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By *igdave1001 OP   Man
over a year ago

longford

Good morning just putting it up there let me no what ye think .. people not repply to your msg cause they get to many . Obviously no pics up of the person sending the msg shouldent get a repply people way to far away with pics (to far) end of story 2 words is all you have to say even (no) .. its just plane rude and ignorent . Let me no from both parties on your toughts xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply no interest simples.

Not rude. Not arrogant.

Thinking you are entitled to a reply however......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the FAQ SECTION

there are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very difficult to get through all these mails.

So just fall off the radar!

Sorry ladies

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's defo groundhog day, wait until the government imposes another 5km activity radius lockdown this afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus."

I hate the why not question when I say no thank you so stopped replying. Don't even start on the guys that text "No interest" two seconds after you read their post and haven't replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus.

I hate the why not question when I say no thank you so stopped replying. Don't even start on the guys that text "No interest" two seconds after you read their post and haven't replied. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus.

I hate the why not question when I say no thank you so stopped replying. Don't even start on the guys that text "No interest" two seconds after you read their post and haven't replied.

Why?"

Sooooo no interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus.

I hate the why not question when I say no thank you so stopped replying. Don't even start on the guys that text "No interest" two seconds after you read their post and haven't replied.

Why?

Sooooo no interest?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus."

Very often a "No" reply is met with abuse. Unfortunately some men dont like the word No so its often better just not to answer.

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By *it74Woman
over a year ago

Moray

I use the “sorry you’re not my type” line, but then that leads to the “well what is your type” conversation. I hate being rude, but sometimes it’s just easier to not answer. Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I’m seeing here is that if a woman replies, even politely, that it’s more likely to end in abuse than the no interest-no reply approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sorry at all it's mentioned in my bio. I am not obliged it's a conscious choice and actually even when i say am not interested i am still getting annoyed all the time. This results in having to use the block button. I have deleted two profiles already over just being constantly pestered over just being to polite . No I will not answer and i am not rude for it am just minding myself which everyone is entitled to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a reply especially "no" more than likely it gets a reply asking "why". With women getting hundreds / thousands of mgs they don't have time to explain and get into a to and fro chat. I'm guessing time is short with most women, family and work. If I see someone has read my message it's a plus.

Very often a "No" reply is met with abuse. Unfortunately some men dont like the word No so its often better just not to answer."

It has been said that you really a person when you say NO.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"It's defo groundhog day, wait until the government imposes another 5km activity radius lockdown this afternoon. "
oh no..you had to bring it up

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Read and no reply usually means no intrest...

Then if you message and it's not read at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 100+ messages a day. Most of them from profiles with no/bad pics/not even in the same country/clearly haven't read my bio/insert whatever you want here.

I would need to make it a full time job to reply to them all. I don't have time for that, that's too much like work. I reply if I'm interested.

Anytime in the paat I have said no, I've gotten abusive messages, calling me stuck up, a bitch, a slut, not even good looking anyway etc etc. You name it I've got it. And even when I do politely say no, they message me a few days later anyway.

So I don't bother replying anymore.

God you need such a thick skin on this site nowadays

Also, so many men seem to forget - this isn't a sex site. It's a swingers site. There's a massive difference. Just because you're on here doesn't mean you're entitled to anything.

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My polite no not meeting or not interested will usually end in the following responses...

Why am I not your type. I don't have time to explain why every guys blank profile and one dick picture isn't doing it for me

We can still have naughty chat babe until it's safe. No thanks sweetie I don't have time to send every guy on Fab wank fodder

You into cam fun..here they assume I lie around in my knickers all day waiting to put on a show. I don't think me in my Penny's onesie will get them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god that is alot of mail you need to hire assistant lol

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"My polite no not meeting or not interested will usually end in the following responses...

Why am I not your type. I don't have time to explain why every guys blank profile and one dick picture isn't doing it for me

We can still have naughty chat babe until it's safe. No thanks sweetie I don't have time to send every guy on Fab wank fodder

You into cam fun..here they assume I lie around in my knickers all day waiting to put on a show. I don't think me in my Penny's onesie will get them off

"

You dont lie around in your knickers all day??that's fairly inconsiderate of you...

Try harder in future...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My polite no not meeting or not interested will usually end in the following responses...

Why am I not your type. I don't have time to explain why every guys blank profile and one dick picture isn't doing it for me

We can still have naughty chat babe until it's safe. No thanks sweetie I don't have time to send every guy on Fab wank fodder

You into cam fun..here they assume I lie around in my knickers all day waiting to put on a show. I don't think me in my Penny's onesie will get them off

"

Hahahaha... Love it. Know exactly what you mean!!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"My polite no not meeting or not interested will usually end in the following responses...

Why am I not your type. I don't have time to explain why every guys blank profile and one dick picture isn't doing it for me

We can still have naughty chat babe until it's safe. No thanks sweetie I don't have time to send every guy on Fab wank fodder

You into cam fun..here they assume I lie around in my knickers all day waiting to put on a show. I don't think me in my Penny's onesie will get them off

"

Bound to be at least one bloke now sending you a message asking you about the onesie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My polite no not meeting or not interested will usually end in the following responses...

