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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Chatting with a guy for a while and we were chatting about things we did and didn’t like. I’m pretty definitive about something I don’t like and he kept pushing it saying he could “make me” like it.

The conversation ended there and he’s still messaging, apparently completely flummoxed as he was “only messing”

HUGE red flag. ENORMOUS.

Not respecting boundaries is mine. Anyone else got some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When asked if I will play with a couple by the male and when I point out I'm straight and it doesn't interest me. "Oh but you might like it" " give it a try" " sure all women are bi"

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Chatting with a guy for a while and we were chatting about things we did and didn’t like. I’m pretty definitive about something I don’t like and he kept pushing it saying he could “make me” like it.

The conversation ended there and he’s still messaging, apparently completely flummoxed as he was “only messing”

HUGE red flag. ENORMOUS.

Not respecting boundaries is mine. Anyone else got some?"

Yeah sc@t is not for everyone

Including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious red flag for me was one guy who was so pushy about meeting him an his mate who wasn't even on here he said where both straight but just wanna bang you are you up for it lad no bull shit I was like wtf your grand there thanks. Already got jumped in the past for being bisexual so I wasn't taking any chances with that guy and his mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No showing any respect is a massive one for us.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Couples who introduce themselves with instructions.

Couples who ask in their 3rd message if I'd shave my beard off to improve my chances of meeting them.

Women who say they don't like gameplayers while they themselves are attempting to manipulate and school half the site.

Women who say one thing in forum threads but then display veris that prove they are liars.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

a profile full of negativity.

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


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Women who say one thing in forum threads but then display veris that prove they are liars. "

LOL!! There’s someone who lambasted me for meeting with married men and then went on to meet with a guy I know is honest about being married. It’s a joke!!!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Couples who introduce themselves with instructions.

Couples who ask in their 3rd message if I'd shave my beard off to improve my chances of meeting them.

Women who say they don't like gameplayers while they themselves are attempting to manipulate and school half the site.

Women who say one thing in forum threads but then display veris that prove they are liars. "
you surely realised before now women havnt a clue what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this point, breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot about people taking obvious pleasure in sniping at others on the forums

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

The whole 'attach a face pic or no reply' thing when there's not one photo on their profile.

Who do you think you are like?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"

Women who say one thing in forum threads but then display veris that prove they are liars.

LOL!! There’s someone who lambasted me for meeting with married men and then went on to meet with a guy I know is honest about being married. It’s a joke!!! "

Yep that's one of them

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

2 week old profiles with very sexual profile descriptions like

Horny and wet

Lovely wank in bed this moring

Love to taste your cum

(Yesterday's lot)

And 20 pictures that are obviously fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 week old profiles with very sexual profile descriptions like

Horny and wet

Lovely wank in bed this moring

Love to taste your cum

(Yesterday's lot)

And 20 pictures that are obviously fake

"

Or new profile verified by a completely blank profile which in turn verified by hidden profiles

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Like what part of no do people not understand. No spells no in any language.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

If she says no, I'm out!

Let's face it though, what woman could possibly say no to me?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"

Or new profile verified by a completely blank profile which in turn verified by hidden profiles"

Exactly this for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A prominent Adam's apple

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags."

Haha. I got lambasted here about a year or so ago for a comment that a few ladies and couples didn't agree with, which is fair enough if they don't agree. Of course most of the lads on the thread took the ladies and couples side, while a few weeks later a couple started a similar thread but the roles were reversed and all the same boyos couldn't have agreed more with the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples who introduce themselves with instructions.

Couples who ask in their 3rd message if I'd shave my beard off to improve my chances of meeting them.

Women who say they don't like gameplayers while they themselves are attempting to manipulate and school half the site.

Women who say one thing in forum threads but then display veris that prove they are liars. "

You’re like a brother from another mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags."

It’s quite refreshing to read a post like this. It’s totally my experience of fab so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A red flag for me who be: Kik groups. If you’re a member of a fab kik group for any reason it would be a no from me.

My experience of them is it’s a platform for those who think they’re some sort of a higher fab power and can slate any fabber without their knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A red flag for me who be: Kik groups. If you’re a member of a fab kik group for any reason it would be a no from me.

My experience of them is it’s a platform for those who think they’re some sort of a higher fab power and can slate any fabber without their knowledge. "

I've been in a few k groups and I have left any that get nasty or start slagging people. But I'm also in some good ones and this year without socials etc its nice to have a distraction and a laugh.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags.

