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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?"

Not sure if you have the search option when you're not a site supporter but it's useful to use and as site supporter you can see if any couples read your profile

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?"

Not too many couples are looking to meet men, even fewer interested in bi men.

The lockdown doesn't help either.

But don't lose faith!

You can accommodate, are young and fit, with a lovely cock ... who knows, patience always pays off long-term, at least in my experience on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only met one single man, but it is something we're interested in doing again. Defo a market there so stay and enjoy. Covid doesn't help, of course. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy meeting single men. Although obviously covid has put the brakes on meeting anyone

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?

Not sure if you have the search option when you're not a site supporter but it's useful to use and as site supporter you can see if any couples read your profile "

Should have said looked at your profile not necessarily read the detail ..sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few couples onto me over the past few months.

Unfortunately things haven't worked out with timing and Covid but there seems to be a lot out there looking.

I'm sure they'll find you and you'll be grand OP.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Finding decent, reliable, under 40s attractive single males interested in couples(as in straight couples) is very difficult.

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

Even though were a couple, we play separately and have done for years

I (sweets) do meet men but only in club/party settings but very hard to meet genuine men in cork coz they're all just looking for a quick shag

I cud be getting on great with a guy but when we exchange kiks, they constantly ask for pics and videos so then I cant be arsed at times with them

Anyway fab has gone to the dogs over covid so hoping 2021 will be better for us all, swinging wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding decent, reliable, under 40s attractive single males interested in couples(as in straight couples) is very difficult.

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Always interested in straight couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?"

Of course there are. Read what most couples are looking for. But they my look at your profile and decide that you are basically looking to meet anyone and everyone and that may put them off. Plus coming on here and gurning about it doesnt look good.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

I would imagine that there are a lot of couples who want to meet single guys but don’t state on their profile because they would be inundated and l mean flooded with messages

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

we are primarily after single guys but it is a pain sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with this comment. A lot of the couples that I have chatted with have messaged me first, and on their profile it states they aren’t looking to meet single guys...they do that to ensure they aren’t inundated with messages and dick pics

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You're an unverified young single man with a slim profile in covid-19 times. All doesn't help, sorry for being blunt.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?"

We mailed you back so are you confusing a decline message as a lack of (positive) response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cpls are looking for single males but some males just think it happens just like that

It’s all about building up chemistry having the crack with bout male and female

Fab is fab but amazing when everything clicks into place

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Cpls are looking for single males but some males just think it happens just like that

It’s all about building up chemistry having the crack with bout male and female

Fab is fab but amazing when everything clicks into place "
in can just happen alas getting into even a conversation is difficult with a lot them.

Theres a reason the last social event in dublin prior to covid was the single guys social, theres a massive demand out there but alas most of them are absolute muppets.

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By *parkie2Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

The Couples looking to meet single guys are out there, the downside is, for every couple I reckon there is at least 50 guys, therefore you need to bring your A Game, and the appetite of the couple can be dampened by the massive influx of mail they receive, sadly it appears a lot only fit for the Spam folders

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

some nice older guys out there looking for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x"

This, along with the ratio of males to couples and the utter inability of so many to respect boundaries or string a coherent sentence together, can mean that couples are very selective about even responding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x

This, along with the ratio of males to couples and the utter inability of so many to respect boundaries or string a coherent sentence together, can mean that couples are very selective about even responding."

This, 100%

Also, we don’t want to hear how you’re gonna do this or that on the 1st message, it usually comes out creepy lol

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x

This, along with the ratio of males to couples and the utter inability of so many to respect boundaries or string a coherent sentence together, can mean that couples are very selective about even responding."

If there was an applause emoji we'd be hitting that button hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x

This, along with the ratio of males to couples and the utter inability of so many to respect boundaries or string a coherent sentence together, can mean that couples are very selective about even responding."

Probably the best advice on this thread

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By *inful and slutty vikingsMan
over a year ago

d4

Ah, common, there's plenty of us

Merry Christmas!

