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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, as some will know I’m fond of a status or two.. and yesterday I put one up about connection and chemistry with someone being super important before anything beyond a coffee is considered..

I had 3 inboxes off people saying this site isn’t for love, I’m not real as I’m all talk, and one saying sex doesn’t need anything to be good only body parts.

Shocked!! Surely these opinions aren’t as common as I'm now thinking..?

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By *1shadesofnaughtyMan
over a year ago

South Limerick

If it's a one off meet, no need for the above.... if it's gonna be more or fwb or a fab journey together.... definitely need the above. Imo

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men "

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection and chemistry are hugely important op!

Otherwise its back to the bowl of warm ready break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Connection and chemistry are hugely important op!

Otherwise its back to the bowl of warm ready break "

Kaizer gets how it should be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Connection and chemistry are hugely important op!

Otherwise its back to the bowl of warm ready break

Kaizer gets how it should be! "

It comes with the territory

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London Derbyshire

Those opinions are just as valid as yours OP we can all use fab as we see fit! Nothing wrong with that at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those opinions are just as valid as yours OP we can all use fab as we see fit! Nothing wrong with that at all "

Of course and I never said there’s anything wrong with those opinions. I’m just shocked and didn’t think that a popular opinion... hence this thread to find out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts."

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples ! "

I’ve had my suspicions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's more shocking is people do not respect how others wish to use Fab etc etc!

Why can't we all just get along?

Has anyone even thought of the children!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples ! "

If a couple is not a couple, then what is it?? A few?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex doesn’t need anything to be good only body parts"

This is shocking to me, because there has to be some sort of attraction before I'd even consider having sex

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Everyone is entitled to an opinion and everyone uses the site in whatever way they see fit but why bother mailing someone just to tell them you don't agree with their opinion?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples !

If a couple is not a couple, then what is it?? A few? "

A man usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples !

If a couple is not a couple, then what is it?? A few? "

A few to many maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples !

If a couple is not a couple, then what is it?? A few?

A man usually "

Singular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a one off meet then there still has to be a connection of some sort

Is it back to the age old differences between men and women as to what they want before they'll have sex

Did all the messages come from men

One from a man and the other two from couples accounts.

Just to note not all couples profiles are couples !

If a couple is not a couple, then what is it?? A few?

A few to many maybe "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is entitled to an opinion and everyone uses the site in whatever way they see fit but why bother mailing someone just to tell them you don't agree with their opinion? "

I don’t understand this either. The tone of the messages was so off!

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London Derbyshire

Sorry about that OP I just have misunderstood what you were trying to say.

And yeah completely agree with you reallybites. It’s the internet I guess people are bored lockdown etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something"

I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something

I disagree "

No you don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something

I disagree

No you don't! "

You dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something

I disagree

No you don't!

You dont

"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'd be more shocked if everyone had the same opinion on something

I disagree

No you don't!

You dont

"

It is the Panto season

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"

and one saying sex doesn’t need anything to be good only body parts.

"

Ya may me send me this lads name so I'll never meet him.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

For me there has to be a connection. It would make for a boring meet if we couldn’t have a laugh and chat along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection..Attraction..Chemistry

= Fun Times ...OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be an attraction or chemistry to have fun with a guy 100% well for me there has to be. Has to be a bit of banter or a giggle or even just chatting between the fun and frolics but everyone is here for different reasons and some want different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Connection..Attraction..Chemistry

= Fun Times ...OP"

I totally agree!! Iv done the meets where the fella wasn't my cup of tea and couldn't wait for it to be over!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"Everyone is entitled to an opinion and everyone uses the site in whatever way they see fit but why bother mailing someone just to tell them you don't agree with their opinion? "

Agreed. Never understood this mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is entitled to an opinion and everyone uses the site in whatever way they see fit but why bother mailing someone just to tell them you don't agree with their opinion?

Agreed. Never understood this mentality. "

Tbh I wouldnt mind someone mailing me just to debate something I had put up as a status. I'm always up for a decent chat/argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any meet has to have some sort of connection/Chemistry or it just won't be what you expect.

If I'm going to meet a girl and barely talk to her, then I should have no reason to be shocked when she pulls out a 12 inch strap on!

Talk and chemistry is absolutely essential

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"Everyone is entitled to an opinion and everyone uses the site in whatever way they see fit but why bother mailing someone just to tell them you don't agree with their opinion?

Agreed. Never understood this mentality.

Tbh I wouldnt mind someone mailing me just to debate something I had put up as a status. I'm always up for a decent chat/argument."

Yea but there's a difference between a chat/debate/argument on opinions(another way of describing debate?) and being told you're wrong for thinking a certain way about a certain topic.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Fab is a journey for some its a short trip on to the wild side others its an exploration of desires and fantasies, whether u travel that journey on your own or as part of a group maybe even with a kindred spirit is all down to u don't let anybody hinder your enjoyment of your fab journey

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