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"If you're dating someone new why would you tell them you're on here. Is it part of a conversation you'd have or would you wait a while Someone had a dating group going on here did you try that " Not sure if I would say anything about here tbh but than again there's not much to say. Was in the dating group but most of the guys were nearer Dublin or the South plus I find I get lost in chat groups im crap at flirting at the best of times never mind when trying to "compete" for attention | |||
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"I came off them all as all the guys are here lol. They poke you out in then sites aswell and are not there for real proper dating. Still just want sex immediately. " Excatly and what i find funny they can get aggressive when u say its dating im after. | |||
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"I came off them all as all the guys are here lol. They poke you out in then sites aswell and are not there for real proper dating. Still just want sex immediately. Excatly and what i find funny they can get aggressive when u say its dating im after. " Yes it's so annoying. | |||
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"I came off them all as all the guys are here lol. They poke you out in then sites aswell and are not there for real proper dating. Still just want sex immediately. Excatly and what i find funny they can get aggressive when u say its dating im after. " It then that tells you all you need to know about them. There should be respect wether someone is on here or a dating site. If you are on a dating site surely guys should realise women are actually looking to date, to be in a relationship and a relationship is much more than just sex. I was on tinder and actually met someone so came off here for early a year. Ok it didn’t last but that’s dating. Don’t give up op | |||
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"I wouldn't go near a dating site if I wanted to date. Not my thing. I'd prefer to meet people the old fashion way, ie activities that match your interest. Also as far as I know there's a lot of deception going on on sites like tinder just to get a leg over." At moment hard to meet guys the old fashioned way | |||
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"Tinder is a gift. I found it really good for meeting people. Had loads of dates, met plenty of lovely girls, some I’m still very friendly with. Beats going to sweaty bar or club trying to spark up conversation in a smelly smoking area." I would have stayed on Tinder if you were in my area. Instead of have to avoid accidentally swiping on your second cousin | |||
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"Like anything, we can’t go into something with expectations. If you do, you’re only setting yourself up for disappointment. Like the advice all single guys get here, fab owes you nothing and you should go into it with no expectations or have a sense that it should be easy to get sex. That’s the way people need to look at tinder/bumble etc. Just because you’re simply ON a dating app, it doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy to get nice dates or a relationship nor should anyone think they’re entitled to get anything easily. And especially in the middle of a pandemic. Like Fab, people are on dating sites for a multitude of reasons - sex, dating, relationships, hookups, FWB, threesomes, open relationships. After all, who uses these apps only people and people are vastly different in their wants and needs, just as in Fab. Like anything in these unprecedented times, dating is simply going to be incredibly hit and miss as we aren’t even supposed to be meeting at all so it’s going to be a hard ask to have any “success” at it. And it’s highly unlikely any guy or woman is going to want to chat to someone on a dating app from now until March before meeting - because being realistic that’s going to be this next time you’re allowed to meet anyone. " Totally agree with the no expectations other than maybe chatting to someone with the similar outlook on dating and life. The few times I've tried the dating apps it hasn't been fruitful so don't plan on rejoining at the moment. | |||
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"I wouldn't go near a dating site if I wanted to date. Not my thing. I'd prefer to meet people the old fashion way, ie activities that match your interest. Also as far as I know there's a lot of deception going on on sites like tinder just to get a leg over." Easier said that done in activities in my experience. | |||
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"I wouldn't go near a dating site if I wanted to date. Not my thing. I'd prefer to meet people the old fashion way, ie activities that match your interest. Also as far as I know there's a lot of deception going on on sites like tinder just to get a leg over." I think one of my friends will agree with you. | |||
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"I was watching YouTube the other day and a girl was getting ready to go on a zoom date, she actually said it was as positive as she hoped. The positive side was she felt safe in her own home and was chatting for ages and have decided to keep it up until its safe for them both to meet via zoom dates " | |||
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"I was watching YouTube the other day and a girl was getting ready to go on a zoom date, she actually said it was as positive as she hoped. The positive side was she felt safe in her own home and was chatting for ages and have decided to keep it up until its safe for them both to meet via zoom dates That seems like a good idea " | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. " Sounds good, let me know if you need any women participants! ![]() | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. Sounds good, let me know if you need any women participants! ![]() Will do, just getting the men squared away first as they tend to be harder to pin down ![]() | |||
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"I am done with those dating apps, it's a waste of time, fab dating app next lol. That would be good fun as least you know the guys you are going to date will know and understand your desires and needs before you begin dating them. ![]() ![]() Now there's an idea! I'd join ![]() | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. " Oh sign me up | |||
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"I am done with those dating apps, it's a waste of time, fab dating app next lol. That would be good fun as least you know the guys you are going to date will know and understand your desires and needs before you begin dating them. ![]() ![]() I've never tried any dating apps I'd rather old school but this id join if there was one.. | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. I’d be interested in this! Sounds good, let me know if you need any women participants! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you're dating someone new why would you tell them you're on here. Is it part of a conversation you'd have or would you wait a while Someone had a dating group going on here did you try that Not sure if I would say anything about here tbh but than again there's not much to say. Was in the dating group but most of the guys were nearer Dublin or the South plus I find I get lost in chat groups im crap at flirting at the best of times never mind when trying to "compete" for attention" There are very few guys in the group from or near Dublin now. Just sayin. ![]() | |||