Haha. I got lambasted here about a year or so ago for a comment that a few ladies and couples didn't agree with, which is fair enough if they don't agree. Of course most of the lads on the thread took the ladies and couples side, while a few weeks later a couple started a similar thread but the roles were reversed and all the same boyos couldn't have agreed more with the couple "

That happens a lot depending on who the op is.

Red flags for me are pushy people pushing for meets or what they want me to do even if I have said I am not interested or for pics or personal information. I have zero tolerance now for that.

People who put on an act on here yet are doing the complete opposite of what they claim in the here. Even some who do the biggest rants on here completely do a turn about if the mood takes them. Yet will rant about the same thing again later on.Just be yourself yes you wont appeal to everyone but at least you won't be caught out by being a hypocrite either.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags."

But im nearly always lovely and nice. That mean im fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags.

But im nearly always lovely and nice. That mean im fake "

C'mere and ill check that arse for spliters

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags.

But im nearly always lovely and nice. That mean im fake "

The nearly part proves you aren't fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the usual dodgy verification bubble, lack of pics and those stars with pics on all the popular pirn sites....

People who post updates that are clearly just to get attention ....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Apart from the usual dodgy verification bubble, lack of pics and those stars with pics on all the popular pirn sites....

People who post updates that are clearly just to get attention ....

"

You mean like the forumite couple who have it on their profile that they are not meeting at all during covid but currently have their second status in 2 days saying they will be at a well known dogging site this evening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childishness, not showing manners and respect and an unwillingness to verify legitimacy (if unverified) in some shape or form are nos for me.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Those who are so terrified of not being popular on here that they take an "all things to all men" approach.

They don't offer their own opinions but always agree with those they have their eye on while forgetting they also agreed with someone else yesterday who said the complete opposite.

They are always lovely and nice but you know it's only a matter of time before they stab you in the back with one of those splinters they pull out of their arse.

Brown nosers always raise red flags.

But im nearly always lovely and nice. That mean im fake

C'mere and ill check that arse for spliters"

i think i have a couple. sat on the axe

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

On the serious side, anyone who doesnt respect my boundaries is a no go,

If a male messages (if he doesnt know us) and refers only to me as if my husband is a non entity (actually had a fella say he didnt give fiddlers what my H thought) byeee

People who come on to forum threads to complain about the forum threads but never start any forum threads while making sneery snide remarks about the people who are on the forum threads

Attention seekers. cant deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A red flag for me who be: Kik groups. If you’re a member of a fab kik group for any reason it would be a no from me.

My experience of them is it’s a platform for those who think they’re some sort of a higher fab power and can slate any fabber without their knowledge.

Thank you for your honesty here when you agreed that there are kik groups that slate fabbers without their knowledge. I appreciate that.

I've been in a few k groups and I have left any that get nasty or start slagging people. But I'm also in some good ones and this year without socials etc its nice to have a distraction and a laugh."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the usual dodgy verification bubble, lack of pics and those stars with pics on all the popular pirn sites....

People who post updates that are clearly just to get attention ....

You mean like the forumite couple who have it on their profile that they are not meeting at all during covid but currently have their second status in 2 days saying they will be at a well known dogging site this evening? "

Not specifically but that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lack of class or manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone "

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Nearby couples that look at your profile at the same time every week usually at 2 or 3 on a sunday morning so you know they've drink taken

They send a message saying hi and then repeat the next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely comments on forums where you see a very different side to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved! "

Are you still complaining

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Are you still complaining "

#gutted

Apologies to all the other ladies of fab but it was one of my favourite pics here.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Are you still complaining

#gutted

Apologies to all the other ladies of fab but it was one of my favourite pics here. "

Bastard. You said mine was your favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Are you still complaining

#gutted

Apologies to all the other ladies of fab but it was one of my favourite pics here.

Bastard. You said mine was your favourite."

The little Git ...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Are you still complaining

#gutted

Apologies to all the other ladies of fab but it was one of my favourite pics here.

Bastard. You said mine was your favourite."

Sorry about that. I'm not sure what happened the word "least" that was meant to be in that sentence.

Well I love yours too, if I'm honest, just not in any sort of a sexual way.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Are you still complaining

#gutted

Apologies to all the other ladies of fab but it was one of my favourite pics here.

Bastard. You said mine was your favourite.

The little Git ... "

No, you couldn't see that in the photo.

Oh wait, sorry, I thought you said "clit".

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved! "

Look at the black one for Gods sake man

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A red flag for me at times is who has verified someone

A red flag for me is someone who removes the photo of the pink outfit that I sooooo loved!

Look at the black one for Gods sake man "

They're all beautiful but the pink one had something special about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SD"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw a dozen red flags for me you shouldn't have had

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


""SD" "

What’s that??

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