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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If the majority of women would like verified meets before talking, and to get verified meets you have to talk to someone then how do I ever get on the ladder in here?

Seriously tho. It's a vicious cycle

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You joined in the middle of the pandemic

Try to go into the cam room at night and get chatting ...it might get you a cam verification

Take part in the forums ...get your name known

Some people have stopped meeting completely

Some people haven't and some people don't need to see a verification but rather get to know you first either on here or on another app

Being verified doesn't give you the golden ticket either to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All good points. Appreciate that. Yeah. Not a great time to become single. Not looking for physical meets at the min either with the restrictions but will check the cams

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I don't go by veris when I meet People or even if they have veris or not..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't go by veris when I meet People or even if they have veris or not.."

Can I ask what you do go by?

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Tbh who I'm attracted to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbh who I'm attracted to "

Good way to do it. Thank you and if you are ever attracted to a pastey Irish guy. You know where I am

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Tbh who I'm attracted to

Good way to do it. Thank you and if you are ever attracted to a pastey Irish guy. You know where I am

I'm just a pastey Irish woman..

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

"Tbh who I'm attracted to "

This. All day long.

Verifications do not make the person

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Just a brainstorm...

Maybe people feel the need for verifications because most verifications are longer and tell more about the person than that person's profile and opening message put together?

(Don't mean the OP, just a general observation)

To answer OP's question- what BogM said.

Bad timing to meet anyone.

About chats - don't be a person who wants to "chat and see where it goes".

Do yourself a big favour and browse men's profiles instead of women's and couples.

Note what looks good, note what's repetitive, note how attractive /not attractive certain things are.

It's not gay to do your own research.

You only get what you put in.

Best of luck

missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh who I'm attracted to "

Good for you... maybe this site should just have an attracted button instead of verify ??

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By *ohnboy83Man
over a year ago

waterford

Ive had three meets and no veris , not even bad ones ??

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

"Tbh who I'm attracted to

This. All day long.

Verifications do not make the person

Glad to hear it!??

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I've given and received many verification with meeting and camming with ppl...but once they are given they go quiet thats the annoying part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the majority of women would like verified meets before talking, and to get verified meets you have to talk to someone then how do I ever get on the ladder in here?

Seriously tho. It's a vicious cycle"

Verifications do seem to matter to some people. A lot of messers on here so being verified means you are real. More don’t care and if one person has too many that can also be a bad thing. It’s all about timing and getting to chat. As you will see ladies get hundreds of mail so stick with it and it will happen.

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