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We do meet singles, and we have it stated on our profile. But we don't get inundated. We're currently chatting to a couple of cool guys. Plenty of decent, respectful guys out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple that meets single males,however that doesn't mean we are here to meet every male that asks,or that we are not interested in couples and single ladies

We decide when we wish to meet and the type of meet we wish to have.

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By *inful and slutty vikingsMan
over a year ago

d4

single guy here, Merry Christmas! How are you doing on this fine Saturday?

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

north west nothern ireland

Single guys only for us absolutely single guy or guys though we meet couples on occasion, though bi guys is a put of for me x

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We've been genuinely struggling to find that elusive single guy who doesn't fuck up at some point.

By fuck ups I mean:

1. Fail to acknowledge that we're a couple.

2. Talk about me (missus) in third person i.e. "your missus has a great ass I'm interested in fucking her"

3. Expect a fuck.

4. Expect a voyeur session

5. Can't hold a conversation without using words "fun, naughty, behave"

6. Not show up

We're not without sin. We have our own downfalls, but we're not asking for much - just read our profile and respect our preferences.

Most men fail to even get that far and if someone can't be arsed to do that as a bare minimum - I genuinely don't feel like I should pay them any of my time.

Ratio of men to couples and women has nothing to do with being lazy and disrespectful (not about OP - never spoke to that person so can't say a thing).

missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though were a couple, we play separately and have done for years

I (sweets) do meet men but only in club/party settings but very hard to meet genuine men in cork coz they're all just looking for a quick shag

I cud be getting on great with a guy but when we exchange kiks, they constantly ask for pics and videos so then I cant be arsed at times with them

Anyway fab has gone to the dogs over covid so hoping 2021 will be better for us all, swinging wise

"

I'd be interested cheeks. Most people I message don't even bother getting back to me and some don't even read the message. I was chatting to a female yesterday and we were having a nice clean pleasant chat. She won't respond today so I know the feeling OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're an unverified young single man with a slim profile in covid-19 times. All doesn't help, sorry for being blunt. "

I'm old and verified. Yes Covid is not helping but one is not going to spread it chatting on here. I'd like to know what is wrong with my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid fucked all

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Bear in mind that what people say on here versus what they do is vastly different, morals on here are fluid, especially on the forums.

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

Yes. We do and we actually had arranged to meet a single guy the weekend before Christmas . He messaged saying he was staying in a hotel close to us and asked if we'd like to have some fun . We said yes chatted for a bit then arranged a time to meet him in the hotel. We got there messaged him to say we are here and surprise surprise radio silence , seriously wtf is wrong with people .

But that's not to tar all the single guys with the same brush as a couple had wasted our time on the same day after chatting for a few days .

But we are still looking for the right single guys

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you wanna have fun with Asian boy.

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

Newtownbutler

Hey guys I'd also like to meet couples I'm a single guy and I know it's not easy for couples as they got a shit load of msgs from.guys and I know I might not be everyone cup of tea which is fair enough but if I said I was going to meet someone I would turn up for sure and I try to be as civil as I can and have respect for the couple I've met are chatted to ,I've been lucky enough and have had a few meetings with couples but I'd love more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm amazed by the amount of couples turned of by bi curious or bi guys especially when I note the f in the couple states she is bi curious.Each to their own I say.

I think alot of individuals are on fab atm just browsing profiles picture collecting to ease the pain of Covid

Covid doesn't help arranging meets especially now with the majority of hotels closed to the public.

Lets hope 2021 is a far better year for all involved

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"we are primarily after single guys but it is a pain sometimes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said previously when it all falls into place then it’s great for everybody.

The Cpl’s are out there and they are great fun when it happens. Everyone has their preferences and it’s a matter of plugging away and enjoying the experiences when they happen.

