Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Ireland |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That can't be good, unless they're locking them in(not right either), who know what they could see." or hear,have notice a cpl on here tht do it often!its just not rite,no respect for their kids | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"hhmmmm I wouldn't agree with this either.... I know little kids can sleep through anything really. So this may or may not not affect them. But what worries me even more is the parents inviting strangers to their home. They may have their hands full and not notice that someone strays off in the house.... don't even want to think about it!!!" i know,and this cpl even puts it in their status when looking for guys to come,''kids will be in bed'' i think its disgusting | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Without terrifying everyone !!!! I have had female friends especially single mums tell me that they have had guys ask them very early on about their kids . Now there is nothing wrong about asking if someone has kids in the same way as there is no harm asking where you live etc but these conversations can be very inappropriate . So I have to say the idea of swingers in the house with kids asleep horrifies me . Generally "entertaining " at home is an enormous risk but kids just seems totally daft . A hotel room costs 70 euro which divided 3 or 4 ways is a few pints in temple bar !! " do you mean in a swinging sense they ask about whether people have kids, or a dating sense? dating, i think its VERY important as i wouldnt want to fall for someone if they had kids and i didnt want to be involved with anyones, or vice versa. saying that, i suppose even on a swinging front, kids can be the cause of last minute cancellations. kid gets ill, cancel meet, so maybe thats the angle the asker is going for. not everyone that asks about kids is a potential poedo | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Which is the point made . I have made personal friends from swinging and ended up knowing lots about them that has nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with friendship . And of course asking a question about kids is nearly always entirely innocent . But that's the point . Nearly always . There are creeps out there with terrible motives . So why risk meeting with kids at home when there are perfectly safe neutral venues ? " guess i suppose some people just cant get sitters, i have no idea the mentality, never something i have had to worry about, thankfully. however, i would hope that suitable checks and reasonable suspicion would stop someone inviting a potential 'pervert' into their home, whether they hve kids at home or not. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Did someone not get asked about a social meet but they said they couldn't as they had a child and was told to bring then too I know it was only coffee but kids are a no no at any meet" | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What's good for one person isn't always good for someone else... While i do not agree with it i'm sure people have their reasons for doing it... Who are we to judge... Live and let live and let them get on with it if that's what they want to do because at the end of the day NOBODY can tell anybody what they should and shouldn't do in their own homes! " i couldnt care less what ppl do in their own hmes but with little kids there and their having gangbangs every wkend its a different story!!!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't go too someones house if they have kids in there at the time. As for the people that do, I think there's obviously something lacking in their common sense! have some respect and protect your children!" well this cpl have loads of verifications frm guys tht went knowing the poor kids were upstairs,shame on them !! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What's good for one person isn't always good for someone else... While i do not agree with it i'm sure people have their reasons for doing it... Who are we to judge... Live and let live and let them get on with it if that's what they want to do because at the end of the day NOBODY can tell anybody what they should and shouldn't do in their own homes! " I am all for live and let live but society rightly steps in when it involve kids . | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"sure we,ve all had the oh just sneak me in while there asleep comment when u can,t meet at a certain time i think thats down right nasty to even think that i would consider such a thing and for them to think that i,m that desperate ,respect and cherish your kids ! " i 2nd that | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