Why am I not your type. I don't have time to explain why every guys blank profile and one dick picture isn't doing it for me

We can still have naughty chat babe until it's safe. No thanks sweetie I don't have time to send every guy on Fab wank fodder

You into cam fun..here they assume I lie around in my knickers all day waiting to put on a show. I don't think me in my Penny's onesie will get them off

Bound to be at least one bloke now sending you a message asking you about the onesie "

It would kill even the strongest horn its rotten looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply is a reply

Have replied respectfully to people on here saying not interested ....abuse after it from people

Its not my problem if anyone has a problem with being told no .....

I'm not responsible for anyones rejection issues ....

No response is a response ...deal with it accept it and move on ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply is a reply

Have replied respectfully to people on here saying not interested ....abuse after it from people

Its not my problem if anyone has a problem with being told no .....

I'm not responsible for anyones rejection issues ....

No response is a response ...deal with it accept it and move on ....

"

Heah hun passing through Laois fancy a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It would kill even the strongest horn its rotten looking "

Challenge accepted.....

Now to find a strong horn somewhere

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By *eleytMan
over a year ago

holywood.

hi for me.am repctful.if send a txt.if u get a no or no thanks.have ro repect the person.i dont get why some fire abuse.wouldnt happen if out in a bar or club on nite out.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Good morning just putting it up there let me no what ye think .. people not repply to your msg cause they get to many . Obviously no pics up of the person sending the msg shouldent get a repply people way to far away with pics (to far) end of story 2 words is all you have to say even (no) .. its just plane rude and ignorent . Let me no from both parties on your toughts xx "

Reading this made my brain hurt, I'm not surprised that you didn't receive a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not forget those lovely gentlemen who get a no thank you then 2 days/weeks later send another "hi, how are you" msg

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Just wondering if the guys complaining and calling the girls and couples that don't reply to them rude, reply to all the guys that send them messages asking if they want thier cocks sucked..?

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

I normally find if I send a dick pic first to normally gets a reply...

Beside a remote....or a can of fizzy

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Just wondering if the guys complaining and calling the girls and couples that don't reply to them rude, reply to all the guys that send them messages asking if they want thier cocks sucked..? "

I endeavour to reply (even if it’s a simple no) to every fella offering to suck my cock but there’s not enough hours in the day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi for me.am repctful.if send a txt.if u get a no or no thanks.have ro repect the person.i dont get why some fire abuse.wouldnt happen if out in a bar or club on nite out."

It's because abuse is easier for the cowards behind a screen .

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Despite stating clearly what we are & aren't looking for here, we still get messages, winks & friends requests from people who don't at all match our criteria. It's quite baffling and we certainly don't feel obliged to respond to people who've ignored our profile.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

If they haven't replied to your message ,how do you know its because they get too many ?

We only reply to messages that we want to reply to ,noones entitled to anything here.

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By *igdave1001 OP   Man
over a year ago

longford


"Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway "

Bog m are you seriously going to talk shite about rules !!! Will you piss off and go get a ride for yourself

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By *igdave1001 OP   Man
over a year ago

longford

Thank you

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway

Bog m are you seriously going to talk shite about rules !!! Will you piss off and go get a ride for yourself"

He answered your question and you come back with that? how very eloquent. Im sure ladies and couples will be lining up in their droves to answer you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway

Bog m are you seriously going to talk shite about rules !!! Will you piss off and go get a ride for yourself"

Ah I was trying to figure out why you were on my block list makes sense now..

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

It’s nice to be nice, I agree, but where do we draw the line? When I have my profile on view I get upwards of 70-80 new messages a day.

50 of them havnt read my profile so get an immediate delete.

Another chunk have read my profile but I’m not interested or they aren’t what I’m after. So I cut and paste “thanks but no thanks” knowing half of them will write back with an insult or a “whyyynoooootttt” like my kids did when they were 5yo.

Maybe 3 will catch my eye and only one of them (Max) will I be still chatting with a week later.

Really, ohpee, all this does is ensure that all the women and couples on here now block you as a whingey man-baby.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Most of the time I just get my Secretary to deal with all the msgs..

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road


"Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway

Bog m are you seriously going to talk shite about rules !!! Will you piss off and go get a ride for yourself"

Bog man you nailed this with your reply.

Someone is showing their true colours now! I wonder why you don't get a reply

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Dave according to the rules on fab a no reply is a reply ....it means no interest

This comes up a lot on the forums so maybe look up other threads on the same thing

Why get bothered by a lack of response to a message by someone you dont know and will mever meet

And before you say ..but its just being poite to say "no thanks"

No it's not...its a pain in the arse cause it usually starts a game of tennis messages that ends up being abusive anyway

Bog m are you seriously going to talk shite about rules !!! Will you piss off and go get a ride for yourself"

Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the guys complaining and calling the girls and couples that don't reply to them rude, reply to all the guys that send them messages asking if they want thier cocks sucked..? "

This lol

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I don't reply if I've read your message and profile and it doesn't do it for me....would you rather I just blocked you instead? Am not snowed down with messages I read my almost on the daily...usually don't reply if they are not what am looking for!!

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