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"Is screwfix.com any good " I met a screwfix employee off Fab. Never did come back to finish the job. But sure if you want a job done right do it yourself ![]() | |||
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"Is screwfix.com any good I met a screwfix employee off Fab. Never did come back to finish the job. But sure if you want a job done right do it yourself ![]() If you really want it done right get a professional..... | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. Sounds good, let me know if you need any women participants! ![]() Hey lula. I can't pm you as im outside your age range. Get in touch if you'd like me to send the link ![]() | |||
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"Dating apps are the worst but then they're not designed for people to leave, they want you there paying your fees and being advertised to. I'm actually organising an online speed dating event offsite. Think it will be a great way to meet people and actually chat, hopefully some real connections will be made from it too. " Trying to pm you but can't? | |||
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"I absolutely hate tinder. It's too superficial and like others have said. Most lads on other sites are also here. So I'll take my chances with here. " Heres about as good a site has any. Let's hope fab dating gets off the ground | |||
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"So as we enter a new year and another few months (hopefully not too many) of restrictions/lockdown how are singles supposed to date? I've come to the conclusion after the last long 9 months that I'd like to date so where the hell does a person start ![]() Plenty of nature to see in Sligo! One could start a date with a walk on the beach and maybe progress to a hike up a hill, or a walk through the park... A repeat date could lead to a stroll through a forest... Once you feel comfortable to let your date inside your bubble, you can invite each other over for food and maybe more ![]() | |||
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"So as we enter a new year and another few months (hopefully not too many) of restrictions/lockdown how are singles supposed to date? I've come to the conclusion after the last long 9 months that I'd like to date so where the hell does a person start ![]() ![]() Ah sounds like a dream ![]() | |||
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"Regarding Tinder: I delete my tinder when I'm in Ireland, as I live in a small town and it's just not interesting. But when I go travelling to other countries it can be amazing. Last year I had a 1 night stopover in an Italian city, I arrived at 10pm on a weekday in a quiet part of town - nothing happening for about a mile around me. I logged onto Tinder and had a date within an hour, met at a pub that had about 6 people in it. 1 drink turned into 3, 3 drinks turned into back at my place ![]() Totally agree,thought I was the only one,my dating apps come alive once I leave Ireland,I think it's the age old chivalry thing here, | |||
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"I'm in a face book dating group and it's quite good as you get to see the personality through meme questions, I'm very picky and don't want someone who curses a lot of is quite negative and you see that over time on the page. Oh! And you get to stalk their pictures " In the facebook group doesn't everyone lose their anonymity | |||
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"I’m so naive but I would have thought that a dating site is when you are looking something more akin of a relationship and Fab is purely an explore your sexual experience site. I’m Norma sure I would look for a long term partner on this site. Maybe I am wrong and time will tell. " Hard to know. I know people who have met through here so its possible. As someone said above at least here you know they have a kinky side lol | |||
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"There is a fab dating group. Its actually how me and the boss met. We can literally talk about anything. Its very refreshing " Lovely to see its possible to meet someoneand have successful relationship here | |||
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"I think dating sites are tough because everyone has an agenda. And there's the fear of missing out. This prevents people from choosing a person and if your agenda is sex, marriage, children this is where their mind is gone before they have even got to know the person. Leave space for the unknown. Chat to random people. Everyone you chat to has the potential to let you learn more about yourself. Enjoy the chat. Enjoy the moment. Life is simple if you make it so. ![]() In the spirit of this, just wanted to out it out there to the ladies that I'm holding virtual speed dating this Saturday at 8pm. Numbers are great so you'll have at least 10 mini dates on the night and will be a great way to meet some new people and open some doors into 2021. Pm me for details. | |||
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"I think dating sites are tough because everyone has an agenda. And there's the fear of missing out. This prevents people from choosing a person and if your agenda is sex, marriage, children this is where their mind is gone before they have even got to know the person. Leave space for the unknown. Chat to random people. Everyone you chat to has the potential to let you learn more about yourself. Enjoy the chat. Enjoy the moment. Life is simple if you make it so. ![]() Best of luck with this Havana. I met my partner in a fab dating group so it is possible. ![]() | |||
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"I think dating sites are tough because everyone has an agenda. And there's the fear of missing out. This prevents people from choosing a person and if your agenda is sex, marriage, children this is where their mind is gone before they have even got to know the person. Leave space for the unknown. Chat to random people. Everyone you chat to has the potential to let you learn more about yourself. Enjoy the chat. Enjoy the moment. Life is simple if you make it so. ![]() Oh how did this go ? | |||
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"I came off them all as all the guys are here lol. They poke you out in then sites aswell and are not there for real proper dating. Still just want sex immediately. Excatly and what i find funny they can get aggressive when u say its dating im after. " Freinds with benefits not as close as dating Si xx | |||
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