""its all about respect isnt it? for oneselves and for others. now, if people dont respect themselves by not wanting to seperate their family from this 'hobby' then, personally, they are the kind of people i wouldnt want to associate with, and again, if someone doesnt respect the fact you have kids and wouldnt want to get into anything when they are around, then they wouldnt want to be the types we would want to associate with either." and again "guess i suppose some people just cant get sitters, i have no idea the mentality, never something i have had to worry about, thankfully. however, i would hope that suitable checks and reasonable suspicion would stop someone inviting a potential 'pervert' into their home, whether they hve kids at home or not." Cant we have a consisttent opinion on this and not just one that changes with public opinion pretty please " ok, mr argumentative, how are my opinons not consistant? both posts say we wouldnt play with people with kids in the house. the latter you quoted says you need to make sure people arent unsuitable to have around ,whether kids are there or not, and the former says we wouldnt play with people that dont respect the boundaries between swinging and childcare. jesus, i swear men can have pmt too!!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No no, no no, this isnt the Mat Hatters Tea Party. Words cant mean what I mean them to say whenever I want them to mean something then change them. The first quote clearly states that people with children who mix up their hobby with life have no respect for themselves. That can only mean that they should never ever ever meet with their kids around. The other one flippantly says that sure maybe they cant get a babysitter. Now that can only mean surely that they cant get a sitter and maybe thats why they have to see people at home with kids in bed. So you went in a few days from saying sure its no great harm if you cant get a babysitter to shag people at home, to its a terrible thing and they have no respect for themselves. A fair line of inconsistency indeed. Just as well as you say I dont have an argumentative bone in my body or I might even make little cheap quips about PMT. But I would never do that me " not at all. just offering reasoning for why people do something is hardly condoning it. maybe its because i called you a cheating fcuker that you seem to have a problem with me, and thats fine, i dont mind, i dont care either way, but dont twist things when they hardly support what you say. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Slightly of topic, in that my question refers to the op as opposed to ongoing feud but were do we draw the line? Is it all unacceptable? Is it gang bang because its multiple guys there or would it be ok with a threesome because its only one guy? What if it was a ffm threesome is that different? What if you are a single mum and its a single guy coming over, can they have sex with kid asleep in the house or is that also a no no? " I don't have children so I can't talk from experience. But I think any situation is dangerous if it's a stranger who you bring to your home. Not everyone can afford hotels and babysitters but your children's wellfare should come before your sexual desires. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My god bbw you and I agree. In fairness folk who dont have kids can never quite understand the degree to which right minded parents find the whole idea distateful and so very very wrong. " yikes don't say it out loud!!! I'm going to lose my bad reputation! It seems you missed my other post otherwise you would have ripped me apart hehe | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My god bbw you and I agree. In fairness folk who dont have kids can never quite understand the degree to which right minded parents find the whole idea distateful and so very very wrong. yikes don't say it out loud!!! I'm going to lose my bad reputation! It seems you missed my other post otherwise you would have ripped me apart hehe" OMFG!!! I can see something sparking up here with you two!! Lol Just like two giggling teens! And agreeing with each other too!!! Wait!................. No I'm still alive! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My god bbw you and I agree. In fairness folk who dont have kids can never quite understand the degree to which right minded parents find the whole idea distateful and so very very wrong. yikes don't say it out loud!!! I'm going to lose my bad reputation! It seems you missed my other post otherwise you would have ripped me apart hehe OMFG!!! I can see something sparking up here with you two!! Lol Just like two giggling teens! And agreeing with each other too!!! Wait!................. No I'm still alive! " shut your mouth and say it ain't true!!! Pinch me so I can wake up lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My god bbw you and I agree. In fairness folk who dont have kids can never quite understand the degree to which right minded parents find the whole idea distateful and so very very wrong. yikes don't say it out loud!!! I'm going to lose my bad reputation! It seems you missed my other post otherwise you would have ripped me apart hehe OMFG!!! I can see something sparking up here with you two!! Lol Just like two giggling teens! And agreeing with each other too!!! Wait!................. No I'm still alive! shut your mouth and say it ain't true!!! Pinch me so I can wake up lol" No! You'd like that!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"oh lovely, I take my snog in the other post away... I don't snog kindergarten boys lol" | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Who in their right mind would bring a relative stranger (which by definition a swinger has to be otherwise they are a girlfriend or boyfriend) to their home " You'd be surprised- I've had plenty of meets, those have came to mine and me to theirs, not once has anyone for safety suggested a hotel. Now I'm not the murdering type but I guess it is a fairly short sighted attitude a lot of us take! