FabSwingers.com forum: Ex’s and feelings for them

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been thinking a lot about mine for the past while and it’s now very hard to get them out of my head.

She was sexy as hell and we had good bedroom fun.

I imagine people think about their ex’s in different ways.

What’s the view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you said everyone views ex's in different ways.

I imagine with the restricted chances of meeting new people at the moment alot of people are viewing their exs more favorably

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

"I’ve been thinking a lot about mine for the past while and it’s now very hard to get them out of my head.

She was sexy as hell and we had good bedroom fun.

I imagine people think about their ex’s in different ways.

What’s the view?

You’ve had a chapter in ur life with that person so your bound to think about them.

And if they were good in bed too your obviously going to relive that in ur head.

Some relationships are good when comes to sex then they kill each other in normal day life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been thinking a lot about mine for the past while and it’s now very hard to get them out of my head.

She was sexy as hell and we had good bedroom fun.

I imagine people think about their ex’s in different ways.

What’s the view?

Absolutely detest mine. Married over 10 years, cheated on me (yes I have heard all the comments about it being my fault) ruined the perfect family we had built up. Can't stand the woman now.

But, everyone has different circumstances and it has all worked out for the better in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like that is the little head doing the thinking, there is a reason they are an ex though. Sadly a lot of breakups don't end well

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

She's your ex for a reason.

Every single relationship always goes to the point of no return where things are said or done that can't be took back.

Bedroom fun soon dries out when you realize that you genuinely have no mental attraction to a person you're with.

Speaking about all of my exes.

missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's your ex for a reason.

Every single relationship always goes to the point of no return where things are said or done that can't be took back.

Bedroom fun soon dries out when you realize that you genuinely have no mental attraction to a person you're with.

Speaking about all of my exes.

missus "
agree with this

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I've remained on good terms with all my ex's bar the one where it ended bitter. I'm still very good friends with my last girlfriend and I look back at them all with fond memories.

I have certain songs that take me back to the times with them and I smile inside.

They were all good women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like that is the little head doing the thinking, there is a reason they are an ex though. Sadly a lot of breakups don't end well "

Yup. Similar with my ex. Unreal sex. Amazing. Then I remember the other good things about her.

Then I remember having to leave early in the morning, fly home after our final, brutal argument. Over a figment of her imagination.

Leo did say in Inception, the most resilient thing is an idea.

Forget about the sex dude, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's your ex for a reason.

Every single relationship always goes to the point of no return where things are said or done that can't be took back.

Bedroom fun soon dries out when you realize that you genuinely have no mental attraction to a person you're with.

Speaking about all of my exes.

missus "

Amen to that, you cannot be truly intimate without that connection and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine one being hit by a speeding bus...and that feeling is relief!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Exs are exs for a reason and while most we left on good terms I don't really think about any of them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's your ex for a reason.

Every single relationship always goes to the point of no return where things are said or done that can't be took back.

Bedroom fun soon dries out when you realize that you genuinely have no mental attraction to a person you're with.

Speaking about all of my exes.

missus

Amen to that, you cannot be truly intimate without that connection and trust."
totally agree

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

My ex is the only person in this world I trust, she is an incredible mother to my kids and lately I feel she is the only person I see as a real friend..we finished over my mistakes..I was immature and holding onto things I thought I wanted..I could very well get back with her at some point in the future and make it work, cause it was all on me what happened..not everyone's circumstances is the same..yes I agree many go to the point of no return, but not all..

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Nope I remain on good term's for our daughter's sake over than that nope he and me would pass each other on the street

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Might pop into my head every now and again but ancient history would never go back...

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I’m friends with all my ex’s (Bar one) but I wouldn’t go back with any of them. They are ex’s for a reason. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t really care about them at the time and I don’t hate any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friendly with one ex due to the child but that's it. Not friends with her but we have a comfortable understanding due to our child. Otherwise the others don't get a second thought

Jay

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Same above have a two children with ex, we have always been very civil and we have only one child left under 18 and we share parental responsibility.

We both moved on and remarried in her case twice, but always kept in contact because of the kids.

I'm been happily married for near on 13 years, never think about any of my ex's.

Op you shouldn't rehash any relationships as they always end worse than before, find someone who echoes your sentiment and enjoys your company not just sex happy fabbing.

Ps forum fairy will sprinkle some magical dust your way, keep the head up.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

One ex when we were teens is local and I still get a tingle any time I see her and go off wondering if...

Another ex I did the dirt on and truly regret it as she was definitely my sexual mate. I know! That's a conundrum or some other big word like that. Why, if we were so sexually compatible, did I do the dirt? Young, dumb and full of cum in my 20s is my only possible explanation

Not looking for sympathy.

I fully understand what a gobshite I was and am, so no need for any comments in reply.

I'm merely being honest for this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. It was a huge help

I’m taking away that it’s never a good idea to get back in contact and that exactly, ex’s for a reason

We were just too different, even though we got in ways and I think I’ll leave it at that.

It is hard to forget about them but life is life

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