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By *unbobby35 OP   Man
over a year ago

.Portlaoise

So I'm texting a women outside of fab, a married women. Only married a couple of years. And she wants to meet for fun. Good or bad idea? She is local so I'll see both of them around.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Leaving aside the morals of meeting a married woman have you never heard the expression " never shit on your own doorstep"

Why would you leave yourself open to what would happen if a local man knew you were shagging his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging the bat to close to home is asking for trouble

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Swinging the bat to close to home is asking for trouble "

What he said...

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By *ickyBird067Man
over a year ago

london

fuck with people Mrs , i think you could get hurt my man .

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By *tevecabra7Man
over a year ago

cabra

Go for it ??

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By *parkie2Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Been there, done that, not wise, pay any money for a flux capacitor now and a DeLorean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. If it's meant to be, love will find a way.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I've stopped answering posts looking for advice as people will do as they wish and are usually looking for justification for doing something they know is wrong. Otherwise they wouldn't need to ask the question.

Anyhow, all I'll say OP is you know yourself what's right for you so good luck with it whatever you decide.

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By *askia_1TV/TS
over a year ago

From Dublin living in Amsterdam

Do you really have to ask such an inane question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away. A ride isn't worth the possible trouble that could follow

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

There are loads of married people on fab,is it a bit harsh to be judgemental when he only asked a question....

Moral high ground and all that...

My advice,your own best judgement is best,but take all the consequences aswell if it goes pear shaped

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Depends what comes first, brains or your penis. Personally i use my brain and stay away, think of the repercussions if you get caught.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!

The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.

I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you really have to ask such an inane question "

Judgy much?? Really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!

The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.

I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "

Best advice you can get right here, says it all good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm texting a women outside of fab, a married women. Only married a couple of years. And she wants to meet for fun. Good or bad idea? She is local so I'll see both of them around."

If she's local, it'll come out at some point. Someone always sees something or someone coming or going by chance. Then again it sounds like if it's not you it'll be someone else as far as she's concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!

The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.

I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "

Intresting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it. If it's meant to be, love will find a way."

Hilarious...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!

The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.

I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "

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By *ustIncredible25Man
over a year ago

.

Can't beat a chancy local

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

Maybe the husband knows?... Threesome?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ya, she might be a bit too close to your doorstep, so it might be wiser to stay away. But get her to join fab, we can do with some more women on here.

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By *unbobby35 OP   Man
over a year ago

.Portlaoise

Advice well taken. We have stopped texting,

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

Go for it when we see a murder on the news we'll know its you

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By *unbobby35 OP   Man
over a year ago

.Portlaoise

Why are married women so much more attractive than single? Asking for a friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice well taken. We have stopped texting, "

You are better off.

Morals aside, I know it's easy to think that you'll get the ride and that'll be that - he'll never find out and you had your fun.

In reality tho...

(Problem 1) is you don't know what's what until what's what.

She wouldn't be the first married individual who flirted and flirted until the moment came and nothing. All talk. You put yourself out there for nothing. A repercussion still can happen.

(Problem 2) if it's not all talk and it goes ahead - the truth has a way of coming out even if not immediately. You said you see them around so it's on your door step.

Some guys might just walk away from her and your involvement.

Other guys might just walk away from her but get you back as you come in from a night out, half pissed and you get a whack in the back of the head and wake up in the hospital. You wouldn't be the first to in this world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will it meet with covid regulations and guidelines in your area? Id be more afraid of contracting covid than a beating from her husband.

Is it worth ruining your name in the area if caught or word gets out?

Me personally id probably chance it as the risk of it would make the sexual experience all the more erotic but thats just me. If she wants it you want it and no one ever finds out why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will it meet with covid regulations and guidelines in your area? Id be more afraid of contracting covid than a beating from her husband.

Is it worth ruining your name in the area if caught or word gets out?

Me personally id probably chance it as the risk of it would make the sexual experience all the more erotic but thats just me. If she wants it you want it and no one ever finds out why not. "

The problem is at this current moment in time, and if we think with our dicks lol, we all think nah it won't come out.

But it does sometimes... Not every time. But it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away. A ride isn't worth the possible trouble that could follow "
agree too much shit could hit the fan

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By *ippje84Man
over a year ago

tipperary

I was we a married woman before ,didn't know until I saw her ,her husband and children together in town ,I broke it off the next time we meet . It isn't worth the hassle if people find out

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Walk away. A ride isn't worth the possible trouble that could follow agree too much shit could hit the fan"

You found us then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it’s simple. As most people said. Don’t shit on your doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think with your brain, not your genitals.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"

(Problem 1) is you don't know what's what until what's what.

She wouldn't be the first married individual who flirted and flirted until the moment came and nothing. All talk. You put yourself out there for nothing. A repercussion still can happen.

(Problem 2) if it's not all talk and it goes ahead - the truth has a way of coming out even if not immediately. You said you see them around so it's on your door step.

"

That’s such bullshit. Single people and couples are just as likely to cancel a meet without notice as a married person. In fact, it’s commonly discussed (Obvs not on forums) that couples are notoriously fickle and shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there, done that, not wise, pay any money for a flux capacitor now and a DeLorean "

Which do you perfere, backwards are forwards for advice?

Are ask dr who.

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!

The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.

I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "

This is spot on , each and everyone has their own reasons for being here and are free to choose who they meet , each meet/situation has its unique ups and downs, you make your choices on that basis

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

U break it off at start of meet or did u ave one for the road ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married or not married the whole local aspect is what can be dodge, been there done that and regret I did

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

If she’s too close to you, let the rest of us have a crack

I might be far enough away

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

Nope why would you give yourself the hassle,plenty of single women on dating sites without angry husband in same area to avoid.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Nope why would you give yourself the hassle,plenty of single women on dating sites without angry husband in same area to avoid."

Ah yeah... the eyes wide open approach to fab. Give me a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this. Married lady across the Rd from me.

Was actually fine was a wee bit ackward seeing him about.

Just make sure her hubby never catchs you, which I'm sure you don't plan to be caught..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm texting a women outside of fab, a married women. Only married a couple of years. And she wants to meet for fun. Good or bad idea? She is local so I'll see both of them around."

Fill your boots big lad.

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