No point getting upset over being rejected by anyone. If a person got rejected on a night out in a club they wouldn’t go hurling abuse and calling names so should be no different on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On this a while now looking to meet couples but none of them message back? Is there any couples really looking to meet a Male or just other couples and females?"

Of course, I was here for few years with my ex female partner, we met good few guys for threesomes and we had a lot of fun. Just be patient, post some hot pictures, not necessarily naked ones and just be sane and a bit interesting and funny. Good things will come to you, unless you will bomb people with stupid messages....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is loads off couples but...... I'm sure like us each couple has there own preferences to what they want x

This, along with the ratio of males to couples and the utter inability of so many to respect boundaries or string a coherent sentence together, can mean that couples are very selective about even responding.

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I like this!! I think the key is reading the profile and talking to them like you’re a regular human and not a predator! I’m really new and I can honestly say I have tons of couples contacting me and talking regularly in Kik. Covid has put a strain on meeting but, it’s been a blast these last few weeks.

I look at the profile and carefully read it and make sure I’m following the instructions on it if I’m interested. Once I talk to the couple I feel them out. The couples are amazing here! I’ve made lots of friends already. When meeting time comes we will see what happens. Hang in there man!

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

A lot of guys assume that because you you want to meet men you should obviously agree to meet any man.. Doesn't work like that, people have preferances and will meet the people they want to meet. You also need to understand that there are max 100 active couples in the entire island of Ireland, and most couples don't meet very often, so the chances of the average guy getting a meet are pretty slim. Add in the shit show that is covid and, well, you get the picture..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of guys assume that because you you want to meet men you should obviously agree to meet any man.. Doesn't work like that, people have preferances and will meet the people they want to meet. You also need to understand that there are max 100 active couples in the entire island of Ireland, and most couples don't meet very often, so the chances of the average guy getting a meet are pretty slim. Add in the shit show that is covid and, well, you get the picture.. "

Exactly as a single guy you have to work hard to get the keys to the Kingdom that is Fab. It gets to be such a small place after a while. Impress one couple or female and it opens up a new world. You see same guys getting invited to parties and meets. They aren't always the hottest but they are usually sound sane respectful and able to string two words together.

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By *he_Boyfriend_ExperienceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

In my personal experience on Fab, the couples are contacting directly the single guys whom they would be interested to know more about and maybe meet for a coffee or even for a straight to play meet.

The woman gets in contact and controls the whole interaction, as she is the one interested.

There is another type of couple, where the woman is not that interested in swinging or Fab in general (not beyond posting naked pics), but the man is using the couple's profile to try to meet single women or other couples, but rarely (if ever) with his female half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples are looking for a woman than a man. A lot of couples have a bi-curious or bi-sexual female.

If anyone needs some data to back that up then search up couples in Dublin at any given moment during the day and take tally of who wants what.

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By *erlincorkMan
over a year ago

Cork/London


"Even though were a couple, we play separately and have done for years

I (sweets) do meet men but only in club/party settings but very hard to meet genuine men in cork coz they're all just looking for a quick shag

I cud be getting on great with a guy but when we exchange kiks, they constantly ask for pics and videos so then I cant be arsed at times with them

Anyway fab has gone to the dogs over covid so hoping 2021 will be better for us all, swinging wise

"

Hi Sweets,

Up for a chat with a regular cork guy... give me a shout

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

Have you written out a cv with all your good points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of guys assume that because you you want to meet men you should obviously agree to meet any man.. Doesn't work like that, people have preferances and will meet the people they want to meet. You also need to understand that there are max 100 active couples in the entire island of Ireland, and most couples don't meet very often, so the chances of the average guy getting a meet are pretty slim. Add in the shit show that is covid and, well, you get the picture..

Exactly as a single guy you have to work hard to get the keys to the Kingdom that is Fab. It gets to be such a small place after a while. Impress one couple or female and it opens up a new world. You see same guys getting invited to parties and meets. They aren't always the hottest but they are usually sound sane respectful and able to string two words together."
also looking to meet couples and single ladys

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