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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK please tell me im not the only one (or maybe I am), bearing in mind this is on here, never met , no idea what each other looks like other than the few pics on profile etc

But a couple of messages in and a guy starts saying what he wants to do ie lick your pussy out?

Does this turn women on straight away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it gets the women so wet they end up dribbling into their socks

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope has the complete opposite effect for me. A random person going into graphic detail of what they want to happen is a complete turn off for me anyhow.

Most do it cos they log on here horny and seem to expect everyone else to be the same.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

The great Fab mystery, lads sending smut in every opening message while also complaining about never getting replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK please tell me im not the only one (or maybe I am), bearing in mind this is on here, never met , no idea what each other looks like other than the few pics on profile etc

But a couple of messages in and a guy starts saying what he wants to do ie lick your pussy out?

Does this turn women on straight away?

"

No it doesn't do it for me immediately, i need mind stimulation,sensuality amongst other things first . In saying that when i am extremely horny i may ask what would a person like to do to me given the opportunity. If i have already built a connection there and really like this person/persons then it may turn my on a little. Sometimes in a rare case it may cause a true desire to pounce lol .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK please tell me im not the only one (or maybe I am), bearing in mind this is on here, never met , no idea what each other looks like other than the few pics on profile etc

But a couple of messages in and a guy starts saying what he wants to do ie lick your pussy out?

Does this turn women on straight away?

No it doesn't do it for me immediately, i need mind stimulation,sensuality amongst other things first . In saying that when i am extremely horny i may ask what would a person like to do to me given the opportunity. If i have already built a connection there and really like this person/persons then it may turn my on a little. Sometimes in a rare case it may cause a true desire to pounce lol ."

Oh if I've a connection with a guy and have met already I enjoy the flirting by text etc it builds up the excitement for the next time we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume like all things it varies from person to person. From experience people enjoy it more once they get to know each other. Especially either leading up to or after meeting.

Im absolutely shite at sexting tbh.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
over a year ago

city

It's a rookie mistake by new swingers. I confess I used to be guilty of it because I thought ladies here wanted dirty talk... matured now I realise that is not often the case. But it helps when a lady signals what she is welcoming of and what turns her off.

The guy in question is probably trying to impress you or keep you interested... but most of us are idiotic at this stuff

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

could ya imagine headin into a pub or nightclub, spotting someone you like and going over and sayin hey sexy, id love to eat you out right now and slap that ass as im pounding you doggy style. ud love it. yeah you would.

jaysus you smooth talker get my knickers off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now know why Stephens day is called Boxing day. It's from all the frustrated men over Christmas. I got one line opening messages saying love to pound the box off me or lick my box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume like all things it varies from person to person. From experience people enjoy it more once they get to know each other. Especially either leading up to or after meeting.

Im absolutely shite at sexting tbh."

Four messages in and he drops it lol

As for setting i usually just go lol or send a smiley emoji cause never know what to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I now know why Stephens day is called Boxing day. It's from all the frustrated men over Christmas. I got one line opening messages saying love to pound the box off me or lick my box "

Oh I was asked did I want to have a cat fight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could ya imagine headin into a pub or nightclub, spotting someone you like and going over and sayin hey sexy, id love to eat you out right now and slap that ass as im pounding you doggy style. ud love it. yeah you would.

jaysus you smooth talker get my knickers off now "

Ya tbf though I tend to wear more than a coffee pot in the club most of the time as well though

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"could ya imagine headin into a pub or nightclub, spotting someone you like and going over and sayin hey sexy, id love to eat you out right now and slap that ass as im pounding you doggy style. ud love it. yeah you would.

jaysus you smooth talker get my knickers off now

Ya tbf though I tend to wear more than a coffee pot in the club most of the time as well though"

Thats not what i heard boobs. Youre lucky you havent been done for indecent exposure.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

None of yous fancy the absolute hole ridden off yous for hours on end then?

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"could ya imagine headin into a pub or nightclub, spotting someone you like and going over and sayin hey sexy, id love to eat you out right now and slap that ass as im pounding you doggy style. ud love it. yeah you would.

jaysus you smooth talker get my knickers off now

Ya tbf though I tend to wear more than a coffee pot in the club most of the time as well though

Thats not what i heard boobs. Youre lucky you havent been done for indecent exposure. "

Or 3rd degree burns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK please tell me im not the only one (or maybe I am), bearing in mind this is on here, never met , no idea what each other looks like other than the few pics on profile etc

But a couple of messages in and a guy starts saying what he wants to do ie lick your pussy out?

Does this turn women on straight away?

"

Total turnoff, plus they are most likely all talk, no action.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Has anyone thought that maybe,just maybe ..he has a thing for cats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone thought that maybe,just maybe ..he has a thing for cats "

Ah thats it I read his message all wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone thought that maybe,just maybe ..he has a thing for cats "

I have the perfect picture of a cat sitting on top of a donkey. I send it every time people say they want to give my pussy and ass a good pounding.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Has anyone thought that maybe,just maybe ..he has a thing for cats

Ah thats it I read his message all wrong? "

Yea I'm fairly fond of pussys myself but I'd rather take good care of them than pound them

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

To be fair I nearly want to send that exact message to Rosy just to see that pic now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I nearly want to send that exact message to Rosy just to see that pic now "

I just sent you unsolicited ass photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I nearly want to send that exact message to Rosy just to see that pic now

I just sent you unsolicited ass photo "

Your such a tease lol

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

This thread turned from lewd messages to bestialty so quickly... I can't keep up at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received many graphic extremely detailed sexually explicit FIRST MSG's having absolutely no idea what the guy looks like and obviously zero connection and chemistry. A complete Turn-Off. Quite fked up behaviour tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still unsure about this. So, if a guy liked you on tinder they would have a totally different chat to you than they do here. This is a sex site. Are we all to assume if we are on here its for sex and therefore thats what we want to talk about? The messages that have most interested me have all differed and progressed at different paces, But horny talk from the get-go is a no-no. There just has to be more to it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats interesting... I've found chats get sexual on tinder far quicker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats interesting... I've found chats get sexual on tinder far quicker... "

Really! Thats not what I expected. I havent been on Tinder mind you so was just speculating. Must check it out. Ill be ready for anything after Fab anyway, but I wouldnt accept the same level of sex talk so soon on any other platform.

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