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Who in their right mind would bring a relative stranger (which by definition a swinger has to be otherwise they are a girlfriend or boyfriend) to their home You'd be surprised- I've had plenty of meets, those have came to mine and me to theirs, not once has anyone for safety suggested a hotel. Now I'm not the murdering type but I guess it is a fairly short sighted attitude a lot of us take! " I think most of us have done it... I'm certainly more careful nowadays. But at least you only put yourself into danger. It's different when there are children. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What's good for one person isn't always good for someone else... While i do not agree with it i'm sure people have their reasons for doing it... Who are we to judge... Live and let live and let them get on with it if that's what they want to do because at the end of the day NOBODY can tell anybody what they should and shouldn't do in their own homes! " Im sorry, but yes they can, social services wouldn't be very long telling this couple that they cant be doing this in their home with their kids present. I would without a moments thought report this pair!! Imagine one of the kids walked in and saw what was going on in one of the rooms.....them poor kids would be traumatised for life! These people should be ashamed of themselves, if you cant get a babysitter, then postpone it until you can. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Who in their right mind would bring a relative stranger (which by definition a swinger has to be otherwise they are a girlfriend or boyfriend) to their home You'd be surprised- I've had plenty of meets, those have came to mine and me to theirs, not once has anyone for safety suggested a hotel. Now I'm not the murdering type but I guess it is a fairly short sighted attitude a lot of us take! " do you have kids ? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What's good for one person isn't always good for someone else... While i do not agree with it i'm sure people have their reasons for doing it... Who are we to judge... Live and let live and let them get on with it if that's what they want to do because at the end of the day NOBODY can tell anybody what they should and shouldn't do in their own homes! Im sorry, but yes they can, social services wouldn't be very long telling this couple that they cant be doing this in their home with their kids present. I would without a moments thought report this pair!! Imagine one of the kids walked in and saw what was going on in one of the rooms.....them poor kids would be traumatised for life! These people should be ashamed of themselves, if you cant get a babysitter, then postpone it until you can. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Who in their right mind would bring a relative stranger (which by definition a swinger has to be otherwise they are a girlfriend or boyfriend) to their home You'd be surprised- I've had plenty of meets, those have came to mine and me to theirs, not once has anyone for safety suggested a hotel. Now I'm not the murdering type but I guess it is a fairly short sighted attitude a lot of us take! do you have kids ?" I think he was talking about meeting someone at your/their house and no children involved. And how safe it is. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Who in their right mind would bring a relative stranger (which by definition a swinger has to be otherwise they are a girlfriend or boyfriend) to their home You'd be surprised- I've had plenty of meets, those have came to mine and me to theirs, not once has anyone for safety suggested a hotel. Now I'm not the murdering type but I guess it is a fairly short sighted attitude a lot of us take! do you have kids ? I think he was talking about meeting someone at your/their house and no children involved. And how safe it is. " away off the mark as usual its different if there,s no kids in the home totally different | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly" nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol " are you in any way surprised?? lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol " nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe " aye i was away for 3 days do ya wanna see me white bits lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe aye i was away for 3 days do ya wanna see me white bits lol " I bet there are none lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe aye i was away for 3 days do ya wanna see me white bits lol I bet there are none lol" correct the spray tan ain,t wore off yet lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly Is it ok for amarried cpl to have sex while the kids sleep in the next room? nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe aye i was away for 3 days do ya wanna see me white bits lol I bet there are none lol correct the spray tan ain,t wore off yet lol " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Exactly Is it ok for amarried cpl to have sex while the kids sleep in the next room? nothin wrong with that as kids arn,t involved, post seems to have gone off the beaten track again lol are you in any way surprised?? lol terribly, but you have to keep up with the crowd missus lol ps. were you away?? lol nope lol but movin on did ya miss me hehe aye i was away for 3 days do ya wanna see me white bits lol I bet there are none lol correct the spray tan ain,t wore off yet lol " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |