her case, and starts flopping it in front of my face, calling me loads of homophobic slurs. Now this is the late 00's we weren't as woke as we are now but even then I decided this was too much and tried to get up, but I couldn't get at the release to get away. She starts lubbin up my ass, and stops with the insults so I relax a little again start getting into it, and then.......... She collapses down beside me fast asleep/ out from the booze. " How the hell did you get away | |||
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"Wasn't sure if I should post this I don't really like talking about that time of my life but it fits here. Met a woman online years ago not swinging as such just singles/hook up. After months of back and forward pictures and short (grainy) video clips, our diaries aligned and we agreed to meet. She brought me to a hotel in town and told me to come straight to her room, she gave me a secret knock and all, very exciting. When I walked in I should have turned on my heels, barrack busters of cider at various stages of being emptied all over the place, feg butts in some of them, the room stank of stale booze and cigarette smoke, think of a sterotypical alcoholics room, and this was it. Frank Gallagher from shameless. Anyway. She was hot. Way out of my league and I was young and every ride could be your last at that age, or so you think. Some real bad sloppy kissing with a taste of cider I'll never forget, some really cringe and out of context dirty talk came next. Then she dropped to her knees, not in a sexy way, in a hockey goalie making a save way. So things got going and I'm not having a good time, but as I say I'm young and my little brain has over ruled the big brain so I stick it out. We had spoken about some bondage and S&M stuff but she never seemed keen on it in the chat, till she whipped out some under bed restraints, and tied me face first to the bed. Now even as a youngun I was pretty open sexually and didn't care about things going on the exit so I was starting to get into it, until... She came up to my ear and started whispering what she wanted to do to me, it was pretty vile stuff and even the least bad stuff won't get past the filters on here. I'm just thinking she's getting off on this just role with it, she produces a big skin coloured dildo from her case, and starts flopping it in front of my face, calling me loads of homophobic slurs. Now this is the late 00's we weren't as woke as we are now but even then I decided this was too much and tried to get up, but I couldn't get at the release to get away. She starts lubbin up my ass, and stops with the insults so I relax a little again start getting into it, and then.......... She collapses down beside me fast asleep/ out from the booze. " Jesus Christ!!!!! I was so fucking worried reading that. That’s mind blowingly fucked up in all sorts of unmentionable ways | |||
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"I never felt in danger, I mean obviously I would put my self in the situation ever now. To round it off I stayed tied up for a good 20 or so minutes thinking she would wake up or something and then I started to try and get free, eventually i managed to engage the release by pinning it against the bed frame or something, I got one arm free and then released the rest of the restraints, got up got dressed and left. And here is the weirdest bit, I just went straight to the pub met up with the lads and told them what happened as if it were the most normal thing in the world. " Jesus that is so fucked up Traumatic i would say. As previous posters have mentioned - too much alcohol = red flag. | |||
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"I never felt in danger, I mean obviously I would put my self in the situation ever now. To round it off I stayed tied up for a good 20 or so minutes thinking she would wake up or something and then I started to try and get free, eventually i managed to engage the release by pinning it against the bed frame or something, I got one arm free and then released the rest of the restraints, got up got dressed and left. And here is the weirdest bit, I just went straight to the pub met up with the lads and told them what happened as if it were the most normal thing in the world. " HOLY shit!!! I held my breath reading that. | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be??" Your being a bit of a prick, people are on this forum not to be ridiculed or being made a laugh of!! | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be?? Your being a bit of a prick, people are on this forum not to be ridiculed or being made a laugh of!!" He was asking for help. I provided feedback. That may or may not work. Your the one who’s throwing insults around like a big time Charlie. | |||
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"Would love to be able to post a bad experience but only one I have is I don’t seem to be anyone’s type on here can’t even get chatting with people. ?? Looks like you had a meet 3 weeks ago?? Nope I didn’t unfortunately I asked for a verification from 2018 lol to try to help with people chatting with me as no verifications and people don’t want to chat. I’d drop the dog chain if I was you! Dog chain??? The thing around your neck in your profile pic Is a chain a turn off for woman really What else do you think it might be?? Your being a bit of a prick, people are on this forum not to be ridiculed or being made a laugh of!! He was asking for help. I provided feedback. That may or may not work. Your the one who’s throwing insults around like a big time Charlie." Not a big time Charlie whatsoever, I felt the way you worded your ‘advice’, you were totally taking the piss out of him.....if that was not your intention, my apologies!! If it was your intention....well then!!!!! | |||
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