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By *eralt80 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Reading another thread about fab friendships it got me thinking.

Let’s say your talking to another profile and everything is great and ye develop into being friends and as time passes a deeper and deeper friendship develops.

My question is at what point does the dynamic change from potential play partner to just being really good friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually on a Thursday morning around 11ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, its individually and definitely depends on people.

I have a long time friends and we never had sex just kissing each other on different occassions. From innocent kiss to a passionate one.

Sometimes its better to just being friends no matter what without sex.

I can tell from my experience where is sex involved the friendships did not stay long. Jealousy is a main reason

Between men and women the real friendship is only possible when one of them is gay or there is no physical attraction to each other (or its just a choice which is very rare)

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think if ye have been chatting a long time and you become friends amd you no longer see them in a sexual way.

It's like in real life when you are friends with someone I think. I have had some male friends who I have been very close to but never had anything sexual with and never wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of factors come into this. Teasing , flirting , the words been used in messages. Is it still there ? But at the end of the day go with what you feel. If you feel it’s fizzing out as a play meet and just becoming friends then more than likely it is and visa versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of factors come into this. Teasing , flirting , the words been used in messages. Is it still there ? But at the end of the day go with what you feel. If you feel it’s fizzing out as a play meet and just becoming friends then more than likely it is and visa versa.

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It will vary to each situation im sure.

But its good to meet in person asap if you can, so you'll know if there is real chemistry. Its hard to judge in texts, and also hard to maintain a sexual interest over a long period just texting. camming together may be an alternative in the current climate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we don't make friends on here, it ruins the sex

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By *eralt80 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Sorry I should say it was more of a general query then anything personal for myself.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"That's why we don't make friends on here, it ruins the sex "

Cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why we don't make friends on here, it ruins the sex

Cunts "

Love ya Mick

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"That's why we don't make friends on here, it ruins the sex

Cunts

Love ya Mick"

Noooooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of factors come into this. Teasing , flirting , the words been used in messages. Is it still there ? But at the end of the day go with what you feel. If you feel it’s fizzing out as a play meet and just becoming friends then more than likely it is and visa versa.

It will vary to each situation im sure.

But its good to meet in person asap if you can, so you'll know if there is real chemistry. Its hard to judge in texts, and also hard to maintain a sexual interest over a long period just texting. camming together may be an alternative in the current climate

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A meet can sort a lot out. It will show if the spark is there or not. Caming also does this. Sometimes just hearing the voice can set off that sexual interest again

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