FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic

By *azzadub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 18

Hey I was chatting to girl on here we talked about going to chst on kik but she wanted face pic first. Sent it then blocked me? Is this standard? Mind running rampant that she recognises me or something not that it matters but would prefer to know if I wasn’t her type

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By *321funMan
over a year ago

Laois

Fab is a woman’s world I wouldn’t let it get to you it happens all the you be chatting away next your blocked it’s all part or the fun and games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the chance we all take when we swap face pics. Wouldn't worry about it can't be for everyone. It is lousy she didn't just say not interested in meeting but sometimes sending that message opens up another can of worms.

Just let it go and move on.

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By *azzadub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 18

Cheers gang prob the Christmas detox making me paro

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By *321funMan
over a year ago

Laois

It would be a lot easier if people would just be open and honest and reply with a interested or not interested at least we would know what’s what but yes just move on if Notting else at least god will always love a trier lol

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Hey I was chatting to girl on here we talked about going to chst on kik but she wanted face pic first. Sent it then blocked me? Is this standard? Mind running rampant that she recognises me or something not that it matters but would prefer to know if I wasn’t her type "

That happened me. I’ll be honest in saying I was hoping he thought I was a munter rather than that he knew me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be a lot easier if people would just be open and honest and reply with a interested or not interested at least we would know what’s what but yes just move on if Notting else at least god will always love a trier lol "

And in an ideal world when a reply like that is given, we get thank you happy fabbing. However that isn't always the case.

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By *321funMan
over a year ago

Laois

I know it’s probably a case of it going on and on unfortunately fab isn’t an ideal world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a rite of passage to send a face photo and be blocked or message deleted. Don't dwell too much on it.

For me personally I just wear a paper bag over my head to avoid this happening

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By *irty_mindMan
over a year ago

in the sticks

Happens to me all the time.

Just a few days ago a woman promised to send her face pic in return when asking for mine calling me darling. No return pic, message deleted and a few days later blocked. I might add that I did NOT send another msg.

I find rudeness and the ease with which false promises are issued disheartening and annoying. A bit of civility doesn't cost anything. If someone isn't someone else's type, that's fine. A simple "no thanks" would suffice. Reserve the big guns (ghosting, deleting, blocking) for the nuisances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the chance we all take when we swap face pics. Wouldn't worry about it can't be for everyone. It is lousy she didn't just say not interested in meeting but sometimes sending that message opens up another can of worms.

Just let it go and move on. "

It is a bit shitty yea. Particularly considering they had chatted enough to go to Kik and be chatting there.

But of course there’s nothing you can do. Rude people will be rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a rite of passage to send a face photo and be blocked or message deleted. Don't dwell too much on it.

For me personally I just wear a paper bag over my head to avoid this happening

Are you sending out applications to be the bag?

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By *unbobby35Man
over a year ago

.Portlaoise

Happened me too, I think women just get so much mail from men that are not there type so the easy thing is to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens from time to time cos they genuinely interested - but there are a ton of fakes on here who are collecting pics. IMO the swamp needs drained. New subscription to filter out the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens from time to time cos they genuinely interested - but there are a ton of fakes on here who are collecting pics. IMO the swamp needs drained. New subscription to filter out the time wasters "

*they genuinely (aren’t) interested

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

I defo wouldn't over think it op, probably happens a lot on here. Probably just wasn't interested, or even if she did recognise you chances are she won't say anything as she is on here to.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

That's why I have face pics public so people know what there getting before they message me.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"That's why I have face pics public so people know what there getting before they message me."

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a ladies world on here. Take it as you weren’t her type. It happens a lot. We all aren’t Brad Pitt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to me also, but I have to say in general most people are genuine and well mannered, but you will meet the odd renegade!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be also a fake profile looking for pictures in which case its now against the law of they use your picture. Take not of the account anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it the whole time i would let it get to u ...but at least she could have said look im not into u or so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only got two things on fab... (1) your privacy / anonymity and (2) self-respect. Break neither for no one.

Op, you played the face pic game. As said above fab is a womans world and most people don't want to send their picture first. Most people want to be the rejector and never the rejectee.

So you as a man have to jump through hoops as there is an overabundance of men on this site. One of which is the ever so common "you must send a face pic with first mail!!!!!!" - in the hopes that some stranger doesn't reconiguise you and who you might not even be attracted to should you have seen them, likes your pic and gives you a chance to maybe, if you are lucky, get some fanny lol.

Remember points one and two

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